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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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is he a user? pleaseee respond ='(


Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 1:09 pm

Hi im only 15 and im a female and i have a friend whos almost 17, hes a guy. he talks to me a lot but usually only when his girlfriend is out of town and when she comes back he doesnt really talk to me that much or even at school he doesnt even say hi. sometimes he tells me to go to the gym(we go to the same gym)and he'll talk to me and hug me and stuff but im thinking thats just cause his girlfriend doesnt go there. but anyways hes asked me to hang out a few times(only when his girlfriend is not here) and i did. whenever we hang out he talks about making out and sex and things like that(not like doing it with me just in general) and he compliments me on how big my butt is?? and one night he was laying on me while we were in his car and he ...

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*sigh*


Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 11:59 am

ok well here's the thing. my friend has totally made some stupid choices recently. I know that shes getting older and im also not her mom. but 14 is too young to be out having sex with people especially considering her past with health issues. god knows what else is going on (drugs? drinking?) I dont' know who to go to for help, my friends have told me things too but I can't take the depression i've developed over this. I knwo this problem is common and people view it differently...but I'm scared for her and have run out of resources.. :(

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Should I??


Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 11:12 am

Well... there is this guy (lets call him Jamie).(sorry if its a little long) He's okay but not the hottest guy I've ever seen. He's smart, funny and he's a good friend of mine. My friend Ashlyn and I always hang out with Jamie, another friend named ryan and a few other boys. That Jamie kid likes me though. We play truth or dare and all sorts of stuff outside. Everytime it's his turn he always picks me. He always smiles at me and follows me around. He flirts like crazy with me. Last night it was his turn for truth or dare, he asked my best friend if I liked him and if I would go out with him and stuf like that. She just said I dont know, because she didnt want to hurt his feeling, afterall he is her cousin. Soo... i think he's going to ask m...

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Always the one not called


Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 2:22 am

A question to call my own.

So, I have problems with being the one left behind. In my social life, since I started high school and continuing to today, I have always been the friend not called. When I show up somewhere, I get hugs and backslaps and people all come and hang out with me. But in order to show up, I have to find out about it by hearsay.

Example, a friend of mine has a party with his parents every year. Huge party at his little place. Most of my old friends know about this place and get invited, but I didnt find out about it until tonight, while everyone else has been planning the trip to go for about a week. I talked to him today (he came in town for ACL, for those of you who know what that is) an...

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A confusing answer that i dont understand!!


Posted Friday September 15 2006, 9:54 pm

ok like i said before in one of my questions i have a good friend of mine that i like, and im starting to like him even more than i did. The thing was that i heard that he liked some other girl and i kinda got jealous but i got over it.. and he said that that girl was just pretty and that he didnt like her.. the other friend that i have that knows that i liked him went up to him and sneakly asked this.. she said do you think the girl that you said is pretty is the only girl thats pretty you never say anyone else is pretty so she said do you think im pretty he said yes and she said do you think shes pretty and she pointed to one of my other friends and he said hell no and then my friend asked him if he thought i was pretty and he said i can...

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"All you need is love"


Posted Friday September 15 2006, 5:32 pm

Dear Readers,
I've asked this question many times, but I haven't been listening to people who answer it because I'm just too afraid. Can you help me and please be honest.
There's this guy, L, and he's a Freshman while I'm in 8th grade. We go to the same school and for about 8 months, I've been having a MAJOR CRUSH on him. He seems like a really adorable, cute, nice guy. He's smart, and I like him because with all the guys I've liked, they are mean to me.
How can I approach him? I rather approach him with no friends around him. I want to know his schedule so I can see him all the time, not to talk him though! I'm urging to call him, but last time I did, he didn't want to talk and seemed fairly annoy...

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My Friend Has Brought Up an Embarrasing Past Act


Posted Friday September 15 2006, 5:24 pm

When I was in college (which is now 20 years ago), I did a few things (usually while I was drunk) that were very embarrasing (nothing illegal). The other day while exchanging e-mails, my good friend referred to one of my more embarrasing acts in his email. Although, I think he meant it in "good fun" or as a "joke", I was offended that he brought up this long-ago act. Should I say something or just forget about it?

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BORED.


Posted Friday September 15 2006, 3:42 pm

me and my friend want to hang out tonight, but we really don't have anywhere to go. we've done the mall countless times, and there's no movies to go see. is there anywhere else or anything me and my friend can do to entertain ourselves?


HELP.

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my friend is obsessed!!


Posted Friday September 15 2006, 3:40 pm

alright heres the background info..

theres this really hott guy at my school, Joe, and me and him are really good friends. well my friend jess went out with him last year and they broke up over the summer.

now the girl is completely obsesing over him! she never stops talking about him and shes always like OMG HES SO HOTT! its so f***ing annoying! i wanna slap her so bad! he doesnt like her anymore (i asked him) and she wont accept the fact that hes over her. she says she wants to get over him but she cant.

how can i help her try to get over him? shes really getting so annoying. i dont know how much more i can take! i mean i know the guy is drop-dead sexy but she doesnt need to say it every 5 seconds! please help me!!

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Friendship Square....


Posted Friday September 15 2006, 2:45 pm

Please answer honestly....
ok. I have this friend named Lauren, who has been my friend since she was 1 (and i was 2) she a grade below me. This other girl, Caitlyn, has been my friend for about two years now. Not very long, i know. They have this other friend, Amanda, who i just met this year, and we aren't really friends, but we get along and stuff when we meet.
One day Caitlyn, who walks home, asked me to "miss" my bus, and call my mom and ask her if i can walk to caitlny's house with caitlny, lauren, and amanda (amanda's house is nearby, so she just goes there, but lauren and I go to caitlyn's house)
Well, that was fun. Now this week (the first time was last week)i asked if i could walk home with them again...

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Homecoming Dance


Posted Friday September 15 2006, 12:17 am

Homecoming is coming up, and I don't have a date, nor do I think I will get one. My friends Alex and Kim (both girls)say I should go with them since they don't have dates either. I really want to go, so what I was thinking is I would bribe my friend Ty (boy) into taking me, and we would still go with Alex and Kim. Before I knew them, Alex had a crush on Ty, and he found out and started teasing her and flirting really bad with her, so now she kind of hates him, but he is an assistant coach on her swim team so she tolerates him. The other problem is he is 19 and I am 16. My parents don't have a problem with me asking Ty, so I was wondering if I should ask Ty to take me knowing the history with him and Alex.

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i just dont know ...


Posted Thursday September 14 2006, 8:40 pm

okay well about 8 m,onths ago me and my closest friend got into this huge fight that last about 7 months. well when school started we realized that we had a alot of classes together so we starteed talking again and then i did cheerleading and one of my other friends made the team with me. the other girl that i got into a fight with absolutely hates her but i want to be friends with both of the, && idk how without the other person getting madd

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lezbian


Posted Thursday September 14 2006, 5:39 pm

i am not lesbian nor will ever be, but one of my bestfriends is a lesbian, looks exactly like a guy. and people always mistake her for a guy.. anyways my brother always jokes me about being friends with her and says im her girfriend and jokes me about thinking im a lesbian, what can i do or say to make him shut up ?

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ringdance


Posted Thursday September 14 2006, 5:19 pm

my bestfriends ex boyfriend wants to take me to ringdance, my bestfriend hates the guy so doesnt care at all but i only like tha guy as a friend, do you have to be bf/gf to go together?? will people think that?

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should i go to these PARTIES? or will it be too awkard..


Posted Thursday September 14 2006, 4:55 pm

hey! 16,female!

well this year im a JUNIOR yayy :) haha..
but anyways i dont really have many friends that i hangout with but i talk to alot of different people! i really only hangout with my cousin and we always have fun when we are together but she goes to a different school and i a year younger and i always hangout with her and her friends..since i know all of them good now! well i want to start hanging out with other people from my school in MY grade. its so hard though because i dont know! i never get asked to do anything and im so sick of trying to set something up each time. well im sure i will get invited to a party with all the popular people because i know some of them. but i usually dont go if im ever invite...

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best friend over boys


Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 9:39 pm

Okay woah.. i have been havein the worst time at school latley. Okay so here it goes.Me & my best friend have been fighting latley alot this year.Me and her been best friends for going on 3 years now.Okay so theres this boy, lets say his name is BOB , okay well me and BOB were best friends in 7th grade and he really liked me and i liked him. But we never went out we were just really good friends.Well my best friend started to like him so now she really does.But me and BOB stopped talking over the summer and just a few days ago we decided to start getting closer and we wanted to become better friends.Well the next day he sat by me in class and he was flirting with me and my friend said that i was "flirting" back and she told my...

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Lier Lier pants on fire


Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 8:50 pm

Well, ok my friend Natalie lies a lot. She told me that she was dating Jon over the summer. I told one of my friends then we asked Jon and he said no. They I asked one of my friends, kate, thats friends with Nat if she told her that. Now tommorow kate is prolly gonna ask nat and nat is going to deny it. kate is probably going to believe natalie and idk why. what should I do if kate believes natalie that I was lying?

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my cousin and boyfriend might be having and affair


Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 8:35 pm

OK. My cousin is asking my boyfriend questions on her email with the subject of "kissing". It's my boyfriend and my cousin. They might be dating behind my back cuz they are good friends and they see eachother everyday.

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friend problem!


Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 4:56 pm

me and my one of my friends were friends since kindergartin...and noweveryday she follows me around doing the same exact things i do.All my other friends say you should tell her to act like her self and not be me.I really need help.what should i say?

softballbebe1

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Everytime.


Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 4:51 pm

Everytime I feel like I'm getting comfortable with a new group of friends... something will happen that will make me feel like it's all a charade. I always feel like I'm on the outside looking in and I'm never really PART of the group. I don't know why! If anyone is in this type of situation hewlp me out... I'm so sick of feeling like I don't have real friends.

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