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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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confused...


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 9:49 pm

Alright, me and and this chick who used to be my friend are in a quarrel. I havent paid her back for this t-shirt she got me and i didnt give her the money i said i would because i figured i'd have a job by now.. anyways, i also said that she shouldnt say other guys are hot when she has a boyfriend, its wrong and she shouldnt do that, i was just tryin to be a friend but now shes mad and i said that we will never be friends again..and im afraid shes gonna do something because we've fought before and she did some nasty things...(perverted)...

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boyfriend/friend


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 7:32 pm

sorry in advance that its a litlle long
ok so...my "ex boyfreind" and i had dated for a little more than a year. and then one night. i was just kind of thinking out loud and i said something about sometimes i think about being single. not like thinking about breaking up with him...but just thinking. but he said that if i really meant it when i told him that i love him then theres no chance that i would want to be single. but so blah blah. we yelled at eachother for a while. and then i decided wel...i need to figure some things out. so we "arent dating" right now. but i told him that there is a chance we will go back out in a while. but the problem is. a. i dont know when that is and i dont know if it will be soon....

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Get more friends.


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 7:19 pm

Alright, popular question here, haha.

Well, schools started and we all our assigned in certain areas, and of course, since everyone sort of has their friends already, much of the people sitting around the group I'm in aren't much for conversation since we're all strangers to one another. I mean, a few of them know eachother and it's hard to get into a conversation with them since they're talking about things I don't know about. Any advice on how to talk to them better and get to know them?

I hope I helped.

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lesbian


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 6:52 pm

one of my good friends is a lesbian, she acts like she likes me alot ( like bestfriend) and then other times she ignores me for like 2 weeks and today i hung out with her friend "boy" and "she" told him he should of told me to leave and not hang out with me caus im stupid, i think she was just jealous because she asked me last week if i liked "boy" and i said idk. anyways i absolutly love the girl when were friends, but when shes not friends with me and says bad stuff about me like she doesnt care about me at all, it makes me feel bad, and i dont want to seem desperate to get our friendship back, so i dont say anything about it, i feel like shes pushing me around and she said i was easy, i guess because i keep ...

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too muchh attentionn!!


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 5:14 pm

14/f.

i don't know why, but in my school, i get like so much attention, its insane. now, i know most people that just read that, would probaly think like luckky or something. because, i mean yeah sure i like attention, but too much, just gets annoying.

here are some examples on how i get itt..
-ok, i like spilled a little bit of the water, & my teacher is like..teasing me & telling the whole class like how im funny or something. & like, its not like i was the only one that did it either, like i was the 5th person to do it. & he didn't even say anything to them, he like just told them to clean it up.
-i say a guy is cute right, the next thing i know, the whole grade is asking if hes...

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BFF'S...?


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 5:05 pm

my friend, lets just call her stacy and i used to be inseperable. we were best friends, we would hang out everyday, cuz we were neighbors so we could. anyway, lately shes been hanging out with a popular girl, lets call her lily. so stacy has been hanging out with lily, and its really sad cuz she never hangs out with me anymore. and a couple weeks ago, she said she didnt want to be friends anymore because i was "clingy" and i wasnt clingy at all! but now we are kind of friends i guess, i mean, we talk and stuff. bt i just looked at her AIM profile and im not in it she has all her other friends except me. and shes not friends with any of her old ones, except me and i guess were not bestfriends anymore. and not she is really popular,...

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Bitch...


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 3:28 pm

i hate this girl named laura so i got mad cause she didnt say what she was saying to people to my face so today at school she came up to me and said "i hate you your fake and a poser...blah blah blah it hurt me so much i didnt know what to say i stayed shut but now i feel mad cause i didnt say anything what should i do and she doesnt even know me very well to call me fake and so and so i cant hit her cause then my friend sam wont talk to me because she is friends with her too what should i do????????

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jealous friend


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 2:54 pm

whenever a guy likes me or just thinks im hott my friend gets wicked jealous, because one guy that she though was cute asked me out,now whenever she sees someone whos hott she tells me not to steal him from her. its really startin to piss me off and iv tried talkinmg to her about it, and now she wants me to help her get a boyfriend, but its really hard because boys arent that into her because shes a little overweight and not that pretty(o my god i sound so mean), but what should i do?

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Idiotic friend


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 5:11 am

There's this guy that I know and he keeps commenting on the way I dress. LIke for example, when I had my nails painted black, the moment he saw it he said "Hey your nails look rotten".

And there was once his dog stepped on my toes and I was like "OUCH". And then he just said "Good boy" to his dog without even smiling ! It was like as if he has something against me.

And he'd always say "hey how's life? Any lesbian friends? Got hooked up with any girl ?" And I'd say "NO!" .

I mean he's really making me mad with all those comments. I didnt do anything to offend him. Really. And I've heard of things like whenver a guy does that to you it means he lik...

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Easily swayed?


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 5:02 am

Whenever I go shopping I'd first plan what I wanna buy. But the thing is, when I've happily picked out the thing that I want, my friends will say, "that's not nice, you should try this one" and then they'll take out some old looking mature tops/bottoms for me to try. And OK, I'll take both my choice and their choice into the fitting room.

After trying my clothes on, I'd feel that what I'd picked looks much better on me but I don't know why do I always end up buying what they tell me to buy. That's cos at that point in time maybe I got brainwashed by what my friends said. And its only after I get home and I try it on again that I regret not buying what i had picked out for myself. This is seriously wasting my money!...

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MOoDY =[


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 1:58 am

WELL heres the thiing

theres this guy he gets mad easily like i say somwething and he tells me off he says im childisha dn i doitn say anything bad like i act normal he gets mad really easily ill ask one thiing and he gets into a bad mood i have tried talking to him but he turns it into a fight please help what can i do or what conversation can i start with him not to annoy hiim

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He doesnt let anyone in...emoitionless


Posted Monday September 18 2006, 12:24 am

I know this guy and we knew each other but we never really talked talked. And recently we started "talking" well. He blocks his emotions out so he wont get hurt. And i am trying to make him trust me and show his feelings. But, he says he doesnt cry or get sad. He says his mind is blank and He blocks out things so he wont get hurt. I have NO idea how i can get around this, like to show him something he has never felt before. He hasnt even been tickled in a long time he said. I asked him if he liked romance he said Yeah, and i said like what. Hes like when a girl is sad or crying i like holding her. I said well, what about the other way around. He said like the girl holding me? I said yes. Hes liike well its never really happend to ...

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My best friend (or was)


Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 8:26 pm

ok well my best friend moved away and we have been getting into alot of fights and like we used to never fight and now she thinks i won't stand up for her and stuff like that and now shes says were not best friends anymore we are just friends and she wants me to prove to her that we are best friends by tellng her and stuff but i can't impress her shes just so hard to impress.

What do i do?

HELP FAST

Thanx

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Make Me Whole


Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 5:09 pm

15/F. I need input-sometimes I feel like I'm missing an emotion. The one where you feel loved and always welcome. I know I have a great personality and am appreciated by my peers, but it's like I try to be independent and don't want others to think I'm clingy and needy. I guess I fear rejection. Like, somebody could be so happy to see you one day and the next just glance at you and nothing more. How do I get past this fear? I don't want to wish to go back in time because I didn't make the most of my life.

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Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 4:13 pm

My friend threw me a suprise birthday party this past weekend and her birthday is next weekend. I would like to do something for hers (she'll be 17). what could i do besides through a party?

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my bff's crush likes me


Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 10:45 am

What should I do? I have a bff and she likes a kid who i have been talkin to alot lately and she started to like him this year and he likes me this year along with 3 other ppl but she said it still matter tht i am in it. She throws it up to my face everytime she gets mad at me. And i cnt help it if he likes me. I mean im not goin out with him and i have a bf. but still she doesn't like it. Help!

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friends


Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 10:17 am

okay soo a couple of nites ago i kindda ditched mi freind. i didnt want her to get hurt but the result came out to be that she did get hurt. i feel bad now and i think she hates me. wut should i do becus i rele couldn't imagine mi life without her. help

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i saved her yet she hates me.


Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 6:39 am

me and my freind went to her boyfreinds house and got drunk and i had unprotective sex with this one guy and she almost did with her boyfreind but didnt then she got super sick and almost died and i held her up when she was throwing up and when no noe would help her i helped her into the car and called my mom wich sucked and risked EVERYTHING everything we have done just everything.
and then we went to the hospital and called her parents wich now hate me and she told them i had sex with this one guy and everything i have done.


what should i do?
how do i get our freindship back?
how do i get her to know that those were her desissions?
i feel guilty and like a horrible freind.
like it ...

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goodbye songs


Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 9:38 pm

does anyone know any sad, goodbye songs for when your best friend is moving away?

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Should I just give up on trying to be his friend again?


Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 7:47 pm

I asked a question about my friend, Mark, last Tuesday. The people who answered my question said that I should ask him why he won't talk to me. So, I left him a comment on myspace three days ago and I asked him why we don't talk to each other anymore. Today I looked at the last time he's logged on myspace and it was two days ago. He didn't respond or talk to me yet. It's really bothering me. All I have been thinking about for the past four weeks is if I did anything wrong. How can I get him to talk to me again?

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