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Advice needed asap please
Posted Monday September 25 2006, 6:34 am
My friend is always trying to make me feel jealous. whatever it is that she does she always tries to rub it in. I do say 'very good' etc with me not being jealous but she carries it on!
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attitude problem
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 9:00 pm
this friend of mine all of a sudden stopped talking to me and gave me attitude and went to another one of the girls in my class and now doent talk to me anymore. what should i do????? please answer soon.
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SOCCER PROBLEM!!!!!
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 8:49 pm
Ok first off this is to deal with my friend and me. my best friend plays soccer and everyonce in a while we play against her team. but I sorta like her in a more kind of way. so I kinda go easy on her. because I could beat her tail in a skinny sec. but I don't know if she likes me. she is one of my best friends. so advicenators, do you magic. HELP. if they help, I will rate nicely. and fairly, sup4321
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so annoying
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 8:30 pm
someone told me they heard my two friends, lucy and jill, saying really mean stuff about me. they didn't tell me exactly what but said they'd tell me more later because they had to go. i just think this kind of drama is so annoying, and i hate dealing with it. i know everyone talks behind other's backs, but my friend says it was meaner than just the usual stuff. i'm so over it, and this really annoys me. i'm not jumping to conclusions, because i know my friend could be wrong, but she has no reason to lie to me. what should i do?
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Friends, Halloween, and Fantanas
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 7:02 pm
For Halloween, my friends want to be Fantanas (there are four of us, like the Fantanas -- in case you don`t know what/who they are: http://sidesalad.net/archives/Fantanas.jpg). Anyways, last year, we all used to be really good friends, but now, one of them, lets call her Lola has been getting on my nerves really badly. She is very harsh to me and talks badly about me all the time. I really don`t want to be a Fantana with her, but theyve already got it all planned out. They all have outfits, I`m the only one that doesnt have one. Plus, they are going to go trick or treating, which I don`t mind, but I would rather go to a party. I told them we should throw a party, but the thing is I'm the only one of them that has any guy friends, so it would be a really lame party if they threw it.
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jealousy
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 5:50 pm
i think my friend is trying to make me jealous over stupid stuff. why would she do this? how do i just "brush it off"?
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my sorta best friend
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 3:26 pm
ok so i moved to a different city but i still keep in touch with all my friends.MY best friend there espacailly we talk atleast twice a week but lately our talks have all turned into fights or me being a nag if she does something like smoke.i have been feeling like she doesnt care about me anymore so i told her we arent best friends anymore unless she can prove to me that she truly does care.But she says its to hard to impress me so she wont even try.what she doesnt understand is i just want to know that i mean something to her.i know she knows i care about her so why do i feel like she doesnt?
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we are fading........
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 1:21 pm
My best friend that I met last year...wellll
we arn't that close anymore. Over the summer we were always busy so we couldn't see each other. Now in school she's always hanging out with her friends... I try to get included and talk to her... but it seems like she doesnt want to be around me. I tried talking to her, but she just acts all weird and pretends theres nothing wrong. I feel like we are seperating from each other and I really dont want that to happen. I need advice!
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going emo ..?
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 12:37 pm
Ever since I was little, like before I was a year old, it has been me and "Kay". Not soon after it became me, Kay, and "Lindsey," and it has been like that ever since. We were really close when we were younger, and now we're growing apart! But that's not the worst part.
Kay is starting to joke about being emo, she listens to songs that are unlike her, and she is just altogether different. Sometimes it seems forced, like she is trying to be someone she's not. Recently, she has brought up the subject of cutting. I know she hasn't, but she said she likes snapping elastics on her wrist and feeling pain.. and I'm scared for her. I can't picture her cutting herself, and I don't think she can picture it either. I...
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Jealous, Catty or Me?
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 12:28 pm
Since last weekend my best friend has been acting different. Last week was homecoming and we went with a group of our friends. Some time earlier in the evening I had told her that she and one of her guy friends would be cute together because she needed a nice time. She brushed off everything I said. Homecoming was a fun time and I spent part of the evening getting to know her previously mentioned guy friend better. I told her that I liked him later that night and she didn't sound upset. The next day we were celebrating her birthday [said guy friend being there] and we spent most of the party obviously flirting with each other. For some reason my friend found it necessary to tell all of the girls at the party that I suggested that she and he...
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Friend @ Work!
Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 7:44 am
Hiii. :)
My friend Kristen, she's a hostess at a Mexican restaurant called Mario's. She asked me if I wanted to apply there, because the managers wanted to have two hostesses. & I of course said yes. I only work Fridays & Saturdays, and obviously Kristen would be my trainer.
She's a really good friend of mine & I thought taking this job would be AWESOME, because we don't really have to work that much, but we'll get money for it, and it seemed EASY.
Yesterday was my second day, and the entire time she was bitching and complaining about how bad I was at hostessing, and how I should quit. She kept telling our manager that she had told me a dozen times of how to do something, whenever she hadn't even told me onc...
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I don't want to be her friend.
Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 7:55 pm
My old bestfriend did something unthinkable and I don't want to be her friend anymore; She did this in august and I didn't talk to her for a while and I said I don't want to fight anymore but your not my friend. But she doesn't get it. She keeps talking to me in school and stuff. How can I tell her I don't want to be her friend nicely?
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should i be friend his friend again or not!
Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 5:08 pm
well there is a friend of mine i know him since 3 or 4 years. his name is John. recently 3 months ago i had stopped talking and meeting to him because he made up some stories and told my friend Chris that i said these things after him like back bitting (e.g he tells me not to meet with you, he told me this n that about your family) and other stupid things and created a fight between me and chris
recently i heard that he had a fight with Chris
and today he came to me and telling me that it was all a mis understanding
he said that chris came to him and said things like uxair said this abt u and bla bla
so i got mad and i said things about u to him
and he came and apolagized
and he does not have...
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growing apart from friends, being left out.
Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 3:13 pm
these two friends of mine, who both used to be much closer to me than to eachother got really close this summer while i was gone. now when we hang out, its them 2...and then me on the outside. everyone has noticed it because they are both now soo very into each other and dont talk to anyone else. ive kind of given up on jen, because i expected this from her in the first place. shes always put me aside, becoming great friends with someone new, then tossing them aside for someone else, etc. she always needs attention and is always flirting with guys, even if she knows her friends like him or if hes taken. kelsey on the other hand, has always been so kind and funny. weve had great times but for months now we dont hanbg out outside of school. t...
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Using exs names
Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 11:07 am
My boyfriend was with a girl for 6 months. Now weve been together for almost two months, but the other day he called me his exs name. What do I do?
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My boyfriend
Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 11:06 am
13/f/tx
Ok, my boyfriend loves me like alot. He's always telling me how much he loves me and is always wanting to get me stuff. He gives me goosbumps and smiles at me all the time. I smile back, but for some reason I just dont feel like Im giving him the same love he gives me. And when I'm around him and have nothing to say, I call him names like retard, loser, and stuff like that. He hates it when I do that but I cant stop. Yet he still loves me and would give the world for me. What do I do? I dont feel like a good girlfriend.
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im a back up friend!
Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 3:29 am
13/f/8th grade. it seems like im a back up friend to all of my friends. i feel like my friends only hang out with me or go to movies or eat lunch with me when all of their other friends are busy. some of them use me. and friends that i used to be best friends with dumped me once cooler kids wanted to be their friends. what do i do?
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DRAMA.
Posted Friday September 22 2006, 10:38 pm
you know how there is always that one friend you have to says what they feel right to your face? well, i do and her name is carrie. we got in this big fight today at lunch and she was all up in my face. i was like back up and she was like whatever, your such a two faced b*tch. god she makes me so mad! what should i do about this? help me!
<3 Chelsea <3
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I lost my 4 best friends... What do I do?
Posted Friday September 22 2006, 10:09 pm
To start everything off, I'll say that I'm 16 and my friends mean the world to me. And to lose the people that I've grown up with is something I don't know how to deal with... We have a click around my neighborhood that was us 4 or 5 girls and a couple boys. Back in May I went away for the weekend and came back to find that my best friend of 7 years was getting really close with this other 2-faced, drama loving girl from our neighborhood. While I don't have a problem with it, they decided that since I talked to her ex boyfriend they were both going to be mad at me. Even when me and him were ONLY friends for years before they even dated. I tried 5 times during the summer to apoligize and see what I did so wrong to my bff, but neither would t...
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Idk what's going on..
Posted Friday September 22 2006, 6:28 pm
16/f
I'm pretty upset. My best friend and I have been planning to go to a football game together tonight since monday. I called her to ask when she was going to pick me up because she told me to. So when I called she said she was shopping with her mom and she told me to call her back in 10 minutes and they'd be done. So I waited about 15 so I didn't seem so anxious. Well when I called her back she didn't say much. SO I was like okay, when are you coming to get me? and she said she was kinda mad. When I asked why she said she had to go to baton rouge with her mom.
When I told my mom this, she was like "while her grandmother's in ICU? I don't think so"
Her grandmother is very sick and i...
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