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Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 6:43 pm
14/f.
please readd. i need your help.
My friend, she has a cheerleading competition, on the same day as my halloween party. its like huge like 60 kids. & everything. I can't reschedule it, because its the only day they could do it.
Its our last year at the same school together, so its not like there will be another halloween party.
Anyways, I'm really mad.. that she'd rather go to some stupid cheerleading competition then be at my halloween party with me. is that being selfish? I mean there will be other cheerleading competitions. Right? Wouldnt you be mad, if that happened to you?
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lost a friend.
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 6:30 pm
okay, so i HAD a best friend, me and her were friends for almost 4 years she knew everything about me and we were really close. although she was a little fake towards me - such as she dated my ex and would never help me out when i was in a fight with someone she even once used me to get to one of my brothers friends. i always had her back though and let all these things slip by. so this girl who i dont like goes to her and tells her that ive been talking about her behind her back, that did hurt her but it hurt me to, my friend for 4 years cant even trust me? well i guess more then just this one girl told her that i was talking about her, and i must admit i had talked about her on several occasions, but she always ditched me when i needed he...
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FRIENDS.
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 6:27 pm
okay, so i HAD a best friend, me and her were friends for almost 4 years she knew everything about me and we were really close. although she was a little fake towards me - such as she dated my ex and would never help me out when i was in a fight with someone she even once used me to get to one of my brothers friends. i always had her back though and let all these things slip by. so this girl who i dont like goes to her and tells her that ive been talking about her behind her back, that did hurt her but it hurt me to, my friend for 4 years cant even trust me? well i guess more then just this one girl told her that i was talking about her, and i must admit i had talked about her on several occasions, but she always ditched me when i needed he...
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what exactly do the bases mean?
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 4:19 pm
ok.. i feel really stupid for asking this. lol. but.. what exactly does 1st base, 2nd base, 3rd base, and homerun mean? i kind of have an idea, but i just want to be sure. & no im not talking about baseball. ;D
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my friends
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 1:56 pm
i need your help! this past week was the worst. my friends would not talk to me. they ignore me and im new to the school this year. i need so much help because idk if they are mad at me or what. i even asked them and they said no. also today at ccd, these girls were talking about her and how mean she is. then i told them what happened to me and they said that she does that. idk what to do. thx in advance. 13/f
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halloween costumes
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 12:08 pm
ok so im invited to my friends costume party but we have to dress in pairs so.. my friend was gonna go with her bf as catwoman and batman but they broke up so now im gonna go with her. but she already bought her catwoman costume and she doesnt wanna waste it so i dont no what to dress as.. i dont want it to be like really stupid so ya...im 13f.. thanks
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Left out :(
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 7:02 am
Well.. whenever I'm with my best friend alone she's really nice but when she's with someone else she treats me like crap and I'm really feeling felt out because shes drifting away from me...?
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ditched.
Posted Friday October 20 2006, 8:05 pm
i was supposed to hang out with a friend tonight. like he was supposed to call me or just come on over. but he did neither. so i tried to call him later. but he didn't pick up. pretty much, he ditched me. what should i do?
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Should I just keep my mouth shut?
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 8:01 pm
My best friend, Katie, has liked a guy named Michael for about three or two months. Finally, he asked her out last Saturday. Before that happened, he was flirting with our other friend, Julie. Everyone including me saw that he was flirting with Julie and we all thought we liked her. When I'm with Julie and Katie isn't there, we sometimes see Michael. He flirts with her quite often and it really seems like he likes her. Julie already has a boyfriend and Katie's going out with Michael. Should I wait until it happens again and then talk to Katie about it or do I just try and ignore it?
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i want to be with him more.
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 7:29 pm
so this guy and i have been dateing for a month, we see eachother at school and stuff but we have only hung out after school once. i want to be with him more then just at school. what should i do besides saying ask me to hang out!
some of mi friends said give it time and maybe we'll start to more but it's been a month! and i think if he and i dont start to hang out more we will stop likeing eachother.
help?
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Losing my friends
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 3:15 pm
I have a boyfriend now and i would always rather hang out with him over my frineds but i feel like im losing my frineds becasue of it imnot close to one of my best friends anymore i never see her in school but i never see my boyfriend during weekdays either becasue he goes to a different school than me so i hang out with him over the weekends. My First best friend moved half way across the worl i miss her soooo much and my second best friend has a "new" best friend shes always hanging out with someone else and she seems to liek her more ven though we have been throgha lot in hr profile it says i love my new best friend and it says her name. she gets mad when I hang out with other people btu i need to make more close friends and be...
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how do i explain why i got my friend in trouble?
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 1:26 pm
ok long story short; ive been skipping school this whole week, so me and my friend havn't been able to do this group project that's due tomorrow, yeah i know.. not good. now im really not in the mood to see her, and she's calling me everywhere and calling all my friends,, because she's probably freaking out cause we need to do the project. well im not going anyways tomorrow, and i know this i wrong, and i know im a bad friend.. bad student and everything.. but there's just so much going on you know? ugh, she'll probably badmouth me and make me look bad infront of our teachers and cassmates and stuff since i kinda stood her up.. or left her hanging or whatever.. SOOO, i need a GREAT excuse. What's the reason for not being in school (ive been...
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I can't get rid of her! Blahh, I hate my best friend.
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 9:07 am
Okay here's the thing, I hate my "best friend". hate her. I blame her for almost all my misery (even though i know it's wrong, so you don't have to tell me that.. because it wont make a difference, i still need to get her out of my life!) the more I hang out with her, the more I become her..and I hate myself now. I stuck with her cause I felt sorry for her, she's kinda pathetic.. (wow i know how bad that sounds, i know im a terrible friend.. but i just.. i dont know) anyways, i stuck with her, even started in her class, and because of that (no one really likes her) ive become one of those poeple who arent really in the class, its like me and her are our own little group and the rest of the class is a group.. now im used to being p...
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no one likes me.
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 8:22 pm
ok at my school, all of the boys used to like me but now they all hate me. i dont think im ugly when i look in the mirror, i dont feel ugly or look it. but to them i do. i try to be nice to them but their still mean to me. it feels good to be liked, and not even the nerds like me.
no one understands what im going through. my grandpa who is my all time hero is very sick and my parents keep threatening to put me out on the streets. my grades are suffering also. i just need a shoulder to cry on and i try to talk to someone about it but they just say oh my life is worse. i just need someone to tell me that everything will be alright.
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drifting apart
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 8:06 pm
My best friend is avoiding me:(
We've been going to different schools for a while now and we've always been very close.
She has new friends now and I think she prefers them over me.
She completely avoids me online and calls.
I haven't spoken to her for about a week.
and it makes me really sad because I don't trust anyone and I don't have too many close friends.
I don't want to confront her about it because I already know what she will say. So is there anything I can do?
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left out?
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 7:43 pm
whenever my 2 friends do something without me, the one girl mel makes a huge deal out of it. i think she is trying tomake me feel left out. shold i just brush it off?
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Bad Freind
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 7:42 pm
Tyler (girl) has been being kind o mean to me lately. We got really close last year and talk alot and she acted totally different. Now she's being weird to me especially when she's around Mia (who I thinks she's following and trying to suck up to her alot which may be why she's like stopped being as close with me). I just miss being as close of friends as we used to. If i try to talk to her she will be all weird but if you think i should what should I say? Or what should I do? I really dont like how she's treating me
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hmm
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 6:20 pm
i never thought i would say this but im kinda boring. =/ im not "shy" but im not the loudest one in the room. i do talk and i can be really loud,but sometimes i wish i was more open and talked more. to my close personal friends im fine i can be loud and feel comfortable but when im in school at lunch i never know what to talk about and thats probably why i dont say much! i never know what to talk about when im with my not as close friends.movies and music just seem boring.i wish i was the loudest person the one who wa always talking and stuff but i just end up being "untalkative" maybe im just not comfortable being loud and talking alot with my not as close friends.how can i open up and be the loud person that i know i a...
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i feel left out
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 4:03 pm
i have a group of friends and i just feel really left out or not really there...what do i do? how do i get into the convos.? how can i be funny and outgoing?
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Help/<3
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 3:39 pm
ok so ive liked this kid named Randy ever since the 7thgrade and he never knew it b.c he was a grade higher then me now iam a 9th grader and he's in my french class. we grew a big friend ship like OMG u have no i dea how great the friendship was. yeh so then my friends told him that i liked him and then we became even more closer. but now i have a bf and he's everything i ever wanted but ever since he found out about my bf we've been fighting lateley. and i think i still may like Randy. so give my advice he's killing me.
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