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HE SENT ME A TEXT MESSAGE........
Posted Monday October 30 2006, 8:39 pm
I have a serious crash on this guy, and I think he likes me somehow, too. But I have bf, and he has gf.
We were both at this dinner, and nothing special (romantic) happened. We chatted and laughed with other friends there. Just like always. And end of night, we hug and said goodbye to each other.
When I got into my car, I got a text message from him. There's nothing special about what the msg said, just normal "good night" msg. But he never sent me txt msg before. And I just saw him 5 mins ago. Why did he send me the message?
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Posted Monday October 30 2006, 6:05 pm
m/16
Well, my two best friends (who are both girls) are in a huge fight, and I don't know why but I never even bothered to ask. It's been going on for SUCH A LONG TIME! They won't talk to each other, but they talk a lot about each other behind their backs. Well, Carrie was telling me how awful Brittany was, and I, of course, didn't say anything or even agree with it. But, I just couldn't help but to tell Brittany everything Carrie said. After all, I kind of like Brittany as more than just a friend... But, i told Brittany not to tell anyone, but she told me she was going to tell her other friends, and told me that they were really trustworthy and wouldn't tell anyone and she assured me that Carrie wouldn't find out that I told her....
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am i too involved in this?
Posted Monday October 30 2006, 5:27 pm
I have a friend (15/f) who is currently going out with "Jim." Though we've grown apart the past year, I'm pretty sure she never even thought of him that way until he asked her out. A week ago she said she was ready to end it, because he had been teasing her too much and taking her away from her friends. She said she was going to wait until this weekend, because there was a big sweet sixteen party and they were going together. The party was last Saturday, and they are still together. I don't have a problem with this, except that I don't know that he's stopped teasing her.
What should I do, if anything? I mean he isn't physically hurting her or anything, and she said he's "gotten better." She also realized that last...
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my best friend is a backstabber!
Posted Monday October 30 2006, 2:36 pm
what do i do if my best friend is going out with my exboyfriend?
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Looking in from the outside
Posted Monday October 30 2006, 6:12 am
Hey Advicenators =D
A lot of time has passed, and I feel that I have become a socially awkward person. I have trouble trusting people like I did before, or having a deep, and productive conversation with someone for more than 10 minutes... It hurts me because I feel like I'm growing more distant from those closest to me, my friends and even my family. I don't know why, but I feel that this sort of "anti-socialism" stems from prior experiences where I've trusted some people, only to be taken advantage of later. Is there anything I can do to help my situation?
Thanks a million ♥
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arghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Monday October 30 2006, 4:30 am
well i have this so-called best friend.SHe can be lovely but she see's everything as a competition
Whenever I get my hair cut or get something new, she comes in with something to try and outdo me? I really dont see the point.Its like everything is a competition! And then she copies me with stuff and then claims its her own idea and try's to turn people against me.I know for a fact shes been bitching about me aswell but then when i confront her she just try's to suck up to me.
I would also confront her about all the competition but she just try's to turn it all back on me and its so frustrating.My mum thinks shes just jealous of me.But I have no idea what to do.
Someone help please..
muchloveamiixxxxxxxxxx
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best friend's birthday
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 11:19 pm
My best friend's birthday was at the end of August. I got her an amazing gift before her bday even came, but the thing is - I have not given it to her! We sort of lost touch during August & September. We go to the same school, but we aren't as close as we were years ago. I want to give her the gift (she knows I got her something) but I feel like an idiot giving it to her so late. What should I say/do without making it seem like her friendship isn't important to me?
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friend problems
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 9:13 pm
before, i posted about my friend being over obsessed with her camp friends and making me and her other school friends being like backup. i think im going to talk to her about it, but i dont know how to say it casually without hurting anybodys feelings. what should i say!??!
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I need to know
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 8:37 pm
See...well, I like my best friend as more than just a friend. I want her to know without making it so obvious. She does a lot of things that makes me think she likes me too. Whenever she does things like hug me or smile at me or say something really nice, I am always backing off and I don't know why! I want to be with her so badly, but I always change the subject or act like a complete fool whenever she says or does something really nice to me...I need help.
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convo starters.
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 6:46 pm
i've had the same group of best friends for five years & i've recently lost them all because i tried to do the right thing. anyway, i decided that i don't need negative people in my life. sooo...i'm going to try & make new friends & i was wondering: what are some good conversation starters? [:
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i LOVE MY FRiENDS .. BUT...
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 3:42 pm
i love my friends and all but i dk wat to do, i know that im bitchy and all but they push the fact that i am WAY TOO MUCH i try not to be because i know i am and i know that its not always a good thing but i dk what to do about it .. how do i explain to them that this is the way that i am and i dk how to change , andhow do i tell them that i cant change but im sick of hearin about it???HELP ME PLEASE!!!
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bad friend
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 2:33 pm
Ok so here is the story. Last night i went to a party and my friend's crush was there. I knew that she likes him. she likes two other guys too. well i was kind of all over this guy last night we didnt hook up or anything just alot of hugging and stuff and flirting and i know that she saw. but she like never tried to even talk to the guy. i don't know if i like him or anything. anyways, was i being a bad freind? should i talk to her about it? what should i do?
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formal or friend's party
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 5:01 am
Theres a formal on for my church group on the 16th of december and there are so many great people going and I know that I will have soooooo much fun but its also on the same day as one of my close friend's birthday. And they're on the same time. I really want to go to the formal but I don't want to break it to my friend. I secretly know I'll have way more fun at the formal!!!! What also is an awesome to get her? Please help, it will be greatly appreciated.
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This is weird...
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 1:33 am
Okay, well I'm not the most popular person in my grade, I'm average, not a nerd but not popular. And, there's this popular girl that always hangs out with me at the football games, and I don't know why. Her name is Mackenzie, and at school, she's usually making fun of the fact that I'm dating Dane, or she's completely ignoring me. I don't even want to be friends with a popular person, it could lead to me being popular and then I'd lose all of my real friends. Besides, I don't want to be someone I'm not. So does anyone know why she's all the sudden hanging out with me?
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Not Understanding.
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 12:33 am
Every1 i help always puts this thing on there: <3 WAT DOES IT MEAN?????????????????????????? I NEED 2 KNOW!!!! PLEZ TEL ME! :[
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lying
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 12:05 am
tonight, jill came up to me and asked me if i went to julie's house the night before. i said no and asked her why. she said "oh, she had people over" and i was like oh. no big deal - i wouldn't have really cared if i wasn't invited. so, later on jill came up to me again and said (i didn't ask her to ask julie this, but she did anyway), "julie said that you were invited and she told mary (my other friend) to tell you about it, but she said you couldn't go." mary never told me anything, and the fact that i couldn't go was a lie. should i talk to mary about it? like, what should i say?
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obsessivness
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 11:26 pm
my friend is over obsessed with camp. she wont stop talking about. me and my friends try and clue her in, and she knows that we dont like when she does it, but she still goes on about her "bffs." we feel like extras, backup. my friend even told her about the problem. she doesnt seem to care that we're mad. What should we do!!??
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Liar,Liar
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 10:10 pm
My best friend Amanda and i want her to come over to my das's house and spend the weekend.But it seems on my mom weekends {i don't want her to come over} she is free.But on my dad's weekend there's always something. Do i stil trust her,or anything?Tell me what to do!Plez?!
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Want more friends
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 8:25 pm
I am just going into the 6th and and alot of my old friends don't have the same classes as me, were are still going to be friends but I want to have some friends to spend the shcool day with too.I'm to nurves to go and talk to the other kids what should i do?
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PARTY?!
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 5:25 pm
Alright, well I was talking to my friend and she said her friend ( who idk cause this girls in a grade lower than me ) is going to a party and just asked if i wanted to come to, and it was fine with her friend.
So if you were me and didn't nobody there except one person, would you go?
I'm just afraid the girl I do know'll be off talking to a thousand people, and I'll be sitting in the corner.. just sitting there.
I hope I helped.
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