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Rumors at school. My best friends think I flirt with my best
Posted Friday November 10 2006, 9:43 pm
I am 13 years old. I am in grade 8 and life is getting somplicated. Almost all my friends are guys and now the most popular girl in school say I flirt a lot with all the guys. She spread a nickname for me called "Boy Toy" and now I cant talk to a guy without anyone making a big deal about it. One of my most trustworthy friends is a guy and ill admit I kind of like him now but its just too weird. But now shes got even my best friend believing I flirt with him all the time and hes starting to avoid me some more. What I mean is usually when we see eachother he gives me a giant smile and stuff and stops and talks to me. Now he like looks away. I dont know what to do. Its not like im a huge flirt (I think) Ive never even truely gone out with a guy. What should I do?
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presentttt
Posted Friday November 10 2006, 9:00 pm
my friend's birthday is coming up, i want to give her a really good present because she always gets me really good stuff, having to do with our like inside jokes and suchh. any ideas?
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sorry its long but PLEAASE HELP.
Posted Friday November 10 2006, 8:57 pm
i have to plan two surprise parties in december/january. i don't know if i can have them in my house, because i don't like having guys in my house (they would be guy/girl) with my parents and stuff, i dont know its just annoying. for one, my friend offered to have it at her house (maybe). but is there somewhere we could like go that i could have it? besides a resturant, somewhere where we could like hang out and have music maybe...that wouldn't cost too much money?
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Guy freinds
Posted Friday November 10 2006, 8:32 pm
I want more guy friends. How do I talk to them more and bring up conversations and just like say stuff and be comfortable and flirt? Dont say like "be yourself" I want real advice . THx!
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confused about friends
Posted Friday November 10 2006, 6:00 pm
15/f. lately it seems like all of my friends have been ditching me. now i feel like i'm friendless. people don't call me to hang out or go anywhere. its like everytime i make a new friend they always either use me or ditch me. why do they always do this? is there anything i can do to make sure that my friends don't use me or ditch me?
thanks!
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To Big
Posted Friday November 10 2006, 3:46 pm
Lately i have been feeling left out from my best friend, she hangs out with all these other girls and i am really glad she has lots of other friends but she dosent even talk to me anymore. I feel like she is to Big for me. You know what i mean? She brought me to a school basketball game with her and she didnt even sit by me or talk to me. She always has to be in the middle of the cirlce. It just makes me feel small and unprepared for something. I dont know what though. Again, i am glad she has friends but i just feel this way. I know i can hang out with my other friends but they are all are her really good friend now. They get sad when they cant sit by her at lunch and i havent sit by her in a long time. Any suggestions besisdes talking to...
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with benefits?
Posted Friday November 10 2006, 2:49 pm
16/f
i'll just get to the point..
so pretty much exactly a year ago i went out with this boy named johnny, whos a grade higher than me. we went out for a while like two months, but we both kinda mutually realized we still liked our exes. Since then we had been great friends, but neither of us did end up going with our exes. durring the summer we were talking and he asked if i wanted to hook up some time, just for experience, because ive been kissed and everything but i dont really make out with just anyone, so i never have before. well then i was like , friends with benefits? and he was like yeah, i guess, so i said sure why not. a week later a boy named chris asked me out, and we went out for four months, but he was kinda an ...
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My Best Friend and Her Crush
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 11:39 pm
15/f. My best friend (14/f) has a crush on this cute guy. I think I also might have a crush on him, but I haven't told her because I don't want to seem like I'm stealing him or anything, so I've pretty much been ignoring my feelings. Anyway, the bad part is that she goes through guys like oxygen. I'm not kidding. And besides that, it's fairly obvious that he's not interested in her, and he and I share the same interests and sense of humor. Is it bad for me to like him as well, and should I just back off? Or should I tell my best friend and see what happens? I really don't want to mess up my friendship with my best friend over some guy. Thanks.
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Cutting and being rude.
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 8:29 pm
Basically there is this girl, Nikki nobody likes her. She had friends at one point and then everybody turned on her including me. I'm friends with a 'popular' girl Lindsey. And Lindsey is rude and snobby but she's kind to me. I'm not 'populer' me and Lindsay just hangout during school. I dont like Nikki either, and she knows it. But today I was hearing Nikki and her friend talking about, Nikki cutting herself. I saw it was true, I know it was she showed her friend her scars [I saw them there is two]. And I dont know why I did thing..to Nikki and anybody who's going to sit there and think they never made a bad decision knowing it was wrong and did it anyways is a lair, we've all done it. I told Lindsey, It was a bad idea she's going to tell ...
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I'm disgusted. 13/F
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 8:16 pm
13/F
this GIRL likes me at my school.
how do i get her to leave me alone?
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MAKEUP??
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 8:05 pm
okay well this might not be in the right catagory so im sorry...
but anyways, me and my friend just got out of a HUGE fight and weve been gettin along better but we still havent talked about our problems but i told her that we r gonna talk about them either tommorrow or the next day.. i just wanna know how i shoulld bring things up..((if you dont remember or didnt read the fight it is labeled: its about to be a .....GIRLFIGHT)) i know corny title but yea, please help=]
thanx<3
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should i be upset?
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 7:46 pm
i just found a post on this site, and i am 100% positive it was by my friend. basically what she said was that i was a bad influence on her, but she likes the person she is turning into. should i take offense to that, or worry at all for that matter? advice is GREATLY appreaciated, i am a huge worry wort. thanks alot
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i dont want to be friends with her
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 3:11 pm
ok im 13/f
so ive was friends with this girl for maybe a year. last year we were really close. shes really nice but shes the kind of person that sucks up to everyone to be everyones friend. over the course of last year we got into some fights but not a big deal, towards the end of the year she did horrible things to me, she told this girl alll my secrets, and talked behind my back. so then after that i told her i can't trust her anymore and i still mean it. she forgave me and then i gave her a 2nd chance. it happened again and i told her that i couldnt be friends with her anymore. that summer she didn't really talk to me but i didnt care. this school year shes acting as though im her best friend and trying to tag along with me and m...
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Why do we stop being friends with pple that we cant have?
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 9:57 am
Ok, theres this guy that I'e been talking to at school and we both talk about things that we both like and he's really nice and great to talk to. We would flirt innocently even though I have a b/f which I kept telling him after he kept making sexual remarks towards me. Then he started acting a little less like a friend and more like he was intresested in me and kept asking me when I'll dump my boyfriend. Now he's acting really immature and talks obviously trying to make me jealous by mentioning some girl that he likes to someone next to me. And he made a sexual remark to me the other day which i just anwsered by saying "Wouldnt you like to know" and he said "No...Ive moved on!" LOL I dont understand why hes so desperate ...
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my friend is waayy overreacting.
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 9:46 am
ok yesterday i said to my friend jess on aim "i officially have the best song on my myspace ever." i told her to go look and shes like "that song sucks." it was "but its better if you do" by panic at the disco. then shes like "dude, stop trying to be like me and katie cuz its not working. you hated them like a month ago." katie is one of our friends. she also said i get jealous over the smallest things and its really annoying. is she like way overreacting? because all me friends think she is.
and another thing..how can i not get so jealous? because i do get jealous easily.
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I hate my friends
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 3:54 am
I hate my friends, i have a little group of friends and ther names are kiera,karrie,chloe and danielle. Danielle was moved into our class because we have moved up to high school and she wasn't put with anyone she liked, anyway Danielle is taking kiera away from me now because when we have to work in pairs chloe goes with carrie and keira goes with danielle so i am left out, i have to go and work with the least popular person in the school.
I am not popular at all and i am not a total reject but my question is how can i get keira to be my friend again and be best friends with me? should i even bother?
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so confused
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 3:02 am
well i broke up with my boyfriend coz it wasnt working out which is ok.. i have a new boyfriend but my ex i still really like n was with him for 7 months n did everything with him .. but now he likes me best friend n shes being a total b**ch .. i was sopose to go to the shops with her to go shopping n she dogged me for him to go to the movies n my other best friend which we do everything together asked her if she wanted her to come n she said nuh im just going with him .. then we found out that shes meeting up with another mate there .. we do not know wat to do? and we are so sick of it
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Help! My friend keeps trying to make me drink!
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 12:45 am
my friend keeps trying to make me drink but i dont want to. what do i do?
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grr
Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 12:21 am
okay well my friend is bi and i didnt mean to but i told one of her bestfriends she was and i mean i thought she knew b/c she neva told me not to say nuttin so i dunno what to do i hope she aint mad at me wdid?
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one of my old best friends
Posted Wednesday November 8 2006, 7:15 pm
ok well...
In second and Third grade, one of my best friends was in my class. She left the school for 2 years. She is back this year. She is in different classes than me and i want to bcome one of her bst friends again...
what can i do?
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