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Posted Friday November 24 2006, 10:52 pm
I was a new student this year. And this wednesday, my friends talkeed to me in private saying that i had over-sarcasm, but then again, i got the sarcasm influence from them, especially from clara, who became my best friend in school. since then, they stopped hanging with me and i didn't mind them much. i talked to them sometimes, but only sometimes. i got really miserable because i felt like i was losing my friends whom i'm really close to. last week, we were just so close as besties. then thursay, it was the day before our fieldtrip, i asked her if we could sit together in the bus, which i thought she would say yes to because she asked me months ago if we could sit together in the fieldtrip. but sad to say, she said she was already sitting...
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What to do now?
Posted Friday November 24 2006, 9:15 pm
Well this could go on forever, but I'll sum it up.
well in 9th grade i was friends with everyone. I really had no enimies and ppl would make fun of me (overweight) but it didnt bother me back then.
Now I'm in 10th grade and all my original friends just turned on me and started cracking on me and saying really brutal and hurtful comments about me. I wouldnt have mind if i came from the "bully" of the class but a lot of the jokes came from my friend for 5 years. They also shuned me and didnt want me to hang out with them.
I really dont know what to do, I go to very small school (17 students in the 10th grade) soo its kinda hard to get away from them. soo i would really like some one to give me some advice caus...
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Typical fight over a guy...
Posted Friday November 24 2006, 5:58 pm
Sorry if this gets long... well for about 6 months now I've liked this guy, let's call him Joe. I had this party and he came, and my best friend (who knew I liked him) decided she did too. We have rules about these situations between us, and since I said it first I "get him" I guess. Well she talks about him like she knows him when she only met him once. Plus she acts like I don't like him anymore. Lastly, he likes me too. We MiGHT go out. Should I tell her?
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confidence
Posted Friday November 24 2006, 4:43 pm
Theres this girl in my school, & shes like amazing. She has alot of confidence in herself & everything. But, shes not stuck up. Shes really nice to everyone. And shes like just every girl would wanna be like, i'm not over exaggerating at all. You never see her embarressed, or shy or anything.
How do I become more confident in who I am?
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my friends' pregnancies
Posted Friday November 24 2006, 1:30 pm
For some reason I get SO MAD when a friend of mine gets pregnant. Like I had so many friends who ended up getting pregnant, but before that they always talked about being abstinent, and not anything like that and before I know it they're having babies.. I can't stand it at all. I do not know why it bothers me so much. I support them and help them out, but there's just something that angers me about them getting pregnant. Can someone please explain to me why or how I feel this way, and how I can get over this emotion?
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im toooo jealous! :(
Posted Thursday November 23 2006, 12:41 pm
ok i have a friend im confused about! I love her so much! and i dont wanna stop being friends with her, but im so jelous of her and constantly envying her its weakening my self-esteem.. so maybe i should! like this girl is pretty close to perfect.. so everytime i feel happy about something good ive done.. i compare myself to her and start feeling bad.. i can never feel good about my looks, grades, self.. or anything.because i realize "good" will never be as good as her. and its not her fault, duh, i know. But ive tried stopping to compare myself to her AND IT DIDNT WORK! SO I DONT KNOW IF I HAVE ANY OTHER OPTION! what should i do?
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How can i get him to forgive me...
Posted Thursday November 23 2006, 12:15 am
soo i have this friend right and his name is marc.. well marc has a girlfriend named ashley and me and her use to be really good friends and so did me and marc but one day marc had said some suff that he shouldent have said and i have a really bad temper so i slaped him, his girlfriend and i had it out and now were not friends and rele dont want to be friends with her ever agin because she starts a whole bunch of stuff... well me and marc appoligized to each other but sence this girl ashley keeps bringing it up to him he keeps getting pissed and he want talk to me... and well now him and ashley broke up. so i thowt things would be good between me and him ((also marc and my boyfriend are bestfriends, so i want to be friends with marc so my b...
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girls
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 10:12 pm
I have a lot of friends that are girls, but none of them like me more than that. is there a way that i can get them to treat me more like a dating option then just a friend
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Would this ruin our friendship?
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 9:16 pm
Okay, so there's this guy, and we'll call him David. He used to and still likes my best friend, and she never liked him, up until now. Last night she made me call him to ask if he still liked her, and tonight he called me saying yes. Now, I understand that if you like someone you're allowed to talk to other people(female friends in this case), and instead of hanging up right away and having her call him back, he kept conversation with me. Now, we're making plans to hang out and what not, and I haven't yet gotten her approval because she went up to another state for Thanksgiving. Any advice on what I should do? I kind of like him, and he's cool and all, but I would NEVER take him away from my best friend, but what should I do? I have no way ...
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Help Me!
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 8:44 pm
Ok I need some advice on what to do.
There is this one person who her and i used to be Best Friends.
We did almost everything together.
We were together as much as we could
Well then durring the Carnival by my house she started to hang with someone else
I didnt really like that other person that much
I think she can be really freaking annoying
The girl who was my friend we still talked
But then she started to hang out with the other girl more
I would hang out with them but i would be the third wheel
I would try to join them but it was just so akward
Well that girl who was my friend her and i hardly ever talked
We would hang out occasionly but the other girl...
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Lost Friend
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 1:42 pm
so i have this friend, and she's been my best friend. But lately she's been acting different. And it's not like she hangs around differnt people or acting obnoxious, she just never invites me over, or includes me that much. I'm kind of uncomfortable around her now, but my school is so small that i dont really have any other friends, and the ones i do have are all leaving. Help?!
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I never knew that 1+1 made three :]
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 10:57 am
(I'm 15/m if this helps)Okay, so my best friends (a girl and a guy) are on the verge of a relationship and everytime they have something planned, they always invite me. This makes me feel like a third wheel and I get the awkward feeling when i'm around them that they don't really want me there. I feel like the only reason that i'm being included in their plans is because i'm their best friend and they pity me.
I dont really have a specific question but if you could form one on your own out of my explaining and answer it, that would be great.
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dgaf
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 11:40 pm
what does "d.g.a.f." stand for?
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AHH!
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 8:31 pm
Okay, I'm on homeschool, so I don't interact with people much. I DO have friends, all though I don't see them often. Maybe once a week at the most. I'm a very shy person, so it's hard for me to make new friends. My question is, what are some things I can talk about with people? Usually when I talk with someone, via internet OR in person, it'll be like, "Hi how are you? How was your day? What are you up to?" then the conversation will end. I want to be able to hold a conversation! I want to have LOTS more friends. Don't give me corny things like "talk about movies! or music!" 'cause personally, I think that's dumb to talk about that all the time. AND, I rarely watch movies, so that wouldn't work. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP...
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depressed about ex
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 6:01 pm
okay, so im 15/f.
i have this guy friend ((who i kinda like :x)) and he is still really depressed about him and his ex g/f [[also my friend]] breaking up about 2 weeks ago.He still clearly likes her and now he knows who she likes and its really hurting him, i can tell. so what kind of things could i do to cheer him up maybe? i dont like seeing him so sad.
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starting up friendships with people cooler than you.
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 12:55 am
yeah, cooler older people...i've tried being confident...and i am...but i'm also realistically aware of my abilities...and these people are much closer to the definition of cool than me, wittier, smarter, wiser, up on trends i'm not up on, and have a hard time keeping up with ect...they are nice to me but...i'm pretty sure they're also a bit bored with me...how can i change this...without becoming mentally four years older...i wouldn't mind putting some effort into keeping up with their topics of intrest ect...but i just don't think i can get to where it has taken them four years to get to intellectually so quickly...how can i get these guys to like me...i'd love to be in their company. they are really interesting.
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BFFL Drama
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 12:48 am
So, my best friend and I were hanging out the other day. He asked if I thought my sister had had sex with her boyfriend. I said "yes" and he called her a slut. He might have been joking, I'm not sure. So I was pissed (justifyibly, yes?). I was talking to my sisters boyfriend, and he mentioned him. I said "yeah I'm not very happy with him right now" and he said "why" and after much persuasion, and a threat to punch him in the face, I told him exactly why. Now my best friend is denying it, and not letting me explain. Who's at fault? Is it me, for telling Brandon, or my friend, for calling my sister a slut, or is it mine for telling him yes in the first place (and taking him seriously)?
Should I jus...
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My Friend
Posted Monday November 20 2006, 8:36 pm
Okay, so this isn't about this whole "She hates me, I hate her, how do I get revenge on her?" type of question. So, I have a lot of friends who are either gay or bi.
Well, this one guy who is a really good friend of mine declared he was gay this year. Well, some background info on him:
His parents are divorced and he HATES his stepdad who bribes him to like him by buying stuff for my friend (who we will call Joe). He has never gone out with a girl or a boy...for that matter. He has never had a relationship persay. It's more of a get together, make out..blah blah. He just turned 14 this September too.
Well, I'm kinda getting worried about him. In 6th grade, he's had gay sex with a guy and he's...
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was she wrong in what she did?
Posted Monday November 20 2006, 7:06 pm
last christmas me and one of my close friends decided to swap gifts. i bought her this really nice sally hansen nail polish set for $10 from CVS and i loved it so i got it for her. we traded gifts the next morning and i opened up a really cheap bracelet from claires with no tag, and an opened nail polish bottle with polish on the cap.
i'm not being selfish, but who would do that?
when i confronted her about the nail polish, she actually told me that she got it from her aunt, used it, and didn't like the color. how pathetic is that??
so after i confronted her and told her it was open, and that doing that is really rude, she turned all red and started saying "it's the thought that counts!" in my head i was sayin...
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What Food Should I make?
Posted Monday November 20 2006, 6:30 pm
okay im in a class called BCIS. which is like computer. and i sit next to one of my best friends, and this other guy whos awesome. well i bring food everytime to that class. bake cookies, bring food jsut for the fun of it cause everyones happy when i bring food :] last time i brought Mike n Ikes. i have BCIS tomorrow. what snack should i bring??
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