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xmas present
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 2:20 am
my friend has these sheets on her bed: http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a260/blondefailure2/bed.jpg and she needs a new comforter for christmas. I've looked at a few websites to try to find a good color match, but haven't been able to find one. Does anyone know of a store that sells a nice comforter that would match the colors of those sheets pretty well? Thanks.
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why is it wrong to date a friend's ex?
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 12:18 am
why is it wrong to date a friend's ex? i just dont get why i wouldnt do it but i still dont know why but also my friend was asking why. because she liked a this one guy and her friend knew that she likes him and she even said"im not gonna go out with him hes like my brother i wouldnt do that to her" but next thing you know she's going out with him, and i think shes mad at her about this she said she would go out with him if he asked her out but i said " i think its wrong" but she said "well i had a right to get mad at her too" what do you think about this situation?
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Posted Saturday December 2 2006, 4:09 pm
14/f
My friend thinks that I'm anorexic. She even told me she thinks it, because according to her I've gotten "bonier". I don't know what to say or do because there is absolutely no way that I am anorexic. I mean yes there have been a few nights where I've skipped dinner because of pure exhaustion, and i don't always eat lunch in school, but i still maintain a healthy eating pattern. I started high school this year, and between stress and joining the swim team and swimming 4 times a week, i lost about 6-7 pounds. But I'm still 5'1, 122 lbs which is a little bit above average. What should I do to make her believe me? Talking hasn't helped much.
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i dont know if the is the correct category
Posted Saturday December 2 2006, 2:10 pm
i really like this kid, like alot. my friend tom said that hes gonna ask me out, but he doesnt know when. i really wanna go out with him, but everyone hates him and they say hes wierd and stuff. but i dont know, if he asks me out should i go out with him?
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Birthday Gifts
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 11:37 pm
What are some good gifts for Sweet 16's? I've never been to one and I'm 14/f bye the way. I don't have much money to splurge ongifts so low costs will be wished for.
I'm trying to buy a gift for my friend and she's turning 16. I don't know what to get her.
Any creative ideas? Details are awesome
Thanks
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avoiding me
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 11:34 pm
im a sophomore... soo this guy who i met last year and talked to him sometimes during school... well i ran into him a few times sometime after school started back this year, and after a little bit he started runnin outta class to see me in the halls, would come by my locker after school to talk to me and walk with me to the bus, and call me every night sometimes numerous times if i didnt answer, for like at least a month straight. i was never mean to him i was always nice and stuff but all of a sudden he quit callin, quit comin to talk to me, and is giving me the cold shoulder. he'll walk right by my locker without even looking at me, and the other day when he passed me i walked up behind him and tapped him on the shoulder to say hey and h...
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Third Wheel.
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 10:32 pm
Alright, well.
Me and this girl recently met and we became like, instant best friends. She calls me whenever she needs me, I call her whenever i need her, so on and so forth. And we have a cool time together whenever we hang out and she lets me know I'm her best friend.
But whenever we're hanging out with 1+ people, I know it sounds sort of selfish, but I feel ignored. I'm not an attention whore or anything, but I'd still want SOME acknowledgement from my best friend that I'm alive, you know? I don't know if it's cause me and her hang out so much it's like a breath of fresh air or what, but I've tried limiting space for a week or so now and we finally hung out tonight, and it still happened. I had to tell her t...
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Well, I have the worst friend on the planet. Isn't that nice
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 7:05 pm
Basically, I am friends with a back-stabbing jerk. She tried to get one of my best friend's boyfriend to break up with her, succeded in getting another one of my best friend's boyfriend to break up with her and is about to go out with him, cussed me out, she lies all the time, talks about me and all of my friends behind our backs, cussed me out again, and her mission in life is to make me and my best friend stop being friends. She makes fun of EVERYONE and she doesn't even know them. I'm so tired of her and all the drama that she is causing with me and everyone else! She always tells my friend that we leave her out when she's the one choosing to be left out, which is driving me crazy! Is there some magical way to stop being friends with this girl?
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Best friend
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 6:23 pm
I have a best frined in the whole world. I'm 13 and we litterly grew up together. But she had this friend a while ago who was her 2nd best friend then hurt her badley nad then hated her. But now she forgave her and there close freinds again but not as close as befor. But i hate that girl she hurt my Best freind and i could never forgive her again. But should i be frineds with the girl since there friends? because i dnt think i can forgive her. should I or should i not>
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Friends
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 6:09 pm
Ok, last year I think I went through one of the most horrible things a 14 year old girl could go through, my bsf(best sister friend) got really jealous of me, and mad at me when I saw how bad me and her (and other friends) acted. So, she did stuff to make me gain weight, and then at one point, she just stopped hanging out with me, and got my other 2 bff's to leave me. So I speant 3 months by myself and being my own best friend. Now, today, I hate myself, I'm super shy(i used to be outgoing) and I never talk to much! And I want to make new friends but it seems like I'm to shy too! I need advice on how to love myself and tips on how to gain a friendship.(I'm sorry that I'm asking for advice on two things, I couldn't find a place that looked right for hating yourself and stuff..)
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Fighting Friends
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 5:50 pm
My friends and i have been friends for 1 year.recently we got mad at each other and we are not talking.I dont know if we should be friends again or not.But here is the thing...everybody is saying that im the one who is ignoring her when she started all this and everybody thinks im the bad person.She calls me everyday but i don talk to her.Any advice?Thanx alot!And how can i make her stop calling me every damn day.
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HELP PLEASE
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 4:22 pm
Okay so i have this friend right well actually she's a bfffffffffffffffffffffff i swear like a sister she is litterly my sister but anyways this girl wants to fight me right yeh ok . well ive been asking for my bff for help and she's just igoring it and so today i asked her to come on the bus home with me and she's like yeh at 1st then she made up an exucuse but thats not all i have another bff and she's being soo gay like yelled at my bff jessica to give me my sweater back but she's like actually no give me the sweater because scenar ( yep thats me) said i can have it witch i didnt say and she's taking my sister away and acting like theyve known each other for yearss and their bffs i dont know its just like anoying the shit outta me
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bi friend...need help
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 4:01 pm
15/f. at my school there is this group of people that most people call "goth", "emo", or "punk". but i hate labels and most people are afraid of them and don't talk to most of them. i guess you can call me "preppy" or a "girlie-girl" but again i hate labels and i wear and dress how i want to. okay so to get back on topic this is a guy at my school who is bi so a lot of peple to talk to him. especially the guys, they make fun of him and are like afraid to sit near him or talk to him.
well this kid is in my chorus class and like the second day of class we started talking and i realized that he is REALLY NICE. so we always sit next to each other in chorus and talk all the time. ...
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how do i gat him back.
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 3:41 pm
okay well last year me and this guy were really close friends. but during the summer we didnt talk at all & when we got back to school this fall he wont even talk to me and says he hates me. i dont understand how he could just like foget about me. i wanna try to talk to him but i havent had a normal convo with him in soo long i would feel super awkward. what could i do to try to be friends with him again.?
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should i fight her
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 12:17 pm
ok so i think collage and school is soo important to me
but there's this one girl who wants to fight me because i liked her rebound boy and she went crazzy so weve been fighting for days now and today she came up to my face and i called her a slut but see i dont want to fight her because it will show on collage records and im like a good student but not a nerd you know what should i do
helppppp??
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trust issues
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 11:47 am
so lately i was hospitalized for o.d.ing on seroquel and now my friends dont trust me and are total assholes about the situation and i just want to move on with my life but they keep bringing it up. what should i do? i feel like im losing the ppl who are my everything
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Lesbian friend getting WAY too close.
Posted Friday December 1 2006, 12:13 am
16/female.
Let me just start out by saying that I am a STRONG believer of gay marriage, and I have absolutely NO problem with homosexuals in the slightest.
One of my friends is a lesbian, and I love her because she's amazing, she really is. But, lately she's been really touchy feely. She writes me notes saying, "I know you're in denial, I know you're conservative & straight, but you should atleast experiment & give it a try." I AM straight, I was born it, so I can't just change and be a lesbian, that's what I think & feel. I'm not attracted to her at all.
She'll like come up to me in the halls at school, and hug me and kiss my neck and shove me up against a locker, and it s...
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left out AGAIN!
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 6:31 pm
Ok, i have my best friend, lets call her (kristy) ans i have another friend, lets call her (shannon). Ok, well i always have had kristy as my best friend but ever since last year shannon has kinda made me feel like the third wheel. Ok, well she wont let me sit by kristy at lunch anymore cuz i used to everyday. Now, kristy has kinda left me for her and she hangs out with all these different people now. I have the same freinds she has but all the friends like her so much better. When me and kristy go to places together and stuff, like basketball games at our school all of our friends will say hi to her but not me. They think she is just so facinating. When she takes me to some of the games she always talks to other people and not to me and no...
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attitude problem
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 5:26 pm
alot of the older kids at my school say that i have an attiude problem, and i don't like that going around but i don't know how to fix it, i don;t think i do, but they obviously do. any advice?
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strictly friends...is it possible?
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 4:49 pm
(i'm 14/f, if that helps at all)
I have a really good friend that likes me. or did like me... i dunno if he still does. but i don't like him. things aren't really awkward typically, but he seems to get annoyed with me when i hang out with his best friend. his friend and i are really good friends too, and (to an outside person) it seems like we flirt, but we don't really. People think both Guy 1 and 2 like me, but its very unlikely that guy 2 does.
so my question is: how do I de-drama this? I don't want to hurt anyone, and i don't want either of them to like me. I just want to be friends with them, cause they/re both amazing guys. If there any guys who might have a guy perspective, that'd be amazing. but I'll take any advice i can get! :-)
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