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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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So sick o it


Posted Sunday December 10 2006, 10:45 am

sarah goes through these phases. one minute she'll be like OMG BFF Love you so much, then the next she'll kinda ignore me. it's soooooooooo annoying! for ex. i did somethin really nice by takin her, me and her other closest friends to the poconos this weekend to celebrate her birthdya which was on friday. all durin the trip she was= like really good, but then when we got back saturday night, she started like bein weird. its hard to explain.

i dont know why she does this but im really sick of it. wat should i do? i dont think i can talk to her.

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shop 4 friends!!


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 11:42 pm

ok well christmas is coming up.4 of my closests friends told me they were gonna give me something&i think it would be nice if i got them something too....the question is what!
1 of my friends said she was gonna get me something "big" meaning something expensive and i dont really have alot of money so what will be pretty and look expensive at the same time?? any ideas??

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my best friend


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 10:12 pm

my best friend is becoming reeaaaallly close with one of my other friends. they now have plans all the time and now my best friend talks to her about all her problems and secrets when before she used to do that with me. they aren't mean to me but i just feel replaced or becoming more distant from her.

should i talk to her or what?

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annoyed.


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 9:01 pm

okay my best has to do everything i do, and lately its getting on my last nerve.

first, i got my hair cut & she got hers the same way.
second, i got the ipod nano, shes getting one.
third, i wanted the chocalate phone, now she wants one.
forth, i changed my mind about the chocolate phone got the razr, now she wants the razr & the same color.
fifth, i just started shopping at hollister now she has to shop there.
sixth, im getting a perm & now shes getting a perm

ahh i cant take it anymore, help anyone?

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confused.


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 6:36 pm

So there is this guy who lives rather, a long distance away from me, I've never met him.
But we've talked for a while, actually for a few years+, and we've texted on phones, written letters, and waved and pulled faces at each other on webcam.

Thing is, i live in america,
he lives in england,
he wants to visit,
but he was like .. me and "someone" my friend, will come.
and that someone is a girl,
and he had been giving me the impression he had liked me, so why would he take a girl?

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friends or umm..?


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 5:19 pm

well i have this best friend lets say his name is umm starr lol anyways i figured out a few months ago that he liked me...a lot and like i told him a few days ago that since we were friends i couldnt hide anything from him and i told him i knew he liked me.. but now everything is all akward but the thing is we`re trying to get ourselves through it and we`re helping eachother get throught it.. we call eachother everyday which is kinda weird b/c the problem is us. but i`m really glad that we`re helping eachother b/c if we werent it would be really akward.. i guess i do like him a little but what am i so confused about?? and what should i do?

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I can't tell if he like me, or if he's just being friendly.


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 5:05 pm

I've liked this kid for a few months now, and we've become close friends. We talk all the time, and hes in half of my classes. But, because we've become so close, i can't tell if he likes me as a friend, or if he wants to be...more. In class, he talks to my friend and I, but he seems to pay attention to me more than her. When I started dating this kid 5 year older than me, and he got mad at me, and wouldn't talk to me for weeks, even after I had broken up with my boyfriend!

Do you think he likes me, or is he just watching my back?

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so confused


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 2:52 pm

13/f

ok so i have this friend. we kind of have had an on again off again friendship.
we used to be best friends but then we got into a bunch of fites that basicly tore apart our friendship (she ended up just telling me she didnt want to be that close)
naturally, after that we were kind of in one mean fight after the other. we hated each other at points. eventually we settled into just "ok" friends (i.e. we almost never called each other and we hung out but only in groups never by ourselves). recently, we got into a really bad b**** fight. it lasted like two weeks. it would take way too long to explain what it was about, so i wont, but basicly she got annoyed with me and i got pissed at her at around t...

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I think i just lost my best friend


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 1:28 pm

I've been best friends with this guy since freshman year and we use to call each other almost daily on a regular basis to chat. Even after i changed schools we still talked and stuff. But recently he got a girlfriend (off of WoW3) which really surprised me since he use to grip about how retarded online relationships. After that, he totally changed. He stopped talking to me, spent so much time (pretty much when hes not in school) with his girlfriend on the phone or online (she lives in chicago, we live in cali) and just got so obssessed with her. Shes two years older and planning on moving to california when he graduates from high school and goes to college (this year). Just these few weeks, it became apparent that his girlfriend real...

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Bitches


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 12:59 pm

This girl i have talked about before. We'll just call her sandy; she is a liar, backstabber, and a two face bitch. We used to be bestfreinds for like 6 months we were really close then her true face came out. all she wanted to do was talk about other people and i sreiously dont do that shit, its not me. id rather make freinds then enimies but she thinks oppisite. Anyway last night one of my bestfreinds (lets call her sally) slep over last night and my boyfriend so i told her to call her boyfriend and tell him to come over too since i fell bad to have my boyfirend over and her's wasnt there. anyway, she called him (lets call him bill) and was talking to him (bill is friends with this girl's "the bich" brother and any chance she g...

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irritating!


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 12:19 pm

I have these group of friends and two of them are really very irritating!!! I just can't seem to talk sense into them! I'm so frustrated! They can really argue with you over the simplest, stupidest, dumbest things in the world!

Like for instance, they were talking bout chocolate fondue and I told them that I liked fondue because I like the fact that when I put a marshmellow into the fondue, the chocolate will harden over the marshmellow.

Their comments? Well, they like to roll their eyes(always! And its so darn friggin irritating ok!) and they'll have that you-are-so-stupid look and they'll start explaining and say "No! The chocolate doesn't harden over the marshmellow! That's dumb! It should stay liquid...

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Feeling left out..


Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 10:20 am

14/f

Okay, well, I have two firends, let's call them Peggy and Patty (haha idk). And anwyays, we've been pretty close, you know having sleepovers and what not. Well, Peggy and Patty have been very close for pretty much their whole lifes. It was about like,maybe two years ago, when I became close to BOTH of them, when all 3 of us started hanging out. We went to Washington DC for a class trip, and they were int he room with me. I've bene friends wth Peggy for 5 years now. Well, anwyays, lately, since they do basketball together, and even before b-bal season started,they've been having sooo many sleepovers just about everyday, going places together, etc. IT's like they're glued to eachtoher. THey claim that they dn't inv...

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I'm shy (but I don't want to be!)


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 11:36 pm

Hey everybody. My problem is this: I'm so sick of being shy.It's ruining my life! I know some people say to just be yourself, but its very hard for me to do that. How do I just let loose? It seems so easy for people to just be themself. If you don't mind sharing with me, how do you do that?? Thanks. Any advice is appreciated. :)

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lieing


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 10:25 pm

how do you know when a friend is lieing?


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she's dead.. :[[[


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 9:40 pm

a girl in my school named courtney died last night in a tragic car crash. my friends whose mother recently died was friends with this girl so it really hurt her. i was crying, too, but she's been through so much more. i don't know what to do on this one, guys. im grieving but i want to be there for my friend at the same time. i don't know what to do. please help me.

thankyou in advance.
and god bless courtney, she will be loved and missed ... :'[

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he likes me, he likes me not ...


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 9:05 pm

well I`m a little bit confused, so I need ya`lls opinion -

theres a guy, we`ll call him Ryan. He`s pretty much my best friend; we`re really close. he tells me a lot & vise-versa. Well I really like him. He`s everything I guy should be. Sweet, funny, and not to mention gorgeous.
A few days ago, I asked him who he likes, and he won`t tell me, which is a first. He`s really flirty with me, and he always stares at me. he`s called me gorgeous and compliments me, and during the summer I knew he liked me, but I just figured he stopped due to lack of seeing each other. My best friend who makes really good sense of these situation thinks its me, because she said, "why would he lead you on but have it be another girl?&q...

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Gift Ideas


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 8:39 pm

God, I have a huge prob right now....
I have A LOT of friends, and I mean REALLY alot, and they're mostly girls.
Our party is nearing and that's the only time I can give them gifts cuz we won't be seeing each other from then on cuz it's our Christmas break.
The party's already next week and here's the prob--I haven't bought anything yet! As in I haven't bought a single damn thing.

Please give me gift ideas that are cheap becuase I'm on a really tight budget.

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Runaway


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 12:25 pm

Yesterday I ran away.
I've been ditching alot and I have plans in life with my friends and they are like everything to me.
I hate school.
I hated being home so much I asked my friend if I could stay at her house and my mom hates her. she said no because she didnt want the cops coming to her house.
She took me home and I stayed there for an hour and I cried and I stopped a realized I didn't want to be there
I live in las vegas so I pretty much walked 20 miles to my friends house and I stayed there.
I felt bad but I had nowhere to go and I just needed to be away for the weekend.
Well my mom found her number and called her and threatened to get the police on her.Well instead she told her to come...

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friend troubles


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 1:30 am

my friend is being really distant right now. do you think it is just a stage (weve been friends most our lives) and we just need some time apart or is it something else. what should i do.

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my friend steals my guys


Posted Friday December 8 2006, 12:37 am

EVERYTIME i like a guy, flirt with a guy, a guy flirts with me, i get a chance with someone......

MY bestfriend goes after him. EVERYTIME!

she's a lot more "easy" & "pushy" with guys than i am and she'll do things like hook up with the guy i have a crush on at a party when i'm not there.

I HAVE confronted her about it and we fought for about a month....i found new friends.....BUT she's my favorite person to be around! i ALWAYS have a blast with her and we both laugh at everything. The problem is she's NOT loyal. i told her that. and she apologized...i gave her a second chance....We made up and she promised she would work on it. A year has gone by and NOTHING has gone wrong...

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