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my best friend is mad because I won't sleep with him
Posted Friday December 22 2006, 6:07 pm
I told my best (male) friend that I wouldn't sleep with him. We had been friends for 3 years and really cared about each other. I felt that he was my "soul mate". The problem was that he is trapped in a bad marriage- really bad. They have nothing in common and fight constantly. People say they are like oil and water. I almost think he is afraid of her. They have never had kids and she is older than him with two grown kids who are heroin addicts. lt time I saw him he hinted we should fool around. I told him that as long as he were married I wouldnt sleep with him. Now he wants nothing to do with me. So does that mean he was never intending on leaving her and just wanted an affair? Because I think he really did care about...
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friend problem
Posted Friday December 22 2006, 3:07 pm
i recently got back in contact with an old friend after several years,everything was going good and we were talking everyday.for no reason at all he has stopped contacting me and hasnt even had the guts to tell me why.i tried calling him but we only spoke for a few secs so i wasnt able to really get to the bottom of things.im very confused as to why he would do this,and i,ve tried not letting it bother me but it still is.what do you guys think of this?
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x-mas gifts!
Posted Friday December 22 2006, 10:22 am
my friend gave me a bracelt by mariah carey that cost about 12 bucks and it was okay but i didn't like it that much. she gave our other frined a chain that said best and then she has the friends but it cost 3 bucks i think. i was mad beause of it. i didn't care how much it cost, i liked the best frinds thing because we have been frinds longer and it was impoetant to me that she told me she apprciated it.i ddin't care about the cost.my best best freind hurt me by just ignoring me and like kind of abandoning me without no explanation because she gose to a new school. and i am uptight about me other best freind. maybe i am being to mean. it's x-mas.now she is mad andis complaining about me being mean and i wore the gift and evrything but i got...
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Sleeping
Posted Friday December 22 2006, 8:24 am
Would it wrong to take a nap with your boyfriend or girlfriend? on the sofa or something?
I dont know, for some reason, I dont think my mom would agree. I'm just wondering too, I'm curious, what most parents would think of this?
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Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 6:03 pm
okay so me and my best friend are still really close but she has become friends with a different friend group and i would really much so want to be friends with them. i guess you could say they were the "punk/emo" kids. i talk to a few but whenever i'm around them when i'm with my bf i don't really talk. i get like shy and block myself out. i feel like anti social. what do i say to them to start like becoming friends. i've never really had to try to become friends with anyone like this. it just kind of happened for me. help.
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My friends best friend?
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 5:50 pm
Well I have this friend we will call her D, and she is like SO awesome and I LOVE hanging out with her! But D is has a bestfriend(not me were just good friends but im her 2nd bff) her bff treats her like dirt. I dont want to tell her because she will probably get mad at me or something.
And D sometimes treats me that way too because i guess she is use to having people treat her like that but whenever I say anything to her about it shes always like "Chill Im just kidding" but shes sooo mean when she does it!
So what do I do//Tell her?
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food
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 4:22 pm
ok i need quick finger desserts for around 30 teenagers by tommorow night and i dont know what to do. help please
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stuck in the middle!
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 4:05 pm
Well since Christmas is coming up soon, and new years too. I want to throw a party. I’ve got everything planned… but I have 1 little problem-
You see, I met these 2 girls last year. Amy and Laura. Well, I did something really stupid.
I like both of these girls as friends, but then this year, we separated into different school classes. Amy and I have classes together, but then Laura doesn’t see us at all in school.
Well, there are some things that Laura has done, that Amy didn’t like. So pretty much, Amy hates Laura, but Laura still likes Amy.
Now here comes my stupid thing- I told Amy that I didn’t like Laura either! I don’t know why I told her that.
But whenever I do...
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Becoming closer
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 3:55 pm
I have "aquaintences" in my town. i've never acutally had a "main group" or real friend. i've never had someone say "aww,,i love you ______!!" in a friend way. and it makes me really sad. because i want to be close with people but i just feel like they dont like me. and i dont know how to open up or be friendly or start convos. how do i do that stuff? im not in the "loop" or anything. and this girl that i dont really like hangs around me ALLLL the time and i think that makes people not like me. i really dont want to be rude to her but seriously i dont like it at all. how can i find friends that care about me? any help, tips?
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The Breakdown!
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 11:24 am
Ok so I've know this girl forever it feels like. Shes is soooo my best friend. I mean lately we've been getting in a LOT of personal fights. I think that it has something to do with how much time she has been spending with her sister. ((step sister)). . .
Her sister isnt a good influence. Together they have been completely inseperable. But I mean her sister is like three years older than her. And her sister HATES me; for no reason; she doesnt even know me.
I mean with out her sister around Megan and I are like the BEST of friends.
What do I do?
Signed,
Confused && Broken!
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Who do i trust?
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 12:38 am
Ok, so there is this guy i like and i think that he might like me back but im not sure. we wil call him bill. But overall i wanted to keep my crush on bill a secret but i did tell a few friends. lately the word that i liked him spread all over school and i asked one of the girls who asked me if i like bob who she heard it from. She said she heard it from "Roy" bills best friend and "lila" the girl Bill supposedly likes as well. I confronted Lila and she said she wouldnt do that and she never even heard that rumor and she thinks that it was one of my good friends "paula".But she never heard her say it. I cant sort of see paula doin this but not really...heck i dont know. Im friends with lila too but not as good ...
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Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 12:12 am
okay, i have three best friends. at least i thot they were my friends. im not really sure now. one of them will start toking to me and will be like hey blank, and blank (my other bffs.) are over. and ill be like oh, hey. in like a depressing voice because im sad they didnt invite me. theyll be like r you okay? y r you mad? ill be like um im fine. they dont ever invite me over but there always like oh i luv u so much! i dont know wut to do.
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Guy trouble... need as much information as possible...
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:55 pm
I need as much information as possible!! it's highly apreciated!!!!!!
Ok, i'm normally one to give advice, and it'e driving me insane, because i'm stuck in this situationand i feel as if i'm cornered. This guy i've liked for a good couple of months now, just started really talking to him this week and last week and a little from the week before. But we just now really started getting into deeper conversations. I really like him he's sweet, considerate, and never ditches me for his other guy friends. He talks to me and yesterday when he was driving me home, we talked and I felt like I was in heaven. But he talks to me about this one girl he wants to ask out.... yes it totally crashes my moment. And he tells me that he doesn't ...
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This guy i've liked....
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:10 pm
Ok, i'm normally one to give advice, and it'e driving me insane, because i'm stuck in this situationand i feel as if i'm cornered. This guy i've liked for a good couple of months now, just started really talking to him this week and last week and a little from the week before. But we just now really started getting into deeper conversations. I really like him he's sweet, considerate, and never ditches me for his other guy friends. He talks to me and yesterday when he was driving me home, we talked and I felt like I was in heaven. But he talks to me about this one girl he wants to ask out.... yes it totally crashes my moment. And he tells me that he doesn't know if he wants to go out with her or not because he dumped his last GF a few weeks ...
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Not pretty Enough
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:04 pm
Well My bestfriend is really pretty at school she gets called beautiful and pretty alot and i get called pretty to but not as much as her she always gets called pretty and at shops guys always check her out and igts lke im invisable shes 13 im 14 and i want to be noticed like i want people to look at me and call me pretty and like i said they do but not as much and sometime si get upset cause when some does call her pretty she acts cute then everyone says your so cute
Please Help !!!
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our clique blew up in our face!!!!!!
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 4:21 pm
last year we had a big clique it was me ,my fav friendjasmine,brandi,serean,christa,kerra,chelsi,ferrin,neri,and thats it.this year is different neri,chelsea,serean moved away and kerra found a new group and ferrin has 2nd lunch so its me brandi jasmine and christa.Jasmne was my best friend since the third grade and we are now in the 8th.the clique was ok at first then i started to go by jasmines house almost every ek end and we would tak about all the fun things that happened and our little inside jokes we had and christa and randi never said nothing at the lunch table so one day jus stopped eating lunch with us when i asked bandi why she said we dont never know what you two be talking about half of the time and now they sit with other fre...
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im losing friends...sorta
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 3:57 pm
I have been dating my boyfriend about 2 years now.anyhow well we are really really close,and I am completely in love with him..I mean never could fall deeper. I have known him like 6 years and dated him for 2 of them..and well its like a lot of my friends say I am too clingy to him and do not want to hang out with me anymore..what do i do?
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Old friends....New friends
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 3:44 pm
I've always been kind of a drifter. I had 2 groups of friends "the immature" and "the popular". I've tryed to decide who I wanted to be friends with. I decided the popular group because they like the things I like and are more matture. But my old friends don't want to let me go. They keep inviting me over but I say I cant because im already going to my other friends houses. And at school im taking to my friends and they all run up to me and are like "Hey whats up!?! Why dont you talk to us." So me and my friends just walk away. I don't feel guilty. HOW DO I DROP THEM? Because they're trying to stick to me like glue. I seriosly just dont want to talk to them. because if I say "Hey." when im walking they try to link arms and tell me about their life.
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shy friend
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:52 am
how do you make a shy friend un-shy? lol this sounds weird but believe me this is the right thing to do
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I'm becoming what I hate!!!!!
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 3:39 am
To start 17/m,
I have a SERIOUS problem that is going to destroy me if I don't do something quick. For those of you that are familiar with the wheel of fortune e.i. "What goes around comes around" my entire life is on the verge of falling apart. I have just realized that I'm slowly turning into the monster I always said I would never become. Nothing but sarcasm spews from my mouth, I say horribly mean things to all my friends and loved ones. I told myself last year "I'm never gonna be like my brother because I'm shy, overweight and ugly." My brother would also tease me about that. Now its the opposite. I don't know what to do. I have this feeling that my entire life is going to circle the drain here very soon. So any advice can and will help, thank you.
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