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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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they hate me because im ugly


Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 5:42 pm

waht should i do everybody hates me because im ugly how can i make me pretter so i can have more friends

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i like this guy who has a girlfriend


Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 5:19 pm

Ok i like this guy that has a girlfriend, they say they dont know if they are goin out or not because they never talk but still they dont break up. the guy i like has no clue that i like him and i am friends with his girlfriend. i dont want to hurt his girlfriend but they dont even like one another and i LIKE him. should i tell him or what?

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feeling low


Posted Monday December 25 2006, 7:49 pm

well me and my friends a&b are really close. we always have fun(i'm c if you were wondering) and hang out all the time, but sometimes a treats me and b like were useless and were not worthy to be her friend because her sis is in 8th grade. BIG WHOOP. and she sometimes hangs out with her sis and her sis's friends and she acts all cool around them. i think that they are bad examples.for instance we were in church for christmas eve mass and they were laughing the whole time and being disrespecful. sometimes she is so fun and so nice and other times she acts like she is better than us in everything. I want to say something to her but what do i say that doesn't ruin our friendship 4ever??? please help me i need adice fast me and b are starti...

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old best friend ..


Posted Monday December 25 2006, 3:03 pm

alriight so my friend lucy used to be like my best friend. she moved but we still kept in touch and hung out every now and then. it's hard though becaus we're both busy with our lives. we always plan on hanging out but it kinda falls through, and i was gonna go to a party at her house for her birthday but they were all getting drunk so i didnt go. i want to hang out with her, but every time we've tried its fell through so i haven't seen her for a year (except when i saw her for like 2 seconds at the beach). i know if you're truly friends no matter how long its been it'll be like old times, but i just dunno what to do when we're together. i dont wanna just hang at my house because that would be boring. any ideas or helpp? thanks

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So annoying!!


Posted Monday December 25 2006, 2:55 pm

Libby always follows Vanessa around all the time! It's sooo annoying. Everyone notices, even Vanessa. Like if we're at a party, Libby is like Vanessa's shadow. I can't talk to Vanessa or be with her without Libby popping up. And if I'm with Libby she always leaves to go find Vanessa. V is annoyed w/ it too. Libby is such a follower it bugs me. I can't talk to Libby ab it because its hard to explain.. like i dont want to make a big deal ab it. Should I just leave it alone and let Libby figure it out for herself? Or what?

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How do I get his attention?


Posted Sunday December 24 2006, 5:44 pm

There is this boy that I go to school with, let's call him Ricky. I added Ricky's myspace a few months ago and we started talking a little more ever since. We hardly ever talk since all of the girls at school are ALL over him, and it seems like he doesn't want to talk to me. A few days ago we were talking and he asked me to walk with him somewhere, but the other girls lead him away. I know I need to step up my game, but how?!

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my best friend


Posted Sunday December 24 2006, 4:27 pm

15/f

i have this friend that i admire. she always makes me laugh and shes just amazing and shes always been there for me. ever since this school year started she made so many new friends, and i kinda got jealous so i didnt really pay attention to her because i wanted to see if she would do anything. she still acts really nice to me when the few times i actually do see her. im just kinda sad cause i dont see her as much as i used to and im afraid of being replaced by someone else. am i doing the right thing by not paying attention to her? if not what should i do?

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back-stabbing friend


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 5:41 pm

i have ...well i used to have this "best friend" and shes always been there for me and we've been through so much together, for 3, almost 4 years you cant even imagine how much we've been through. ever since 10th grade started shes been ignoring me and acting like a complete jerk and im really sick of it. shes not treating me like she used to at all. and the problem is i cant really get away from her because some of my friends are friends with her and i wanna spend time with those friends but not with her. im just so sick of her being like this i tried talking to her and she was just like "im not treating you bad.." should i just get rid of her? what should i do?

PLEASE HELP. =[

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beyonddd annoying


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 5:28 pm

So, say my friends April, Vanessa and I are planning on hanging out on Friday. So, Friday night I will call Vanessa and she NEVER picks up her house phone or cell phone. Like, I'll have talked to about hanging out the day before, not made exact plans but mentioned it and she'll be like oh yeah I think I can. Then the day of it, we'll try to contact her and we won't be able to. So then we don't do anything. It's so frusterating because it ruins my night because I'll try to contact her up til the last minute and then it's too late to do anything else. It's really annoying & frusterating. What should I do?

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best friend


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 1:44 pm

15/f

I have this best friend and we have been friends for 11 years. Well she is kinda hard to buy for durring the holidays. She never really say what she likes and what she doesnt. I know her realyy well but when it comes to buying gifts its hard. Most years i can find something good and it works out but this year i coulnt. I had no clue what to get her, but her favorite store is american egale. So worst came to worst and got her a giftcard to there for 30$. Is that a bad gift? We have been friends for so long a gift card seems unthoughful. I feel like a bad friend.

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Best Friend


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 12:26 pm

Hey Advicenators!
I'm 13, female.
I have a best friend named Chelsea and I want to make a scrapbook and special things with her.
Anyone know of quote sites, icon sites, books, or songs that could be perfect for us?!

PLEASE!

<3

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Fighting alot with friends


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 10:56 am

Okay me and my friend Lupe and Julie have been fighting alot. We always forgive each other. Our other friends Aimee Jhoanna Cassandra and Vikram say we should just stop being friends. What should I do?

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Replaced.


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 10:34 am

Hey everyone [:

Ok, so i just came into highschool this year, and i made some amazing senior friends, let's call them A, B, and C. Well, i have a friend, D, that is so much better than me, and has replaced me multiple times with different people. D started hanging out with A,B, and C. One day, i got into a fight with A because of B.

following me?

Ok, so then D became all close with A, B, and C. And now they barely talk to me anymore because they are all obsessed with D. Whenever i am with them and her, i am so left out and not talked to, that i walk away and they don't notice.

What should i do? i have talked to them about it but they said i could "never be replaced." Too bad it already happened.

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Just Friends...


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 2:54 am

I have known this boy JD ever sense I was 2 because I went to his day care that his dad owned. Now in 8th grade we are still best friends, and I think that is WAY cool! And some people also think that's real cool too, but most of them make fun of us and say that we like eachother! Then one day his sister told me at school that he liked me more then a friend! I was shocked because I just couldn't believe it! I told her that I didn't believe it, but the next day I turned from "Medium Clique" to "Instant Popularity Clique". I have a crush on his best friend and he actually talked to me! A while later I walked over to J.D. and I asked him what was going on and stuff and he ran away totally embarased, and I didn't know why! ...

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boyfriend, bestfriend


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 1:07 am

My friend has recently gotten in the way between me and my boyfriends relationship. Back when I was dating a guy that I hardly ever saw, she was fine with it. We three would hangout together and nothing was akward or strange at all. Ever since I've been dating this new guy, (whom i see on a regular basis and not just every other weekend) shes been nagging about everything having to do with him. She says that we haven't been spending alot of time together, which was true. But now I'm making more of an effort to balance out boyfriend and bestfriend. But latly shes been attacking everything to do with him. She refuses to hangout with just me and him because it would be "akward" but yet she can explain why is it. We never hookup in pu...

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Should i be mad at my friend?


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 10:45 pm

So my friend and cousin are going out.I helped hook them up.They have only been going out for like almost 4 weeks.My cousin is a straight up player and i tell my friend that.But anyways my friend had sex with my cousin when they have only been going out for 3 weeks.Then she called me right away and texted me just to tell me that she had sex with him.Like she was proud of it.My cousin is almost 18 and shes 15.She will do anything to stay together.So she lies to me about stuff saying she broke up with him then tells my cousin there going out.I cant trust her.So what should i do?Should i be mad at her for this?Please give me advice asap because its sressing me out.

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"i feel so bad for her"


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 9:43 pm

I have this really good friend, Mary, and her "supposeidly" best freind is Kate. Well whenever Kate can't hang out or leaves a party early ors eomthing Mary is always like "I just feel really bad for Kate." And maybe she does and all but Mary says she feels bad for Kate like twice a day-no joke. The sad thing is, Kate doesn't give a crap about Mary. She never includes Mary when Mary gets Kate invited everywhere she goes. I am kind of fed up with is cause they say they are best freinds when really Kate doesn't even care for Mary. I don't know if I should talk to Mary cause Kate is her best freind... but what should I do?

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Feeling hated..


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 8:34 pm

OK so, all of a sudden I feel hated by like everyone. I can't stand it, I feel like I'm not wanted [anywhere] anymore. Not even at home! Does anybody have a reason to this? .. Some comforting advice? ...


-Thanks

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Is my one of my best friends a mini Regina George?


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 7:42 pm

You know in the movie "Mean Girls" the character Regina George? One of my very best friends Katherine has a lot in common with her. First off, everyone wants her to like them. If she walks to the left, so will everyone else. If she's sad, everyone wants to be the one to solve her problem so that she will like them best. Even I find myself falling into this trap. She's mostly like this when she is with her other friend, Emma. Emma and Katherine can both be very nice people, but not when they are together. I love hanging out with Katherine, but when Emma walks in the door, I disapear. Its not fair! How do I make her stop doing this to me?

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Third wheel...:[


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 7:17 pm

Ok, to make this really short, I'm becoming the third wheel in my frienship. My best friend recently started dating one of our other guy friends. We used to all hang out, us a other people too, but now its just me, her and her boyfriend and I feel as though I'm becoming the third wheel. What can I do about this?

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