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I don't know what to do--obviously
Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 9:40 pm
There's this girl named Jenna and she's a grade level higher than I am. She's my good friend and all but I envy her sometimes especially in the guy section. I'm gonna be mean and say that she's not the pretty skinny type or has that good of a personality. She's really bossy and controlling and kind of dull sometimes going on and on about dresses...
Well, I like these guys that are in her grade and they're good friends of mine also. The thing is that Jenna always seems to beat me to them some way or another. She doesn't know I like them--no one does--so it's not like she's stealing them from me deliberately. But this one guy that I am soo crushing on--she went out with him last year--twice. This other guy that I like, she wen...
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Is it selfish that i miss her??
Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 9:20 pm
Well i have this best friend and she has had a 6 month relationship with a guy and he is very violent and we dont really get along. But me and my best friend used to spend alot of time together and tell each other everything, but since she has had her boyfriend everything has changed and i can never get a minute alone with her to talk properly or even just to have a joke. I dont mean to be selfsish but i just want to be like it used to and go shopping together and stuff but now she is always with her boyfriend and i dont really see her much. I dont no what to do because i miss her soo much. It used to be ok because i used to get along with her boyfriend fine but now he just smacks you one for no reason and leaves bruses and all sorts and sh...
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i dont see y u want me as a friend..
Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 5:07 am
Hi , I met a friend in chatting ... we made friendship for a year... then later we started talking on phone .. it went for another 6 months ... wwe stay in different cities...one day we met ... things are fine ,,, some days later she was busy and i too in our jobs.. and we didnt spoke to each other for a week ....... then later when i tried to speak on phone she didnt respond ,,, and later i had sent a mail describing through reasons .. at last she had given a reply ,, with a million dollar question .... " i dont see y u want me as a friend..... and i cant fake ne thg wch i dont feel " ....... can u pls give an advice how to get our friendship as earlier ? do i get her friendship back ?
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Love 5 square?!!?
Posted Friday December 29 2006, 7:05 pm
Okay this might be a little confusing so I'm sorry if you dont get it. Okay I have three best friends N and CR are girls and L is a guy. CR is in love with C who she's had a weird chemistry since they were four. C likes N and N is starting to like C which makes CR really mad so she started using L as a distraction and she knows that I've been like in love with him for two years. Now when CR found out N and C kissed she asked L out and she's just using him!!! She told me herself she doesn't like him like she likes C and I don't know if I should tell L or not because he's so fricking clueless he's doesn't even know I like him!!!!!!
What should I do?!?!?!?!
(I need something)
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Exhusband's Birthday Present
Posted Friday December 29 2006, 4:08 pm
I want to get my exhusband something for his birthday, but I don't know what! It could be something funny because he has a good sense of humor... But it also needs to be special. Some people don't care squat about their ex's but I want to let him know I'm glad we're still friends. Here's a little about him.
He loves country music (esp. Toby Keith) and plays guitar. He's great with kids and has a wonderful sense of humor. Um... I don't know what else to say!
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tricky
Posted Friday December 29 2006, 11:57 am
14/F
okay, so there was a guy who used to go to school with me a few years ago, but then he moved to san francisco. i don't know anything else other than his first and last name. i don't even know if he still lives there. i want to get back in touch with him becuase we were really good friends. I just don't know what to do. can u help please?!?!?
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wat do i do
Posted Friday December 29 2006, 1:04 am
one friend that i have mentioned before has been relly gettin on ma last nerves. i was late for skool one day went up behind her and said "boo" the girl turned around and punched me in the face and i was ready to scream and cry but i didn't.All i could do was hold my nose.Then, another day i was in the lunchroom and i tripped on her bookbag and fell on her and she took he hand and dug her nails into my wrist and i started bleeding. i have been in so many arguements wit her and she says stuff behind peoples' backs. it wasn't pretty. please try to answer me right now!!! THANKS!!! and she said she is very nice. HA!!
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Friends with babies
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 10:14 pm
I don't know what category this would go in, so forgive me if it's in the wrong category.
Let's call my friend Jane.
And let's call her boyfriend John.
Okay, well, Jane and John, who were in 11th grade at the time, decided to have sex one day and Jane ended up pregnant. It just so happens, I liked John a lot, but I knew that Jane loved him with all her heart. Now Jane is talking about how hard it is being a mother of a 5-month-old and stuff. It's sort of making me jealous.
I'm just afraid that I'm going to go have sex with some guy I don't even like to have a baby and see what it's like.
So, my question is, Is there any way I can see how hard it is being a teen mot...
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Is this a selfish act??
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 9:57 pm
I'l try and make it as short as possible.
I have a best friend and we always fall for the same guys at exactly the same time. It gets anoyin because we cant make a move on a guy because we dont want to hurt each others feelings.
About a month ago my friend fell for a guy and secretly i did too but she found out and i told her that i would move on again and find someone else. So i moved on and found a guy and we began to get on really well. We both flirted alot and we began to get really close. Then my best friend tells me she has fallen for exactly the same guy and she tells him how she feels. We continue flirting but then she takes him to the cinema. they are about to go out and she doesnt understand how much she is hurting m...
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Am i going to say yes?
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 6:32 pm
I have crash on this guy for a while. I asked him out the first time, he said yes, but cancelled on me on the day we suppose to go out. And second time, he asked me out, but cancelled out again. Now he appolized and said let's go out next week. Am I going to say yes?
I don't want to show how easy I am that he can just cancel on me all the time without considering my feeling, but in the same time, I do want to go out with him.... What should I do?
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i dont want to lose our friendship..
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 11:55 am
Im 13\f i reallyyyy like this guy and i havnt meet anyone like him before. two of my best friends like him to i was okay with it because me and him talk everyday and i didnt think that he would just like forgett about me because he seems like he likes me. then he said one of my friends was pretty and nice and he was going to ask her out. i started crying and i told her that i didnt want her to because it was weird since i like him. and she got all mad at me because i was jelous but i knew him first and stuff but i dont wanna ask him out cuz it would ruin our friendship.
I REALLY NEED HELP!!! i cant take it anymore.
thanks<3
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Hanging out ?
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 4:02 am
I want to hang out with my friends more but every time I ask. No one will answer if they want to hang out.
I tried asking people but they say they are busy or something because of school and that we would hang out sometime later. Sometimes we do but usually we don't.
So it's break and I would love to get out... but what do I do?
I've been asking people for 3 days already and nobody will answer me.
Is something wrong with me? I didn't think I need anything wrong..
They said they should start acting more like friends but it hasn't happened.
Should I just give up and spend my days alone..?
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Bashings
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 2:23 am
Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?
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Am i mean for saying this?
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 1:55 am
21:33] me: hiiiiiii
[21:33] me: hahaha
[21:34] me: yeyeyye
[21:34] friend: hii
[21:34] me: oops wrong person
[21:34] me: ahahaha
[21:34] me: ok bye
[21:34] me: XD
[21:35] friend: okayy
[21:35] friend: how meann
[21:35] me: how is it mean
[21:36] me: it was wrong person
[21:36] friend: haha nvm
[21:36] friend: byeeeeeeee
[21:36] me: ok bye
[21:36] friend: where do you have to go
[21:36] friend: ?
[21:36] me: no where
[21:36] friend: us aid
[21:36] friend: youu said ok by
[21:36] me: cause u said bye
[21:36] me: i wasnt supposed to im you
[21:36] me: haha
[21:36] me: so yeah ...
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Why?
Posted Wednesday December 27 2006, 10:10 pm
Ok well i got these friends who when i first meet them we were really good friends and we stayed like that for two year while every now and then get unlittle fights but nothing happening..well last year me and my one friend julie got in a huge fight and seeing as she was perrty and everyone likeing her all my other friends took her side...so they all stoped talking ro me but me and my friends julie finally made you and started to talk but no one else will what do i do cause because of this i lost my best friend and it really hurts me to have had lost 6 friends because of one stupied thing what can i do to get them back!! Thanks
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different schools, different friends ?
Posted Wednesday December 27 2006, 5:51 pm
hey, well im 13/f and im in the 8th grade. i went to a school kidnergarten until 6th grade then transfered for my 7th grade year. the school i transfered to is a school that has 7th grade up till 12th grade. at my old school i was pretty popular. i had a lot of friends both boys and girls. in fact, i used to be more popular then most people in my old school. then when i transfered [i transfered with some of my friends from my old school] i became less popular. the friends that i once was more popular then became more popular than me. sometimes they hang out with an older crowd like 15 year olds. in my new school, basically all i have is them. i dont hang out with the 15 year olds like they do. sometimes i feel excluded. i cant find a new gr...
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torn.
Posted Wednesday December 27 2006, 5:30 pm
i think my friend lucy might like my other friend jessica's ex, or jessica's ex might like her or both. theyre both (jessica & lucy) my good friends. the thing is, jessica and this guy broke up a year ago but she just cant get over him ): i feel bad for her and i wish she could find a guy that deserved her. i know if lucy and this guy end up going out, jessica will come to me to try and talk about it. jessica already has told me about seeing them in the hallway together or something so she thinks they like eachother (dont ask me why). she always thinks all these girls and her ex are gonna go out and they never end up going out but it really gets her down. whenver lucy tells me stuff ab this guy, i dont tell jessica bc i wouldnt betray...
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my friend died =[
Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 10:18 pm
Ok so my friend(15/f died, along with her dad and brother in a car crash. Her mom and older sister are the only ones who survived.
Alot of people on myspace and msn, ect... are writing a bunch of messages about her and to her family type thing. I was wondering if I should post a bullentin saying that everyone should write a message to them about her or w/e and then we should have someone give them to the mother. Is this a good idea or would it just hurt the family more? I just want to show support and what not so yea...what's the best thing to do?
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No longer super outgoing
Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 9:00 pm
I used to be so outgoing, I was friends with everyone and I talked to anyone. But latley, I've noticed my list of friends has shrunk, I spend more time at home, and I'm becoming shyer and shyer. I worry when we get new nine week classes, because I'm afraid I won't get any classes with my friends when I used to be happy with whoever I got. How do I get the old me back?
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does she just want attention? this is long.
Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 6:12 pm
ive none my best friend since 1st grade and im now in 10th...a few years ago she would constantly tell people lies for attention all the tim...then she moved away with her mom and her moms b/f.when she came home she had told everyone he raped her..we knew he hit her but we werent sure about this.after she said he rapped her she admitted that he didnt.just a few days ago she said he did. ok my first question is why does she keep chaning her story? i honestly belive he didnt rape her because weve talked about sex before and she says things like im so afraid what it will feel like the first time. i dont want to bring it up with her because everytime i do she always goes he rapped me why dont you belive me!?! what should i do to start getting the truth out of her? please help thanks!
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