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my friend hurts herself, is there something she is hiding
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 8:07 am
I am from South Africa, I am a female 27 of age. My friend is also a female and she is 31 of age.Married with two children.We are friends for just over a year now. She is a very difficult person, when we started to be friends she was a wonderful person. Then I got to know her a little better. I discoverd that she would like to have sex with me. Somehow I just couldn't get myself doing anything with her. Yes, agter a while getting to know her better I wanted to do it with her. But in the mean time she fell in love with a married man. So this friendship was just falling apart because then she wanted sex from me and the married man but not at the same time. The three of us was good friends till she decide that she doesn't like me speaking to h...
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Would I meet him?
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 2:45 am
I met this guy on yahoo messenger, he seems so nice and sweet.. He's from Australia and work as an accountant in a firm.. Well, he's already my online boyfriend but ofcourse, i'm not that serious because i only saw him on pictures and we're living in a different coutry. Plus he's 26 and i'm 19. But to be honest I'm physically attracted to him, so is he. He told me that he's already inlove with me and everything. They wll have a business trip here in my country next month and he wants to meet me.. The problem is I dunno if i'm going to meet him because I dunno this guy. I only know him through messenger but I like him a lot because of his sweetness and kindnes.Please help, gimme some advice, would I meet him or not?When i told him that i'll ...
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how do i make friends?
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 2:00 am
theres this girl in my art class at my middle school (13/f seventh grade) and shes my sister's good friend's younger sister. what a coincidence we're in the same class, right? anyway, shes pretty outgoing, and is really nice. like a couple times shes passed by my table and like said hi and stuff, commented on my picture, and said that her sister was friends with mine (noo duh, lol). i wanna be her friend, so what should i do? i usually get shy around outgoing people like that, unless i've known them for a while.
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hanger-on
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 1:47 am
34/f
I have a friend who is divorcing her husband. We became friends through church, while the two were still together. They have two children together who are my child's closest friends.
Before they separated, 'Renee' showed me a lot of stuff, asking what she should do. They included e-mails her husband, 'Sam,' had sent on their joint computer, trying to entice women from other states to come have sex with him. He wrote
very detailed, intimate fantasies and sent naked pictures of himself. This wasn't the first time.
Back to the story, they are separated, but they share the custody of their girls. Because our girls are friends, I still see Sam occasionally.
When I do, he makes ic...
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Worried already?
Posted Monday January 8 2007, 9:58 pm
I`m already worried about starting
high school next year, especially the drinking
scene. My best friend was given 20 minutes to
live this year after I found her severly drunk
at a soccer game. (Keep in mind, we're 8th
graders) Well, I had no idea any of this was
going on and I'm not sure if I can handle
my other friends getting into drinking next
year. How do I keep myself out of it?
I'm not up for risking my life like she did,
but I am curious about trying it! Thats the
problem.
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Posted Monday January 8 2007, 7:25 pm
theress this girl in my class. shes the toughest meanest girl like in the world. if she doesnt like you shes gona fight u and DESTROY u.. and now she hates me all off a sudden and i dun know why.. now shes turning all my frends against me.. she made my boyfrend dump me.. and she pushes me and hits me and everthing but i cant do anything about it because i know she'll kill me and if i fight her back and get suspended, i'll get kicked off the cheerleading team and punished for life. and in every class she sits near me and talks to the person next to her about me and she does it on purpose so i can hear her. and a couple days ago, i came late to class and sat down and everybody started laughing, my frend told me she switched my chair and desk ...
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ever talk to him again?
Posted Monday January 8 2007, 1:47 pm
I went out last week with this guy I have huge crash for a while.
We made out, and he called the next morning to applogize whatever he did, and doesn't want me to have the "wrong idea".
I don't think I ever want him to be my bf, but what he did/said actually hurts my feeling. I'm not sure I want to talk to him again, but there's this feeling inside of me wanting to go out with him again.......
what should I do?
(I felt he took advantage of me, just because he knew I really like him but obviouly he doesn't like me enough to consider my feeling.............)
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my best friend lied to me
Posted Monday January 8 2007, 5:10 am
I found out that my best friend smoked pot and i talked to her about it and she promised me that she would never do anything like that again and now come to find now she is smoking ciggerates what do i do?
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i hate my best friend
Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 7:55 pm
So lets see I don’t really hate her but I hate how she treats people
But before I get to that you should know that I don’t have many friends, and that I would say it is because of schools I’ve been to in the past where I was treated like absolute shit and my best friend was my super slicer (razor blade), but im not like that anymore but out of all of that came me not trusting people thus why I have no friends..anyway I hate my best friend because shes sooooooo judgemental of everyone and everything and I used to be just like that last year and I think that’s why we got along so well because im not like that anymore and I don’t want to be friends with her anymore because of how she is, but she makes me laugh and I know that...
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hugs
Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 3:30 pm
15/f. i am friends with a guy who is bi. and i'm a little confused. it just seems weird to me because i don't even think twice before hugging him and it doesn't seem weird to me at all. but then when i think about it it would be really weird for me to hug any other guy.
so why do i feel more comfortable hugging my one friend and not any of my other guy friends. is it because he is bi? and if so why does that make it less weird for me?
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not much of a friend
Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 2:43 pm
so i've had this girl i've called my "best friend" since i was 5 (im 15 now, she's 20) we've always been really close but a few years ago she was dating my brother (she's always been in love with him, still is even though she has a live-in boyfriend) and i decided i didnt want to be her friend anymore (that resulted in her cutting herself really deep and she still has a huge scar). we weren't friends for months but then i got lonely and a mutual friend decided to have us start talking to each other again. we haven't been as close as before since then. she always has little messed up things to say to me now. ever since my family started making more money she has this bitchy attitude. she's always sad about something. its pointless ...
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Who do i stay faithful to?
Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 12:58 pm
Well one of my friends who i have been really close to since 5th grade has been having boy trouble but its complicated. She had a thing with one of our friends and then were cute together for awhile but then she broke it off with him and has been accusing him of things that she used to like. Like she is accusing her best friend of being all over him but really tey are just talking or something. And the first time she said it i believed her when she accused them of being all over eachother becuase someone else agree'd who was there, but now its just rediculous.And she is telling us not to talk to him pretty much because if we hang out she gets mad at us. I dont know what to do because i dont want to ruin either friendship but i feel like i m...
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quote?
Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 12:29 pm
hi.. does anyone know of a quote that's something like "i dont care when people talk about me cause i know that if they care enough i'm already better then them anyway" ifk its something like that.. i looked all over google and i can't find it =[ any help is great!! thankss ♥ i rate*
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making new friends
Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 10:42 am
i want to make new friends, but i dont really know how to. You see, it's just kind of weird to go sit at a lunch table that you don't usually sit at, or start talking to people at school that you don't really know. So, my question is, how do you make new friends?
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Bleh
Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 2:38 am
Okay, so I have a large number of friends in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. I'm good friends with a guy named "C" and he's gay and in 10th grade. He has a bestest of best friends named "A". It seems like "A" doesn't like me much and she always seems to try and make me feel inferior most of the time.
But anywhos, should I just ignore "A"? And also, the school year is getting pretty crazy and "c" and I haven't had much chance to talk outside of school and at lunch, we're both not very interested in what each other's rambling about. I really want to be good friends with him but I don't know what I can say or talk about to keep our friendship awesome...any suggestions?
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me and my best friend
Posted Saturday January 6 2007, 11:34 pm
my friend lets call her "S"
well she gets mad at me for likeing guys that she dosnt approve of and my last boyfriend dumped me because of what "S" said to him i felt like i was falling in loved with him but "s" messed up every thing
should i still be her friend even though she messed up whati had with him
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is she straight i don't think she is
Posted Saturday January 6 2007, 11:22 pm
i have this friend lets call her "L" for now.All my friends and I think she is bi-sexual but i don't know what i should do.Basically on new years i invited her over to hang out and she kept touching, playing with my hair,tickling me,laying on me(so i moved and she did it again),jumping on me, and always looking other girls, and she is always checking out me and my other 2 friends saying oh my gosh! your butt is so small and stuff.So, i don't know do u think she is bisexual because she has a boyfriend so she cant be a lezbian.What should i do? Should i ask her? If I do though she will deffinetly take that offensively because she is like that.I have a boyfriend so i know i am not like her.
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is she?
Posted Saturday January 6 2007, 9:22 pm
ok. ive been BEST friends with this girl since 2nd grade. then she moved 2 years ago. but we still talk and see eachother. but after she moved, she started caring about hoe she looked, and she started being mean to me on the computer. but when i talk to her she's like her old self. and the most important thing is now (on the computer) she's starting to tell me that i should dress better, and i should wear brand names. but that's not me. what should i do?
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stuck between friends!!!!!
Posted Saturday January 6 2007, 6:32 pm
heres the deal I used to be in a gruop, girl life was at its best. I was convinced though that I could get it better. Myself and Anna broke up from Abby and Hayden, the gruop was split! My first recesss with Anna was really fun. We were bff's, and i was convinced it would stay that way. The problem though is that Anna gets mad and is sortof a tomboy I know thats no reason to break up but we get in fights all the time and so a few nights ago at one of our sleepovers I thought maybe I could shoot back over to Hayden and especially ABBY!!!! I MISSED THEM!!! I asked Anna if maybe she could forgive her (she was really mad at her cus she told hayden somthin) and we could be a group again. NO. That was her straight answer. So MY QUESTION I...
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jealousy
Posted Saturday January 6 2007, 5:44 pm
ok i have this best friend of 9 years.. shes like my other half.ok whenever i get grounded or w/e and i cant hang out shell go out and do something with someone else. thats fine i dont have a problem with it. its just we do everything together and when i hear shes hanging out with other people its like i feel jealous and i get mad at her but its not like im reaklly mad at her. is that wrong? and i know she feels the same way when i go out because she always says you could have told me you were going out but w/e but is it wrong to feel this way when shes with other people?
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