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I think I'm becoming antisocial...
Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 12:03 pm
Hello to all. I'm a 14/f. I'm in the 9th grade. I have a serious problem. It's ruining my life. I've been noticing lately that people are using me. And I mean EVERYONE. When they need an answer (on a test, or a quiz w/e) they ask me. I, being a pushover, give them the answer and try to help them to the best of my ability. However, when *I* need something, like help, or advice, they shun me out. They ignore me and make up some lame excuse to not have to deal with me and my questions and problems. I used to think I can rely on a group of people, but now it turns out they're just using me. On the weekends, they NEVER call. They NEVER want to talk. However, when they need something, they always come to me. (This is probably because I get straig...
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The "First Date"
Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 2:35 am
Alright so im 16/f and there is this guy that i like and we are friends, but he's in college. Anyways hes coming home next weekend, and we are hanging out on friday night. My queestion is, what are some things that we can do. Not too expensive, and nothing like really romantic because I dont know if he likes me like that, and its the first time we've hung out by ourselves, with out other people
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Showing how much you care...
Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 12:52 am
Heya!
first off, i'm 16/f.
Well, my best friend (23/m) is really sad as his girlfriend broke up with him (almost a year ago, he has trouble getting over things...but that's ok) and well I just wanna show him that I care for him heaps.
I wanted to write him an email but I wanna be a bit creative with it. Like, once he sent one to me using nothing more than quotes out of songs. I wanna do something like that, but obviously not that.
Has anyone got any thoughts on what I could do?
thanks heaps!
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why takes so long?
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 11:01 pm
I txt msg to the guy I like (he knows I like him, and i'm not sure if he likes me) to go out last friday night. No respond, no call, nada. After 5 days, he sent me a txt msg said he was sick that night and didn't feel going out.
I guess it's good to know, but after all this time, he all the sudden thinks he SHOULD tell me he couldn't make it?!
WHY did he wait this long to explain to me he couldn't make it on friday???
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why doesnt she talk to me anymore?
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 10:23 pm
theres this girl who used to be my friend last year.. she only talked to me once this year and we're in the same club. and she acts like she doesnt even notice im there. its weird.. like what did i do? at first i didnt think much about it, but now like i was talking to my friends and stuff and she'd just butt in and talk to one of them, and wont even notice im there, it seems.
okay.. what the heck did i do? should i ask or just ignore her too? or any other ideas?? i kinda dont like her cuz shes sort of like a showoff, and she always acts so perfect and junk. pissed me off sorta since last year, but i guess it was just jealousy, since the guy i liked liked her.
AH getting off topic. anyway, answer my qeustion! heh
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dramaaaaaa
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 9:38 pm
Wellllll.. you see i don't really know.. i just got my schedule changed at school.. and im in a different lunch now.. and i dont really know where to sit.. because i just feel if i hang with the popular drama girls i will be in drama.. but i dont know.. if i sit with nerds ill probably be considered a nerd.. and be made fun of.. i don't know what to do.. im never this judgemental.. i just have been going through alot with people and all their drama.. and im just so confused and i cant eat or anything because im just so stressed.. i am actually not in drama though!! thats the thing.. i just know that its gonna come.. and i dont know i just dont wanna be in any because of the past 2 years that was my life at school.. and i dont really know wh...
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Does she want to be my friend or not?!
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 7:59 pm
Jordan, a girl at my school, and me never have really known each other, but she seems really nice and I've been trying to talk to her. It just seems like she doesn't like me though. (AS A FRIEND! AS A FRIEND! I'm a girl and I'm straight. I'm just saying as a friend)I mean, I've talked to my best friend who is best friends with Jordan and I asked her if she liked me, but all she said was, "Oh, yeah! She just doesn't know you well." She's told me that about three times. I've even talked to Jordan on thecomputer and she was saying things like, "God, we never get to talk!" and stuff. The thing is.....when I try and talk to her she doesn't really try and keep the conversation going. At school she doesn't try to talk to me eit...
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my friend takes advantage of me
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 7:41 pm
My best friend is very selfish and always takes advantage of me and i dont like it, and i have like no other friends anymore because i was always trying to please her (shes kinda high maintenence) and shes hard to talk to about this stuff because shell get all mad and defensive and wind up manipulating me to make me think that im the bad person, but really everyone tells me how shes bad and now she wants me to do drugs and get tattoos and other stuff that i dont think i wanna do... but i have no other friends..so what do i do.
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shes not nice
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 7:07 pm
ok well there is this girl in my class. shes such a retard and her name is dana, she is fat and bucked tooth. i hate her!!!!!!!she is soo mean to me and my other friends!!!!!why !!?!? she always wants to hang out with me. i gave her a chance but she turned out to be a stupid fat bucked tooth lard!!! and she is a couch potato. when i can to her house she would eat oreos and watch TV the whole time!!! what should i do to make her stop bugging me?!?!help!!! oh and she says MARR HARR just like nicole does.
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my friend is a jerk!
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 7:01 pm
ok so my friend and i have been friends since 3rd grade but now i have another friend and she always talks bad about her i told her i didnt care if she talked about her or if she likes her just dont talk meanly about her in front of me and she screams i can do what i want and you cant stop me so i say you cant stop me from not being your friend so were not friends anymore but she always really mean to me when im with my friends for no reason she also says i started all the fights when i didnt for example if i see a punch buggy i punch her now i did accidently do it a little hard but i said sorry and then she says youre not supposed to punch people for punch buggys your supposed to lightly tap them so thay cant really feel it and i told her ...
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friends
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 7:00 pm
i dont know what to do!!!please help me i am sooooo depressed!!! my friend nicole is sooooooooo mean to me!!!!!! she is soooooo nice sometimes.. but sooooo mean .. what do i do!!!!she is like my best feind... but she can be sooo mean.. ill give you an example... well
1. she never listens to me
2. and she NEVER STOPS SAYING MARR HARR!!!
you dont get it!!
i ask her to stop and she just keeps talking!!grr marr harr marr harr marr harr marr harr!!!
lol... not
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What to do?what to do?-need help!
Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 1:55 pm
Okay! I am a really nice person who likes to hug people and stuff.So there are these kids with disabilities who attend our school and I love to death because they're nice.I always hug them and stuff.well, i didn't expect for them to take it as a lead on for something more.Well, this boy named (let's say)Louie like me.I don't like him and it isn't because of his disability-I am not attracted to him at all!There are lots of boys I am not attracted too.Plus I don't want a relationship, I need to focus on school.However I don't want him to think I am denying him because of his disability.So what can I say to him that I don't like him in that way without making it seem like it's the disability?I need help!
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ignoring me
Posted Tuesday January 16 2007, 11:35 pm
About a week ago i had sex with this guy and he was my first as in he took my virginity. I talked to him the day after it happened cause he came to my job to see me. And i havent talked to him since. I sent him a message on myspace asking him to please find a way to talk to me. And he told me hed work on it. He has a cell but he cant text or call right now. Im just really upset about everything that is going on.
Were not fighting about anything, he wouldnt of used me for sex.
I just need advice on what i should do before i flip out.
thanks
[id appriciate it more then anything if i dont get this long speech about how i shouldnt of had sex with him if i dont love him or how i could be pregnant, i...
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BIRTHDAY BLUES
Posted Tuesday January 16 2007, 6:39 pm
my birthday is this friday.. do you think its wrong to give out invitations like.. on thursday if the party is on friday night? its at the movies. or should I move it to like saturday?
also, my family doesnt have alot of money now, so we cant really afford to have a big party. I'm turning thirteen. I wanted to invite 10 people.. but thats kinda expensive to go see a movie, so should i reduce it to five (thats kinda hard since i have alot of good friends) or just make the party at home (then i'd have to decorate and stuff..). i cant have sleepovers too.. cuz my parents dont like those. but im okay at making cookies though they take like 1-2 hours to make. ughhh this sucks badly. i have money in the bank, but what are some oth...
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Muslim girl cutting
Posted Tuesday January 16 2007, 5:43 pm
hey guys.. i have a problem. My really close friend since 2 years has been cutting herslef and i only found out in September this year. I ALWAYS tell her to stop because its not good for her but she wont! I ask her why and she would never give me a straight answer or she would just change the subject. I recalled her saying that one of the reason she does it is because shes muslim and ever since 9/11 some people have been very racsit about it, saying that ALL musilm people are like that. She never tells me when something is bugging her and i really care for her but im not sure how i can help her. No, im not going to an older person about it because i know she doesnt want anyone to know abotu it. Her legs are really scarred from it. Can anyon...
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i like my bestfriends boyfriend
Posted Tuesday January 16 2007, 5:07 pm
Ok here's the deal, I have this bestfriend were real tight 'n stuff, but like a year ago i started likeing her boyfriend and wen they went on a "break" I hooked up with him. When they went back out I still liked him and it bothered me bad because she treats him like shit and he deserves better. WELL like 3 months ago they broke up again and they stopped seein each other and I didn't see him or talk to him because I had no way of talking to him (he didn't have a phone or whatever) so I didn't see him until last week when they started seeing each other again (but not dating just talking) and i realized i still have feelings for him and I might even love him. I can't stop thinking about him and I don't know what im going to do. I fee...
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sweet sixteen party
Posted Monday January 15 2007, 5:58 pm
hey, ive been trying to think of something to do for my 16th bday party. i was gonna do midnight bowling, but someone else did that a few weeks ago and i dont want to seem like im copying them. does anyone have a cool, original idea? thanks :)
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Best friend turned into a jealous bitch
Posted Monday January 15 2007, 4:13 pm
Ya so i had a best friend we even called eachother sisters and were always together, we met in the 4th grade, and then were not friends n e more in the middle of the 10th grade. Ever since i moved a couple miles away from my old house i started haning out wit another one of my friends that i met this year, because she lived right across the street from me. Later i found out that my friend who lived near me was my cousin and we became mad close friends. When i went to school i could tell that my bestfriend acted stange she never said hi to me in school i had to say hi to her and if i didnt say hi to her she would get mad. Even if my cousin said hi to her she would say hi in a very snobby way. Then i realized that shes gettin jeaouls becaus...
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one of my friends is a lesbian(and she's a girl)...
Posted Monday January 15 2007, 12:47 pm
Ok one of my friends are gay. let's call her tina. at first everyone thought tina was gay/lesbian whatever, because of the way she dressed.(she wore her clothes a LITTLE loose and somtimes she wore a lot of things that boys would wear) but she denied that she was a lesbian, so everyone backed off. but then everyone noticed that she was being a little too friendly with two girls. let's call them ciara and brittany. somehow people just started the rumor that tina was a lesbian again, and this time she didn't deny it. then tina ended up going out with brittany and they just broke up. the details are a bit too long, so i'll just get to the point. i was over tina's house after she broke up with brittany, because i still wanted to be her friend e...
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hook up problem. oh great!
Posted Monday January 15 2007, 12:39 pm
last night i hooked up with my friends crush. the thing is, i didnt know she liked him! she was always talking about this other guy she liked. well i think she got really jealous and upset and i havent talked to her about it since. but i know i should. what should i say to her and she i talk to her face to face, online, through a note, or what???
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