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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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I cant Talk to him without getting laughed at !!


Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 7:46 am

There is this Boy Called Tom*
WE started walking down from school together as he lives up the road. we really got to know each other and talked on msn everynight . one night he asked me to come up the street with him , i did and everything went ok... untill we met people from our school he is a year older than me so the boys were all older. being boys they stated saying stuff etc The day after Tom told a friend that we went up the street , his friend started this rumour about us and Tom started not talking to me as if he did someone would say something. the only problem is i really like Tom and cant stop thinking about him ! I told him i didnt like him though to stop all the rumours now he doesnt like me ! he is kind of a "...

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friends or not even aquaintences?


Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 12:37 am

ok so i have a black friend scotti. and another couple friends sara,savannah, joanna,abby,sterling ,and tesia: for the main people... scotti started this thing all of a sudden where she was quiet about it but then i heard she was talking behind my back about me. i confronted her online asking why she was mad at me. she said she was mad at me for being a cunt, whore, slutbaged hoeface bitch. i dont get it after we hang out visit my sailboat huge house she like hates me all of a sudden!??? she wants to beat me up and she has gotten many of my so-called friends to hate me too now. and im not a whore not even close. ok i do flirt but i only have like 20 guys after me rite now. shes is trying to take all the friends i have and its makin me rel...

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"him" or them?


Posted Friday January 19 2007, 10:47 pm

how do u no when to pick between him or them? my best guy friend ,who is my former BF, and me are very close but our so called friends talk about us behind our backs about how its weird were still so close and awakward for them if the see us hug..this has made me more mad than him..but it hurts both of us..i feel that i now have to chose between "him" or "them"...

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upset and distraight that i never knew about this..


Posted Friday January 19 2007, 8:34 pm

I have a friend who I have been very close to. We never hungout so I don't know very much about his personal life, although I have known him for years! And just twenty minutes ago, he tells me that he has a son. I asked my other friends if they knew about this and they said yes. Even people who aren't friends with him knew! I feel completely upset and I just wanted to cry because I have been his friend for so long and he just now tells me (his son is several months old; not just 2 or 3 days old). Should I really be upset over this? Or is it better just to get over it and move on?

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BO friend.


Posted Friday January 19 2007, 6:26 pm

One of my friends has really bad body odor.
Its so bad, even our teachers complain about
it when they walk into the classroom. My friends
and I have tried to drop hints like 'Oh I just
got this great new deorderant you should try!'
'What kind do you use?' We've even bought
her perfume, which hasn't helped.
She's sensitive, so we're not sure how to
tell her she stinks. When we say something
smells bad, she just brushes it off by saying
"I don't smell anything"

.. What should we try?

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I don't want to lose my best friend just because of her mom.


Posted Friday January 19 2007, 5:24 pm

When I got off the bus today, my best said, "God, my mom got on my nerves last night." And I asked her what she did and she's like, "She was saying how I don't need to hang around the popular people and be in cliques and talk about people and stuff." And I said, "So she just randomly said that? Haha, why'd she say it?" Right after I said that, my mom drove up so I had to go. I called her about 45 minutes ago and I said, "So, what were you saying at the bus stop?" And she's like, "Uhh, I can't talk about it. They're here." And I said, "Um, what? WHO'S here? Ughhh, what were you talking about after school?" And she's like, "I gotta go. Bye." We said bye and she hung up afte...

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friends


Posted Friday January 19 2007, 4:43 pm

i need some ways of making new friends and fast. i dont have many (i have a couple)- not because im wierd or anything, but i really cant hold a conversation, like theres an awkward pause. and im shy too. not ONLY that but i act diff. in school then i do when im with my good friends like outside of school. in school im shy and dont really say all that much. outside of school im like loud crazy and wild &funny. i need some help on ways to make new friends fast (ones that i can hang with outside of school and stuff) and ways to be myself in school so people will like me. my one friend follows me around like crazy and gets jelous when i talk to other people. im like her only friend. its anyoying and i kinda wanna pool away from her because ...

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I CAN'T TAKE MY FRIEND ANYMORE


Posted Friday January 19 2007, 3:45 pm

this may be long but i need your helpp please!!
my friend of one year, we became really close and we became a group with 3 other girls. so anyway, this year shes starting to be really rude to me, ignoring me, and treating me different than my other friends. i have talked to her about it at least 7 times and she does not listen. if i had the choice, i wouldnt be friends with her.. but we're in a group. AND shes in my lunch, and my only friend there and she totally ignores me. what can i do, or what can i do to not make me so upset?!!

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huge fight


Posted Friday January 19 2007, 3:07 pm

My best friend and I had the biggest fight we've ever had. She has a new boyfriend. I don't like him. So she's mad at me for "spoiling her happiness". Should I apologize to her, or wait for her to apologize???
I love her a lot. way more than is normal. I tend to get really attached. Help?


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peoplee at school


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 9:05 pm

give a good- like really good answer. Okay this might be long but please. So, I need advice on a couple things, one of which is like at school, people call me a lezbo- WHICH I AM TOTALLY NOT. Like people (even popular) say it sometimes to my face, behind my back, or like say something kinda like "So make out with any hot girls lately" or something like "Yeah, you would look really good with all your hair chopped off- like a dyke", pretty much something like that in a really wise ass way. And I know from reading this you probably think I'm a total nerd, but I'm actually average. People are usually nice to my face but still, it really bugs me thats everyone once in a while people I don't even know, or do, talk about me and...

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She said He said


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 9:05 pm

Yeah. I kind of need help!! Me and my best friend r having a huge fight right now and I don't know what to do. We both said things we didnt mean. What should I do? Im so confused? ;0; Please help me. I already apologized but she wont take my apology!!

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OLD FRIENDS AND NEW FRIENDS


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 8:58 pm


Ugh okay well see I was friends with this girl last year and like we kind of drifted apart this year because we don't have any classes together (I'm a freshman btw.) and so I was like hey Jennifer, want to hang out on friday because I haven't seen you in awhile! And she was like sure! I was thinking you me jessica ashley and some sophmore boys could go to glory days. and I'm like ..wtf? does she think she's cool now because she hangs out with sophomress?
anyways.. so I was like uhh okay well who are the other people and she was like well fredrick, lindseys boyfriend and I was like uhm okay well I don't think fredrick or lindsey like me very much (becaues i did hang out with fredrick one time and like we don't talk anymore at ...

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service.


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 8:55 pm

My bestfriends mom passed away and she asked me to go to the service. BUt i have absolutely no idea on what i am supposed to wear. She catholic so idk if its different from different religions.

Is the service also the funeral.

Any advice please give.
thank you

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why is he this way


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 7:52 pm

okay there is this guy i like and i'm kind of freinds with him.....i guess let see what you think. okay well i have talked to him alot on aol instant messageing but he won't ever talk to me at school and he asked me if i like him on aim and i said yes and all he does it stare at me and all of his friends talk about me and him and his freinds stare at me at lunch but always try to play it off.....i don't get it why doesn't he tlak to me at school and why does he stare at me all the time?

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i need some tips please help!


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 7:33 pm


alright theres a important, really important reason behind this but i just dont feel like explaining it all. i just need some tips to become popular. like you know popular. (i would mostly want it from people who are popular in school) but it doesnt matter. i just need tips to become popular QUICKLY in a pretty big sized township and the people here are kinda picky and w.e. but any tips will be fine with me. i really need you guys to answer this.


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i feel empty...


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 7:25 pm

well to start, i've had this best friend since 2nd grade or so and we would always talk to each other everyday and go everywhere with each other. since i'm now in high school, i never get to see her anymore because she's still in middle school (she's only a year younger). the part of this that kills me is that she lives four houses down from me and we don't even see a glimpse of each other. she never evens calls me either. we're too busy with homework and what not.

and believe it or not, when we do see each other every once in a while, it feels awkward to be around her. we just don't know what to say to each other anymore.

because i've been away from her for so long, my life just seems so empty. and i can't tru...

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The infamous question. haha


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 7:22 pm

Okay I know that this has been asked before but here it goes... my best friend has a boyfriend who she's been going out with for almost two years and I'm really happy for her because she's a great person and all and so is he, and they're really happy together. But the thing is, I feel like she puts him ahead of my other friends and me. For example, I had a theatre show that I performed in and she knew how important it was to me, but at the very last minute, she called me and told me she couldn't go because she was hanging out with her boyfriend. I got really mad and sometimes, when I think about how all of my other friends came and my best friend didn't, I still get mad. But now it's like all they do is hang out with each other and we don't...

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friend


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 6:46 pm

my friend is totally against kissing and making out before high school. i am only in 7th grade but for our school people make out all the time. when im talking to her i tend to tell her that im against it too, because i am. but my boyfriend kissed me the other day and i was so happy i ran into the cafeteria and i was about to tell her but then i remembered and acted like nothing happened. i dont know how im going to tell her and i want to tell her because i dont want to keep something like this secret from her. help please!

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shy


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 6:13 pm

I'm wicked shy and no one in my classes knows me. I'm even shy around my friends! If I'm with a bunch of classmates and they are all talking I want to say something so bad but I feel like I'm going to say something stupid and laugh. Usually i never talk and just sit there and listen to them talk, but now I want to be the one talking the most. But i'm so shy and trust me, i try to start conversations but i get soooo scared that i stutter or say something that makes NO sense. i'm getting to a point where no one really even knows what my voice sounds like and i wanna talk but i get so scared and i cant think of anything to say.

i need real answers not ones like "try to start conversations" because i do and DONT say &qu...

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dying


Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 1:25 pm

my best friend's grandmother is dying...what do i do...i dont want to see her sad :(

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