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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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confusing


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 9:17 pm

ok i have an ex-best friend who im just ok friends with now (we got in a huge fite, she basicly dumped me as a friend, diff. story). since shes told me shes missed me like once or twice but the whole best friend thing just never got started again. i dont know if i want to be best friends again...but if i did (considering we've tried it kind of before) how would i tell her?

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how do you make friends


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 7:48 pm

SHORT VERSION: how do you make friends that you can hang with outside of school?

i need to make more friends that i can hang with outside of school..most of my friends are guys and i dont want them to think i like them, because i dont..and the girl im friends with in 3rd period shes really nice but when i asked her for her email to email her in 4th becuz she has that class right after me and its computers she got all shocked, but she seemed really surprised, but yet she was telling me how she has no more friends anymore and that all she hangs wtih is her boyfriend

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i still care


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 7:39 pm

i went out with this guy a few months ago and after we broke up we stayed friends. i mean we aren't as close as we once were but we are friends still. i still care about him (of course i do! i care about all of my friends) the thing is, he is going to formal with this girl who is a HUGE sl*t. no joke. there is only literally three girls in my grade that like her. my friend doesn't even know this girl (they met at a party and she was all over him) and thats the only time they have been together. she is known for hookig up and getting all over all these guys. i don't want my friend to get hurt but i dont know if i should tell him about this girl and her reputation. or maybe i should? please help me! i dont want him to get hurt!

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best friend with controlling boyfriend -- could lead to abus


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 7:15 pm

Background information: i've been with my b/f for over 6 months, my best friend HATED it cuz she liked him too.. but shes the one who set us up.
Now shes been dating this guy for about 3 months, and hes kind of controlling. She doesn't understand why her friends think this. He got mad at her because she and I went out on a day that she was supposed to be with him.. but she tried calling him for like 2 hours before we left and he never answered or called her back until after we had already left. We offered to meet up with him and hang out (though i dont like him) but he got mad at her and went out with his ex.
I also told her that this really sweet guy she likes also likes her. And she told her boyfriend i was trying to se...

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getting through to my best friend.


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 6:39 pm

over the weekend my best friend and i had the hugest fight we ever had, and weve been friends for 7 years now and i love her to death, but im tired of her taking advantage of me and taking me for granted. if im her BEST friend she should treat me the BEST. and she doesnt, so we made up at school today, but over the phone shes blowing me off again.. how do i get her to understand how selfish she is with out upsetting her *she upsets real easily*

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Am I fine the way I am or do I need friends?


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 6:13 pm

For a long time I have not been the typical friend happy wild and crazy party person a lot of people are I am quite boring at times actually but I am a good friend and I can be fun with the right person doing the right things. It is just that sometimes I think that I don't want a lot of friends any way because a lot of times they can cause drama or it's just another person that knows dirt about you that you have to be reminded of everytime you look at them Right now I have associates but no close friends and sometimes I feel lonely. Is it okay to be a loner or not?

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I hate them


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 3:20 pm

I just found out today and I saw my mom'm boyfriend is going to live with us. The thing is I don't want him here. I really don't want to see him. What am I going to do. How am I going to deal? I don't like how I feel.

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Birthday gift!!


Posted Sunday January 21 2007, 10:44 pm

I really have NO clue whatsoever to get him for his 16th birthday gift. He said that I didn't need to and if I insisted to get him money but I don't wanna get him any form of gift cards or money because I don't want there to be a little competition over who got him the most money and blah blah. These are things he's into:
-He's gay
-He loves photography--like LOVES
-He's into foreign things (Speaks Spanish and German, his sisters are adopted from China, his mom, although she is caucasian [sp?] was born and sorta raised in Japan)
-He is in a divorced family if that helps much
-We're going to movies and to a Japanese restaurant
-He blabs on and on about America's Next Top Model, Flavor of Love, Everyo...

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good friends borther


Posted Sunday January 21 2007, 6:27 pm

i have a bigg crush on one of my good friends brothers. she knows, and she swears she doesnt mind, but i think she does. should i go for it with him, or lay off and respect the relationship i have with my friend?


thanks!

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Slut-----> IM NOT!!!


Posted Sunday January 21 2007, 5:03 pm

13/f
hey everyone! i have a problem. I pretty sure that some girls in my school think im a slut. I DO NOT do any slutty things at ALL...but these girls are kindof immature like that. I mean, i was at a birthday party and we went to the movies. My friend whom i kind of like, put his arm around me and i put my head on his shouldler. Then later i danced with him a bit. THAT WAS ALL!! i do not see whats so slutty about that. I dont know how im sopposed convince my friends that im not a slut! Its not even me, its them! I really dont want them to think of me as a slut because im not. I did talk to them about it, but im sure that there is doubt in thweir minds. Please, how do i convince them?

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Shyness


Posted Sunday January 21 2007, 4:14 pm

What's a good way of overcoming 'shyness'?
I mean, I have trouble talking to new people, especially ones I don't know. I would really like to be more confident, or what ever will help me with approaching someone. Any ideas or relations to this?

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weird friend


Posted Sunday January 21 2007, 12:26 pm

13/f

ok well i was beset friends with this girl last year...we'll call her sally. well over the summer sally and i got in a huge fight where she basicly dumped me as a best friend. i got over it (i mean a best friend who would just dump you isnt that hard to get over) and you know we're still like ok friends. like were in teh same group of friends and we dont hate each other (sometimes). she keeps changing her mind bout me, like one minute she'll be all like "i miss you" and the next she'll be telling everyone she hates me (i kind of do the same). Its been calm between us for like 2 months now though. well yesterday she called me (for the first time in months) and just asked if i wanted to come over (for the first ...

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cliques


Posted Sunday January 21 2007, 10:53 am

i really really want to become friends with this clique. what's the best way to do this? i'm having a party on saturday, and they're going to be there, so how should i go about it?

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Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 10:49 pm

I'm switching schools, because I can't stand my friends. There so stuck up & fake. & I just can't put up with it anymore. Anyways, this will be my last week there. So, I really wanna make an impression they won't forget. I wanna show them I'm so much more then what they expected. & that they can't treat me like that.

Any ideas on payback?

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charity


Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 8:35 pm

How do you sign up for charity? Does anybody know how i could get involved into that. because i really need to get some work done for charity, because i like giving back to my community, but i can't seem to find out a way how to voluenteer for it!

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I lied to a guy...and now I'm scared.


Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 6:49 pm

Okay. I have a guy friend...And I love him soooo much...he's definitely my best friend. But in the beginning of our relationship, I told him that I have a step father. It was accidental...and now I regret it. Thing is - I DON'T have a step father...but somehow it spilled out. Now he is questioning our relationship and he doesn't think he knows the "real" me. He thinks I'm hiding something...I know it's kind of stupid...But I dunno. ;_;...Should I tell him that I DO have a REAL father? It's runining our friendship...I know, I know...it seems like a stupid reason...but we are supposed to be honest :( Should I tell him the truth?

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Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 4:07 pm

i don't get it.
my friends..like, when i talk to guys, they flip & get mad at me & wont talk to me & stuff. & its not like im flirting with someone they like or anything i walk over to them & be like.. can i borrow a pencil? & then i walk back over to them & they give me this dirty look, & ignore me the rest of class. & like.. whenever they say like who do you guys think is the prettiest girl in the grade? they always say, some girl that is yeah sure.. pretty, but.. [this is going to sound conceited] i think im prettier. like, hear me out for a second, all the guys in my school & like even at other schools, always say how pretty i am. & im not a slut or anything. trust me. so i know that t...

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i need a new screen name


Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 3:36 pm

Hey!
I am in despreate need of a new screen name!
here are somethings that might help.
-name:Jackie or Jaxx
-i like stuff like xo or oh ex
-i am hyper
-i love soccer though i don't want soccer in my screen name
-My favorite color is blue
-and i like the number 12

help as soon as possible
-Jaxx

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she talks too damn much


Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 9:41 am

ok i know im supposed to love her since she's my "bff" but latlely... ahhh! i just want her out of my life. she gets on my nerves!! i've been frustrated with her for a while now.. even hated her on and off, but since she's in my class, and we've been our own little group since sixth grade, and it would just be weird if i started haniging out with other people (it simply wouldnt work) im stuck with her! and ive accepted it. juist two more years of highschool and then i wont have to talk to her again. but now ive got ONE problem, she won't leave, always stays too lon, and talks like no tomorrow! My dad has a strict rule "no friends after 10 o clock" and at 9:15 i said "you better go no, because of my dads rule" a...

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Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 8:53 am

i know you get a million of these stupid friendship questions, but who cares. this ones pretty importantt.
14/f
my friends & one who is my BEST FRIEND. tottalyy ditched me. i mean, they keep doing it. like, they all went to disney princesses, well of course i wouldnt wanna go to that, because im not some 4 year old. but, id still like to be asked..yano? anyways, like. it gets me so mad. & thats basically my group. i have like 4 other friends. but those people arnt really my best friends. & like, they dont even like the one girl, they just all lost there best friends, & so there using my best friend. they actually hate her. there so fake, they say stuff about her 24/7. & so shes ditching me now, to hang ou...

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