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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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friends suck>>form a clique


Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:21 pm

okay so my old friends are stupid so im making a new clique or a new group of friends. but what is IT that people like about the LEADER of the clique?

when i talk about the LEADER of the clique i mean like the head person. the person everyone wants to be around. how do you become that person?

i need the most help i can get. please help meeeee. thanks in advance :)

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why do i feel jealous?


Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:21 pm

My best friends have just started going out. The guy's name is andrew. I dont think i ever liked andrew, but i am insanely jealous of the girl, mary. I might just be afraid that my friendship with them will weaken, but im afraid that it might be more. I'm afraid that I like Andrew.

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jealous/hating my friends' relationship.


Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:11 pm

My two best friends just started going out. Me and the guy used to kind of flirt like crazy, and we would just be pervy around eachother, but we both new we were kidding. I dont think i ever even considered liking him. But we were really close, just like I was with the girl. I never really saw the relationship coming, and I'm so upset! Its hard to talk to the guy now, because i have to be careful about what i say. And Im jealous of the girl. I dont know why, because I dont think i like him. But I hate that theyre going out. I really loved him, just as a friend, but i really did. And now its too confusing.

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story


Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:00 pm

i'm writing a story about two vampires of the opposite sex. they already went to feed on people once and for a tour of the city. What else could they do to bond and build up a friendship or friendly relationship?

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How do I handle this immature person?


Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 3:39 pm

Our class is getting ready for a spring trip to New York and today we picked the people we are rooming with. This girl I know, we'll call her Lucy, is one of the people I am rooming with. I used to be really close with her, but then we stopped talking. We starting hanging out again just this year. We signed up to room together with another one of my friends. Later, I find out that Lucy said I was annoying and she doesn't want to room with me because I'm "annoying," even though she has been acting like my friend the entire year. I think she's being very immature and two-faced. I want to confront her about this, but I don't want to get carried away and become immature myself. How can I talk to her about this rationally? Would it be ...

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I like him a lot...


Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 3:02 pm

okay well this is really complicated. i have a friend... hes a good friend of mine. during the summer we liked each other and we hung out all the time, and we were kinda together, if you will. now its the new school year and he acts like he likes me but i dont think he does. but the problem is i still like him, a lot. its ridiculous, like he acts like he likes me all the time & he flirts and he says im his favorite girl and its just so hard to let go. and im so attatched to him, still, its soo bad. i mean i hear he likes another girl and i feel sick to my stomach. i dont know what to do. any advice? xx

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weird


Posted Monday January 29 2007, 9:38 pm

Well im best friends with this girl.. lets call her Lily, well me and lily are best friends and im also really good friends, with this girl we can call Wendy
Well me and Wendy have been friends since like 3 grade
Well me and Lily been best friends since 6
Well Lily sometimes bothers me and trys to act cool but like doesnt try to, idkk its weird
well me and Lily are always laughing at her for stuff.
But do you think its mean? bcuz when we are we these certain people she will make me feel like a retard and stuff
but me and Wendy will make fun of her but then she ends up getting really made sometimes but gets over it.. like soon
its so stupid and confusing
i dont know whats going on
shoud i stop with the jokes??

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could he feel the same


Posted Monday January 29 2007, 9:24 pm

I met this nice guy at work. I'm 23 he's 26... but I don't think thats a big deal. I just said hi to him one day and we got to chatting. He hangs around to talk to me for a few minutes here and there after his shift is over and we do talk on the phone. We did go out to the movies one day and ended up kissing. I told him that I liked him and all he said was "I didn't know you liked me " I felt awkward but neither of us brought it up again. I'm not really quite sure what to do

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way too shy.


Posted Monday January 29 2007, 8:31 pm

i cant get comfortable with some people! like people make an effort to be my friend, but sometimes i dunno why.. maybe i just dont feel comfortable or something but its a little hard to be myself. im a nice person, who will always give a hand, and im really outgoing once you get to know me, and im comfortable around you. but i'd like to be more like.. lighthearted or whatever, so i can get into relationships faster.. because some people may get bored or something because of me being kinda shyish because im not really used to them being my friend. what do i do????????? i dun like dis.

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scared and worried for my friend


Posted Monday January 29 2007, 8:19 pm

My friend has a cut on her face. I asked her how she got it, but she refused to tell me. I asked her a few more times after that but gave up because she said she couldn't say.

What I am scared is that she's cutting herself, or that her parents are abusive. I can't think of anything other than that, that would be so bad you wouldn't want to tell anyone (or be allowed to). I first thought it was her cat that scratched her but I think she would have told me.

OR.. maybe its really nothing bad and she's just looking for attention. But aside from all of that--what should I do? I am really worried about her and wish I knew why and how she got the cut. (Its a scrape, on her face)

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theres this guy...


Posted Monday January 29 2007, 9:29 am

he keeps staring at me! like in homeroom sometimes he'll be like "[insert my name here]", or I just notice that someone is staring at me, and then I look and see him. He does it on purpose, and its kinda freaky because I dont even know how to respond! Im like.. "okay.. why do you keep doing that?" and then before I'd laugh or something but he'd still do it which is awkward. maybe hes making fun of me? or trying to be my friend? i dont like him like romantically, but maybe he things I might... but I dont really think he likes like that since hes more popular than I am. It doesnt seem like he's really like being mean to me because he's not like that to most people. but what do I do? and I've asked people, and they dont kno...

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theres this guy..


Posted Monday January 29 2007, 12:09 am

he keeps staring at me! like in homeroom sometimes he'll be like "durene", or I just notice that someone is staring at me, and then I look and see him. He does it on purpose, and its kinda freaky because I dont even know how to respond! Im like.. "okay.. why do you keep doing that?" and then before I'd laugh or something but he'd still do it which is awkward. maybe hes making fun of me? or trying to be my friend? i dont like him like romantically, but maybe he things I might... but I dont really think he likes like that since hes more popular than I am. It doesnt seem like he's really like being mean to me because he's not like that to most people. but what do I do? and I've asked people, and they dont know why he does i...

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Betty


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 11:37 pm

Ok I need advice to give to my friend Betty on how NOT to feel this way. It only happens when she works (which is Monday thru Friday). She feels as if she is leading two lives. She says she gets up goes to work (being the first life), comes home (this being the second life), then does the same thing all over again the next day. BUT she ISNT in a rut. She says she has been feeling this way since her dad died 19 years ago. MY QUESTION: What can I do to help her.


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lifes a mess


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 10:55 pm


hey so im really wondering if im doing the right thing here. ok so i used to drink ... for like 6 months but during this time one of my friends (amanda) found out about it and was like i won't be your friend anymore if you drink.. so i didn't stop immediatley but now i've stopped.. but she still doesn't beleive me/has moved on to other friends so i've basically lost her. i also have this other friend (christy) who i drank with and we were really close but now that i dont drink anymore she just hangs around this other girl all the time and never with me... except at school because she hates amanda and all the girls at the lunch table we used to sit at with amanda (because amanda told these girls that we drink and now they dont look a...

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Friend's love


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 4:04 pm

Ok so im 12/f and so is my bff. Well she was recently at a Jewish sleepover camp over the weekend (Jan 12-14) and when she got back she called me up and told me some really crazy news. She said that she met this guy there and they started making out and he ended up sleeping in her bed w/ her. Now we are 12 and in 6th grade. Are town does not take things like that calmly. she obviously hasnt told her parents or anyone but her friends. i was just thinking it sounds so fake but my friend would not lie like that to me. besides there is no reason to its not like any of us had done anything like that to make her feel like she had to make it up. I'm starting to wonder if she made it up, which would make me mad, but then again i'd rather have had h...

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Are we really best friends????


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 12:44 pm

Are we best friends or not? We have known each other since I was 2 and she was 3. We see each other almost every week, and have play dates and go on trips together. We get along very well but we randomly fight. Now she is in a higher grade and in a different school. That means we don't get to see eachother very much any more. And that stinks! Her b-day is next week and we are going ice-skating. So are we still bff (Best Friends Forever)??????????????

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my friend


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 8:19 am

okay so my best friend likes this guy annd in all of hger texts it all talks about giving him head where shes gonna blah blah blah and she gave her ex-boyfriend head last weekend[they WERE going out]and then dumped him and now all she talks about is that and said she feels like a slut.wtf

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im in love with my best friend


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 1:56 am

20/m
I have known this girl for quite sometime now and we are best friends and we've been best friends for a while now. I really feel like I am truly in love with her. I would do any thing for her and any thing to be with her. She means more to me than anything in the world. I would die for her. I feel like shes the only one in the world who understands me and the only one who I am ment for. But the thing is that we are just friends. I've never done the slightest thing with her. I've liked her since I became friends with her. I don't know what to do. She's all I ever think about. And the worst part is I know for a fact that she doesn't want to be with me because she doesn't want to lose such a good friendship. Shes the only person on...

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friend--


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 1:03 am

me and my group of friends with a new girl this year..now shes a part of our group. its been about 5 months since we've been friends, and now she said that she used to cut herself and sometimes gets drunk. im not like that at all. i think thats really bad. i dont want to be peer preasured. i really like her.. whaddo i do?

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best friend have sex with my exboyfriend?


Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 12:40 am

I know this is random. But I think my best friend had sex with my exboyfriend a couple months ago. I know its horrible to think she would do something like that and guess about something like that happening. but shes had sex with other guys ((*i think shes rather a sl*t)). and she always flirted with him during and after we went out. ever since me and him broke up she was acting wierd around him since then. i can see something between them and its wierd because they hate eachother now. do you think i should say something next time she mentions him or acts around him??? we dont hang out all together so if we all see eachother its akward. :( advice please?

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