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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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I like / cant stand her !


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 11:24 am

I've known my friend since third grade and we werent always close friends, but since 6th grade we became best friends. In seventh grade I stopped being her friend for few months and I felt relieved, but at the same time I saw that she seemed like a good person and someone who I could be friends with, so we became friends again. Toward the end of seventh she drove me nuts but at the same time I still liked her. Things have been the same ever since then. Sometimes I cant stand her and dont know why I'm her friend and then 5 minutes later we're okay and I know that she is a good person. Almost everyone who knows her can't stand her and sometimes I definitely understand why, but then again she can be a good person and also she kind of has a har...

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oh boy, a friend im crushin on is seeing sum1 else


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 7:33 am

Ive got a friend, shes a girl, we were introduced by a mutual friend and pretty much hit things off right away, although at the time we were both interested in other ppl, we still got close and shared the feelings we had for eachother, but in the end decided that because of the 2 year age gap and because she lives so far away that we wouldnt date, unfortunitly the relationship i had didnt work out (supposedly because i was still "hung up" on this other girl). but fortunitly for my friend her relationship took off, and is now happy...i believe she knows that im still into her, even if shes no longer onto me, but would it be good of me as a friend to make it clear to her that i still have these feelings? or remain heartbroken over the fact that i cant have her?

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losing my bestfriend


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 2:12 am

okay so my bestfriend got this bf who she has been dating for awhile now and im really happy for her. But i just feel like she is always with him. she sees him every weekend bc he doesnt got to our school. she will ask if i wanna hangout with her but i dont want to bc her bf is there and it would feel weird help plzz

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god, i'm gonna scream. i swear...


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 11:32 pm

mk, this girl who is my best friend and has been since 3rd grade is the biggest hypocrite who has even been born on this earth.
for example, she said she hated when people go, "umm okayy?" or, "okay..." and then she does it. she said she hated the word drama and she uses it. she said she hated this girl, amanda, (who is supposedly her best friend) and then she suddenly loves her when she feels like it. she said she hated this girl, nicole, & then she acts like they are really good friends. she said she hated ae, a&f, & hco .. then she goes out and buys 30473982423 things from those places.
GOD! i can't stand it. what should i do to make her stop!?

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Can you tell if a guy likes you by his pupils ?


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 10:49 pm

Is it true that if a guy is staring at you and you look him in the eyes and his pupils are big or get big then he likes you as more than a friend ?

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Does he like me and do I like him?


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 10:46 pm

I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Bob is funny, nice, and has a good personality. Also, Bob is my friend and a boy. Sometimes I get mixed signs from him and mixed thoughts from me. In class Bob will turn around since he sits in front of me and he will just stare at me, for a long time too. I'll sit there looking at a book or whatever the class is doing and act like I dont see him, but then I look up and he keeps staring. Then, I'll say "What?" and he always says "Nothing". I always wonder, "what does nothing mean, because it must be something if you were just staring at me. Or sometimes Bob will turn around and just smile at me and I'll smile back. I dont like Bob as more than a friend, but then again I think I...

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Me and my friend's crush's relationship.


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 10:39 pm

Well, I met my best friend one year ago and once we were good friends last year she told me who she liked. I was kind of in shock and suprised, because it was the guy I thought I always sort of liked. I knew him like a year and a half before that. Throughout that whole year I had to lie and talk to her about him and I guess I was okay with it. Now and ever since then she has like him. The beginning of this school year is when I started to get kind of annoyed about how much my friend talked about him. I always felt like the relationship between me and him was different and my feelings for him were strange, because in my mind I never thought I liked him, but I didnt think I didnt like him either. Every now and then my friend would ask me thin...

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iam confused about someting?


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 7:24 pm

okay i have a best friend name jackie, i've been friends with her since freshman, is an amazing friend to me. Well i found out that couple of days ago that she was going out with a freshman on our bus which i kinda knew that was going to happen anyways becasue they have been talking to each other alot and wirting notes and stuff. Well i don't feel werid about or anything iam just happy that jackie is happy whose she is with, well like whenever we want to hang out she doesn't usually hang out with me anymore as much as we used to or writing notes in school, well i asked her if i was still her best firend and all she siad yeah i love you as my best friend, but i have a feeling that she is going to talk crap about me her "girlfriend"...

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paris hilton


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 5:54 pm

are paris hilton and britney friends? i never knew that

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my friend


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 5:51 pm

im the kind of girl who is shy around people. and i got a new best friend this year but ive never had a best friend before ive had friends but none of them have ever thought of me as their best friend. so anyways, im tired of my best friend when she comes over to my house which is like only once every 2 months all she does is take pictures of herself with my camera, its kindof a old camera but she almost broke it by pulling on it, and im tired of her shes not that funny and i dont know if i should stop being her best friend because if i do i wont have 1 so what should i do?
thanx

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stuck in the middle


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 5:02 pm

okay so my best friend [ashley] and this other girl from her school [that i know] got in a "fight" & now they telling me to talk to the other person with their words. i always have to be this kind of person with ashley. im always stuck in the middle of these kind of situations with her. and sometimes i agree with the opposite person. but i dont want to make her feel that *I* dont want to be her friend.
omg
HELP
should i tell whats the truth even though it might mess up our four years of being best friends and should i try to stay out of the situation even though it might give the impression that i dont want to help?

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friendship can be retarded.


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 2:38 pm

okay so im going to start out with the fact that my friend ashley is so awesome. but there ARE some bad points of knoeing her. she tells me everything and then when people ask if i know something that they dont they get real mad because the answer is so totally yes. shes my best friend. and some of this information is dangerous. im scared ill tell secrets that are supposed to stay unknown.
HELP
my best friend tells me too much,
victoria♥

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friend


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 1:00 pm

my names sarah 15/f.I just relized that im bisexual and i had a crush on my friend whos a girl but i dont know if i should tell her im bi.Because i don't want to hurt our friendship.So what should I do?Should i tell her?Or should i just keep crushes and friendships seperate(sp?)?

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Telling a guy how you feel.. [Guys Answer.]


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 12:23 pm

So there is this guy.. we always both kind had an unspoken thing for each other. And its been since like sixth grade and we are tenth graders now. And I figure its been long enough, and I should tell him how I feel.. but what do you think he would say?

I mean, I just cant picture how he would react?

Guys, how would you react if a girl you liked told you she liked you?

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Best friend Jealousy


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 11:31 am

(13/f) Over the years, my "best friends" have changed slightly. Not that I mean it too, we just kind of drift apart because of different reasons. I'm still in contact with all of my best friends that were in the past, we're just not AS close. Well I'm friends with this guy, and we're extremely close. (No, not a bf-gf relationship) Well, we do almost everything together. He goes shopping with me, and for my birthday we were planning to go to a huge mall and watch a movie and then go to Hot Topic and different stores. Well, at school, he used to sit with me at lunch, and now he sits with these girls, Megan and Kayla. It didn't bother me, he sat with them when I was absent. Well, yesterday I was leaving early to go to watch my cousin...

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hard to make friends


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 7:00 am

i find it hard to be myself automatically when i meet a person. i mean, even people i've known for like a year or so, i may not have really opened up to them yet. i can only do it with some people, but others, especially really outgoing people, i kinda act shy.. when im not really like that. its weird, because im normally outgoing but i guess i dont feel comfortable or something. i talk to them and stuff, and we may even be friends, but with some people.. well.. yea. how can i be myself like automatically? its hard to answer, since we're all different... but idk!

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Judged by Association


Posted Friday February 2 2007, 11:01 pm

There is thios girl that everyone on campus thinks she is a hoe. And, our friends within our circlke of frineds don't even really like her because of her permiscuity. They don't really want to be associated with her. but, she is nice to me and has nice, respectful manners. I feel like if I like someone I am going to treat them and hang out with them the same way I do everyone else. I am not a hoe I am quiet and actually have never had sex before. I feel like anyone who htinks that i am a hoe just because i hang out with her is off their rocker and just plain immature. I feel like we don't have the right to judge people and when the only person a person harms is their selves, because she is not hurting anyone else if it is true, is th...

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my old best friend


Posted Friday February 2 2007, 10:32 pm

ohkay so its like this. last year
me and my best friend were in all
of the same classes and we were
together 24/7. this year we dont
have 1 class together and never
see each other so we dont talk.
i really miss her and i talk to
her online but we never have anything
to say and shes like a stranger to me
and its weird knowing we used to be
best friends... i really wanna be her bff
again but shes always busy and can never
hang out so we keep growing farther and farther
apart.i wanna be her friend again
help =/

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bff moving


Posted Friday February 2 2007, 10:16 pm

15/f
my best friend is moving . we go to a private school but it was really hard for her single dad to pay, and he just got a job somewhere 45 minutes away. our head of school loves my best friend and really wants her to stay because our school is small and shes a really good student and athlete. anyways she can't get enough financial aid. It's not entirely final and i'm just wondering what i can possibly do. I would be entirely devestated, absolutely miserable if she left, we are really close and I don't have many other close friends at school. what should i do, I have no idea how to cope, i'm so upset. please help

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movies tonight need advice ASAP


Posted Friday February 2 2007, 6:11 pm

i'm going to the movies tonight with my friend Lucas. its a late show though. i forgot to tell my dad about it until today, but he said i couldn't go. the movies at 9:15 and i need advice on how to convince him that lucas is actually a really good guy. i'm not completly sure why he says no..but i think it has something to do with what happened when my brothers and sisters were my age (my sisted ended up dropping out of school cuz of it). how can i convince him that i'm NOT like my siblins?

please help me..i don't have that much time..

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