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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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carnations.


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 7:16 pm

i have this idea to like buy a carnation for random kids at school that normally dont get appreciated. i dont want to tell my friends and such, so they dont tell others, so that they'll expect it.. then it wont be the same. like i'll buy 1 or 2 roses for like the kids, and the people will give it to them. i read it in a book called "chicken soup for the teenage soul" or whatever, that someone did that and it like changed their life. so do you think this is a good idea? :]

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Why an i always the unnoticed one?


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 6:09 pm

I'm always unnoticed, no matter what group I'm in. My friends in my group now sometimes don't even realize I'm there, and i really feel like they dont care about me or dont want to hang out with me. How can i be noticed, and make people smile, and just flat out like me? It seems like no one in my group thinks of me as a good friend besides maybe 2 people. It makes me really sad and i'm not confident or loud, but thats what i really want to be. How can i do that? How can i make people notice me? thanks..

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guy situation


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 6:03 pm

this guy that i like, he's really nice and all, but i dont understand him. ive tried starting convos with him but they never work out or turn out to be a few sentences. im friends with his friends and vice versa, but we always end up talking indirectly. here's an example. we would be in a small group at school. i would say something about 1 of the guys were talking to & he would reply back talking to that guy. that probably doesnt make much sense. it would go like this- me:heyy remember when this happened him:yeah dude [to the other guy] that was really funny. never directly talking to me if that makes sense?? anyway, even if i am talking he wont join in the convo and just watches me talk. does he really not like me or something? also i...

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Smelly Effects


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 5:50 pm

The other day I had to step out of my dorm room to ask a question to someone but my hair was in really terrible shape so I coudn't go out there looking like that. So I put on my shower cap to go out because I lost my headscarf. But, the thing was my shower cap smelled and once I walked down the hall I could smell it and it was a strong enough odor for others to smell I believe. I was near about 3 people one girl was standing on the other side of the desk another girl was sitting at the desk I was standing at but she was sitting down and another was standing on my opposite side but she was facing the opposing direction of me. Do you think anyone else smelled it and if so how do you think that will effect me and people I comunicate with on a daily basis?

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best friend changed dramatically


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 4:04 pm

i met one of my best friends last year in school & he was one of the most nicest & helpful people i've ever met. this year, his parents got a divorce & he's been acting very different since this happened. i don't know what it's like because my parents aren't divorced but from what i hear, it's devastating. another problem is my friend has a heart problem, too, & he has seizures at times & he could even die. i try helping him & asking him to hang out with my & my friends like any other good friend would do but he always pushes me away & he started hanging out with a new group of people. they're not bad or anything but he tells them that i'm annoying & he doesn't hang out with my group anymore. i've done no...

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BEST FRiENDS <3


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 3:44 pm

So me & tthis boy have been best friends for 3 years ` we tell each other EVERTHiNG about our personal life , problems , about his girlfriends , my boyfriends ; but everyone thinks we like each other & no matter HOW MANY TiMES WE SAY WERE LiKE brother adn sister . they still wont listen . its so damn aggervating` i swear . helpp ?

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Why is she made at me?


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 1:16 pm

well my bff asked me 2 make-out w/her man so i did the next time at skool me and my bff"s man were in a library and he made out w/me he cam on 2 me and now my Bff is PISSED at me and now we r in a BIG fight wat do i do?o i forgot the night b4 she presured me into fucking her man but i didn't.

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A friend wants to know my fantasies.


Posted Tuesday February 6 2007, 2:20 am

Okay, I'm 17/m and have a beautiful girlfriend that I've even promised to merry(sp?). Anyways, I have a friend that I was talking to, 15/f, and we got into a discussion. This discussion was about sex, we were talking and she asked me what I was thinking about. This was kind of weird because she usually can assume what it is. She kept wanting to know and then she asked me to email her my fantasies that I have about her. I hate to say this but I do have fantasies about her as well as my gf and sometimes all three of us. I know most of you think thats sick but were all young and young people do stupid things. Anyways, I'm scared and don't know what to do. Should I give into temptation and reveal my fantasies or keep them to myself? Is ...

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what do u do when your friend...


Posted Monday February 5 2007, 11:09 pm

what do u do when your friends tell you that you have changed alot ever since u got with your boyfriend??
the other day my sister told me that i've been alot more bitchier ever since i got with my boyfriend kyle which was almost a month ago.
and then my best friend just told me that everyone has noticed it.
she said that i act like im better than everyone and im alot more bitchier and everything.
i just dont know what i am supose to do about that. should i break up with my boyfriend or just ignore everyone else??

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myspace was hacked!


Posted Monday February 5 2007, 9:28 pm

alright im fifteen yers old and i had over 900 friends on myspace till today when it was hacked. The only one who knew my password was austin my best friend! would he do something like this? He said he would never, and I belive him but I have a doubt too. Idk whoever hacked it only left me with 12 friends im pissed

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weird situation


Posted Monday February 5 2007, 8:34 pm

there's this guy that i like & hes just a nice person. the thing is, im friends with his friends & so we talk in small groups during class a lot. i talk to them, they talk to me, etc etc. hes been in almost every one of my classes & sits near me in all. we never actually talked. i mean yeah we exchanged words about a class assignment or something, but that's about it. in my one class, a group of people would talk & they would all talk to me yet he wouldn't. im completely ignored by him. i've tried talking about this class were taking & it just didn't work out. i mean, if im talking he'll look at me but will never respond, or join in on the convo, etc. maybe im not social to the extreme, but i do talk to his friends &...

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kinda hurt that he hasn't told me..


Posted Monday February 5 2007, 7:10 pm

okay, so i went snowboarding this weekend, and 2 of my guy friends came. (they're best friends) and 1 of them i like, and the other one likes me. neither of them know i like the 1st one. Anyways, the second guy told me that the 1st guy is going out with this girl, who basically has a new boyfriend every week. however, guy 1 and i are really good friends and he hasn't mentioned it, even when we came really close to the subject. i don't want to say anything, because i want him to tell me on his terms. but i don't know why he hasn't told me! we talk about everything.. its so weird. what should i make of this, do you think?

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am i being too hard on her?


Posted Monday February 5 2007, 4:01 pm

one of my friends, sarah, used to be big into drugs and that, but when she met me, she stopped.she promised me that she wouldnt do drugs again, because she knows how against it i am, and because she didnt want to do them anymore. about six months later, she told me she had smoked a cigarette. i was really mad, but i was glad she told me. she once again promised me she was done with all that. about a month later, she told me she had smoked weed and smokes cigartees twice again. that time i didnt talk to her for like a day, then she, ONCE again, promised me she wouldnt. that was about a week ago, then yesterday, she told me she got "baked" over the weekend and smoked a bucn of cigarettes. she told me that she didnt want to do it aga...

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what should i tell him?


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 11:39 pm

there's this guy patrick and me and him got really close over winter break... too close, we even made out... so then i told him that i didn't like him "like that", he acted really cool about it but then the next time i saw him he called me a fatass a bunch of times, said that he hated me, and threw my cell phone in the snow.

the next day he texted me on my cell and said hey whats up, so how're you, exc.

then after him doing this for about a month he told my friend that he hated me and i was a stuck up b****, and i f*** with people until i get what i want.

but, he still texts me and says that i'm beautiful and stuff... what should i say to him?

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When you aren't accepted


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 10:28 pm

I am a little anti-social and that is because I am used to getting left out and feeling not accepted. so I was talking to two of the few people i do feel somewhat close to a male and a female that i joke with and talk to often. And, they begin to discuss something that happened in one of the dorms and They said that someone was in lets say the dorm cyrna and i said who was in cyrna and the male said nobody. like I wasn't accpeted and trusted enough to know what they were talking about. Do i take things too personally are what? Because it made me feel like we weren't close at all.

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before i was best friends with them..there was no problem.


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 8:39 pm

at my school we have teams -- 7-1, 7-2, and 7-3. i used to be on 7-1, but then i got switched to 7-2 because i was having problems in math. 7-2 is also the team one of my best friends are on. before now, we never fought, got mad at each other, or anything like that. i've made best friends with alot of her close friends because i have most of my classes with them. ever since that...she's been yelling at me for the most stupidest things. on her AIM profile, she used to always have something about me on there and she took me out. i don't really care about "profiles", but i just thought it was weird of her cause she normally freaks out if i'm not on hers. if i'm talking to one of them and we're saying something about one of our inside...

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awkwardness with friends


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 7:08 pm

15/f


So. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little more than five months. we do alot of things together. making out, fingering, him feeling me up, phone sex. stuff like that.

My problem is that my parents are SO OVERPROTCETIVE. they will not let me go to his house. he can't come over here without me having like three other people over besides him.

So pretty much all we do is go to private places like after school (closets, behind dumpsters, lame. i know) or go to the movies(my parents won't let me go with just him, so i have to usually bring along friends or go with a larger group)

SO yesterday, we went to see dreamgirls (AMAZING MOVIE btw)and it was me, him, an...

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friends


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 5:57 pm

i have a lot of friends. but i only have like 7 close friends that i acualy hag oiut with. does anyone have any ideas on howi can ge closer with my other friends?

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wasnt sure what catagory really.


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 2:04 pm

About 3 months ago me and my ex broke up. We had only gone out a little over a month and he broke up with me cause of some other girl he liked. But we managed to still be good friends and we hang out and stuff, but with groupd of people not alone. Well the other day he got a new girlfriend, and its been making me really sad. Cause ya see i guess im still not fully over it all. I am 16 and he was my first boyfriend so it was like big to me (not to sound obsessed or whatever) but we had a good relationship everyone said so. I wasnt in love with him cause we didnt go out long enough but i guess just wished it lasted. So how can i help myself get over him. Thanks.

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Close friend / boyfriend ?


Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 11:35 am

Well I'm not sure and I mean I'm Really not sure if I like my guy friend as a close friend like a brother or as a boyfriend. What are some signs or things that tell I probably like a guy as a more than a friend and as just a friend?

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