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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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is she my friend??


Posted Monday February 12 2007, 11:37 pm

i am 19 male, i have this friend who is girl.. let me first make it clear that i am just interested in friendship with her...

i ll start from the beginning, about in the starting of this year at college, she joined our friend cirle..we were having no problems, and helped her in whatever way possible regarding her relation with her boyfriend. however she had a small fight with one of the friends.. she didnt feel comfortable being with us any more...she joined an another friend circle... now she continues to talk to me... she share her thoughts with me that she shares with no one else{atleast as far as i believe}... recently she broke up with her boy friend also at the same time her mother fell ill, she asked for my help and i ...

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what are they saying/thinking?


Posted Monday February 12 2007, 11:27 pm

I'm a freshman highschool girl and this year I've really grown up this year. You could say I've grown into my looks. I stand with the same group of people every morning before classes and every morning I get these little smiles from the guys. They also look at me then when i turn around to look at them they quickly look away and then say something and kinda point at me. Is this a good or bad thing? I think its good but I don't want to get my hopes up too high. So what are the guys saying/thinking? Boys answers would really help but girls should answer too.

Thanks in advance:]

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Battle between BFF's


Posted Monday February 12 2007, 9:55 pm

I have this BFF who's soo funny and cool, but she hates my other BFF who is also funny and cool!! Whenever i talk to her my other BFF gets mad and won't speak to me for the rest of the day!! She also makes fun of the other BFF in front of me and it irritates me!! I still want to be friends with both of them but how do I please them both at the same time!!??!!

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my friends a bully


Posted Monday February 12 2007, 5:56 pm

ive been friends with this girl for like 3 years..shes really bossy to me and all my friends. like if we say something she doesnt agree with shell say something like are you friggen retarded? or your so stupid. but she says these things like constantly. and alot of the times when we say something shell like slap our arms or something and shes a big girl and were all pretty small and it hurts and if we tell her to stop it hurts she just say oo boo hoo. she told me once i treat her like shit because i leave her out of the crowd and i wanted to say mabye if you were nicer i wouldnt but i knew if i said that she would get mad. how do i deal with something like this. me and my friends are tired of this.

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fake friends or not?


Posted Monday February 12 2007, 5:40 pm

14/9th grade]]/female
can somebody define fake (regarding people)..because i called my friend fake today, and she said "Im not fake, how about you define fake then." and it was there, but i couldn't do it. can somebody define it and then tell me if this is a fake girl.

--My freind who told me to define fake, over the summer she made me basically hate one of my BESTBEST freinds from 8th grade, and then she told them i have been talking about them which started a huge fight. Then she became freinds with the girl who she and I were both talking about, and are now best freinds. Also over the summer, she told me everything (which now she hasnt) and she said how much she hates these certain girls who she was frien...

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she doesnt know its ABUSE


Posted Monday February 12 2007, 4:36 pm

my friend is getting abused by her boyfreind but she doesnt know it. i can tell, because she says "i called him an a$$hole and then he slapped me., but i forgive him because you know, if he called me a b***** i would slap him" or how she says "me and him had sex, i didnt really feel like it but i mean i am his girlfreind, i kinda HAVE to". and how he can check her phone atleast once a day. She just says its him making sure that noone is calling her that could harm her. Oh please the only harm that she has is him. What should i do? Ive told her a few times its considered abuse if he hurts her in anyway, and forcing her to have sex, even if shes his girlfriend, is rape. And checking peoples phones to make sure they arent c...

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are my freinds back stabbing trash talkers


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 11:20 pm

I have alot of friends, but not alot of best freinds..people i wuld consider bffs. ANyways, i'll be talking to one freind and then another one will come and we'd all be talking, then the 2 would have to go to there lockers and would meet me at class or lunch soon, but i have a huge feeling in my gut they are now talking shit about me at there lockers. do you think they r or do u think that im being paranoid. becuase at times i feel they are since they are SOMETIMES during some convos before they go to' there lockers on each odd day b4 lunch, they sometimes say when i say outrageous things "your so weirdd *giggles alittle*". it seems after they leave that they are saying like 'omg shes so annoying. wowww"

PLEASE HELP!

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A friend


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 11:01 pm

How do you deal with a grown woman (this is a friend of mine) that has to have every comment you say to her spelled out (explained)? And do you know why she does this. Here are two examples: (1) Her boyfriend did her taxes and asked her to help him proof it and when he asked her to read something she asked him; why would I read that that is information you know I know; (2) she was driving her uncle to the store and her uncle knows she always goes that way to this store but when her uncle questioned if she was going the right way and when her uncle admitted she was right and he was wrong she said why would you question me when you know I always go this way.

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talking with friends at school


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 8:57 pm

How do you start and keep a convo going?

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I need advice!


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 8:27 pm

Two nights ago i was out with some friends and we wanted to call my "bff" to see what she would say. she is now going out with my brother and it ruined our friendship. she was say that she used me to get to my brother and it really bothers me. and saying that she wanted to fight me because she knew she would beet me up. i dont no what to do now she talked about me behind my back. i am confused and i would like to have someones advice. thank you
Chrissy19

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fake smile??


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 8:14 pm

is it bad to pretend your happy when inside your totally broken inside? Is it wrong to change or just be happy because people are tired of hearing me cry? Is it dramatic if you cry yourself to sleepover somethign you thought was real?

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backstabber?


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 7:00 pm

my best friend is dating my crush of three years-- she knows that i like him. infact we almost dated last year but some things happened and it didnt work out. ive never liked someone as much as i liked him, she knows that. she acts like she forgot. what should i do? do i want someone like that in my life?

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Open up to each other


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 4:42 pm

I have a best friend he's totally cool he's nearly sixteen..We trust each other a lot i can open up to him about anything...Espeicially things at home and stuff
Me and him have such a laugh its untrue..haha :D...I had troubles-he listens and thats what i need a good listner
I say a problem and he says the answer and its exactly how i feel we've known each other for more than a year!!:)). And then our friendship has grown and grown we are soo close..:)

I dont know how i feel..
Help me !

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my bff had sex at 10


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 2:42 pm

my bff just told me she had sex for her first time when she was 10 and shes still havin sex alot shes only 13 she says not to tell anyone or else she'll be grounded for life

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my guy friend


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 1:41 pm

I have a friend thats a guy and I think I might like him as more than a friend. Sometimes I want to get that idea of my head and try and get rid of the feeling, is that possible? Honestly, not to be mean, but this guy isn't cute at all, but his personality is. I've never been attracted to someone based on the personality though and its weird. If I do decide to like him, then what's some ways to flirt with him, but not make it obvious that I like him ?

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Trip to Brazil


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 1:34 pm

Ok.. I really want to go to Brazil sometime soon to see a good friend of mine. I was wondering if anyone knew how I could 1)talk my mom into letting my go and 2) how i can go there for cheap.. any suggestions?

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i hATE girls (no offence)


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 6:36 am

so the problem is that I AM A GIRL and i hate other girls. i can't stand them. i think their so weird and discusting. and i am a girl myself. and i only have guy friends. and i only like guys.
seriously i think guys are the only normal creatures in this world. and it makes me so angry hearing girls talking about girl stuff. it's just SO anoying. and when they scream cause they are so excited over something. it always makes me pissed. and seriously i am obsessed with guys. i dress like a guy , i act like a guy a lot , and i only have guy friends , and i am so crazy about guys haha
and i don't get myself.
is this behavior normal? or am i a weird person?

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I dont know if im intrerpting wrong


Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 2:03 am

Okay My friend was talking to this kid online
and the conversation went kind of like this:
boy= bill
my friend=jill

Jill:So is kelsy still being the same?
Bill:yeah i guess
Jill:she used to be my best friend until that girl keria came
Bill:i hate her so much
Jill:why
Bill: she is weird and stuff

now my question is, when he said he hates her
was he talking about Kelsey or Keria?
my friend didnt ask
Thanks
14/f

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Is it over?


Posted Saturday February 10 2007, 9:41 pm

Two years ago I became best friends with Jess. She was so much fun to hang out with and she is just like me. My family became and like hers and I was practically in there family. But about 2 months ago she got a boyfriend. Now they are attached. They do pretty much everything together, and if you hang out with them both they make out like 500 in front of you. I never get to hang out with her. I tried to tell her and she agreed and said we'd hang out more but we have really grown apart. She has this new friend now and they are getting close and I hate it because she hasnt even called me. I've atleast tried to hang out with her but I guess she is done with me. But I do have another best friend. But my point is I miss her and all the good time...

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friends


Posted Saturday February 10 2007, 9:38 pm

Friends change...How do you kno who is your real friend. I mean people can be soooo sarcastic. How do u kno if they are playing or mean it...

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