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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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dress question


Posted Monday February 19 2007, 12:37 am

what should i wear to a james bond party theme :S ???????? pleease help im a girl please put some pictures or something its urgent

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(feels like)shes taking over


Posted Monday February 19 2007, 12:36 am

ok my best friend's birthday was on friday. for her birthday, she went to the movies with her other best friend( my xbest friend) and she spent the night at her house, yaddayaddaydadda
well my problum is, my friend barely even TALKED to me durring the weekend.
whenever shes around her other friend, she doesnt really talk to me too much, either.
also, for her birthday, her other friend baked her cookies and made her a card with a picture of her and pictures of all of her friends around it(my picture was mysteryously hard to reconize and a dark gray color) and i only had time to give my friend a cherry-cream filled hershy's kiss.
my point is, i dont want my friend to think her other friend cares more about her tha...

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evry1 dies i get deppressed then i cant see my bff


Posted Monday February 19 2007, 12:35 am

my bff is a guy im a girl~hes more of a prep im like turnin goth~his mom wont let him see me him come over or i go over~ever since every1 started dieing i started hating life and becoming gothic~he started talkin more like flirting is it like love,friends,or just sorry for me???

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tired of helping everybody else out with their problems


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 10:23 pm

well alot of my friends come to me for advice and help with their problems. i usually dont mind helping other people out because im good at it, but it seems like no one ever asksme or cares about wahts going on with me. like today i was in such a bad (sad) mood and all these people kept asking me for advice and it was just hard to deal. and so i would not talk as much as usual, then they'd ask if i were mad at them, i'd say no i'm just in a bad mood, and they'd continue to talk about themselves and not even ask why or care. and then there's this guy and i used to kinda like him but now i dont and all he ever does is ask me for advice with this one girl and it still kinda hurts. i just dont know what to do,

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im a stupid loser!


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 9:56 pm

ok well i am head over heels for my ex. i really and truly love him. but i broke up with him cuz i thought i liked another guy. im going out with him now, but after the dance last night, im pretty sure im not gonna like the relationship. my ex is completely in love with me still. what should i do? the new guy would be crushed. i havent even told my ex i had a new boyfriend. im such a stupid loser! argh!

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She won't leave me alone!


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 7:27 pm

There's this girl named Pam. She was in my art class, and she was really shy, so I felt bad and started to talk to her because she didn't have any friends. Now, I don't have any classes with her except History and English. She won't leave me alone! Everytime she sees me, she follows me. We're not even in the same 4th period class, but she waits for me at my locker anyway! I try to ditch her, but she doesn't get it. She thinks we're best friends. One time, I was talking to my friend in the hallway, and she just comes up to me and stands next to me. There's a dance in school coming up, and I want to go, but I'm pretty sure she'll go and follow me. Should tell her that I'm not going, and go anyway?

14/f. Sorry that was so long!

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Driving me crazy!


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 6:50 pm

She is everywhere. Won't let me breathe, all the time we have to be together. Do everything together, all the time! AHG! It's driving me crazy! I've tried telling her, but I couldn't do it, I'm like her only friend! I've given her hints but she's not picking them up or she is just ignoring them. What can I do? I am actually ahsamed of being seen with her! I'm got a good friend, she's really nice and all and she desevres a friend who can give her all she wants but I'm not that friend.....But I still don't want to call it an end to our friendship, seems a bit drastic. And, we hang in the same gang so she's 100% unavoidable!!! She wants to be BFF's and I just can't do that! She's driving be crazy, alll the time she needs to prove to everyone t...

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I HATE TWO OF MY BFFS


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 6:39 pm

OK so I was friends with my bff who i've been bffs with since i was 5, and now i'm 13/f
but at the beginning of this year the schools merged & we met this girl lindsay. I HATE HER SO MUCH! first we started hanging out with these girls molly & kayla who turned out to be pretending to be our friends the whole time! *hate them too* that's what lindsay told us. so then we turned out being bffs with lindsay until the point where me and kristen (my other EX-bff) got tired of the drama. lindsay is ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT THE POPULAR GIRLS & HOW JEALOUS SHE IS & HOW THEY backstab each other, when she doesn't realize SHE'S EVEN WORSE! She told me not to be friends with my other bff, Lynnette, & lynnette is my only good friend...

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so much drama!


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 3:05 pm

15/f. i'm sorry if this is long, i'll try to keep it as short as possible...between all of my friends there has been so much drama lately and it seems to all be about me. i don't think i'm doing anything wrong, but maybe i am and i just don't realize it. i have two really good friends katie and nicole and now we are like breaking apart. me and katie are still really close but nicole is becoming really rude and ignoring us all the time. but i know that katie and nicole have been friends FOREVER so they will always be friends no matter what. katie tells me that nicole says mean things about me to her when i'm not around. i kind've believe katie but i can't believer her 100% because she might be over exaggerating. i don't know who to trust any...

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Which party? Need answer very sooon


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 12:30 pm

Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like...

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Which party?


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 11:43 am

Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like...

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ahh i feel horrible for thinking this


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 10:42 am

i have a little situation...my best friend who i've know all my life, shes always been there i really can't remember my life without her in it. and recently we've been working out and trying to get in shape for s.b 07..and anyways i hateee that i'm saying this and thinking this, but like er i sometimes don't wanna go places with her because shes not really like pretty and i hate that i just said that. and i wanna give her a makeover because she could be soo pretty if she only wore cuter clothes for her body did some stuff with her hair, and other stuff. but i don't know what to do. i don't wanna tell her that or anything but i don't know what to do. and i just feel horrible for ever thinking. so ah i don't know what to do!

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are my friends trying to ignore me?


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 10:11 am

Every time I want to talk to my friends, I have to go up to them myself and talk to them. They never go to me to talk. None of them!! Whenever I am on AIM, nobody ever IMs me unless I IM them first. Same thing goes with any situation and I am sick and tired of that, because I wish I didn't have to start the conversation all the time.

I do ask them why they don't talk to me first, but then they say, "I am sorry. I'll do it next time" but they never do!!

What's going on and what can I do??

Thanks

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quick question


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 6:55 pm

my boyfriend is cheating on me with my bff what should i do?
do you think i should dump him or get rid of my bff?

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im in love with my best friend


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 5:43 pm

ok well ive been friends with this guy for about 6 or 7 years maybe even longer and well ive had feelings for him since the 4th grade but i didnt say anything because i dont wanna ruin our relationship. But my feelings for him are getting stronger and idk what to do. I think there might be a chance that he likes me...He talks and messes around with me on the bus and on the way home from school when we are walking together he pushes me in the snow and other stuff, And when its rainy or really cold he will give me a ride home...
do you think he likes me?
should i ask him out or tell him how i feel??


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should i rat her out? please help!


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 3:40 pm

ok, well i have a friend who ive been bringing to the mall for a while now, and recently she has been hooking up with some guy there, and her parents deffinitly wouldnt approve of this. well, this girl's father has seen pictures of this boy, my friend, and i, and have found conversations this guy and my friend have had online together and she is pretty much figured out. from when she first started meeting up with this guy i wasnt to sure of it, and i didnt want to have any part of it, but she would guilt me and con me into taking her to the mall. well last night, she guilted me into taking her once again, and her father called my mom wondering where she was, cause she didnt even ask to go to the mall, she just left, and her dad didnt even k...

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idk if i have confidence in myself...... HELP


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:20 pm



like sometimes i'd feel pretty confident and stuff and then later i'd be like kinda embarassed or something about things.. its kinda confusing. i guess cause sometimes i want attention and then when i get it i dont want so much of it, but like.. AHH! and other things too.. like im confused if i have alot of selfesteem. i believe that i do but sometimes i dont actually like feel it. :/ whats my diagnosis, advicenators? and whats my medication?

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Going Clubbing


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 11:57 am

I am going clubbing for the first time and i donn't really know what to do I don't want to feel left out, bored, and boring so how to keep the party going, fit in and have fun?

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im too shy.


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:40 am

i can never keep a good conversation going, unless someone else starts something i can go on about. its really weird. its because i think so much, i think. whenever im out with friends, i dont talk very much unless someone talks to me first, and i usually suck at keeping a conversation going, and i feel like all my friendships are failing. i feel so self-councious all the time. i hate it. im always worrying that im boring someone or something like that. what should i do?

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beautiful to ugly


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:40 am

okay this boy trevor , who i thought was my friend used to tell me how pretty i was and stuff and how i was fun to talk to and idk but we were just friends. like nothing more that that .. and well we were talking sunday night about this kid matthew and i was like yeah matthews hot but he wouldnt remember me anyways cause i met him for like five seconds and hes like yeah matthew said that you didnt look bad in your pics but your ugly in person? ... but i dont think matthew even remembers me or knows my name but whatever .. i told him to ask him where he saw me on monday and he said he would .. but he hasnt talked to me since and i kept asking him if he was mad at me but he wouldnt say anything or he'd delete my comment ... so today i texted ...

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