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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Help for Him


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 9:30 pm

I have an ex-boyfriend who is like a total jerk. (or at least everyone thinks so) He's really mean to me, but I feel sorry for him.
Well, he kinda has hard time with his family, and he has hard time to fit in at our school... and almost everyone hates him..
But I know that he really is not that bad and he just needs friends.
My friends always keep me away from him, well, maybe that's kinda because he's been following me around and messing up with my personal stuff with my (current) boyfriend. And now, I hear that my friends are going to do something to him. (I do not know what, but I think they are going to blame him on something he doesnt do or take something that is precious to him) and I dont want them to do whate...

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a boy.


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 5:23 pm

there was this guy i knew. i didn`t know him for very long, but he was soo chill. seriously. he was the best. he was pronounced dead early yesterday morning. i can`t stop cyring, and i don`t want my parents to ask about it because they don`t know that i hang out with guys like him, he`s.. well, a gangster. i just need to be able to stop crying, but i can`t. how do you cope with the death of a friend ?

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BFF


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 3:41 pm

okay so i am redoing my room and i am getting like this self thing on my wall ti out my books on and i had all the clique book and i told my firend she could keep for alittel bit. but now i want them how doi tel her i want them back now??or am i being mean?

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old friends


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 12:30 pm

my family used to hang out with another family every so often quite a few years ago. but every now and then we see them around but we dont really get together anymore. the boy that is my age has gotten really cute and his sister is a little younger but shes really nice and i like her alot. i see the sister sometimes at sports but not too much. i wanted to know if you guys think it would be a good idea to try to get to know them again. like try to get their screen names or talk to the girl when i see her about hanging out sometime to catch up. what do you guys think? and if we did would it seem weird if i was to just i.m. the brother to say hi again, like what if he doesnt rmemeber me i know the sister does but im not sure about him would it be weird or should i go for it? thanks!

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help plz ASAP!


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 11:54 am

i have a big prob. ... i added my friend and i told him that im another person... and now he found out and he's angry at me... i know that was wrong... but i really wanted to be his friend n i guess i thought he might think somethin u know that i like him or somethin which i dont...
can you please help me ASAP... please please please
thanks alot!!

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Help plz


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 11:20 am

this might be long but bare with me plz..
I have a friend tht had jus came new to our school so i be friended her and made her into my group but then she tried getting very close to my boyfriend like shed only tell HIM what she did with other guys wen she had first met him and wudnt tell me anything she would just tell him and shes prety slutty liek she gave blowjobs,handjobs,made out with random guys and got fingered and all that and she would just tel him and tried to get so close to him and so there was a tiem period he stoped talkin to her and she got angry and started making stories bout me to my firneds like tel them i said bad things bout them i never said and told ppl i started rumors about them...what is she tryin to do why ...

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i need help with a friend


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 6:23 am

alright so heres the thing,
1 of the girls i liked at 1 stage recently got dumped by her boyfriend, she keeps putting herself to blame for the reason she was dumped, and i think she is slightly depressed, she thinks nobody likes her, which isnt true cause shes one of the most poplular in year 8, and i think shes at the point where she is going to get hurt,
i dont want anything to happen to her cause shes one of by best girl friends(friendship) can somebody please help me if you could thanks in advance

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making me choose.


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 2:36 am

okay, so i will get right to it.

last year my best friend and i got in a huge fight & didnt talk for like 3-4 months.. but then we apologized blah blah & so on.. now we aren't best friends, but working towards it again, i guess you could say.

over that time & this year, however, i have also gotten close to some of my other friends.

so flat out, my group of good friends aren't nearly as good of friends with my old best friend so i can never hang out with them both at one time, so its really hard for me.
my group of friends are basically making me choose & think im ditching them for her [ive only hung out with my old bf twice this whole year] and its not fair and i dont k...

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Best Friend?? What Happened??


Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 12:04 am

My best friend and I have been really close. We used to tell eachother anything and everything. We always stood up for eachother and we always taught eachother new things. Basically we were best best friends. She has a boyfriend which she has been going out with for over a year now. They are really good for eachother. They used to get into fights because she always flirted with other guys (majorly one time she gave 2 guys a shoulder rub for no reason) but he'd always come back and appologize. I always tried to help her with their problems and I hated when she was upset.

But a girl in school made up a rumor about me being a total flirt. I didn't really mind because all the guys were on my side BUT then my best friend (lets ca...

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should i feel guilty for being happy?


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 11:44 pm

14/f
this is probably going to be long.

ok so i met my best friend gab when i was 6. This past summer, she met some new people and became good friends with them. Best friends with 2 of them actually, even though i was supposedly still first. They hung out every day and spent so much time together that i felt left out and depressed. Now Gab has never been in a relationship, neither had andrea [one of the girls she became best friends with]. This past week while I was on vacation, Andrea got a boyfriend. I came back today and Gab immediately told me what happened, and details and everything. She says shes not sure if she and andrea will be very close much longer because of this. When she told me this, I felt a tiny bit o...

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so my friend said... and i cried


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 10:27 pm

15/f

let me give you a little backround information before i ask you my questuon, or get into my actual story.

when i was like really really little i had this sleep over with my friends at my dad's house, my dad's a little too huggy, ya know what i mean? like when a parent hugs kids who have really big personal space bubles... so anyway there was like this group counceling thing and all of my friends got together and talked about how inaproprite my dad is, so there was a bunch of legal action taken and stuff like that (which is still going on now that i'm 15 instead of 7) so anyway, long story short i have some really serious issues diriving from this case thing... and one of which is that i think it's all my ...

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Does my (girl) friend like me (girl) as more than a friend ?


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 10:26 pm

My friend and I are good friends. But sometimes I'll catch my friend staring at me, and staring at me like she's mesmorized or something. It's not just that she stares at me, but she's stares at my boobs, at least that what I think, because it doesnt look likes shes looking at my face. Shes next to me all the time like in a give me some space kind of thing. Is she crushin on me or what.. ?


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typical me


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 8:36 pm

I don't like it when one of my friends likes a guy who i flirt with. Because then I can't flirt with him anymore. My problem is, I still do. I know I need to stop but I do it anyways. I like to flirt I have to admit. I don't want to hurt my friend. I already did once before by flirting with a guy my friend liked then hooking up with him. Is it weird I don't like it when my friend likes a guy I flirt with? Should I stop flirting with him? *even though I know my friend doesn't have a chance and the guy doesn't like her??

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liking the same girl


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 7:38 pm

Ok me and my freind were at the mall and, we soo a freind of mine. He didnt no her. I have non her since fourth grade. Anyway ive liked for about a month now and, he came on to her today and, followed her everywere, he wouldnt stop she was hitting on both of us. I dont no who she likes but, my freind i think no's I like her. What should I do? Hes relly cocky. And can you give me some advice on how to get her to like me. Im pretty shure she likes me though, cause in the movie she wouldnt stop like leaning on me and, and my freind was like trying to get her but it wasnt working. But she said me and her were at a party and she said me and her had sex and I got her pergnet and she has a miss carage. I no I didnt so I went along with it. But wha...

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FITTING IN!! please read this!!!


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 6:53 pm

14/f NY

okay well their this group of girls at my school and for some dumb reason i want them to like me.
I mine i think some of them like me and stuff. I think we are school friends but i wanna be like who you would call on friday night to hang out! i have been tring to be nice to them. Like i site with them at lunch and stuff like that.But idk okay so one day at lunch they started talking about some made up storie like the wierdst stuff like a dog with 5 legs and they were trying to get me to say that i saw it to but like they were just going on and on about and they were all in on it.. i felt like crying but i didnt.does anyone know what they were tring todo?? CAN ANYONE HELP ME TO GET THEM TO LIKE ME!!!!!!!!


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my best friend keeps bailing on me.


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 5:12 pm

okay, me & my best friend have been friends since 7th grade. we're like sisters cause our bond is so strong. well we haven't hung out in a while because her mom all of a sudden hates me for nothing, so we haven't been able to chill for a little while. well we were supposed to go to a concert together on sunday [the 18th]. her dad said she could go, her mom said she couldn't. then her dad said that she couldn't go because he didn't wanna hear her mom's shit. [her parents are seperated]. anyways, i thought well "okay, i'll find someone else to go with." i found someone else, but the night before the concert my "bff" says "oh babe, we're gonna hang out tonight & whatever." and her dad said she could, but t...

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my (ex?) bff


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 4:47 pm

I'm 14/f/tn
Okay well recently my best friend pretty much dumped me as a friend.. it was really stupid. I didn't really do anything to her, she's the one who told my secrets to people, chose her bf over me, ect. Anyways so I really miss her.. But i dont know how to approach her to fix things. She's about a year younger than me and is acting like a total brat but is a really awesome person most of the time and i miss talking to her. Like i dont want to be bffs again, i just want to be friends. I know you'll probably say 'why would you want to be best friends with someone who tells your secrets and chooses her bf over you' but she's better than that, she just changed this year. So any advice on how to talk to her? (I already tried flat...

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jealous


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 3:49 pm

well my best friend just got a boyfriend .. and he's cute and nice and i really am very happy for her. i've never had a boyfriend (we are 15) and i want one .. so i always feel jealous when friends get boyfriends. and like i am soooo happy for them .. but i wish i had one too. how can i get over that feeling of jealousy?

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something mean


Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 12:57 pm

so on my myspace someone wrote something that really hurt my feelings but idontknow hu it is. it was telling me im a whore basiclly can you please help me.

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Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 10:33 am

should you always stick up for a friend even when you know they're wrong?

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