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out of proportion
Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 3:12 pm
okay....i wanna know if i'm blowing this out of proportion...... my friend, who says shes my bff, likes the guy i like, and he likes her back. i was @ his house with her and something happened....i didnt find out until several days later when we were at lunch. she was talking about a convo he had with another friend of his and it ended up comming up in our convo. i asked her about it and she denied everything at first. then she said something to another friend of mine and they had a whole convo on it and didnt tell me anything. i got up and left the lunch table after accidently hitting her. i felt really bad about it and she kept dragging it on even when she knew i felt bad about it. she eventually told me after i flipped out on her. she sa...
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I don't know how to talk to her about this
Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 11:26 am
I have this friend, and I've known her for... my whole life, however I'm not sure how much I can trust her with things, because I don't feel like her friend sometimes. I feel as if I'm second best; a last resort. If I'm there, I'm always there: reliable as always. It's like she considers me around to serve a purpose, and once that purpose is gone she doesn't want me any more. I need to know how to communicate this to her, and not make her angry/annoyed with me, and make her think I'm just being harsh and overly sensitive. I'm not going to just drop her, because I really do care about her, I just need to know how to speak with her about it.
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b/f or friends?
Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 11:12 am
im 13/f,me & my boyfriend hav e been going out since sept 21 '06. It was all cool until like December when we started get fights. My friends and him don't get a long, my best friend and him hate each other!! they've tried to make it work for me but they ended up fighting again. They both said they wouldnt try to fix their problem its just not going to work, well everyone wants time with me and stuff. But im always busy with school,and my boyfriend (his name is going to be Bob)... Well im almost with Bob,and want more time with my friends, but then when i go hang with my friends me & bob end up fighting or me and my friend start fighting because of Bob.
Now Bob says im treating him badly or Whatever.
What do I do to f...
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my friends hate each other
Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 8:01 am
f/13 ok. two of my close friends(both female) despise each other and fight sometimes. i don't know what to do. i dont pick sides. but the thing is, i have a crush on one of them. and well, my main problem here is: how could i get them to get along? or at least tell them what they should do?
help me..
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Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 5:06 am
So my ex, Eric [of over a year] is acting strange. Lately, he's like.. "since you have Bob. you don't need me around anymore haha" Yeah, I have a boyfriend. But my ex has a girlfriend [keep that in mind]
And today.. Eric kept saying "you probably were talking to Bob while you were doing your homework"
and i kept saying no because Eric got online first so... I talked to him first.
I told him I wanted to hug him today.. when I saw him today. But Bob was holding me [it was raining] and Eric got to hug me quickly [but I didn't have time to hug back] so he says "i guess it wasn't much of a hug if you don't remember"
and it sort of goes along with.. what he said e...
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Best Friend (again)
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 11:36 pm
I've asked this question before but let me clarify it up a little bit more [I was typing it at school and lunch was almost over soo...]
So I've been bff's with [let's call him Chris] Chris since last year, which is a long time for both of us since we never have kept best friends for so long. But anywhos, I'm good at giving advice [=P] and being serious when I need to [along with being good at keeping secrets and my mouth shut]. The thing is that Chris and I joke around a LOT and we just talk about nonsense things like a made up flododo [It's a flamango and a fish of some sort mixed together]. And so I have this frivolous/clumsy personality around Chris.
Well, I've talked about a serious stuff [He and I were go...
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Things to do?
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 11:26 pm
16/f, my friend, 16/m and I used to be best friends. Then we just stopped talking for awhile, now we're trying to mend our friendship and get back to our bestfriend status. He has come over the past two nights, which is what he used to do when we were best friends. What are some things we could do, I always feel like he gets bored and won't want to come over one day? Anything except sexual things, thank you.
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friend help
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 9:16 pm
ok so i have 2 really annoying friends. i mean i dont want them to not be my friends but they wont leave me alone. theres just mainly this one who i have been friends with for a year. and like shes never away from me. we ALWAYS have to hang out. she calls me at least 17 times a day. and she gets mad if i dont pick up. she comes to my house everyday. she lies about when shes getting picked up. i have to like pay for her like i have no choice. shes always pushing me around. and if i yell back at her she gets mad at me and wont talk to me. and i cant stand it when people are mad at me. but she gets mad over the stupidest things. im never away from her! liek if were just walking she'll just push me and if im like stop! shes like oohh you mad at...
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This is like weird but please answer
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 7:15 pm
Ok this guy likes me we'll call him Bob and i only like him as a friend and theres this guy that he's friends with that i liked for a while, we'll call him Frank, and Bob was IMing me and asking me why i liked Frank and everything and i feel bad because people make fun of Bob because he likes me and then like i like want a bf when me and my friends talk about it and then i dont and then i do and so on and like im so messed up and i just wanna straighten everything out beacuse i dont want Bob mad but i KINDA want Frank to like me what do i do?!?
Dont say talk 2 friends/ parents they wont help
pleaseee
:'(
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Ex Friendss.
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 7:04 pm
does anyone have ne quotes for AIM profiels about "Ex best friends"?
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shes turning into him!
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 4:54 pm
i have this friend who is dating this guy and over the last few months, he started turning saying inapproprate things and acting like a total jealous boyfriend. Now lately since she got back from her trip she has really been turning into a jerk herself. She's pushy and mean. I mean we used to make fun of each other in a friendly way and now she's starting to get out of control, she's telling me when we're going to hang out and she's starting to take his side of things, like she's backing him up, but she continues to say that she wants to let him and he means nothing to her and she doesn't care about him, but she is really turning into a female version of him. I can't believe it because we've known each other since we were like 1. I don't kn...
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friend overreacting? or was i just being too insensitive?
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 4:25 pm
13/f
(the first part is background that i think could relate. the second is my actual problem) sorry for the length...
PART 1
ok well this girl elizabeth i had been friends with her since like 2nd grade im in 8th now with fights and temporary splits here and there....but one time on this one chat site she called me a B**** for no reason and then just left and kept doing it if i asked for an explanation. the next day at school during lunch she said she didn't eman it and WAS JUST JOKEING. i mean COME ON. i didnt forgive her because i don't take stuff liek that as a joke, so after a day or so she comes to my house in tears with a card tat says SORRY and a small present. i forgave her.....grudgeingly. ok well then ...
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how can i sort it? please help
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 12:20 pm
i had a best friend
i then became friends with another girl who was going through a very hard time. i was there for her sooo much it was unbeleiveable.
my best friend didnt like my new friend and was constantly bitching about her to my face. my new friend didnt like my best friend and so was also bitching about her to my face. so i was stuck in the middle. however eventually we all became 3 good friends. then i went away for the weekend and my "best friend" got pissed off as i didnt invite her... its as if im not allowed to go away by myself!!
so anyway when i came back my 2 friends were soo quleaky and completly left me out. i would go home and just cry sometimes because there was nothing i could do. every...
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best friend
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 7:43 am
Here goes:
I’m 14/f and my best friend is 14/m and gay. We’ve been friends for over a year which is the longest time my bff [let’s call him Chris] has kept anyone as a best friend. But anywhos, I have this very frivolous and talkative personality when I’m around people but that’s a problem…Chris doesn’t want to talk about serious things with me. He goes to 2 other people and that kind of hurts me. But then I can’t blame him but I still want to be the person he turns to when he has a problem and not just a person he sees as all talkative and clumsy. Is there any way I can maybe steer him to talk to me about serious things without actually sitting down and talking to him about it? Thanks =]
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I told a HUMUNGOUS secret to my friends...
Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 1:15 am
Ok..so right now I`m feeling UBER guilty. Last night, my sister told me a scret about her and told me not to tell my parents (nothing BIG or anyhing that can harm someone- like that she has a boyfriend now) and I just HAD to go and tell my 3 close friends
(-_-) And THEN i had this fight with one of my friends (who SWORE to god she wouldn`t tell anyone- and is RLY honest) and now we aren`t friends. I told 2 of my other friends that she was just joking (even though she wasn`t)..
now i don`t want to break the barrier and talk to the friend i had a fight with... WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PLEASE HELP me i`m like crying v_v
THANK YOU SO MUCH in advance..!
<3
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so annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Monday February 26 2007, 8:34 pm
any tips on dealing with an annoying friend who talks, no brags, waaay too much, but who you cant really be mean to because shes really nice, but she just cant take a hint when to shut up? plz, any advice is welcome!
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DOES IT MATTER?!?!??!
Posted Monday February 26 2007, 7:30 pm
OK, a lot of poeple it seems base their friendship on how long they've known eachother. Like, some of my friends are like, "I know you like me more than her because you've known me longer." WHAT? WHERE THE HECK DID THAT COME FROM? AM I THE ONLY PERSON THAT'S NOTICING THIS? When ever someone says this around me, I'm not sure what to say, because I don't know if that's how I SHOULD base my friendships. I personally base my relationships on if their nice or something? What SHOULD I be basing my friendships on? Please help!
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Best friend.
Posted Monday February 26 2007, 6:17 pm
My guy friend, who used to be my BEST friend, and I are barely even friends anymore. He basically lead me on, then ditched me for 2 months, no reasons why, etc, and I did talk to him about, all he could do was say, "I don't know why we're not as good of friends anymore."
Today, he came over. Mind you, we haven't hung out, and rarely talked since the middle of January. All he tells me is that he'd like to make our friendship become better, like it was before all this awkardness happens. I said okay, we can work on it. Problem is, I don't know if I can become better friends with him again. I'm very hurt right now, because he led me on, and I still sort of like him. Getting closer to him could hurt me. No clue what to do, any ideas?
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annoying best frined.
Posted Monday February 26 2007, 4:30 pm
One of my so called best friends
- I dont want to be friends with her anymore.
I'm sick of her always talking as us as a "we" and that "we suck" "we are stupid"
because i dont like downtalking myself.
she can, but not about me.
dont tell me to telll her not to talk bad about herself either becauase this isnt the point.
SHE loves drama and stupid crap like that,
so she will do anythign to cause it.
she plays the victim all the time.
I'm sick of it, how she always thinks shes right.
What do I do?
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drinking exboyfriend
Posted Monday February 26 2007, 2:20 pm
well here's my situation. I dated this guy for a year and a half and we broke up 8 or 9 months ago. But we have remained fairly good friends since then.
Well when we first started dating, he told me all the time that he hadn't drank in 2 years and he was always so proud of that. even one time he was at a bar with some of his friends (not drinking) and someone saw him there and told people that he was drinking even though he wasn't. well he got reaaallly mad about it.
So after all that and after we broke up, he got into drinking again. He would call my friends up and tell them to come drink with him and stuff. I always heard him talk about it but I had never actually seen him do it. Well last week, i went to the movies with h...
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