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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 11:16 pm

hello sir/mam i needed some advice regarding a friend ...this person a girl in the library looked at me for 15 -20 days in the library where i studied i could make out that she will come and talk and she came asked my name and i started wishing her than i had some family problem in the meantime i could see that she was moving out with a guy one of her batchmates so even though i wanted to talk i stayed away as i did not want to interfere..than one day she came and sat just in front of me looking at me that day i put a letter on her car saying that it will be nice to know you and i gave my tel no.. and i heard her telling her friends about this than i sent her 4 e-mails and wished her best of luck fot her exam by sending an sms and told her ...

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All guys want sex... why? help?!


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 10:46 pm

16/f

alright me and my friend, dustin, have been friends forever. and like yeah we fool around.. we're kinda each others rebound.

well long story short.. tonight he came over.. and i figured he wanted something.. boy was i right.

at first he said he didnt want anything... and then night went on, we watched a movie and fooled around.. well.. then things started getting hot and heavy and he asked if i had condoms.. i said yea. well yeah i may have wanted it for a long time but it felt wrong because i was cheated on and didnt wanna get screwed over.

also i think that sex shouldnt be the only thing involved in a relationship.. it shouldnt matter. to me its the most distant thing in a r...

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Why didn't he want to share with me?


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 9:56 pm

So I sort of like this friend of mine.. and we went to see a movie together as friends. Well you know how expensive buying food and drink from the cinema is, so I asked him whether he wanted to share a drink and some popcorn, because I thought it would cut the cost down for both of us and I'm used to sharing when I go out with people to the movies.
And he gives me a strange look and says "Nah I think I'll definitley get my own" I felt really embarassed and taken aback because it was like I had some sort of contagious disease! I don't get what was wrong with what I said.

I know I'm being OVERLY paranoid and looking into things FAR too much but I don't get what I did wrong and I guess it hurt a little bit. Wa...

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ROBATUSSIN!


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 9:42 pm

my friend and i are taking some tomorrow so that we can trip.
i was just wondering what it does to you?
no smart straight edge comments please.
i just want an answer.

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he is suddenly mad at me


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 8:40 pm

I usually joke around with this buddy of mine. I mess with him, he laughs, and it all goes well. But today I was joking with him as usual, and he all of a sudden got really mad, called me horrible names, like I am a horrible person (and other innapropriate things). I am sure what I said wasn't offensive. It's the same thing I similarly say every time I talk to him, and every other day he laughs about it. He did say he was having a bad day but he took his anger out on me. So he is mad at me, while I am just slightly mad at him. He really hurt me, but I am worried if I talk to him I will make things worse for our friendship. Should I just let him cool off for a few days, or try talking to him (with the risks involved)? I don't want to lose hi...

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horrible friend


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 8:09 pm

I really don't feel like explaining the reasons why my friend is a horrible friend and I don't like her. All I want to know is: How do I stop being her friend? SHe's never done anything like obviously mean like curse me out or something, its just other little bitchy things that has been going on all year. The bad part is, i carpool with her to CCD and school every morning, so if I start to act like that it will be awkward. So, what's a way I can hint to her that I don't want to be friends anymore, without saying it straight forward? Gosh, sometimes I just want to scream out right at her face she's a horrible friend. Thanks!

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robatussin


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 6:58 pm

what does that stuff do to you?
*not for sickness*

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how do i know if they like me!


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 5:37 pm

okay so i am new at a school and i have been hanging out and eatting kunch with the populare ppl but i have no idea if they really like me or not..i mean there no going to tell me if they dont so is their anyway i can tell??

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my best friend is in jail.


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 3:48 pm

my best friend (he's a dude and i'm a girl) just went back to jail for 5 days and it's his last chance to behave and not mess up probation before he goes away for like 2 years...what can i do to make him not be so ignorant about something so serious..if it helps he just told me he liked me before he went away..he'll be back on tuesday but as i said its his last chance.

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she won't stop slapping me!


Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 3:37 pm

My so called "best friend" started slapping me about a few weeks ago. It's over the stupidest things, too! Like, I have a favorite lip gloss that I put on all the time in school. She hates it, so she slaps me really hard across the face for that. Sometimes it doesn't hurt, but one time she left a red mark on my face. I've tried slapping her back a few times, but she always blocks her face, so I just kick her.

She's also been acting like a bitch lately, like she'll be nice to me and then tell me to go away 2 minutes later. Today, I didn't hang out with her at lunch, and she called me a slut because the kid she likes was NEAR me. I'm not even friends with him and we don't talk! I don't understand what her problem is.

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best friends again


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 11:07 pm

13/f me and my best friend dated for a week and decided to just stay best friends. now we dono what to do anymore as in hang out. were not sure what we ever did before. so we just sat there. what could we do!

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bff? of bf?


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 10:41 pm

how does your best friend act when he really loves you?
how do guys act about that?
i dont wana lose our 7 year friendship.
i love him.
he loves me like a bff and gf?
im 13/f hes 13/m but were bffs maybe bf gf?
?im confused help me?

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bffs? or atleast friends


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 10:33 pm

13/f. wev been bffs since kp now eight years. but were like changin alot shes always been loud and a tomboy iv always been shy and a girly girl. now im loud and freaky and gothic shes a quiet preppy perk. shes popular im a freak. i always was popular but now thay just hated all my other friends and made fun of them so they wouldnt stop i just hated it. so i started just hagin out with some of my other friends. then the 'popular' ppl were falin apart and started gettin in fights but now there fine. but ive realize wat a real group was ppl who always care about you. and know about you. my old bestfriend never knows anything about me im happy now and there not. now they regret all they did to my other friends. they all want in. most of the gra...

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does he like me or what


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 10:10 pm

13/f. srry its long. im a loud but quieter freak but im gothic. hes a louder blonde in the brains nerd. my bff or possible bf? ive always been good friends with him. because he always came over and we went everywhere because my mom and his mom were best friends and my brother and his brother were to. but since like summer hes been sayin best friend and like givin high fives and just treatn me like all his other friends but more like a best friend? but since my mom found out i liked him now he cant come over at all because she doesnt like the idea of two teenagers who like eachother up stairs alone. he acts different around me now. he kinda flirts but alot i guess? ive never had a bf. but he just acts like it. but ive never really been shy a...

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ummmm.... what do i do... old enemies need help to


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 9:47 pm

so i had this freind and we got into a fight so now were not we havent been friends for about 2 months and i just found out her dad got arrested and shes never met her mom should i help her?!!

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partay time


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 9:21 pm

ok so im have a 14th bday party sometime in may in a beach house, on the beach. both genders allowed although my parents will be there. girls are staying overnight. guys, NO WAY. LOL

some really cool things to do?
i would love to do 7 minutes in heaven and spin the bottle but im not sure bc of my parents. so i need some really cool things to do. cool fun things to do with the guys mainly

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and shes my friend..why??


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 6:33 pm

so me and my friend jamie have been friends since kindergarden(now were in 8th grade). but recently she has been ditching me for my friend shannon. i mean shannon isnt a bad person or w/e, but i just want my friend back. i didnt know why she WAS ditching me so i got all mad and just assumed she didnt want to be my friend anymore, bc she was like ALL OVER SHANNON! like her and shannon did EVERYTHING together. so one day in class i drew this really mean picture of her bc she was ditching me. then at that recess someone asked me what was wrong and i told her the story how jamie was ditching me and i called her a biotch. i mean i HAD to! jamie gets mad at me for the gayest things. like on valentines day i didnt get her a present, so she got all...

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My friends are jealous...


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 5:08 pm

OKay i come from a fairly rich family and im about to turn 16, my grandparents are buying me a car and a chose a Mercedes-Benz. So i took the brochure to school the other day to pick out which model i wanted and some of my friends are like "wats u looking at?" and i said "im picking out my car." they were like "ur getting a new Mercedes?" and i said yes and they started yelling about me being a spoiled brat and now some of them wont talk to me anymore... wat shold i do???

Cody

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my friend...her boyfriend..disaster


Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 3:46 pm

I NEED HELP!! My friend, someone I have known for..forever, and someone I know I can't live without [in a friend way] went to school today and things didn't work with her boyfriend. He's your typical asshole. He treats her like complete shit, but sometimes he's really sweet. He's really 2 faced, personally, I don't like him. But, she found out he told someone he was going to break up with her in a few weeks [he told someone this in the begining of Feb.] So, finding this out, she's a mess. She's home alone after school and I know she will try to kill herself or do something extremely drastic like that. She loves him, a lot. PLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASE help me! I don't know if I can trust her when she says she wont do it. Please, someone, I need...

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Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 3:22 pm

Theres this guy, and i tell him EVERYTHING. Literally. We're in nearly all of each others lessons and sit next to each other in two, and sit close in other lessons. But, the thing is he don't really tell me anything.
How do i find out if he considers me as a friend or just some weird girl who tells him her life stories, coz i trust him and im real honest with him but i don't want to ask him straight out.

Any ideas??

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