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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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why does breanna have to do this


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 3:09 am

she wrote about me in tunnels saying alll this mean stufff through the whole tunnel and she got everybody mad at me and she made me get in trouble talked about me im sooo mad now what should i do i cant just keep on telling on her and ignoring it can you help me


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my screwed up life


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 10:13 pm

13f. this is long srry. i cant get a therapist. i just need advice. i have nobody else to talk to. i am totaly different at school and home. at home i am so mad all the time at school i am just either acting happy at least tryin or i am when i talk to him exept when someone gets me mad. i have never got detention i never get in truoble and no i will not be a snitch. nobody understands me at all anymore. i have no idea who my real friends are. ive been in every clique. my mom gets so mad at me when i wear black or chokers. but i useally do but when she wont let me i cry bc its all i feel good about. nobody at all has seen me cry exept my mom and brother my mom even said i didnt cry that much at all even when i was a baby. is something wrong ...

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realate to my bff


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 10:05 pm

My bff taylor had a HARD life. everytime she'd say something bad about her life i feel kinda whimpy because i start to complain about my life but i really dont have a horrible life. how can i relate to her?

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my friend's parents


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 7:30 pm

I have a friend whose parents are really overprotective. She's a girl, I'm a guy, so obviously her parents have a problem with her hanging out with me. She can only see me when we go in a big group that is mostly of girls.

I was thinking about approaching her parents and telling them that I'm a Christian [like them], I don't drink or do drugs, I'm only interested in friendship, I'm a virgin and will be until I get married..basically that I'm a good person. What do you think are the chances that they'll change their mind and let her hang out with me alone?

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you tube and my friend


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 6:03 pm

Hey,
One of my best friends put a video of me on you tube, and I really want her to take it off. It is a stupid video, and I've asked her to take it off before. You see she's sortof immature, and she just shruggs and laughs it off. I don't know what to do. I really don't want a video of me on the internet like that. Like what if someone important sees it, like someone who might be offering me a job or something like that. Obviously theres not a huge risk of that, but I'm sure you can see why I wouldnt want to have a video of me on the internet.
I've tried so many things in the past to try and pursuade her to do things (I know that sounds bad lol, just liek things like take a bad picture of me off her site, or stop telling on...

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Friends or just bad news??


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 5:54 pm

Im 13/F. I live in a really small town which is basically a retirement community. The people that live here are all elderly. A week or so ago I found some kids that actually live here. They are honestly the only kids older than 9 that live here. There is a problem though. They are not exactly good role models at all. 1 is my age, another is 12 and 1 is 14 and the other is 15. A pretty close age range really. The main problem is I know for a fact they do drugs and stuff. Before it never really bothered me until last night when one of my school friends (im actually really girly/preppy) asked me if I ever did drugs. I replied no and the friend told me how he was worried that if I keep hanging out with them they might pressure me into starting....

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Helping a friend who made a mistake?


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 2:53 pm

You might remember me from awhile back, I asked a question about my friend Carly and how she went to a party, didn't come home on time, and I told her sister where she really was and she ended up having to break up with her boyfriend.

Anyway, that's not the point. That night, while Carly was at that party, she got really drunk and her boyfriend took advantage of her and had sex with her. Now, her period is really late and she thinks she is pregnant.

I already "bitched out" her ex-boyfriend for taking advantage of her like that. He is a jerk and I can't believe Carly EVER trusted him in the first place.

My question is, though, how can I be supportive of my friend at this time without be...

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Is she trully my friend?????


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 1:34 pm

Now i have a friend and i have had this friend for my hole life 15 years and we talk about everything a girl can talk about nail hair and boys. But latley ever since she has been makeing me really mad liing the guys i like taking my own friend aay from me never telling me when someone talks about me and talks about me to others now 15years is a long time and i ahve never seen this behavior from her befor do i throw that 15 years of friendship away????


now i have another friend i have only known for about 3 years and she always trys to make me jealouse by hanging with my other friend i was talking about and just leaving me!!!!


and my grades are bad i just feel like my life is all mest up!!!!

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my best friend.


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 1:24 pm

my best friend, hes amazing, loud, hiper, HOTT (!), and depressed. and i cant help but have feelings for him, i mean im a horney girl (lol). but i miss him, he was admitted to the phsc ward in a hospitale. and i havent talked to him in 3 days. and i need to talk to him sooooo badly. but like he knows my number, and i know that there is a pay phone there. but i know he has like really bad depression and i know he gets embarrassed easily, and i know he likes me. and he dosent know i know hes in there. but his mom told me (and his mom told him to call me). and i know he has feelings for me. do you think hes embarrassed? what do you think i should do?

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best friend(s)


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 1:14 pm

hi, i dont know whar to do. but i have been talking to a boy, lets call him Rick. and Rick is my boyfriends best friend, and we started talking for fun. and then we noticed we have SO much in common, and we have become best friends, though we have never met. so one day we did a 3 way call with my good friend, lets call her Jen. and they dont have much in common, and ussaully they just talk to me. but now Jen is UPSESSED with Rick and likes him. and forced him to give her his number, and invited him to go camping with us, and invited him to sleep over when he comes up from maryland to visit me and my boyfriend. and jens like i like him and do you think long distance relationships last? and im like ummm. and like i like rick tooo, and shes be...

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We're not fighting...


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 11:43 am

If best friends fight, and they've never fought before, does that mean they've stopped loving each other?
People have been coming up to my friend and me and saying 'sorry to hear you two are fighting.' Is it normal to fight? We're not really, but there was an issue involving the guy she's with making up stuff about me. I talked to her about it and this whole dramatic thing started.
Can we fix this? I told you, we've never fought, ever, in our three years of friendship.
What can we do?

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Online best friend


Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 7:04 am

another question.

i'll try to eliminate as much detail as i can, so it won't be so long, but here goes. when i was 11, i used to play neopets (haha) and this other girl and i started talking on there, and then we talked on msn, and AIM and that was five years ago. i went and am currently going through some depression, and i lost a lot of my friends, just normal teenager things, blahblah. she is the ONLY person that has ever fully been there for me, and the only person that i can tell absolutely everything to. we talk every day, and we know eachother's most personal secrets. we're seriously best, best friends and i've never had a friendship like this in my entire life. i'm 100% POSITIVE that she's a 14 year old girl, living wh...

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more guy friends


Posted Friday March 2 2007, 11:18 pm

i really want to make more guy friends. i dont know how to though. sometimes i feel shy around them but mostly i'm ok. i just feel kind of self-concious i guess. i dont know how to branch out and make more guy friends. help?

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more fun


Posted Friday March 2 2007, 11:16 pm

i want to have more fun on weekends, rather than just hanging out at like people's houses. i want to hang out with guys and like bigger groups of people and go places with alot of people. any advice?

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...and that just RIPPED my heart out...


Posted Friday March 2 2007, 9:46 pm

Ok, so my friend, let's call her...Gabie and I are really close. We were new students at an exclusive private middle school this year and we have grown closer. The problem is that, we are both very cool and classy. [not trying 2 brag]. And like, we never cling on to each other and call each other best friends and stuff, but we are TTIIGGHHTT! Well, today, i asked her if she thought of us as best friends...and she said, "Well, me you and sabrina have been fighting A LOT lately...i`m not sure lately...." And that pissed me off. I mean, i get mad when Sabrina {my other tight friend} and her don`t wait for me to get my stuff from my locker, and yeah we have been fighting. However, there is an AWSOME camp that is coming up [in, like, 2...

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to forgive or not to forgive???


Posted Friday March 2 2007, 9:03 pm

i have these friends (lets call them S and H). they were my bff, that is until i found out that something big had happened. they had gone a step further in their relationship. they did it while i was in the room and then they didnt tell me. they agreed not to tell me and then it randomly slipped out of S's mouth one day....i got really angry. not that it had happened, but that it had happened while i was there and that they decided not to tell me. also have this friend(lets call him F). he told me i should stay angry at her because he already doesnt like her bc he thinks she causes too much drama. he also thinks she has only screwed up my life since i met her and that i shouldnt forgive her or that i should stay mad until she comes crawlin...

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this girl!


Posted Friday March 2 2007, 7:50 pm

omg this girl IMed me saying: her sn: ashley is gayyyyyyyyyyy and ashley is my friend and she denies it and its gonna break up my friendship with my friend ashley!!!! HELP!

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I just feel so disconnected ...


Posted Friday March 2 2007, 6:18 pm

There are my friends, people I just know, and random people and then theres me. I feel somewhat disconnected with the people around me. I don't know whats wrong. Sometimes I think they think I'm retarded. I dress differently from everyone (there wear tight fiting T-shirts or theses realy nice clothes) I only wear jeans and 3 different hoodies which I rotate. For some reason I don't find anyone 'ugly' either. Everyoen is nice looking in there own way (even the guys). Its hard to talk to people because I feel like they juge me (except for a few people I know well.) and it makes it hard to go up and talk to people. I want to open myself up to making more friends, but it seems so hard. I mean even when I see theses supposive 'emo' girls or boys...

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so bored of this


Posted Friday March 2 2007, 5:38 pm

I find myself sitting at home waiting for my three friends to come over while everyone else is at the movies. No joke like EVERYONE is going to the movies tonight. I am the "leader" of the group and all I want to do is have fun. It's like my main goal in life is to have fun. I want to have a bunch of friends.. and more guy friends (I have some but just a few) How can I get more friends and not find myself sitting at home on friday nights?

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Posted Friday March 2 2007, 11:21 am

so basicaly, my best friend kristen is friends with a veiw people i dont exactly hate, but dont like. yesterday i went to a funeral, and no thats not the problem, it was my dads uncle, but i havent talked to her in a day, and last time i tryed to call her, there was no answer, and i feel like shes out with these people she claims she hates, but now im getting the feeling shes begining to hate me, and i have no one to talk to.

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