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I wasn't really sure
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 12:28 pm
I wasn't really sure what to put this under, bu there is a dance this coming friday and I don't have anyone to go with and I''m not sure whether I should go or not. My friends are going just with friends, but I don't really look good in a dress and can't stand wearing high heels. It sounds like fun, but I don't want to look awkward in front of everyone. Plus I don't have a dress or shoes. What should I do?
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Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 10:58 am
Theres this guy, and i tell him EVERYTHING. Literally. We're in nearly all of each others lessons and sit next to each other in two, and sit close in other lessons. But, the thing is he don't really tell me anything.
How do i find out if he considers me as a friend or just some weird girl who tells him her life stories, coz i trust him and im real honest with him but i don't want to ask him straight out.
Ok, I do like this guy and he knows.
Any ideas??
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i want to apologize
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 10:54 pm
ok i have this close friend,we went to camp together last summer and we go to school together also.i remember one day at camp i was really mad at her and i sad some nasty things about her with my other campfriend behind her back.now everythings fine.. but i was just thinking about that day and i want to apologize. she doesnt know that i talked about her, but i want to be honest.
should i just not bring it up cause it will go bad?
or its worth telling her even though it happened so long ago? help is appreciated
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Party?
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 9:06 pm
my 15th b-day is tomorrow
i am having a party on friday @ my dads house
and he ended up goin outta town last minute; so my big sis said she would "chaperone"
she just turned 21
it was gonna be just 4 girls; now im havin guys come over too
my question is; do i need to have like tons of food out? or make some if ppl get hungry?
or like have movies out or just wing it?
i've never had a real "party" (like drinking and such) i've been to a few; but they were like BIG ragers with tons of people
this is only like 8...
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i hate my (ex?) best friend
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 8:22 pm
i hate my best friend. we;ve only been friends for like 1 and 1/4 years we've never fought before, but now we fight like, every weekend. i always feel like its my fault, and she just doesn't get what im going thru, i've told her and she still doesn't get it. i just want time away from her, just for like 1 week, but if i'm not talking to her for like 2 minutes (like i stop talking and don't say anything again just 4 like 2 minutes WHILE WE ARE IN CLASS and im just doing what the teacher told us to, she gets mad) and then after shes mad, she goes and HAS to tell my other friend.... she always includes "that other friend" whenever we fight, she goes and tells them what we were fighting about and so iask the other friend what they are...
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revenge
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 8:09 pm
well today my bff called me a pendeja(its a bad word in spanish)when i walked away she told me that she was just joking around and that i take everything to personnal she said that i was like her mom then she said that she was just getting revenge for freshmen year when i got mad at her for wat other people said(we are in 10 grade now)then 2day after school she waited for me but i was so mad at her that i walked ahead of her she then her friend asked why i was doing that she said that i was mad at her i just left and she just stayed wit her other friend.Wat should i do?
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Feeling Left Out
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 6:15 pm
Ok, so I have these two best friends and we all hang out all the time. We rarely fight and theres never any drama. But lately, I have been feelin left out. Me nd my friend have been fighting cuz of our other frend. We know that she's the problem and we just think we need some alone time. But im not sure thats it. What do you think I could do?
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Two best friends. I feel left out.
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 5:52 pm
Ok, so I have two best friends that I have known since about third grade. I love them both to death. The only problem is when we are together, I feel like I get picked on/made fun of. I try not to be sensitive and take it seriously, but sometimes they go too far. They have names for each other (call each other twins) and I feel so left out. But I feel like if I talk to them then I'll look stupid and jealous. I have talked to one of them and she understands how I feel and said that she is going to try and avoid that so I wouldn't feel that way. Also, when I am alone with one of them, it is so great, we could not be closer, its just when we are all together. Any suggestions on help? Don't say talk to them because I have and the situa...
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boyfriends vs. friends
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 5:43 pm
i'm 14 years old and i recently got a boyfriend that i really like, and me and him are doing great. but, since i've got this boyfriend, i seem to be spending less time with my friends. and they've been getting mad at me some. it's not that i don't want to hang out with them, i just somehow make plans with my boyfriend first. if anyone has advice on how i can manage friends & a boyfriend please help. i greatly appreciate it.
thanks,
xo megan.
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my best friend is a huge flirt
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 4:22 pm
my best friend is a huge flirt. we joke around about it, and we think its funny sometimes. but now,recently, its bothering me cause any guy that i like or like me.. she starts to flirt with. she knows and i dont think she means to. she never emotionally hurt me or stole a guy from me, i'm just afrarid she will.
so what can i do maybe make her stop or keep a guys attention on me? help is appreciated
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Since my him..
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 1:08 pm
Well ive been dating this great guy for about 4 months now and since i started dating him i kind of didnt hang out with my friends anymore...
I need to have my friends back how do i get them back. I need to hangout with them too because what happens if my relationship fails in the long run and i have no friends!?!
please help
thanks
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clingy friend
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 12:12 am
my friend is wicked clingy. i can't go ANYWHERE without her up my ass. the thing is she has loads of friends that she hangs out with but when i try to hang out with other people, she tries to make me feel really guilty about it. i want to distance myself but i'm not sure how. help. :(
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I feel so bad that I couldn't have been there for them.
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 8:12 pm
I spent the night at two of my best friend's houses two nights ago. We were talking about our secrets and I didn't really have any, so they started saying there's. After saying a few, one of them asked the other if they could tell me "the secret." She started freaking out and was saying how I would think she was a freak and stuff. They finally told me and the secret was that they used to cut themselves. I feel so bad because I didn't know about it, so I couldn't help them in any way. One of them is extremely sensitive and the guy who caused her to start doing that is moving into her neighborhood, so it's possible she could continue cutting. If she does, what are some signs? I know like wearing long sleeve shirts all the time and s...
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Telling secrets to people.
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 7:07 pm
15/f
Why is it that whenever a person tells another person a secret or something ...some kind of news.....and that person is close to the other person...and no matter how much you BEG them...and PLEAD NOT to tell the secret...they still ALWAYS do.
What does this mean? Should I stop telling people secret stuff?...I mean....How can I NOT?....I tell my own SISTER stuff....and she spills the beans.
How can this be stopped?
What should I do if I crave to let my emotions and secrets out? Because there's a lot building up inside of me over time. And I can't be trusting of ANYONE anymore...since like all of them (the people) basically stuck a fork up my ass. And backstabbed me with a dagger.
:(
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Holding hands.
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 7:06 pm
If you and a guy you like are hanging out at your house, what are some ways you can get him to hold your hand without actually telling him?
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Punch/Kiss
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 7:02 pm
I playfully punched my guy friend on the cheek. Now he keeps saying it hurts, and I should kiss it. Thing is, I really like him, but Ii'm super nervous to kiss it, even though he keeps telling me to. I want to, I'm just nervous. How can I work myself up to do it?!
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ruining her life
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 4:49 pm
its kinda weird that i have my own advice cloumn here but yet have more problems then half the ppl here... anyway...
my best friend who ive known since i was like 0 is a year younger then me and this is her freshamn year and shes messing her entire life up shes sneaking out all the time and having UNPROTECTED sex with a boy shes not even dating and who is 17 and whos using her and she knows it but wont stop and shes hanging out with the wrong ppl and her parents favor her older sister and shes just ruining everything for herslef shes a georgous girl and was validvictorian in 8th grade and has everything good going for her and is throwing it all out the window ive talked to her numerous times about all this and she says shes g...
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he's totally different now!
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 2:53 pm
last summer i met this guy at camp, and he was really cool and really cute. He told me he liked me, and i started to like him. well, we live in different states, so we only talked on myspace. I stopped liking him pretty much the week after camp. well, eventually we stopped talking and i guess he deleted me from his friends. we haven't talked in over 3 months now. Well, last night, i got a friend request and a message from him. He is COMPLETELY different and i'm not sure if i want to go back to being friends. He has a girlfriend, so he's def. not trying to get me to like him again.. but idk what to do. Should i talk to him?
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Friend doing drugs
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 11:57 am
I'm not sure what to do. My friend smokes pot and I know that it's none of my business, but she's ruining her life. She plays sports, and can't always breathe very well because she has all that crap in her system. I can't stand to see her suffer anymore. And when she gets high it's really scary. I don't know what to do anymore... it's been going on for a year and a half now. She's my best friend and I can't lose her. But if I tell someone, she'd probably get mad. What do I do?
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Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 9:26 am
16/f
hi, lately ive been having dreams about my best friend. who is also 16/f. i dream of like, touching her, and then regretting it later. (in my dream.)
i know for a fact that im not a lesiban, but what do you think this means? do you think it means im just curious or something? thanks.
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