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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Is she my responsibility?


Posted Saturday March 10 2007, 6:18 am

Usually, I'm the girl who talks to the girls noone wants to talk to, I make sure no one is ever left out. And even though my friends dislike someone I'll hang out with them, cause I know I'd want someone to do the same for me, if I was the one being left out.

I just don't care if my friends like them or not, because I do.

HOWEVER, in this case, I don't like the person.

I'm in an all girls class, and everyone really dislikes this girl because.. well, we don't know. Everyone says the same thing "She's a really nice girl, and I don't wanna dislike her.. it's just that I JUST DON'T LIKE HER" There's just something about this girl that is soo annoying.

So since I usually take...

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My best guy friend wants to hook up with me...


Posted Friday March 9 2007, 10:24 pm

I have a problem. I have this guy friend and he wants to "hook up" with me, here's the catch...he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I have liked him for 3 years and finally he wants to make a move but it doesn't seem right to me. I don't like the idea of going behind her back and making-out with her boyfriend. He wants to hook up in school, I rather do it outside of school so we could be alone and have no chance of getting caught.

I want the same things he wants from me. My best friend thinks that I should leave him alone but I can't help but think that this might be my last chance to be with him. Cam you help me?


-Troubled Heart




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pissed and leaving


Posted Friday March 9 2007, 6:26 pm

my best friend is mad at me for something stupid. she wont talk to me and shes leaving in like 2 months. what do i do to help our friendship?

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I want to help a friend's sister


Posted Friday March 9 2007, 6:26 pm

Ok so heres the deal , my friend has a sister who is like 10 or 11 , ok . She writes real good and all and she REALLY wants to be an author so I was thinks to help out so if you can , please can yall tell me a site where I can show her where she can get like a publisher or something for free. I tried to talk to her parents but they have no clue so.......

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should i stop bein friends with her


Posted Friday March 9 2007, 12:59 am

I have a big problem wit my best friend and my mom. My mom hates her. Shes a good person she just does bad stuff like smoke drink fight ect.But also we have kind of split apart a little because she gets so jealous of everyone im with.. my mom doesn want me hanging out with her neither does my boyfriend. but i dunno what to do. i feel bad. should i just lie to my mom and tell her im going out somewhere else when im hanging out with her. what should i do? Also its getting really she gets so mad at me when i hang out with my bf she is like u never have time for me is always him. it annoying me now. I love my boyfriend and i want to spend time with him. pleasee helppp me.

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Friend.


Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 8:50 pm

My best guy friend, who I like, calls me to hangout everynight. If he doesn't, it's usually nota big deal, cause I have a class with him at school, and see him on the bus. But today he was on a field trip all day, and I haven't seen or talked to him once. It's making me really stressed, how can I take my mind off this? It's making me feel like shit that he hasn't called.

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Help!


Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 6:24 pm

Alright. Theres this guy. All my friends say he likes me. I think hes starting to. I want him to like me, and then i think ill like him more.
Whats a good way to make him continue to fall for me?
How should I flirt?
Help!


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he hates me now what do i do?


Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 10:36 pm

okay so this boy that i have loved senc like pre k hates me now and I don’t know why well i think i do but I’m not sher cuse one night we were aiming and talking and then we got to talking about myspace pic's and he was all like you need pics of you in a bikini and i am so self conscious about the way I look and he was like no you'll look fine and then out of no were he became this person I had never seen b4 like he kept trying to presser me into taking the pics and i was like look don’t make me do this and now he blocked me on aim, deleted me off myspace and in school when ever we see each other we act like we never new each other and I hate it what do I do how can I fix this?? help me=[[

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I miss my friend


Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 9:26 pm

At the end of 6th grade my friend, Brady transferred schools. I've been tolerating it until the end of 7th which is now. (13/f) But I don't know if I can put up with the fact that... he doesn't know me as good anymore. See... the thing is... in 6th grade I was such a weird girl and he was such a weird guy but in a REALLY cool way, and he was the only guy that accepted my weirdness in my personality. And I loved that about him! I really miss his personality. I see him at hockey games but it's not the same... :(
I wore make-up at the game and I didn't in 6th grade when I knew him but... when he saw me he just looked at me weird then laughed. I don't know what to do!! He's not acting weird around me anymore... he's changed... and I can'...

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This guy :)


Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 7:41 pm

There is this guy who I'm pretty sure likes me,
but the thing is, I really LIKE him.
He makes me nervous and in a good way.

I usually know what to say, and am a veryopen person to people, but not him.

How can I show him I like him without flat out saying it?

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Slut or not


Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 7:17 pm

I am so shy and really nice to everyone at school. i go out of my way to makes others happy everyday. The other day i found out that people were calling me a slut and saying that i flaunt myself too much. I have 38Ds and i am 14. it's not that easy to hide them!!!! It doesn't make it any better that in gym we have to swim. I don't get how people can call me a slut when i haven't had one boyfriend or had my actual first kiss

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Bday Party Idea...


Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 9:56 am

English is not my first language (it's my 4th, in fact) but I don't I'll have trouble getting my point across.

I'll turn 18 on the 28th of March. But here's the deal: I don't know how to throw a party. Last year, only 4 out of 20 people showed up...So I'm in deperate need of advice here.

Thing is, I won't be in the country for my birthday. I will be somewhere abroad for a field trip with my university. I will return back home on the 29th (afternoon). I want to relax for the rest of that day then throw an awesome party/gathering the day after. BUT I have not idea what to do...my taste in music sucks, I don't want to celebrate it at home where my family will most likely be to embarass me like every year, and I do...

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he shouldn't be doing that...


Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 8:34 am

okay well first of all i'm 13 and a girl and i have a friend and the other day her boyfriend tried to lift up my skirt so do i tell her?

i mean i know he was only messing around but still should i?

plz help! && thanks so much!

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love vs like


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 8:46 pm

ok im 15 and i think im crazy like rele almost all the close guy friends i have i like or have liked but the thing is i usually get over it and i wonder why i do this, is this like normal cuz im rele tired of likin sum1 then they get a gf and i lose all my feelings for them


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too perfect of a friend


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 5:41 pm

13/f.my really close friend is pretty, smart, has a boyfriend for 8 months and everyone loves her. i love her too and im in one of her classes. she tells me that she never studies, and she gets perfect grades. her lowest grade EVER was an 89. alot of the time shes always bragging about things, thats just an example. shes basically a teachers pet in every class and sometimes its annoying. i just wanna go right up to her and say how she really isnt perfect, and its ok to make mistakes.
what can i do to calm myself down or possibly tell her(i'd rather not). UGH SO FRUSTRATEDD! help is appreciated.

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Being friends with someone like this...


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:54 pm

I'm really..lost.

In the short 1 1/2 years that we were "best friends", she had this "habit", that at first, only slightly irked me. Now, it's the reason we're no longer friends. Except, she doesn't even know that she does it (and she won't listen to me), and she thinks I'm a complete fool, and a liar, etc.

She always has to be right, and she is always picking a fight with anyone who isn't willing to back down.

(example of conversation we had today)

Other Girl (her "new best friend): This guy I know, named Jim is pretty hot.
Me: He's in weight training, which is in the same classroom as me.
Her: Weight training isn't in the same classroom! (sh...

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blood


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:38 pm

im getting a blood test and i was wondering can they tell if i have cancer, but even when there not looking for it?
also, i think im sickk. like i have mono or something. what are signs of have mono?


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what am i doing wrong?


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 3:38 pm

i dont know why,but i cant make a conversation,i cant be funny,i dont know why no one wants to be my friend. im really self concious(sp?) how do i become wild,fun and outgoing? and funny? like i cant hold a convo. i have like no friends here for some reason. whats going on?i find myself boring,and blah,i dont like it! thanks for any help!

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guy at school


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 3:32 pm

ok so theres a guy at my school who im not really friends with. hes one of the "mans men" meaning hes always with the guys. so anyways the guys in my school argue with eachother a lot, even the girls. every time im talking to someone or just making a point and someone counters it [goes against what i say] he almost always defends me. for example my friends would be joking and saying "oh its her fault" and he would say no its not its mine its ok or "no you're wrong" he'd say well actually..etc etc. i dont think hes overly friendly, but is this a sign that a guy might like you?? thanks.

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Partay!!


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 2:07 pm

So I am having a party at the beginning of summer (say around...the end of may or so) like the day after my 8th grade graduation. Anyway, I need ideas of fun things I can do at my party!! Let me first tell you some things about it first:
1. my dad will be there
2. no alchohol
3. it's a boy-girl party
4. most people there are around the ages of 13-15
5. PLEEAASSEE....NOTHING THAT LOOKS TOO PLANNED!! I just want to be able to chill with my frieds.
6. I might have my pool ready to swim in, I have a big deck with surround-sound speakers, and....
7. any ideas??!!

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