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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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jelous


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 5:08 am

my bestest friend is probably making out with her bf right now and im a bit jelous because the one boy i really like likes me back but we vcant be together and im kind of like uch right now because her life is going so smoothly and mine is to but its not as intresting but usually she feels this about me and im so happy that shes finally happy how do i get over this jelousy.? because ive seen jelousy tear up friendships but i dont want that to happen beteen me and my friend we are bestest friends till the end
i know im so lucky to even have a best friend but im just kind of like jelous that somones life is "better" then mine i know it sounds retarrded but its tru

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my friend


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 1:01 am

so i have this fried and she has a boyfriend joey. and he is head over heals for her but he pretty much controls her life. he wont let her do anything. he even wont let her hang out with me. ive told her that he is insane and she said that she would break up with him or talk to him but i dont think she has even talked to him. i really dont know what i should do. should i just stop talking to her. and she has blown me off multiple times to hang out with him.

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what do i do?


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 11:23 pm

My best friend ever is anorexic.. shes 5'3 and has to weigh like 105 noww, she didnt eat for like 3 dayss.. she has absolutely no ass now, and she's had this problem when she was 12, now she is almost 15... I feel as if i tell her parents, she'll get depressed. me and her are going on a cruise for spring break in 25 dayss..i dont want her to get sick, depressed. she is soo skinny. shes always complaining how cold she is, she cant sleep... shes always light headed. my mom knows she iss, butrecently shes been claiming to be eatingg.. but ive been with her and shes been lying to her mom about like eating in school. ive tried talkin to her, and i think that gettin her real help will make things worse. but idk.. she may be depressedd


any advicee? thankss<33

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annoying friend.


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 11:00 pm

okay i have this friend, lets call her.. jenny. i've known jenny all this schoolyear and we've been okay friends i guess. but we get into quarrels kinda often. we're in the same club, its kinda like a broadway club and our play is this week so we see each other kinda often outside like school classes. anyways like she misses alot of practices.. like she missed one this saturday which was our dress rehearsal for a flippin birthday party for her little sister. im suprised they didnt kick her out of the club.. well whatever. like sometimes she'd come like about 30 mins late because she was getting a dinner with her mom. amyways like today she got mad at me because i said i was buying tickets for the show today for the rest of my family. and th...

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don't want to be friends


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 10:57 pm

i know this girl and we have been best friends for the past three years. the thing is, i do not get attached easily. unfortunately, she does. i've been thinking about cutting her loose for a while now, i mean she's conceited, rude, melodramatic, and jealous. i do care about her, because i know that she is a good person with good intentions. we just dont fit together anymore. anyway shes really, really emotional and i don't want to tell her that we shouldn't be friends anymore, and she's in my math class and i don't want to have to see her everyday, i mean that's so awkward. she hangs out with me EVERY DAY so it's just habit by now, and it's hard to kind of limit the amount of time we spend together because she really notices, u know? anyway, i guess my point is, help?

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Being Grown and Immature


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 8:50 pm

Well I don't have a car and i am in college and so I have to depend on my friend most of the time if i want to go somewhere. But, I grew up in a home where it was very strict and I barely went out at all. So one day my friends wee going tot he club but at the last minute I decided I didn't want to go because I didn't want to be stuck some place if I ended up getting left out and not be able to leave. So I heard recently she told her cousin that I was too young to hang out with and that I have a curfew was that an insult and is she really my friend?

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Friend's Friend.....help me!


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 6:02 pm

Me and this girl has been good friends for about 4 years now. about 2 years ago she introduced me to one of her friends...who i REALLY like. We've been together for about 1 week. I don't know if i should tell her. I'm not good with these kinda of things....should I tell her?



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Flirting Online, and on the phone.


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 5:42 pm

What are ways to do that?
I don't get the chance to talk to my crush in person because his friends are always arround. Gimmie tips :)

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Flirting with my teacher?


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 5:00 pm

Alright. This isn't quite as bad as the title makes it sound. I am 22/f and over Christmas while I was home I ended up running into my high school math teacher. He was only a year or two out of school when I was in high school. We had a pretty good conversation and I was talking a lot about my school, stress and thesis and he was funny and offered great advice. Anyways He sent me a really nice e-mail over the weekend (apparently he got my e-mail from another teacher I still stay in touch with) and asked me how was going, wished me the best and asked me if I’d like to get together for coffee or dinner when I'm finished.

So, he isn’t that much older then me, but it still seems a little awkward to agree to a date with someon...

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Left out!


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 4:17 pm

Okay, the other day at school a lot of high school kids came to our school and my best friends sister came. My best friend (shelby) also has another sister that goes to my school(nicole), so me, shelby, her older sister(brianna), and nicole and HER best friend (Rachael) were sitting there talking to her Brianna. Me and rachael already know brianna because we have gone over to her younger sisters houses so we know her pretty well. So, rachael goes up to brianna and they give eachother a hug. Then i go up to her and try to give her a hug and she dosent hug back and it was really embarrising. She gave everyone a hug except for me. Then i thought, "o great, next year when i go to high school, i will have no friends" I thought this bec...

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she changed. alot.


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 3:17 pm

i kno this is long but please take the time to read it and help me. my best friend in the entire world has completely changed. i spent the whole summer with her and we were inseperable. but when i went back home, because she lives in another state, i met some new people. i met this girl and guy and the three of us became really good friends. she started talking to them and me and her talked less. we started getting in huge fights and now we are in the biggest fight ever because shes changed a lot. it used to be that no matter what we could call each other and cheer each other up. but i called her to cheer me up and she ignored me and then lied to me about calling the person i was upset about. now we are in a huge fight. what should i do?

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I don't know if I should be friends


Posted Sunday March 11 2007, 8:29 pm

Ok well I got into a fight with this girl Taylor and ened up callin her a crappy friend. I started the fight by saying "why do you always ignore me" (bad thing 2 say because she got mad)Then she showed this letter to Bianca and got bianca to turn againest me. And i said sorry 2 taylor but she said i am a drama queen. We are bff and now she just ends it. So when Bianca and Taylor had a sleepover they ganged up on me and bianca was my bff and she was like "Ali i have a right 2 know why ur mad at me even though we arent goin to be friends" But i didn't tell them. And now im not friends with them. Theres a lot more but u would get really confused. Well what should i do bec there my bff and one minute im mad but then suddenle...

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Boyfriend.


Posted Sunday March 11 2007, 6:37 pm

I've struggled with finding the answer to this, and I dont know if any of you can help, but maybe give me hope?

I'm only 15/f .. I've never had a boyfriend.
Now I know I'm young, compared to all you who are like 20+ but, you remember when you were in highschool.

I guess I admit I am lonely, I know I dont need a boy to make me happy. I can make myself happy. It would just be nice to have one.

I have guy friends, but none more than that.
There is a guy I like, and I'm pretty sure he likes me, everyone says so. But I dont know what to say to him, and I'm afraid if I told him I liked him, he would be like "uh okay..." and try to be cool or something.

So I dont know.

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perfect bday present


Posted Sunday March 11 2007, 3:04 pm

My best friend will be leaving the country for good in 3 months. She will have her bday here sometime before that. Anyway, I want to give her the perfect bday/goodbye present. I had the 'name a star' idea, but i just can't find the authentic site or information about that, so i gave up on that idea.

I need ideas...I like working with my hands if you suggest something craftsy.

One more thing - She's gonna turn 18. I'm 18 as well.

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Me vs. Their group


Posted Sunday March 11 2007, 2:21 pm

Ok so I don't get it anymore. Me and my one best friend have been best friends since forever it seems. In like 7th or 8th grade she started to hang out with this other group of friends. I was hurt at first but it's not like she can't have other friends. The thing that hurt me the most was when she would ditch me for them or not even invite into their plans, even though I was friends with every single one of them in that group. I tried everything, but eventually she came back to me and we were really close in 9th grade. Except she lied to me and I don't know if I can trust her anymore... it was a big thing her lie.. but I won't get into that. Anyway, she keeps talking about two of the girls in their "group" about how much th...

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Friends lie.


Posted Sunday March 11 2007, 11:16 am

my "best friend" is going after a guy I like. I introduced them and I told her I liked him before she even met him, but now she's going after him behind my back and aparently he likes her.. am i the one being messed up or is she?

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desperate for friends (any organizations out there)


Posted Sunday March 11 2007, 1:50 am

15/f

so basically i am stuck at a small private school in socal desperate for friends (my parents aren't letting me switch schools) but theres only 30-40 kids in each grade and most of the girls either complain every second of their lives or else there just straight up gossipy and mean ( i know everyone has their faults) but i don't have any friends at this school (i am even nice) anyway are there any organizations i can join that other teens meet other teens and do activities, etc...please help im desperate

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should i ask him out or wait


Posted Saturday March 10 2007, 6:06 pm

ok well this guy i used to go out with broke up with me a long time ago. well a few nights ago i told him i still liked him and he said he still likes me too. well on his buddy info he says that he is scared to ask me out and i am scared to ask him out. we have been talkin ever since we both found out we liked each other and we have a great time talkin to each other. we both really like each other but i am scared to ask him out. what should i do

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My Best Friend


Posted Saturday March 10 2007, 12:14 pm

I'm a boy, and I'm 15

I have a best friend whose really cool. Me and him met in marching band and eventually became really good friends.
But there's this girl who is obsessed with him and is always hanging on to him. She pretty much treats me like dirt and acts like I'm getting in the way.
One time I told my friend that if he liked her and she liked him they should just go out with each other, and they both acted like I was crazy. Maybe it was because my best friend had a girlfriend before and had bad experiences? idk.
Anyway, I usually don't care when they hang out, even if I am left behind, but the other day, my best friend decided to skip school to go snowtubing with this girl. It wouldn't usually m...

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i am in love with my best friend.


Posted Saturday March 10 2007, 9:18 am

i am a 15 year old girl. I have liked this one guy for about like since 6th grade and now i am going to be a freshmen...so about 4 years. well we always flirt and like hold hands or are really close to each other. he was a girlfriend but he wants to do IT with me. We meet at his locker all the time during class to talk about it. So friday i went to his locker like he told me. I was nervous even though i realy would love to kiss him. he was saying how he thought i like him and i told him i do but what about your gf, he told me that she didnt have to know. We were standing there and i a thinking what if i made the first move? He didnt think i was enthusiastic this time, because this has happened before him asking me to hook up with him. shoul...

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