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Voicemail.
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 1:09 pm
When I woke up this morning my phone said I had a voicemail said I'd recieved a message at 3:08 A.M.
I listened to it, and it was my best guy friend, saying, "Hey, I don't want this to sound corny, but I like being your friend. I don't know why I called you right now, I was sleeping, but yeah, but I'm gonna go back to sleep."
What, hahaha. I thought this was the sweetest msg in the world, but I've known him for about 2 years and he's never done anything like this. Could it mean he likes me or anything else?
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she has no friends at all??
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 1:32 am
theres this girl i know and i try to be her friend and stuff but she says like she doesnt need friends and she has had no friends at all. we're both in seventh grade.. and i cant believe it. i mean i even thought i was kinda her friend.. but i guess not. she acts reeeeally weird but she also likes anime and drawing pictures. like she draws all the time even during school and has like probably hundreds of pics done. they're good and i like drawing anime too but sometimes it would make sense to be socializing but shes just sitting there by herself coloring or something. and then when you talk to her she talks... really weird like all hyper and stuff and like once i was fooling around and i combed her hair a little with a comb i found and she ...
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worried about my friend...
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 9:28 pm
she never eats around me and our other friends. we never ever see her eat. she's constantly drinking coffee or tea or water or chewing mint gum or smoking. she always seems a little shaky or sleepy or vague. it seems like she's been losing weight. what could be going on? i'm really worried...help?
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meeting friends through other friends
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 7:21 pm
[ i am a girl ] okay. i have this one friend names katlyn who cheers with me, and she was literally my best friend. we were insepperatable..but then one day i was over at my other friend kelley's house..and i was talking to katlyn on AIM. kelley said she thought katlyn was hilarious..so she asked for her screen name..i gave it to her. a couple weeks later kelley said she wanted to meet katlyn..and i said sure..no big deal right? so all three of us plan a sleepover last august. after the sleepover, kelley and katlyn talked a lot, but katlyn always assured me she didnt like kelley..or so i thought. months later, me and katlyn went through some friendship problems. it was bad. and during it kelley and katlyn got extremely close..until they pla...
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Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 7:04 pm
i go to this new school, & i mean.. i want to make friends with some of these girls that are alot like me. but these dorkier girls, who i have nothing in common with, except schoolwork, like always follow me& stuff. & i mean im nice to them & all, but. i really wanna like talk to these other girls. but i feel queer, just going up to them & being like "HEYY! whats up?!" yano?
so what should i do?
how can i talk to these other girls who seem pretty chill?
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worried about my friend
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 6:02 pm
15/f
k i have this friend and shes 16 and we're like really close... shes really sweet and teachers love her, all honors classes, honor roll, the whole deal. but lately shes been like rebelling a lot i guess and i don't like it at all. i mean i'm finee with alcohol and i'm even ok that she does pot once in a while.. but now shes like hooking up with random older drunk and she wants to have sex with one of them... but i think she'll really regret it later.. i mean shejus met the kid and they're not gonna go out. and also shes going to this party for st patricks day this weekend that im esp. worried about.. in order to get there she has to drive her and her friends and she only has her permit! so like.. if she gets pulled over i'm real...
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fight with my friend
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 5:46 pm
ok like 5 minutes ago i had a fight with my friend online. it didn't really go anywhere. i just wanted to tell her how she doesnt treat me like she used to and has been ignoring me lately. soo anyway in school we are in 3 classes together, but shes the only one i talk to. also i have lunch with her and none of my other friends are.
so do i just leave her at the end of class? and not talk to her during lunch? it will be awkward..
i kind of what to solve things, but sometimes i kind of dont, cause this is the 2nd time i brought this up to her. helpp!please
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should i tell her
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 5:11 pm
My friend(mia) liked this guy(bob) for two years and she told me a week ago that she stopped liking him. Well I was talking to a different friend, Chrissy today and she told me that Bob hooked up with this other girl(Rachel) alot over the past few months. Should I tell Mia this or just let it go? Bob was hooking up with rachel while mia liked him.
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ignoring me??
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 1:42 pm
It seems like me and my one friend have been getting in little arguments over our friendship. Everything with this best friend stuff is driving me insane! I'm scared that she might call this friendship off because I've been constantly asking her if she is mad or annoyed with me.
But today was terrible. She ALWAYS doesn't talk to me when her other friend is around. She tells me because she doesn't have any classes with her but 1 and lunch period with her. But that still does not give her the right to completly ignore me and treat me bad, then when its just me and her she acts like I'm the most important thing. It drives me nuts! I want to talk to her about it, but how should I do this without having her blow up on me? Thanks!
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Flirty Girlfriend!!!
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 6:51 am
I'm in 1st yr. and I'm 15 yrs. old I have this friend and she is too flirty and she even flirts with my bf and I hate that who would love that..then she also take away my friends like she's making flirt to them everytime we saw my friends she would say the name of my friend then hug them..I'm so pissed everytime she did that. Do you think what should i do?..
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Am I allowed to be upset?
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 11:48 pm
I was talking to my friends like an hour or more earlier and they were at one friends' house hanging out. Since they were going to leave his house soon, they told me they were going to another friend (he lives like 2 minutes walk away from me)to watch a movie and that they'd call me when they get there so i can go over. They told me they'd call me in 10 minutes but they didnt, so i called them like 5 minutes ago and they were like "oh yeah, we're watching the movie right now". They didnt even invite me or remember that they were suppose to call me or anything. Needless to say, Im annoyed and slightly hurt. I don't know if i have a right to be. There's like five of them and not one of them bothered calling me or asking me if i...
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Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 10:36 pm
i go to a new school, &theres this like party coming up, like a dance.. & my old friend, who yano i love to death, will be there.. but she tends to get a little crazy there, like annoying, like she makes an idiot out of herself. & i dont want my new friends to like think im like that too. but my old friend is super excited about seeing me. so idno, what should i do?
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Friends don't trust me anymore
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 7:18 pm
After reading this you'll be thinking 'Lame teenage problem' but this is a big deal to me. As of last week I was known as the nice girl you can trust and will never bitch about you behind your back. But now that's down the drain. I'm now known as a bitch who says heaps of crap behind people's backs. What happened was that one of my 'friends' and I drifted away (No fights, nothing) and I haven't been to school in about a week due to being sick so now was the best time to tell everyone I have been bitching behind their backs to her (Even though I haven't) so now everyone is angry with me and I'm not even there to defend myself. I have no idea what bought this on. I was still friends with her, just not as close and if anyone should be angry it...
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sports vs friends
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 7:17 pm
13/f. for the past 2 years i have been playing softball. this year 4 of my friends are doing it also, and i get left out sometimes. now since they are doing it, i don't know if i want to do softball. plus, one of them is taking my spot(pitcher). i was thinking about trying track because i am a decent runner, but i dont know anyone whose doing it.
soo, should i still do softball and probably get left out? or try track?
please help soon, tryouts are this week
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I DO NOTHING!
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 5:11 pm
ok, just as the title, i do NOTHING! right when i get home,Bam,on the computer. i only have school friends,and no one wants to hang out with a uninteresting person. omg,no lie,im so boring! i dont even do anything,i just feel like i cant!the only thing i do is on wednesday,musical theater,but thats not even school related. i really need to be more social,and happier. how can i do this?! help?! i need to do something with my life!
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should i tell her?
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 4:33 pm
Ok, so my friend dyed her hair red and someone told me that a couple of her other 'friends' were making fun of her. I'm really mad and I want to say something to her about it, but I don't want her getting mad at me so she thinks I'm rubbing it in her face and I don't want to make her upset because sometimes things like that are better left unsaid. But I don't want her getting mad at me if she finds out that I knew about it the whole time.
Also one of her other friend said some pretty mean things about her behind her back to me because she was mad at her. I'm really jealous of this one friend because I think that she favors her. I really want to tell her so they can get mad, but thats not the right thing to do. What should I do? Thanks!
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Annoying person.
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 9:47 am
A few years ago, I met this girl in one of my classes. I talked to her for maybe five minutes a day. Now, she still talks to me all the time and it's getting annoying. Before you call me a jerk, let me finish. Normally, I'm all for having new friends and people to talk to in school, but she is so incredibly annoying, not to mention rude, that it's driving me insane. It's hard to ignore her because she literally tracks me down in the hallway and she found where I sit at lunch. I try to humor her and I'll have a conversation with her, but it pisses me off when I'll be talking to another one of my friends and she'll appear out of nowhere and demand to know what we're talking about. I don't like having her around because all she does is talk an...
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loosing bff
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 8:11 am
14/f
ive had my best friend since kindergarden and we've been off and on since then. when were off we just dont talk and arnt friends at all, when were on we are the best together. ive had my other best friend since 5th grade and were inseperable. me and S (5th grade bf) are still together and always will be probably. but with K (other bf since kindergarder) she has other friends from tennis and she seems to love them more than us and she always just leaves us for them and never can hang out. shes done this alot of times over the summer over atleast 5 times. me and s and her were like a trio but now were not. i love k so much and i cry because i miss how she was.. but not she is hanging out with the fake girls in our ...
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Hes taking over her life!
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 5:47 am
My friend started dating around 2 to 3 months now and it has irriated many people such as she starts acting weird not much like herself she tries to impress him more but hes seems not to care, she starts to stop eating so he won't think shes fat, she would rather hang out with him then with us. Friday a whole fight broke out because of something that happened while my friend went out of town, her boyfriend asked out 3 girls and told them he would break up with his gf just for them. We confronted him and her, he said he wouldn't do such a thing in his life and she believed him. He seems to be interested in other girls he comes up to me plays with my hair and comes up and tickles and hugs girls ALOT even when his gf is around he will hug all ...
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Ditched
Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 5:11 am
my best friend has a bf and they are madly in love which i dont mind but if im on the phone with her and he calls on the other line shell say she needs to go and talk to him and this bothers me and ive talked to her about this but she says she just really likes him and wants to talk to him so should i just hang out with my other friends some more because they dont ditch me because i cant put everything into this relationship if i know she only talks to me when hes not there
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