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was he using me?
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 7:22 pm
ok i have this so called guy friend who likes my good friend, my friend knew that he has a crush on her and he knows it too
and him and i always talk about her and i always listen and trying to help him out and he said this to me after my friend told me to tell him:
"friend": she said she likes someone ?
me : yeah
"friend": : ic...
me : yeah
me: ey no meeting in the library for a while
me : cause people are being UGh
me: so annoying
"friend": : well theres no need to talk to you anymore
me: as in?
"friend": : i only talk to you cause of her...
me: icic
me: umm ok then
"friend": : nice knowin you
and he signed out so was he using me?
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flirting friend. HELP
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 5:05 pm
Okaay so my friend is such a flirt! its so annoying she will flirt with every freaking guy even when she has a boyfriend! ARGGHHH.. i have told her what she does all the time but she doesn't really care, or she gets mad at me for saying that. any advice?
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therapist/friend?
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 4:59 pm
I need someone to talk to, to ask for advice, and to TALK TO AS A FRIEND. Like daily? I want to know about you, same for me. Anyone interested? Im not some freakish old guy, dont worry.
P.S oh yea, im girl and im 13. so if ur thirteen that perfect.
P.P.S i want to talk by email. NOT IN PERSON. because im not exactly aloud to go out yet...
anyone who's interested...answer question...and ill give u my email.
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I cant help feeling this way!
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 4:33 pm
13/Female
A couple years ago I had this BFF and we did everything together, we were really close. I dont know what happened but we arent frinds anymore, now she has this ONE best friend that is moving away. I feel really bad for her and I cant help it but I feel like I want to be her friend again so I can be there for her. Is that the right thing to do or would I just be starting a whole other mess of a frindship?
Thanks
-Hal
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did i break up a friendship?
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 4:11 pm
OK, when i moved here 3 years ago i met two girls who were best friends and i wanted to be part of that group because i liked them both, so i try to hang out with them, but i just feel erally left out, so for a while i would ony hang out with one of them and try to make the other one feel left out, then, if that didn't work i would do the same thing with the other one. I didn't do it conciousely but i realize now that that's what i did. Well, i decided which one i wanted to be friends with and tried my best to leave the other one out. Well, now, 3 years later i am best friends with one of them and they hate eachother. I didn't realize it at the time i was only in seventh grade but now i realize that it could be my fault... is it?
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i know its wrong..
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 3:07 pm
Ok so one of my best friends liked this guy for a while and he liked her but they just couldnt be together because of her dad. but they still liked eachother but then i started talking to him because she wanted me to get to know him because we figured that eventually we could all hang out cuz they will prolly end up going out but they didnt now she dosnt like him anymore and i do..and i have a bf but things are not going well with my bf right now and i have kinda felt that i like him for a while now but one of my friends told me this week that maybe i just like him because i dont get that kind of attention from my bf and hes not the friendliest person ever but this other guy is really really nice and i still want my friend and him to be tog...
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Guy friend crushing on unappreciative girl
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 2:12 pm
I am 13/female.
My guy friend is 14/m. (obviously haha)
He likes a girl who likes him just for his looks.
Im pretty sure he likes her for her looks & popularity (she is in 7th grade, he's in 8th) and he is a HUGE flirt, but theyve never even spoken in person!! it's rediculous, they talk on AOL and email all the time, but i can't comprehend how they cn like eachother.
I wish he would find someone who respected him for who he was, and I feel like he's getting annoyed/ignoring me for some reason but I don't knwo why. Ive just been really down lately because he is my best friend, and I know he's a teenage guy and this is gonna happen, but I thought he was different and more mature. The girl isn't even nice.
Thanks
-AW
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Talk
Posted Saturday March 17 2007, 2:11 pm
Okay so Im talking ot my friend on IM and we can never think of anything to talk about. Got any ideas? Thanks.
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friends!?
Posted Friday March 16 2007, 9:56 pm
There is this girl on my bus and nobody really talks to her or hangs out with her but noone thinks shes a freak. She used to be one of my really good friends but we just stopped hanging out. I feel bad because shes always lonley but i dont want her to think im one of her really good friends because i dont want to be and she keeps writing about the past and what not. So should i talk to her on the bus? just so she has someone to talk to or should i just not so she doesnt get the idea that i want to be her best Friend again?
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gossip
Posted Friday March 16 2007, 9:49 pm
today i realized all the jealousy and cattiness involved with the girls i hang out with. we all gossip constantly about one another. we ditch each other for other people. we have cliques within cliques. it's ridiculous. i don't want to be a part of it anymore. i still want to hang out with my friends, and i'm not going to deny that i love hearing the gossip. but i need to stop talking shit. it's really hard for me; i've tried before. i really need help stopping, because it's so high school and so ridiculous that it just makes me feel like a shitty person. how do i STOP TALKING SHIT about my friends?
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true blue? or fake snake?
Posted Friday March 16 2007, 8:19 pm
ok, so like our best friend( like a great friend that i have known 4eva!)) has a really hard time choosing the right guys. she goes out with guys that have like done bad things. we try to help her but theres nothing more we can do. should we just tell her straight up how we feel?
or
keep feeling badfor her??
hElP
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Is this bad...?
Posted Friday March 16 2007, 6:45 pm
I wasn't sure which category to put this in so..Ok..Anyways. My friend (a girl) has a boyfriend and I'm single (I'm a guy). So one day we were talking on yahoo and she said she was gonna call me again (We had talked on the phone the past four days in a row.) And before she left she said "Haha, I talk to you more than I talk to my boyfriend." and I wasn't sure on how to respond to that..I don't know if that's a bad thing...Or a good thing..PLEASE HELP!! Thanks in advance.
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losers; totally defeated.
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 10:11 pm
ughh im so pissed, my basketball team's whole season was totally defeated. and we were against a team today of people i knew from school so it was kinda sad too that we won and i owe my friend on that team 50 cents! (lol) i mean.. i play just for fun but idk.. like theres this guy who was at the game who sits next to me for like 2 classes and i dont wanna get embarrased over it. i mean why am i worrying so much some seasons are good and some arent. like for soccer the first time i played in the thingy we lost most of our games and then the next season we were totally undefeated and the same for the next............... stillll! i feel a little sad... we got the "participation medals" woot! [/sarcasm]
like its gonna b...
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Friends making fun of me because of purity
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 9:17 pm
I am a very enthusiastic christian, and the perverted people that i had to sit on the bus with (two Pastor's kids and three practicing christians!) started making fun of me because i didn't know all those perverted terms, and because i don't cuss, and i never even kissed a guy(saving it for marriage)and i actually felt bad about this afterward! I know that they were the ones in the wrong, but they made me feel like i was. What can i do? BTW-i already prayed for them like a million times.
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funny/fun things
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 8:19 pm
what are some funny/fun things to do when your bored? also with friends? i need to learn how to entertain people. hah
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Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 6:56 pm
sometimes i feel like life would be better if i was a loner again. Having best friends is so complicated...and i take everything too seriously...and i'm extremely shy. My 'best friend' has really changed. Well we're opposites, but now we're getting to be even more opposites. I think in some ways I'm jealous of her too, but i can't stop feeling this way. It's gotten so bad that now I try to avoid talking to her at school. She's acting like she's clueless...but i know she feels like we're too different too. I just wish she could think, "yeah, okay, we're not best friends anymore" like me and just leave me alone. just give up like me. But the problem is, she doesn't think that and yet she still hangs out with her other friends and h...
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what i need from her
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 6:51 pm
me and my best friend are really close, but im starting to doubt our friendship, i mean she can be pretty retarted at times and i wish she could be a little bit more serious when im in pain(emotional)or upset or really really excited!I mean I love her(bff love)but i dont know what to do!
should i dump her or ask her to be a bit more serious?
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this is sort of love life/friendship
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 6:11 pm
k, so i'm 16/f. my friends never call me to hang out, and when i do, they say they'll hang out w/ me and they ditch me. it's pretty much because i'm not dating someone within their clique of friends. my bf and i have been dating for 3 years, and he lives with me. he tells me that going out should be a top priority for me, and he never lets me hear the end of it. i don't go out with anyone on weekends, because they all ignore me. i'm hanging out with a new group of friends, but i feel left out w/ them too because i never know what they're talking about half of the time. my boyfriend feels obligated to be with me, and he's sick of it, so he's trying really hard to push me away, and it's really making me upset, because he never wants to be aro...
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Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 5:36 pm
friend is depressed.
help?
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stressing me out
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 5:21 pm
ok to make a long story shorter one of my friends lets call her stacy got mad at one of my closer friends and we will call her kathy. i was talking to kathy and stacy seemed like she was pissed at me for it. another one of my friends who is friends with all three of us lets call her ariana totally ingonored kathy and ditched us for stacy. well i talked to ariana and she said it was because she didnt want stacy mad at her for talking to kathy. what am i supposed to do? im not mad at any of them and im not really in the middle of it but its kinda stressing me out that there fighting like all the time. what can make me not so stressing out?
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