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my friend is depressed
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 10:41 am
hey i have a good friend that has been depressed lately. what should i do to make my friend happy and get her mind off of the things that are making my friend sad. please help, i dont like seeing my friend this way.
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Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 7:58 am
14/f
mmk, so i switched schools, and theres this one kid, that i was like the best of friends with for like 3 years. & i'm a girl & hes a boy, & to me thats kinda a long time to keep a friendship with a guy. so anyways, i dated him like in the beginning when i was friends with him. & then he broke up with me, which i was so heart broken. but then like he ended up coming running back to mee. so obviously, i started talking to him again, & it was super. & like it was kinda obvious we liked eachother & stuff... but i didnt want a boyfriend at the time, because the previous boyfriend i had, before him, cheated on me. so anyways, it was all just great, intill he told me he really really liked me. i didn...
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wen dragged in with all the lies wut do u do?
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 7:47 am
so basically this is wut happened gonna be breif.I had to be freinds with some girl because people felt bad for her and made me. Then she starts to lie and act weird and basically cause alot of problems in my relationship with a girl that i love, so i stop talking to her. After that she started spreading some lies about how we talked forever and did stuff, honestly i wuz never realy freinds with her but she liked me and all and i guess shes crazy. lastly after everything cleared itself up shes still going back at it and spreading lies...honestly i dunno what to do because i no the girl i love is losing trust in me and its just really annoying to be accused for somehting and especially by someone u love for something u never did...please i need advice on this problem
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Old Crush Issues
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 12:45 am
I'm a 17/f and when I was 14, I went out on a limb and asked my crush to homecoming. I think I scared him away because I was overconfident and he ended up not talking to me and avoiding me. Which is understandable I guess. Now, a few years later, we have a few classes together, we've been lab partners lately, and we're starting to be... idk... like school friends I guess? Now, I have a boyfriend and everything and I'm happy, but I wouldn't mind being friends with this guy. I can't help but wonder if he thinks I'm a weirdo or if he thinks I still like him. Whenever we're having a conversation, even about homework, I can't help but think that we're both thinking about how stupid I was a few years back. Any ideas for conversation starters to avoid awkward moments?
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Did i talk too Much at the wrong time?
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 11:49 pm
I know this is long but please read it and answer honestly. So I rented a car to go somewhere and out of the goodness of her heart my friend agreed to take me to where i wanted to go she even had to miss a day of work and i said i would repay her for missing that day. So i put down the 100 dollar deposit needed to pay for the car and i also paid the 33 dollars to rent it as well as an extra day so her boyfriend could go to court.I owed her 24 dollars anyway for the day of work she missed so i said fine i'l pay the ectra 12 dollars because you are doing me a favor. So i did but then the guy didn't ever think me and although he treats me okay he is not really or was not disrespectful to me he didn't aknowledge me in the friendliest of ways ...
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Leaving me out, idk why
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 10:41 pm
Well I'm best frineds with these 3 girls and they are awesome and are certainly true friends. But lately, two of these friends haven't been really inviting me to stuff, and I always invite both of them. Like tonight, I already had plans to hang out with other friends, but I don't think they knew that and ended up not even inviting me to whatever they were doing. I mean, I would have said "Sorry no I can't" if they asked because I already had other plans, but still, it's the second time they haven't even bothered to invite me. I am a tiny bit mad at them now. Am I just overreacting, because they are usually loyal friends. But idk, I think i have a right to be mad at them because I ALWAYS invite them to stuff. Should I talk to them about it next time I see them? Thanks.
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stupid.
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 10:24 pm
This might be a little complicated to put into words, but I do need advice pretty badly.
Ok, so I went out with this boy for a while, like 4 months. He is a senior and I am a freshman. Fair enough. Anyways, while I was with him, I became friends with his friends, including this girl, let's call her K. So K and I were best friends for a while, then when my boyfriend and I broke up, we didn't talk much.
Basically the whole point of this is, K is a REAL bitch. Like, pure evil. She is a horrible person. Me and her have gotten into many fights, and I just dislike her completely, and she knows it too because I have told her straight to her face that we shouldn't talk anymore. She is a cruel person.
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friend
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 8:11 pm
Well, i have this friend, and well everytime i am myself she gets mad at me for acting the way i do, im not mean im just crazy (thats my personality) and so i feel like i have to be somone else when im around her in order to be her friend. Now she is mad at me again, is it worth trying to work things out AGAIN or should i just noot be her friend anymore, because i have a bunch of other friends that like me for me.
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We can't figure out what we should do about her acting like
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 7:48 pm
There's this girl that I have known since I was in third grade, Brittany. well, I THOUGHT i knew her. She has invited people over right in front of me and one of my best friend's faces without inviting us. She talks about every single one of the people who she calls her friend and even people she doesn't know. The other night, she called and by the time I had found my phone, she hung up. Not even a minute later, another girl who was at her house, Sarah, called me and I answered. After getting off the phone with me, Brittany told Sarah and all the other girls there that I was a bitch, I was obsessed with Sarah, and a lot of other things. Apparently, she calls me and everyone else who she calls her "best friend" a bitch to anyone to...
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I'm unconfident.
Posted Thursday March 22 2007, 8:32 pm
My best friend has guys asking her to hook up all the time, right and left and sometimes i wonder if its because she has big boobs, i mean all they talk about is that she is pretty big, but i feel like being around her makes me realize how much guys dont notice me.
I mean i do have a pretty good amount of friends, but not a lot of guy friends. I really wish that guys would find me attractive, and want to hook up with me and actually have interest in me. But idk how to achieve that. I mean i get told everyday that i look really cute by a lot of girls and that i dress so cute and have like the best style. But i have a feeling it's because im not confident enough with myself and around guys. I'm sorta shy you could say. How can i change that?
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Hanging out with a new group
Posted Thursday March 22 2007, 5:27 pm
On saturday I'm going to town with two of my mates and we're going to hang around with this totally new group of people. Well, new to me. One of my mates hangs out with them most saturdays, and the other one has been to town with them a few times in the past.
Ok, but the problems are:
1. They all dress emo/rocky/skater and although I have some clothes like that I don't wear them all the time and don't want to look try-hard. You may think 'well, you shouldn't have to dress like them' but they're very passionate about what they like, the clothes they wear, music they listen to and I figured it would just be easier if I did.
2. The boy I fancy will probably be there, which means I'll prob be feeling more s...
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party game ideas
Posted Thursday March 22 2007, 5:22 pm
I am having a boy/girl party in 2 days, with 30 people. (I am 13/f.) my mom is ok with having guys there but she says if she finds out we are playing spin the bottle or other guy/girl games that i will be grounded. and some of my friends moms are calling to talk to my mom to make sure we wont too. i need some ideas for games. i will have music and food but what else should i do??
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friend
Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 10:19 pm
hey
well the day before yesterday i found out that this kid liked one of my friends, and people were saying she probably doesnt know... so like, i decided to tell her.
and like, when i did, she looked at me and i thought she was gonna hit me! she looked so mad and she turned bright red and she told me how he always bothers her and to never bring it up again.
well i never really said sorry causse i just got quiet and didn't takl to her for the rest of the day, but i really really want to say sorry to her to let her know that i didn't mean to like, make her upset or whatever. do you think i should send her a short email or just let it go?
i feel bad but it might just make her MORE u...
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Friends insult me.
Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 8:05 pm
I've got a great group of friends. Albeit small, but we're close. There's one flaw about them- you basically have to twist their arm off to get a legitamate compliment out of them.
It's always, Gosh you're so ugly. Haha, Kidding!
CONSTANTLY. Not occassionally, as a joke.
Just once, I want to her "Anna, you're beautiful" and not hear about my personality/physical flaws. But it's apparently too much to ask. How can I approach this without losing their friendship?
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cliques
Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 6:44 pm
Ok I'm going to tell ya right now If u dont like clique questions stop reading. I'm the leader of a clque, I'm the most popular girl in my school and I have 4 great friends we have weekly sleep overs and things like that and theres this new girl at my school who came in and took my friends I dont want to be mean to her (which is taking all my will power) so wat should I do????
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"outsider"
Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 6:10 pm
I dont have any real friends. I have joined clubs, but it hasnt worked out. Im a friendly, decent, nice , respectful person.
The people I talk to claim to be my "friend" but yet they never want to hang out with me and one is rude to me. She told me that Im no fun, that I have an eating disorder, and said "Why would ANYONE call YOU?!" But, i dont want to be associated with her, but its all I have right now.
I used to be close with this other girl but she wanted to boss me around, so I stood up for myself and lets say we arent talking and some other people arent talking to me either.
Joined clubs and talked to some people, but sometimes I would add something to the conversat...
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Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 4:31 pm
these boys in my grade are really jerky and really hurt my feelings. It makes me very upset! I don't know what to do anytime they get the chance to insult me they DO. I ask them nicley to stop and theyu say no. I've told adult sand they talked to them but then it gets bad again. So NOTHING at this point is working. ANy advice? thanks=]
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cliques
Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 4:03 pm
I'm the leader of a VERY important clique (its the best clique in the school) anyway one of the people in it walked away to join a dif. clique I dont want her back I need to find a new clique person to replace her how do I find a new person?
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best friends for never?
Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 3:24 pm
okayy well this is all over internet
like these people i don't know in real life but anyway
i made this best friend over internet named sally,
we have been besties for EVER. well ever since august of last year. anyway
she has made an enemy her name is adriana
welll
adriana is my friend and one day sally told me not to talk to her
i said okay
well i've been secretly talking to adriana
and sally figures out
now she is all like i hate you
we are not friends and blah blah blah.
i was very sad yesterday but today i realized
its over internet
why am i taking this so seriously.
but i am still sad because i dont have sally
she ...
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wrong calendar. :|
Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 9:13 am
uhm.okay.so,i planned a reunion for my friends in my old school since majority of us moved and we wanna see each other again.i marked the event on the 31st and then i woke up this morning and i realized that i had a tutor session thing on that day!what should i do?i can't afford to change the date of the reunion since everyone is fine with it and they're all not busy.and i can't have it on april 1st cuz its my mom's b-day.i would need to make up an excuse, but what? i'm thinking of saying that i need to go to a gathering..or should i just have someone say that i'm sick and can't go.i know my education is important but its not everyday i could see my friends again, and if i skipped the tutor session on that day, i'd continue anyway.so this i...
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