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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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I really want to help her


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 9:53 pm

My best friend hasn't been herself lately. She has recently been keeping a bit more to herself and has an angry tone towards her friends. She still flirts with guys a little bit which in my opinion is great.

About a month and a half ago she broke up with her boyfriend. They had been going out for about a year and a half. She says she has somewhat moved on but I honestly don't believe her---some days she will tell me she still likes him or will get jealous of other girls. I understand that she is hurt. She is a strong, confident person so seeing her this way really hurts. She tells me almost everything, at least that's what I thought.

A couple days ago I accidently caught her crying in the bathroom. Noone else...

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to tell or not to tell


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 8:51 pm

hey this is kinda confusing, so yea my friend likes this guy, and i like him too, he's friends with both of us, I've liked him for a while but havent told my friend and she told me a couple weeks ago she did, and now i feel bad to tell her i do because shell think im stealing him.. what do i do? because shes my best friend and i really want her to know

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not quite friends anymore...


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 8:37 pm

sorry so long...

me and nick used to be like best friends. i could tell him anything. (btw, im 16/f). me and kat were best friends too. shes a foreign exchange student who sat with us at lunch. shes hilarious. nick met kat one day after i would always tell him about her. well, i was falling for him because he would always tell me how beautiful i am and how much he loved me. what girl wouldnt fall for someone as sweet as him? but i told him the day after valentines day that i was falling for him. he had met katharina about a week before that. when i told him that i was falling for him, he was like "o. well, ur not over ur ex. maybe it will work later." ok. i understand that. but what i dont understand is eversince he...

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how can i comfort my boyfriend?


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 6:47 pm

ok so my bfs dog has to be like put to sleep and hes pretty upset like i mean i would be to i love my dog and i woul dbe devastated if i had to do that to my dog so shoul di maybe leave him alone for a while or should i try to talk 2 him about it?? help meeeeeeeeeeee

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Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 6:05 pm

hey, well.. you said that you'd be willing to help me with my problem, so here it is.

14/f.
mmk, well I knew this kid, who was like my bestestestest friend ever. like, i asked him for help with everythinggg. & he always looked out for me. & then eventually, we dated. for a couple months. then, he broke up with me, but a couple months later, we were best friends again. & it was like we were dating. but we never made it offical. considering, i just had gotten out of a bad relationship at that time, + i wasn't 100 percent sure if i liked him & only him completely.

that all happened in 6th grade. [ i met him in like 4th grade, & we became like best friends at the beginning of 5th grade.]...

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how do I act?


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 5:52 pm

theres a guy... & he flirts with me all the time. we hung out Monday and he was flirting with me so much and he called me beautiful and all this stuff. then one of my friends tells me today that he likes another girl. I was really upset because I felt stupid... i set my feelings on him and then this happened. i just don't know how i should act around him, because i'm not sure if he still likes me. i mean, i still like him but should i not show it? should i flirt with him even more? should i not even talk to him? any ideas?

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she thinks im a liar


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 4:56 pm

okay im 14/m and i have this friend 14/f and well i sort of like her, but thats not what this is about, now i was talking to her and she said that a long long time ago she heard my best frind say somthing, and when i confronted my best friend about it he was sooo mad at the girl i like(lets call her jill to save confusion)he was very angry at jill, he was swerin and everything he said thats it im gunna sort her out tomorry i want a word with that b**** and well jill gets upset easily and so i wet to her and said look my best friends relli mad at you, and i told her i confronted him about what he said, and she was upset that i did that because apparently i made out that she was the liar and it really upset her, now i begged my friend not to ...

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hgjkdlf


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 3:44 pm

Hey. I'm really stressed. I think the "emo" stuff and the "prep" stuff is both really pretty. I have cut myself before, if that's what you want to call it. They didn't even bleed and honestly, I don't plan on making them. I like the way the "preps" dress but also the way the "emos" dress. I'm blonde and I have fair skin so I don't know how good I would look with a lot of eye makeup and stuff like that, but I really really like it. Also, I'm worried that I might lose some friends. I know my friends are supposed to love me for me, and I think they will, but I think that we may not be as close. What should I do??
13/female/seventh grade, if that helps.

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hardcore rap etc


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 3:24 pm

i need some really manly music, e.g. hardcore rap, hip hop etc, to man up a little girly boy. any artists?

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friends brother


Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 3:23 pm

hi, my fiends little brother is starting in our school next year, and the whole family is sort, of, um, i dont know what, but sort of wierd. my friend gets bullied because of his huge ass, and we dont want his little brother to get bullied like this. so in the summer, we're going to teach him the do's, and dont's of this school. any tips?

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mood swings! and not with girls!


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 11:56 pm

so i'm 15 and i have a bunch of guy friends... but they have crazy mood swings and i never know what to expect from them... i'm really starting to get frustrated with all this drama and stuff... like one day i'm all they're interested in, and the next i'm not even there and they're mad at me for something.... grrr. so why do guy's have these crazy mood swings and what can i possibly do about them?

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Wicked confused!


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 9:52 pm

Ok so this might be just a lil bit confusing and long/ sorry...Lets name my friends Jessica, Lucy, & Jeremy. Ok well, we've all been freinds for a couple of months now. But i've known Lucy for about 8 years. But Jeremy started fighting with Jessica and calling her slut & stuff like that. & then Lucy & Jessica started fighting about something & i kinda stopped talking to Jessica. But then Lucy & Jessica made up & so did Jeremy & Jessica. But then Jeremy got mad at Lucy & me for something but started talking to me again. && then i got into a fight with Jessica but am now kinda talking to her. & now Jereny started talking to Lucy again. So yea if you didnt catch up with all of that, basically we'...

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what do you think?


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 8:59 pm

Heyy.
My names Hailey. I have a problem, I like this kid in my grade.. let's call him Joey. Well, Joey is in one of my classes and he talks to me alot but I don't know if he really likes me or just thinks of me as a friend. Like, i'll be sitting alone with no one around me and he just comes over to me.. sits down.. and talks to me. I get really happy when he does that, but I found out he likes my best friend. It sucks, I know. Everytime i like someone, he likes my best friend. This has happened about five times already (within the last year). So many guys like her, it just makes me so mad. I'll admitt, im jealous.. but who wouldn't be? The worst part about it is my friend acts like she doesn't even care. They are in one clas together...

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What do you do if a friend you know is trouble is hitting on


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 8:05 pm

This particular guy in in a band and very good friends of my sibling. We have been getting close. People say he is really crazy and I have seen it to. He asked me one day if I was in the army. because I had a tank booty. What is a tank booty? And should I be getting involved with someone he is suppose to psychotic when it comes to women. By the way I can't help it if I like this kid.

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confused about friends, school, between preps and goth


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 7:12 pm

13/f. I was in the popular preppy group but now I am in the gothic. I think I am still bffs with my friend in the popular group. If I ask her anything around that or that she says oh ya why wouldn’t we be I love you or bffs still. We used to be bffs but then it was off and on because we didn’t do the same sports. So I got tired of thinking if tomorrow wed be bffs or not. my gothic friends are always there for me and im very rough and they are to so i can just be myself and also they dont theyd never tell a parent if someone hurts them. my old preppy friends would always just sit there and laugh at stuff that made no sense and if someone hurts them they go tell it drove me fuckin crazy. they never understood what i went through or my mus...

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outfitt


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 6:55 pm

what kind of outfit should i wear to school tomorrow? Its going to be kind of warm, so wanna wear a skirt, shorts or capris. i want something cute though

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other bffs guy girl sleepover


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 6:50 pm

Im 13/f depressed gothic girl. One of my bffs is having her 13 bday soon. Shes always been the sporty girl that has all (guy) friends and 4 (girl) friends. Shes as gross as all the guys and acts like one as in acting out sex and porn and everything like that. and tries to get people who like eachother to makeout and ya. And her guy friends spend the night a lot as friends. Her bday is paintball then a sleepover guys and girls. My mom wont let me spend the night but I can go shoot people and they shoot me? Whats so bad about spending the night with a lot of guys and girls as friends? Ive never had a bf and me and my bff (a guy) like eachother and she started it! So what do you think all will happen if I could get my mom to let me? My bff is ...

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friends


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 3:25 pm

my friends are being critical to me like, "thats so unhealthy your gonna be fatter" thats just an example. also, they only seem to care about their lives and problems. also today i found out that at least two of my friends that i tell everything to are keeping a secret from me, and it hurts. my friends also joke around and make fun of me, but its embarrassing me. on myspace bullitains one of my friends took a survey and the question was "what was the worst thing you ever smelled." she put " (my) farts". i was embarrassed. also my friends were making fun of me in front of this popular girl saying how i don't curse, and all together they were like "ill give you $15 if you say fuck." i didnt, but it was ...

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Popular!!!


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 12:38 pm

Since i have been dating my boyfriend i kind of have distanced myself from my friends. I want to stop doing that and get my friends back. But in addition to that i want to be popular. I want to have alot of friends. How can i do that?

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oh frick---she;s all up in my business


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 11:26 am

okay so there's this friend of mine and she just found out who i like----she's known the guy a lot longer than i have and she's used to be good friends with him, and now that she knows she always says stuff to me "playfully" like "oh he likes me better" and its kinda getting really irratating cause i like this guy even though its a weird match...(which she has also said to me "oh you guys would be a weird match),,,, and im completely confused cause she really likes this other guy so,,,,,,,

it just confuses me--- or am i just overthinkin it??
cause she does this kinda stuff to me a lot with making me feel shitty

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