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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Posted Saturday March 31 2007, 6:30 pm

is there a way to call someone and just get their voicebail and it wont ring, so they dont know someones calling?

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My Friend Keeps On Cutting Herself!


Posted Saturday March 31 2007, 2:23 pm

Ok, Well About 2 Months Ago I Started Cutting Myself(Dont Wory I Stoped 4 Good) And I Told My Friend, And Then The Next Day She Comes To School And Shes All Like Look I Cut Myself Too. We All Know Shes Doing It 4 Attention But We Cant Get Her To Stop, And She Dose It Non Stop And Rillie Badly,She Always Tells Us Shes Gonna Stop But She Never Dose And She Keeps On Doing It, And Its All Up Her Arms. And To Top This Of She Has And Eating Disorder, I Dont Know What To Do. She Went To The Docter About The Eating Disorder , But She Wont Tell her Dad. I Dont Know What To Do Cuz Its Getting Rillie Bad =[

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Go to the party?!


Posted Saturday March 31 2007, 1:33 pm

Hey. I'm thirteen/female and my friend Jill invited me to go to her birthday party. I moved away from the town she lives in when I was in fourth grade, but I go to these parties every year. See, this year, I want to go, and see all my old friends, but I'm nervous about meeting the new people Jill has become friends with. What should I do? And it's a sleepover party, and calling to go home at a sleepover would be kinda, idk, just like, not our age type thing to do. Should I go and see if I have a good time [ I usually do], or not go and save myself possible nervousness?

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Center Of Attention


Posted Friday March 30 2007, 11:29 pm

Ok my best friend (J) is literally the most populariest girl in the entire school. Shes gorgeous, flirty, and outgoing/fun nice shes perfect. Shes always the center of attention. But some of the people who we both hang out with at school hate the fact that shes always the center of attention. They're jealous of her ahb-viousely. They all told her that in her face. She told me about this during lunch and now all her friends hate her. Shes such a boy magnet like all the guys fall for her. I dont really even mind. But she hates school. I dont understand what I should tell her? She cant help the fact that shes always the center of attention. Shes an out-going person and she wont change? What do you think she should do?

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Queen Of Come Backs


Posted Friday March 30 2007, 10:42 pm

One of my really good friends got in a humongous fight with me today and we took sides with our friends. I got so mad. She starting insulting me and using these really good comebacks. Do you know any good come backs I could get back at her for?? Shes like the Queen of Come backs. HELP!
I feel like a loser.

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can i trust her?


Posted Friday March 30 2007, 8:25 pm

13/f..sorry if it's long..
Ok, I have this friend, let's name her sally. Well sally and i were BEST friends all last year, but we got in a huge fight over the summer and decided to not be such close friends. We couldn't completely stop being friend because we're kind of in the same circle. Well we obviously hadn't resolved our feelings because for the next few months (up until around november or december) we kept getting in huge fights. One of us would talk about the other behind her back, etc. Things finally settled down and we've become ok friends, like we talk and can be normal around each other. I even went over and hung out at her house once. Lately, especially within the last two or three weeks, we've been a really nice ...

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what does this quote means?


Posted Friday March 30 2007, 7:21 pm

"Nothing’s worse than watching a friend in pain and knowing there is absolutely nothing you can do about it"--- what does this quote trying to say? sorry im just a exchange student from japan.

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Tangled up in a situation


Posted Friday March 30 2007, 3:35 pm

ya so basically im known around school for being a tomboy who is not interested in boys like crushes, and who just likes them has good friends. One of my friends thats a boy i kinda like him a little bit but i cant let anyone know that because i will feel embarrassed. It will also be mad awkward, i dont act different around him i act the same like i dont care ill spit if i have to and i just act like me. I have liked him since last year and up to this year. I dont want to tell him because that will ruin our friendship. My best bet will be just to stop liking him and just move on with doing whatever i do. I also dont want to change who i am, and the thing is that since im a tomboy some people think that im a lesbian because i never ta...

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my friends hate me


Posted Friday March 30 2007, 2:53 am

So my best friends Mandy and Pheobea are mad at me because I have a friend named larissa that used to be my best friend but they hate her and I used to be mad at her after she told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more, and Mandy and Pheobea still didn't like her and I had a sleep over with Larissa and Mandy and Pheobea got mad at me because i did and they also got mad at me because they think I said bad things about them to Larissa but I didnt and they didnt believe me. Now they absolutedly hate me. What should I do?

<Megan>

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Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 11:52 pm

i think my friend is becoming belimic (sp?). how do i convince her that it's a stupid thing to do?

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Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 10:36 pm

ok, there is this guy at my school that i TOTALLY hate. everyday he makes fun of me. today the guy that i like "kinda" joined in on the jokes and it made me mad. the guy that makes fun of me is getting on my last nerve and i just want to hit him. how do i handle this and how do i get him to stop making fun of me

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they were supposed to be my bffs


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 8:49 pm

okay so me and 3 friends were making a movie for school. everything was going smooth, and then they randomly kicked me out of my movie and then told everyone i quit but really i never quit they kicked me out and then they told mr gamba i quit and was complaining so mr gamba said that "theres no quitting in the movie business. victoria is out for good so replace her" so they replaced me with christine coughlin and they ripped up my script and made a whole new script with new lines and gave it to christine.. and now they are rubbing it in my faces saying "christine is a movie star" and they are being so fucking mean. i cant take this and they are getting christine on their side i just cant deal with this. what can i do in a situation like this?

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guy friends


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 8:26 pm

i have a couple actual guy friends, but i want more. im so sick of all the drama girls bring along, and i think hanging out with guy friends would be a ncie break once in awhile. the couple i have that are actually friends not just aquantinces could probably introduce me to their friends, but once im introduced i dont know how to like become friends with that person. any advice? also, how do i make more of my OWn guy friends? thnakss

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No Friends


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 7:46 pm

Ok..the past month i have not hung out with any of my friends. I used to hang out with them every weekend. Like we would have bonfires..go out to eat..go to the movies. But now all of my friends have serious boyfriends. Im talking to a guy but i dont want anything serious with him. I want to hang out with my friends again. Any advice on this?

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sick of everything


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 7:32 pm

Ok well my bff...we kinda tend to fight everyonce in a while..but thats not the big deal b/c we always come out stronger in the end. But I know this is bad to say considering she pretty much is my BEST friend..but idk i just can't trust her at all..shes done soo many things in the past, and now i can't really trust her fully. But she always is ditching me for this other girl (who is a total slut). I don't hate the girl, and shes nice and all..but idk were not "best" friends, just more friend. But i can't stand it when my bff is always ditching me. Today i got kicked out of my table b/c my bestfriends, friend came and sat there...and there was no room for me. I get soo sick of it.
& i can never talk to her b/c in ...

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everyone seems to "screw me over"


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 5:39 pm

This is going to be long but im going to try to make it short:

Ok this year i lost about FIVE "bestfriends" they all screwed me over and like i feel so upset and sad that like i treat them so equally and i would beat up anyone for them and basically i would be there for them. When i thought they could be there for me one by one they start to screw me over its just making me really sad and depressed that like you can be BESTFRIENDS with someone for OVER 5 YEARS and some less and then they just screw you over. How is that? Should i start talking to each of them? or should i just let them live there own life and keep them out of mine??

ughh itsss so sad i hate thiss

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UGH. seriously need help.


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 3:52 pm

okay,i need help on makeing friends..kind of. im already in a "group" but, i don't think im much like them. there all really close and then im just there. its like i dont exist sometimes. its just because,im kind of quiet. and im not exactly like, them. but i'm still with them,some how. i mean,i have NO sense of humor,and there very humorous. how do i make things funnier? how can i speak up? and, if you must label us, we would be the random,skater,whatever, group. i just,have no close friends what so ever. and i dont know how to make them! this has been going on for probably 2 years. and i'm starting to get really sad that no one cares that much for me. how do i make them care for me more? thanks so much,i really need help on this...

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rich,rich,poor


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 5:29 am

ok,i have two bestfriends Aimee and Vanessa, the thing is both of them live in gigogantic houses,both parents togehter,money,everything that i dont well ok i have the looks and attitude but the thing is i always get jealous.its not good for me to feel this way but its hard not to.I dont want to jeapordise our friendships because their lives are better,but what do i do? i dont want to feel this way!!

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How to keep friends from stabbing you in the back?


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 1:56 am

I've had too many friends that have stabbed me in the back. I have done nothing but be there for them. Yes they've been there for me, but I realized I can't do it anymore. My last friend I ended up losing her because I finally told her how I felt about her. At least I was honest to her face. But now she thinks because she's pregnant she's better than everyone. It makes me feel bad because I told her how I felt, but it also makes me feel good because I was finally able to stand up to her and make her realize that I ain't gonna take it anymore. If anyone has any advice PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

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I need advice


Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 1:39 am

Okay I have an ex boyfriend that won't get the hint that I am in a loving relationship., well today he decided to call me and was mad because I might be pregnant. Well anyways he told me that he still wants to be friends and everything he just didn't want me to tell him about me and my boyfriend. Which it's hard to do, because I love him so much. But what really upsets me is that we were supposed to be friends, when he just told me tonight he doesn't care what I do, but that he still loves and misses me and wished he could have me back, what am I supposed to do? Keep being friends with him, or tell him where to get off at????

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