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Lost touch
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 5:06 pm
In Sept 2005 I went to a different college to all of my mates. They stayed and went to a local college while I went to a private college (It was a hard decision, but I had my reasons at the time). And now I know in some ways it was a big mistake, I never "fit-in" and made "real" friends, college turned out to be a place of study for me, and not the fun adventure it seems to be for everyone else. The main issue is the friendships I considered most important belonged to a group of friends, and my best friend who went to a different college to me. At first I regularly kept in touch with them and we often we up town clubbing, then I got a bf and didn't see my friends as much but kept in touch... then over exams I lost touch ...
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SWEET 16 PARTY ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 4:37 pm
my best firend needs help with the idea for her party theme and continues to ask my advice.
She really needs help with this theme so if anyone has idea's for Sweet 16 party themes please answer.
thanx!!!
---Brandon---
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AHHH
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 3:43 pm
Well I have a great bf, and I love him a ton. My best friend keeps saying that I never talk to him, and she says I know nothing about him. I talk to him on the phone every night, and in school we sit next to eachother. So today walking out of a class my best friend is like ask him how he did on the test, cuz u guys never talk. And I told her that I didn't need her help talking to my bf!! And she should stay out of it. She kind of got annoyed but we both let it go. But she keeps doing it!!! She says she talks to him more than I do. I guess they talk a lot too. But I talked to my bf about it and he was like well yah me and her do kind of talk more, but I talk to you enough. And then he said I guess me and her talk more because I don't have to...
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i need to adopt my friend
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 3:15 pm
alright a couple days ago my friend came with me and my mom said she can live with us because she has no home and her dad abuses her and kicked her out
well she was living with her friend and she didn't want to live there anymore because they were about to kick her out anyways so she came over my house to live with me and her dad called the cops and reported her as a runaway
the cops tracked me down with my phone and they took her to westcare which is like a child haven and they said if her dad doesn't want her then they'll call my mom to come get her and have her dad sign the papers so she can be the foster parent of her.
shes like my best friend and they still havent' called
she told me that she hates it there ...
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Does he still like me?
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 1:35 pm
heres the deal:
(keep in mind, this guy is my best guy friend)
sept: i like boy
nov: boy likes me
dec: i (unaware of him liking me) stop liking boy
jan: boy tells me he likes me. me=AHH.
feb: boy says he likes someone else. his friend says he still likes me
mar: i tell him i like someone else. when he hears this, he says he likes someone else too but won't tell me who.
present: boy is flirty(naturally. this guy flirts with everyone) but he gets angry at me and we get into a lot of fights over nothing
so does he like me or not because i'm not getting any clear signs here?
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What do i say to THAT?!
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 1:21 pm
my best guy friend is really open when talking about his feelings. he always wants to know what's going on in my life and isn't afraid to tell me what's on his mind. but recently, his grandfather passed away. his entire attitude changed in that he got really quiet and he wouldn't open up to anyone. i tried to comfort him but he just insists on figuring everything out on his own. he also is in a lot of gt/ap classes and has a lot of homework stress. all of this suppressed anger with his grandpa and his homework has been taken out on me and i don't know what to say to him. it seems like every time i try to talk to him i just get shunned away.
in previous situations when hes upset, i just leave him alone and he eventually cools...
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Conflict= sister, lover, ruining relationships
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 12:03 am
My name is Nikki, I'm 17 and female. Okay. I really need help. I like this boy. We'll call him D. My sister well call her T. Also likes him. She doesnt know I like him. She also don't know that I have had sex with him. My first problem is, I really like this guy, and we are just friends. I want to tell him how I feel but I don't want it to ruin anything. Any advice?
My second problem. My sister. I don't want her finding out I like him, let alone I've had sex with him, but hearing her talk about him makes me want to hurt her. What do I do? The next problem is, what if I tell him i like him and he dont like me. I'm up shit creek someone help..please?
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Friendship.
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 11:36 pm
My best friend is a guy, who is 16. I'm a girl who is 16. We are very good friends, but for some reason at least 2-3 times a week he'll do something that really upsets me. Usually I never tell him & just let it slide by, but these past few weeks I've been telling him. The things I get mad over are little & stupid, & completely ridiculous to get angry/upset over, but I can't control it, and I just do.
How can I basically coach myself to maintain calm, or atleast not get mad/upset at SMALL things?
THANK YOU!
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I want to help her so bad!! It hurts that I cant.....or can
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 8:27 pm
13/F
I care about my best friend more than anyone else. This will probally be long but please read. My best friend is in a lot of pain right now. She misses her boyfriend deeply (who she dumped) and cries about him alot. Its hard for her to face him. She always tells me how she loves him and how she misses him. They have been apart for over a month now. He wont take her back anymore. He likes one of our best friends which is also upsetting her. She is having problems with her leg as well. I try to encourage her and make her feel better and be there for her but its not working. I learned she cries every night and she told me she hated herself. She has guys over her sooo much at school but she never pays any attention to them. Shes ver...
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what do i do?
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 8:03 pm
ok, so there is this girl at my school, who thinks that I'm her best friend! except, the fact is, i cant stand her
she is always excluding herself to get attention, and sometimes she talks about hanging herself, for attention
and whenever she invites me over to her house, all we do is sit and watch tv or get on the computer
i cant stand it!! she annoys the crap out of me!!
what can i do to try and get her away from me???
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Older friends
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 5:46 pm
I do track with some of my friends who are juniors and I'm a freshman. Whenever we hang out we laugh soo much and we have a really good time but we never hang out outside of track and I want to, but I don't want to be like the clingy loser freshman girl or like I don't want to be like hey do you want to go the movies?!! and have them be like uh..actually I can't I have to do something.. I guess I just can't handle rejection haha. What should I do because I really don't want to sit around and wait for them to ask me. Help please :)
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confused about bf or bff since a party
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 5:22 pm
13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party last night. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and my ?bff?. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and showing me off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? But im the kind of confused gothic ro...
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his girlfriend
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 10:42 am
what i'm i supposed to do when my friend (its a guy)keeps telling me about all of this perverted stuff his g.f is doing and it makes him mad? i told him if its gross not to tell me, but he did anyway. he is the most sensitive guy i have ever met and idk what i should do. i hate to say it but almost everyone from his town are slutty, including his g.f. i tried to tell him that it probably wont work out but he really likes her. and every time i talk to him, even if i dont ask him he spills out his entire life. he's really nice and i want to be friends with him, but i dont want to be his therapist. what should i do?
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Stuff to do with friends
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 7:01 am
It's the half term and I'd like to spend most of it with my mates. What things to do can you suggest? Me and my mates thought of shopping/hanging in town, cinema, gigs, gym, swimming pool, badminton, round each others houses and that's it. So if you can think of stuff to do and places to go then pease tell me. Thanks, xxx
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Friendship turned Confusion
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 3:00 am
Me and My sister's neighbor are friends. We started out really slow then over spring break she just can;t stop hanging out with me. I mean everytime, which i like. But I feel she giving me these mixed signals like she wants to be more than friends but when I asked she says no which i know she is lying. But she has alot of drama and I found out today, she is pregnant by her best best friend and she having an abortion!. which i don't believe and she don;t wanna be with him. I feel she wants to be with me because she is alaways around me and always flirting, touching me sexual but wat to do??? She even told me she would like to be with me but she can;t! HELP!!!!!
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are they my real friends and would you get mad
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 1:46 am
ok.... so im 13/f and at school my bestfriend started hanging out with this girl that i got into a fist fight with and became bestfriends and then she got mad at me cause her boyfriend said he liked me instead of her then she got like almost the hole school against me and started calling me a "fat ugly cow" and that "i look like a side of a cow" and started wrighting on the walls about me i love her like a sister and all but is she really my friend
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friend pregnet
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 12:41 am
my best friend sam has had 2 babies and she is only eleven she is pregnet again now for 5 months my other friends say not to be her friend anymore but we have been friends since preschool she is the school slut and wears short skirts and low cut half shirts and she doesn't know who any of the dads are should i still be her friend?
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What do you do?
Posted Saturday March 31 2007, 10:47 pm
What do you do when your friend makes a big life choice and you think to yourself, "Wtf? She's going to hurt herself so much!"? What do you do when your friend asks for your advice, you name the pitfalls you can see and give her suggestions on how to avoid or lessen them, but she goes ahead and makes a probably hurtful decision anyway? What do you do when your friend makes a decision and you are both excited for her but also aware that it probably won't end well? What do you do when your friend can see the pitfalls in front of her but doesn't do anything to avoid them?
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friends using me
Posted Saturday March 31 2007, 8:46 pm
i seem to only attract people who end up using me. the worst part is, i just want them to like me, so i let them. and i end up feeling really shitty. what can i do to tell these people to stop?
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boys and friendship
Posted Saturday March 31 2007, 8:26 pm
But my bff has this crush on a boy and i met him today. and oh my gosh he's so cute and funny and a type of guy i would like and he just seems like a guy for me. but she really likes him. and i know i'm not stupid i'm not going to tke him or be like hey bff i like him now too and ruin our friendship cause that just messed. but idk what to do to stop myself from liking him and right now i just want a guy so bad. i know thats so stupid but right now i don't have crush to crush on i have nothing no one and idk what to do. i don't wanna like him but i think i'm starting to and i can't help and i don't know what to do to stop liking and i just don't wanna stop talking to him. so do i just let myself like him and try to control the flirting and not tell my bff? or what?
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