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my friends make me mad all the time
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 10:20 pm
ok i have 3 best friends....and they are so annoying!!!! i dont even know why im friends with them....i guess because i dont have anyone else to hang out with....maria is to quiet and all she talks about is her boyfriend and how he cheated on her and how much she hates this girl madison and it gets so annoying. and molly and tabbi belive in witchcraft and are always telling me that we live in different demensions and that in the past i was a player and that i had sex with everyone in the castle. i dont belive it but they do. and molly is always worrying about her boyfriend and she says she is tired of some of the stuff that i do. we get into fights all the time and then we make back up. im about to tryout for cheerleading and if i make it i...
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Bday Present!
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 9:08 pm
Hi! I'm sorry if this is kinda long, but please help!
Alright, to start off, my best friend is in major LOVE with the band Relient K. I thought for her birthday it would be intresting to get her tickets to go see them. There are 1 parent going, and 3 other girls, me and her. Tomarrow the 3 other girls are comming over. We are going to figure out a way to present them to her at her party [ since most of the people at her party either wern't a part of it or wern't allowed to go. How should we approach this? Creative ideas wanted!!!
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she cheated on my friend
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 7:08 pm
one of my friends ( a girl ) cheated on her boyfriend who is also my friend. she told me not to tell him but i feel like he needs to know. but i dont want her getting mad at me. what should i do? answer tonight would be great
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aim screen name
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 6:47 pm
okay well i like this guy & i really want to get his sn. but i can't just ask my friends because they'll KNOW i like him. cause last time i liked a guy i just casually asked my friend & she and my other friend would act SO obvious around him! i dont want to tell ANYONE that i like him, but i just want to ask my friends what his sn is without sounding so completely obvious. can someone give me some tips, please?
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what to do....
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 6:26 pm
ok. so there is this girl in my class. she is in 2 of my classes. p.e./spanish and band. i guess you could say she is my "friend" but she can be sooo annoying and rude sometimes. she gets mad over the litlest things. really stupid things too. and she always corrects you when you do or say something wrong. she gets mad at me more than any of our friends. A LOT of people find her very annoying. my friend today even said "so and so is getting sooo annoying. she getting on my last nerve!". but, when she gets mad at me for something stupid, i want to stand up for myself,and not just sit there and look at her. what can i say to her without hurting her feelings or being really rude?? thanks.
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does he... (?)
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 3:57 pm
theres a guy i like.
ive liked him since kindergarden
we've been like best friends ever since
now hes 13/m and im 13/f
he transferred right before 7th grade
outside of school he said, "hi ____", then said hi to my friend. AFTER. (when i put that blank space, that stands for my name.) he IMed me one time... then signed off on AIM. then he signed back on a different screen name.
he has no problem what-so-ever with IMing every one of his friends... except for me!
so i IMed him once... we asked what kind of music and movies we both liked etc. until he had to go. but he never IMs... me... as ive said. so then i sent him an email with a hilarious link to youTUBe last night... but he hasnt...
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a "friend" ! UGH
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 1:13 pm
okay. this is going to get confusing.
i had this friend, friend one. she used to be like my best friend & we were really close in 6th grade.
well in 7th grade, me & this other girl friend two got in a fight. & then friend one became best friends with friend two & i got REALLY pissed at friend one. like who does that?! who goes & becomes BEST FRIENDS with your best friend's enemy. like honestly.
so i stopped going on aim & all this stuff & i still talk to friend one you know? like i smile at her in the hallways & stuff. but i am still really mad at her.
so yesterday i was really bored & stuff so i went on aim, you know? and i talked to her for ...
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Needing some tips
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 11:47 am
K. I want ask if anyone give me tips on how to advoid all the drama and getting ride thoughs about friends that are not my true friends. tips on just to stay away and what happend there contact. I not try to be mean but friends I have are the one not let me be who I am and don't get me and I don't want try hard be there freinds the way they treat me..
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Best Friends???
Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 1:05 am
one of my best friends, who also happens to be the guy i like is going out with another . Me and his friend don't really get along, and we don't really like each other. He decided to stay with her and he just stopped talking to me. we used to talk everyday, but now we don't talk at all. is he right to chose her over me?
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best friend
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 8:46 pm
i love my best friend to death, but i always feel like she talks about herself and thinks that i care. i don't really know what to say to her..usually this is online when this happens, and i usually just say "lol" or something like that, trying to give her a hint that i'm not that interested. and whenever i talk about myself like a problem i'm having for a little bit, she helps me for a little bit then just stops caring. UGH it bugs me so MUCH!!!
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what to do....
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 8:36 pm
ok, so i have this "friend" (i dont really like her) in my class
and we are both in band, and every time i look up, shes just sitting there staring at me, its really weird, and everytime i pass her in the hallway, she expects me to say hi, and gets mad at me if i dont
how can i tell her just to leave me alone without hurting her feelings??
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Bullying (cont), exclusion, long - sorry
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 8:23 pm
15/f (16 this year)
As you may have seen, just today I asked a question on being bullied by older girls. I was punched in the back of the head today but didn't fight back. I don't want to fight, I knew I would lose or get ganged up on.
Before this, I had a perfect life, but I wanted to be a good person. Just a little fear of bad karma from the "usual" backstabbing, etc. Today, everything went wrong.
My "best friends" excluded me from everything. The last time they did this is lasted for months, they are not good friends and I want to get away from them.
There was this guy who I hadn't seen for months but we always talked on the phone. We hung out over the weeken...
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hypocrite
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 8:11 pm
my friends is a hypocrite he says he doesn't like people judging then on the bands they listen to but he rags on my for listening to Panic at the disco he says that relationships arent everything but he will then get rele upset and detached if he is reject he says that he is dedicated but tehn he will slack off in a orject leaving all the work for me
now i have only known him for 6 months but we r like buddies but this is rele pissing me off but it like i feel kinda weird tellin him " You are a hypocrite" what should i do ?
15 f if this makes a difference
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Want to save the friendship!
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 6:07 pm
My best friend is a guy. I like him as a little more than a friend...but I value our friendship far too much to make it awkward by telling him. Anyway I think he has a clue, and I think he likes me sometimes. (He's a huge flirt - it's hard to tell.)
Thing is - I called him up Friday night to come over and watch a movie. We watched the Davinci Code - a long one. We were both pretty tired, and of course we talked throughout it and weren't like, on top of eachother or anything. :-P
Anyway, during the movie in the middle somewhere, my guy friend joked, "watch us just fall asleep and not get up til morning, haha :)".
And...I was really tired and wanted to rest my eyes, so I shut them and sort of le...
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i hate her...
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 3:35 pm
my best friendm, who i'll call... carly, is about the bestest friend i have ever had since 2nd grade. the problem is, carly has this new friend (shez not a new student) named janis. janis is horrible. she acts very conceited when she hangs w/ me and my cliquey friendz. i act conceited around them too, but i do it playfully and not totally seriously like i do. carly is always hanging out with janis and i can't stand it. i tried opening up, but all she does is fill in my spot like it wouldnt matter if i wasnt even there. it gets me really mad, and i control it. recently, janis guessed to carly that i didnt like her and carly told janis everything that i'm saying now (which i told her). now janis knows that i hate her and gets all up in my fac...
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Can I ever be trusted again?
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 3:15 pm
A while ago, one of my best guy friends told me something in total confidence, and told me not to tell anyone about it. But then at a sleepover, my friends asked if anyone had any secrets that they wanted to just get out in the open. I said I did, so I told them what my guy friend said. Now, I feel like the worst person alive...they swore that they'd never tell anyone, but what if it accidentilly slips out?? I'm scared that no one will ever trust me again. What can I do?
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I feel stupid
Posted Tuesday April 3 2007, 1:01 pm
I always feel like I bring everyone down. Or like after I talk to people I feel stupid, like why did i say that... And then I feel unconfortable when I'm around those people... I just feel stupid everytime I open my mouth... Is it lack of confidence? I don't know. Sometimes I just stay shut or sit in a corner by myself, so that I won't feel this way afterwards. What can I do to change this?
And please don't say to stop caring what others think, cause that's obvious.
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i miss my friend
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 11:32 pm
i really miss my friend. the thing is that since we've stopped talking (like, TWO MONTHS TOPS) she's gotten really popular. she's always with people. so i'm afraid to text or call her in case she's with soebody. if i finally do work up the courage to call her, what should i say? we didn't really get into a fight, just some stuff happened and she was weird around me so we stopped making contact.
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True freinds or not
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 9:24 pm
ok I been freinds with these 2 girls are best freinds growing up. so we all been good friends and had good times. well thing is they are in collage. and i am not. i am kinda in different driction i am not bommer its just not everybody can go collage. but how ever. right now me and my freind are dift way from eatcher and sometimes now and days I feel like my life is control by them and wasted on them. and i think good idea is to stay way from and not talk to. becouse i don't know who i am anymore. I am kind person have alot of friends but thing is growing up making my self feel like i be more my self with that person. and now I not around anybody. i don't go out and i don't drive. (I have a certain disbities) how ever I love all most my frie...
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One of my bff's needs some help...but I don't know what to d
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 6:47 pm
Ok, one of my bff's(Let's pretend her name is Casey) is 15 and...let's just say she doesn't have that much self confidence, and she doesn't believe in herself. She always has a baby voice like "Wait...wait for me." or she'll repeat things over and over, and sometimes when I'm talking to someone else, she'll poke me and say the same thing the other person said to me. She doesn't act mature for her age, because(to me and my other bff(let's pretend her name is Dani) she hasn't had anything happen to make her be more mature, you know?) and both me and Dani agree that she is getting annoying because of that. I told her already that she doesn't have that good of self confidence, and that me and Dani will help her get and I told her I ha...
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