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i dont want to hide anymore
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 1:11 pm
okay so i have 2 best friends. a girl and a guy. me and my girl best friend are closer and we tell each other everything except i'm keeping a huge secret from her and i don't want to but i don't know how to tell her. the thing is that me and my guy best friend recently started a friends with benefits relationship that is moving quite quickly, we both like each other we're just not dating. and he just got dumped by his ex, who is also a good friend of the 3 of us. i haven't told my friend about my relationship because i know she'll ask when it started, and the truth is it started back when he was with his gf, and since she's a friend of ours im afraid it'll start a whole big thing. it's possible that i could just start off by telling her tha...
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friend with bad bf
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 10:58 am
16/f
okay well one of my bestfriends has been on and off with this guy for about a year and the last 3 months he's been being really mean to her (telling her he hates her, making fun of her, not letting her have anyother guy friends, calling her ugly) but then he'll say something really sweet like im just kidding i love you your so beautiful or something like that. okay well this guy has even came up to me and told me he didnt really love her ive told my friend all of this but she really likes him and doesnt want to break up with him. so does anyone have any ideas of what i can tell her so she'll come to her senses because this guy has lowered her self estem and she doesnt feel like she deserves anything better because of him...thanks in advance <33
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are these people really my friends
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 10:46 am
Me and my friends used to hang out all the time. Every weekend we would do stuff.In the beggining of the school year everything was fine. Now its April and the last time i hung out with some were on new years eve. I hung out with another friend at the movies for like 10 min about a month ago. and thats it. Lately theyve been hanging out with other people and havent been asking me to hang out. I ask them to hang out but now theyre always hanging out with other people or they cant. Now they hardley talk to me in school. Every weekend im at home doing nothing. Sometimes it seems that they think theyre too good for me. but we allused to do so much together. now that summers coming soon i dont wanna be sitting at home watching tv.
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whats going on????? 2
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 10:33 am
okay so me and jamie have been friends since kindergarden. but this year shes been hanging out with this girl stacey and me and stacey were pretty close before stacey and jamie HUGE friendship. and jamie like hangs out with stacey like 24/7 and im NOT even kidding. its so annoying. they leave me out of EVERYTHING. and bacically they do it on PURPOSE(i think) they dont even BOTHER to talk to me like alone. III have to go to them. then at the auction thing stacey and her friend olivia(are in a fight and now stacey was going to tell her off)so she was like jamie come with me to tell her off but jamie didnt want to..yadda yadda...and then while olivia and stacey were talking things out, jamie i guess realized stacey really wasnt her friend so s...
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Should I really let go of this one-sided friendship?
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 8:27 am
I've asked this question twice, at two different advice forums. Perhaps I just won't accept the answer, I think I might be looking still to hear what I want: that I should hang on... Well, I've met this friend through business, she's 19 years older than me (I'm 27, she's 46). We get along just fine, but it's mostly up to me to keep things going and stay in touch - unless I phone, e-mail, text or visit I rarely hear from her. I've tried "silent treatment": it once lasted 3 months, currently we stand at 8 weeks and counting. It just feels as though I am not important to her at all. Last year she went through major surgery, and I supported her as much I could. I know how much she appreciated it, she said I have been "an angel&qu...
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yikes
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 10:38 pm
my bestfriend is crazy. so i like her alot and she likes me, she also likes her ex boyfriend. and he likes her, the only thing i really care about is to make her happy and well even if it means hurting my self, she si happy im trying t odo this but she is excusing me off likeing him and saying im getting jealous of them help?
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Freshman Drama
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 9:24 pm
Alrighhhhht, my friend is in love with Monica. He is a freshmen, she is a sophmore. Thhey have hooked up and whatever but it didnt mean anything...to her. But now hes all upsetbecasue she doesnt want him. Is there anyway I can make him feel better?
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lost my best friend/sister =/ really important!!
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 5:14 pm
SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT I REALLLLLYYY NEED HELP!!!
okay i have no clue what to do anymore so yeahh...
theres this girl and lets just call her "betty"
okay so betty and i have been best friends since we were reallllyyy little we were more like sisters and suddenly things have changed well im a year older than her so i knew it would be hard to stay friends when i went to highschool and she was still in eigth grade but i made time to hang out with her EVERY weekend and was so happy when she finally grad. i couldnt wait for her to come to high school
when she first got to high school she was acting weird and i told her she wasnt acting like herself and she fixed it then everyth...
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wow...
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 3:33 pm
um. okay well i used to be friends with these four
girls & this one guy & we were like best friends &
we had a group name.
& the guy left us cause one of the four girls had
a crush on him & he started hating all of us.
so like we screwed him. but then, the other four
girls started hanging out... without me & made a
new stupid group name which is even more homo
than the first one...
i am friends with two of the girls, but the other two
are just plain weird now. like i don't want to talk
to them. should i ask the two girls what's going on
and why they made a new group without me? or
just leave then & let them do w...
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my friend
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 12:48 pm
~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me? hes just really too nice. Is that what it should be like. we used to be i guess rough to eachothe...
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what's worse
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 11:45 am
what's worse - a mean, manipulative back-stabbing "friend" or a hypocritical, following, will do whatever the "mean" one does to a person "friend"? which one is worse - friend #1 or friend #2? or are they both equally bad in their own ways?
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Friendship jelousy!
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 3:18 am
OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?!
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Ignorant friend doesn't care anymore
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 1:01 am
I used to be really good friends with this guy I go to school with. We're still friends but I get the vibe he doesn't care about me anymore. I really like him, and have for months but never said anything because I was afraid of ruining our friendship. Now he has a girlfriend that he is always with and always talks about when he isn't with her. He doesn't pay attention to me anymore and never starts up a conversation with me. He doesn't ask to hang out anymore and even when I ask, he is always going to see his girlfriend. I have a small jealous hate for this girl and she has changed him so much.
I still like him but hate him at the same time. I don't know what to do and I don't want to like him but he is amazing and I can't he...
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ahh! i think im going crazy!
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 12:36 am
okay, so sorry in advance if this is long.
so me and this boy have been friends for so long. like about 8-9 years. and like last year and this year we fought all the time.
So we got into a huge fight about 3 months ago. and its not like we are going to be friends again. and He doesnt care at all.
And like this may sound weird but like i have been doing really bad in school latley. and im not saying that the two have anything to do with each other.
And once when i saw him i got a really sharp pain in my chest and like the other day he came into my class and i kinda may have flipped out. like i put my headphones in and my ipod froze and then i was flipping out to this girl and li...
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HOW SHOULD I TELL HER? PLEASE HELP ME!
Posted Saturday April 7 2007, 10:15 pm
hey;
ok so, next saturday is my sister's wedding. it is going to be in the backyard of my house [huge] which is a couple of acres. so on all the invatations, they specifically put NO CHiLDREN PLEASE. however, since i`m her sister [i`m 13] i can obviously go. now, i`m thinking it may be a bit boring, so i want to bring my friend gabie. she`s my age. however, her parents can`t come bcuz they have nothing to do with my family & my parents just want close friends and relatives. they are allowing me to have gabie since i might get bored or something' WHAT SHOULD i DO?????
please help me! what should i do?
THANK YOU SO MUCH iN ADVANCE; HELP ME PLEASE.
i`m a raterr.
HELp!
thanks<3
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Scavenger Hunt
Posted Saturday April 7 2007, 9:16 pm
In about two weeks. Im having this party with about 6 of my friends. I was thinking about going to the mall and having a picture scavenger hunt. Like a list of tasks and to make sure you did it you take a picture in the store while doing the task. But i need ideas for a list of tasks. Please and thanks. :D.
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Bored
Posted Saturday April 7 2007, 6:58 pm
Im reallllly bored. And my dads not home. But its just him and he just moved out here so i dont know anybody. And like the only thing i can do is talk on AIM and go on myspace. Does anybody have any ideas so i can not be as bored? Please and thank you?
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quotes
Posted Saturday April 7 2007, 5:02 pm
please don't ONLY send me to a site if you want to give me a site. like find the best ones.
i am looking for a quote for my profile about like, how could i have been so stupid to have thought that this girl / these girls were truly my friends? anything about like friendship.
thanks!
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losing a friend
Posted Saturday April 7 2007, 2:54 pm
Hey, I am a 13 year old girl. I live right next door to one of my best friends Amanda, (or who used to be). Last summer a girl named leah are same age moved in 2 houses down. Do not get me wrong, leah is one of my close friends but she is starting to get annoying. Whenever I try and hangout with Amanda alone, leah always sees us and comes over and know I think Amanda is starting to like leah more than me. what should i do?
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friend's divorced parents
Posted Saturday April 7 2007, 2:23 pm
well one of my best(?idk anymore) friends parents got divorced last year. i knwo its hard and i completley have compassion for her. but, ever since then, she has turned into this really realy mean person. i'm not the only one who noticed it, and alot of people have siad to me, "ever since ___'s parents got divorced, she's become a b****." i know its really hard to have your parents divorced, but does it make it ok for her to be mean and do rude things to me behind my back and just overall not be a good friend? and it's not just me, its too other people to. idont know how to handle it though. cause if i talked to her she'd probably get her meanness again. the thing is, before she used to be a really kinda quiet, nice person. id ont know what to do. advice?
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