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Smoking
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 9:35 pm
My best guy friend, (I'm 16/f, he's 16/m) smokes almost everything besides cigarettes with his 2 other friends. I know his two other friends, and care for them, but not as much as him. I've known him longer, and look up to him in a way, and when he smokes I don't understand why. I think he should know better, and I just have always thought he was smart enough to not do it. Well recently he asked me why I only care if he smokes and no one else? I explained to him what I said above, and he just didn't seem to get it.
Am I wrong for caring so much about it? (I don't get mad at him when he does it, I just tell him that it's not something I like and why he does it and all the stuff I said above)
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friend trouble
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 6:25 pm
Ok well one of my close friend got into an argument with my little sister. So when there's nothing to tlak about with other peope my friend talks bad stuff about her and calls her a bitch.
And my sister always runs up to me during school at recess time (yeha really annoying) and then when she goes away my friend would like like "bitch..hope she gets run over by a car"
um..i think she's annoying sometimes but..kinda uncomfortable here! What can I do to shut my friend up nicely but not break our friendship?
The best friend talk thing,not us.
And I can't tell my sister to fuck off cuz she's super senstive
ugh..help me please?
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my bestfriend says shes really ugly and it makes me sad
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 5:35 pm
15 f
in school eevryone tells me i am really pretty and boys always want to hook up with me. my bestfriend says shes really uglly. since the begining of the school year she asked 3 boys out and they all rejected her becase they say shes too ugly. i tried helping her like to boost up her confidence but she has low self asteem and i dont know what to do anymore. like i keep telling her shes pretty and she says she isnt. so my question is how to i boost her confidence or make her prettier. shes a tomboy and she acts kind of manly i really get sad when she tells me shes ugly but i dont know what to do, please help!?
thnanks in advance!!
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personality condition
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 6:17 am
A guy friend of mine and I are kinda arguing... He likes me but I went and had sex with my ex-boyfriend. He thinks I always make the wrong decisions and never think about the consequences. He's only really upset coz I found out he likes me.
My question is: He told me I have "imediate gratifacation" (sp?) and he said its like a personality condition. Can someone please explain that to me?
Thanks
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friends hangin out this weekend
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 10:13 pm
Ok so me and my friends are wanting to hang out this weekend but we all are flat broke and we need ideas of things to do that won't cost much money. thanks
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feeling up
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 9:47 pm
my guy friend has recently been saying he wants to go up his gf's shirt. his gf is COMPLETLEY flat - like, as flat as her back. so, my question is, how do guys go up girls' shirts when they have absolutely NOTHING? what is there to feel? why would they WANT to when theres nothing there?
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Making Friends/People
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 9:25 pm
When I go to school I have trouble with people ... I mean I have my friends, but its just sometimes to get-a-long with other people. I don't know what really what to say. I just act "weird" with hugging and some invisable/mime animal petting and stuff or just being random (lol), but I feel that they just don't know me as a person. I'm not sure which person I am: the person who likes to joke around and be random (sometimes I do) or the person whos quiet and always observeing everything or if I'm a mixture or both. I just don't exactly know how to respond to people any more. When seeing random people in the hall to I look at them, keep my eyes to the ground with no eye contact, or what? or when I see someone I don't know, I'm afriad...
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i'm scared. what is this?
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 7:46 pm
okay, for about a month or two now, i've lost alot of weight for some reason. i don't know why, because i've been eating way more than normal. also, i've been more tired than i am usually & i get tired easier when i'm exercising or something like that. i've had head aches alot of & on the past month too. & for about two weeks, i've been getting these random bruises on my arms & legs, but mainly just my arms. i haven't even done anything to cause them, so i don't have a clue what the heck they're from. any idea what this could be?
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Sick of this
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 7:13 pm
15/f
I'm so sick of feeling like I'm just wasting my life away. Everyday I come home after school and do homework for a few hours and then do whatever and go to bed. Sometimes on Fridays I'll hang out with my friends, and like rarely Saturdays. The thing is I don't have a lot of friends, atleast not one's who I actually hang out with. I have two best friends who I basically only hang out with except for occasional times where there's others. I'm really shy, so that's the reason for that, and I have a hard time making new friends. My freshman year is just about over, but definitely next year I'll do a sport and join some clubs hopefully to meet new people. But right now, even my 2 best friends aren't always there. My one best ...
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Jealous with envy
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 3:29 pm
I am a high school sophomore and ever since this year began i have had this low-key competition with my best friend. last year in the end-of-the-year awards ceremony i found out that i got the second highest GPA. this made a lot of ppl angry (because only me and another girl got it, while everyone else had no idea about ranking/GPA- we're tallking FRESHMEN in high school!!!)
anyways, my friend changed A LOT this year. She became so fake. Playing sports, getting excellent grades, while she chastises me for "being a nerd" and "complaining about a good grade" when she does the same, and even worse. She is a suck-up with all the teachers. She pretends to be so "not smart" and not caring about school when she...
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I dont know why
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 2:37 pm
I have feelings for her for 6 years! she is my best friend and I'm a girl who might be Bi. i think about her 24/7 and i sometimes dream about her but not in a sexual way. i only dream about her of our friend ship but sometimes i dream us cuddling. I just dont understand how i can stop thinking about her?!
(lets call her sally)
i told sally about my feelings to her and about myself she never new about. she said she was fine with it but she is not sure what gender she likes. i understood that cause im in the same shoes she is in too. i wasnt wanting her to say she likes me too because we been friends for 8 years and i dont want to worren our frined ship.
but i dont want to see her with someone elus or give them th...
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Change..=(
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 1:01 pm
Hello...im 16/f
ok so i have a few things bothering me and i don't know what to do.
First, my close friend has been going out with this guy for about 2 years now. And her bf and i have been really close since they started dating. Everytime they have a problem with each other, i listen and try to fix them back again. Works all the time. They're very much inlove.
Anyways, so me and the guy have been really close. I used to call him every now and then and talk to him about anything. Most our conversations are about his gf. There was never ever a conversation about him (except his feelings about his gf) or me or anyone else.
And he never calls me. And hes graduating skool in a month. =( and...
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Silent conversation
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 12:19 am
(I’m a Female)
I told Sandra how I have feelings for her for 6 years, we been friends for 8 years. I wanted to let her know about my true self and what was bothering me. (But I wasn’t asking her out.) And I thought it’ll be a good idea to tell her in a chat room because I was nervous talking to her face to face.
I can’t find out who I am yet. I don’t know if I like women because she is the first women crush I ever had. And I only went out with two guys and I never went too far with men and I get curious how it’ll be like.
Sandra answered me in the chat room:
“I’m fine with it, not saying I feel the same way because I really don’t know what gender I like yet, I’m ...
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--Ugh My Friends Moveing?
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 10:12 pm
Yeah So my Friend Is moveing this following weekend like umm maybe the 17 or something. but anywasy this weekend is gonning to be the last week we get to hang-out like REAL hangout; so i was wondering what we could do? like she dont want to go to the mall &nd i dont want to go to the movies!! &nd i cant think fo anything else.... so yeah &nd i want it to be the funest Weekend ever_x33 &nd if it helps where 14/f &nd where going to hang our friends that are boys that are going to come with it where ever we go there also 14 one 15. so yeah anything you can think og please please let me know :)))
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BEST FRIEND
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 9:54 pm
Long story short, I slept in the same bed with my best guy friend. (I'm 16/f, he's 16/m) And he actually slept, like not sex or anything, but we went to sleep. Before this, he used to call everyday just to see how I'm doing, and we'd hang out everyday even if it was for 5 minutes. After this happened, he left at about 7 in the morning, and I didn't hear from him for 5 days. I had to call and ask why the fuck he was treating me like this, because I really didn't understand what was going on. Basically, our friendship has never been the same. And I guess I'm just asking, it's been about 4 months now, will our friendship ever return to how it used to be?
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birthday party
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 5:00 pm
For my birthday party ii`m turning 16 and ii`m having about 10 of my girl friends spend the night. what are some things we can do so its not boring!?
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How can I deal with it
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 5:24 am
Someone who I trusted so completely, who I could tell anyting too, and I adored with every fiber of my being told me that she doesn't care about me anymore, or how I feel. We faught occaisionally, but all friends do. But these past few weeks thats all we had been doing, so I told her how I felt. Everytime we faught it was because my opinion wasn't the same as her which meant: I was ignorant, I didn't know anything about the world, and of course I was wrong. I'm so tired of being always wrong, especially when its just an opinion or belief. I wrote a long letter explaining how I felt..begging her to treat me right. She told me all she could give me was apathy. Later when I tried to sort things out with her she told me I was nothing but a dram...
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drama.
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 4:41 am
okay. today, i had voice lessons, like every sunday. my friends and i just enjoyed, sang, dance in the room. but then everybody else in the room got affected, and they left just to hint to us that we were too noisy. but then we probably still made noise. and some of my friends went outside, and a classmate pushed them out and shut the door. my friend then slapped him in the arm due to anger. then my other friend cried, and the teachers arrived. we all had to reconcile. we heard from both parties. and my group apologized and i even cried. this is the first time i ever got into this kind of trouble, i said to them, and that i wanted the feeling of being accepted in a clique. after class, some people were comforting me, telling me that it's no...
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1st time losing a friend.... KINDA LONG
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 3:31 am
i used to be pretty good friends with this girl i met this year, and then we got in a fight, and i havent really talked to her in the past month, though we're in a couple of the same classes.
its a long story, but i'll just say a little. like i guess we clicked because we were both in the school's musical, and our characters were together alot. so we became friends, and once we had a little fight, then we became friends again, and we never spoke of the fight again.
then, like we sit in the same table for Health, with 3 other girls. Then soon after health started, and the last marking period (im in 7th grade in middle school btw) she's been acting strange around me. she's like making it seem like im not part o...
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Clubbing
Posted Sunday May 6 2007, 10:53 pm
I'm going clubbing this wednesday. It's my first time. I really have no clue how to dance and how can I move without looking stupid, clumsy and not-trying-too-hard?
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