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Ditched Everyday
Posted Saturday May 12 2007, 10:36 am
Ok, during lunch we have a friend, and she always goes over to these guys table. She eats her lunch at our table then leaves so she doesnt have to eat it over ther. our table is really getting fed up with it, and she just doesnt get the hint. She claims that were her best friends and that shes there friends too, but i swear there isnt one day when she hasnt sat at our table for about 5 min then leaves and we dont see her til end of the day. when ever we bring it up she gets all defensive and stuff. The lunch lady even got after her for switching tables everyday, my friend was so embarrassed she started crying, yet that just diddnt seem to be enough so she still goes over there. Gosh cant she get a clue aobut this? what should we say to her ...
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why do people say....
Posted Saturday May 12 2007, 4:14 am
people say don't JUDGE a book by it's cover then why do FIRST impressions mean so much?
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Falling For My Friend [Still]
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 10:01 pm
Basically, it's the friend falling for her best friend...except in this case, I'm a girl and my friend is a girl. I'm bi and not out and she's straight...and a gay rights supporter. I'm 9th grade and she's in 10th grade and I met her less than a year ago. I really like her and I hate to keep things from her. I know that she can keep a secret because we're really close [we literally finish each other's sentences and we find ways to see each other everyday, etc]. I don't know. I sometimes get the feeling that she's bi too but she's a Christian but I don't know if she's a strict one or not. Anyways I don't know if I should tell her or not. I know that she can keep secrets for her life...and she's a major supporter of gay rights like I am. I ju...
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Guy Mad At Me
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 9:51 pm
14/f and he's 15/m and we're both in 9th grade. This is really immature and childish but can you just read and answer for me, please?
So, there is this guy [let's call him Scott]. He's bi/gay and he's a major drama queen [no pun intended]. He'll get mad over the slightest thing. For instance, he got mad at my bffl because he always wore the same jacket. He got mad and started yelling at me b/c I didn't bring a cookie b/c I forgot. He drags me to the lunch line every other day and basically orders me to buy him food with my money.
Well, about a week ago, he suddenly called on Monday after school and said he was going to come over right that instant. I said no because I had homework and a violin lesson later that night...
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so tired..
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 9:31 pm
I'm so tired and slightly angry at my friends! Today is one of the busiest days of my life, I have to download over 50 videos on Mega Upload for today only because the owner of the videos said that she's going to dlete the links tonight!
I only downloaded about probably 10 until it said I cna't download anymore in like 4 hours. Then I thought "HEY! My best friends could download some for me, and then send them to me on msn!"
When I asked them, they're both liek "ugh..."
I am so ticked off! Sometimes I can't sleep just to think all night of how to wokr out this problem to hlep them with their homework and help them with their stuff but yet they can't do a little thign for me?...
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Twin's Birthday
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 9:30 pm
So, I met this amazing girl about 6 months ago and she's my very good friend now. Erm, she has a twin sister that I'm pretty good friends with but still not as good as a friend then her sister. Sooo I was wondering, at their birthday [Sweet 16], should I get only my really good friend a present or should I get her twin sister one too? I have never had twin friends so I don't know if I just get one of them one or both or if I get them totally different or similar things or a more "better" gift for my really good friends and a lesser one for her twin sister. AHHH what do I do with the presents??????
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HELP ME
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 7:45 pm
ok so i kinda know the answer to this kinda but i want some oppinions so theres this guy that i like and well basically my friend think i should ask him out and i dont he's just different then any other guy i've ever met i can be myself around him and yeah so my question is i want to be more comfortable before i get all involved in a relationship or anything so should i just keep trying to make myself more comfortable and then maybe next year sometime maybe i could ask him out or something and like stay friends with him also i wanna be really good friends with him cause i'm just used to being friends with a guy and then likeing him but i want to be the girl he'll tell something that he tell's no one else or like the girl he'll hug or someth...
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idk
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 7:30 pm
ok so heres the thing. i dont know what to do about this really, me and my best friend are pretty different, and we only hang out with eachother, or hang out with other ppl but together we only hang out with eachother. this is bc we are in different grades and have different friends. she is sooo different from me. shes outgoing, popular, you know. im kinda just there. and it seems like everytime at school if i try to talk to her or say hi, she acts like shes to good for me. i have been friends with her for about 4 years, and she never acted like this till this year, bc now she is in high school. i know shes really self concious about everything, but i dont think its right that she acts that way. idk if im making a big deal over nothing, but pleaseeeee give me some opinions. thanks:)
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Friendship turned Sour!
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 5:20 pm
I recently met this girl(about 3 months ago) and we became good friends. We hang out alot and did things normally friends wouldn't do. She would show me body parts, tease me alot and flirt. I felt she liked me and I felt the same. She knew me and my family and I knew her and her family. Then we she got her car back from her mother, she started to ignore my phone calls and when I am aroiund her place, my siter lives there to, she doesn't speak to me or say hi or nothing. yesterday was my birthday and she came because my sister invited her. She was cool and I had a drink and told her off. She just laugh and gave me the bullshit story, it was her and not me. I feel she played me and probably, though I don't feel this way, used me as her crutch...
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hmm.
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 4:42 pm
soo, today, this kid whos like super popular, but i dont really know, asked me out. and i was yano excited, obviously. but i didnt know what to say, because i dont know him too well. and i like to get to know people, before i date them.
but anyways, i was all excited to tell one of my friends, well, one of my best friends, about it. and shes like.. well can this wait? im playing a game. and i was like.. you dont wanna hear about it? its hugeee. and shes like, one second. and so i was kinda just kidding when i said this, i was like fine =P if my love life isnt that important then who cares. =P. and shes like, yeah i know, glad you realize that, kayy brb! and i was like.. wtff.
and so right now im not talking to...
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Advice on a friend
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 4:17 pm
Okay, I really like this guy whos my friend. We've been friends for about ummm lets see a year now. Hes been looking at me when he thinks I'm not looking. Okay, and I'll do the same. I'm pretty sure he likes me since all my friends say so. If he does what do I do. He has a girlfriend. But it doesn't seem like he likes her. Sooo what do I do?
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my friend lied to me about what she was doing..
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 1:00 pm
hi im 13 female,
so anyway i thought i was going to my dads house last friday so i asked my best friend if she wanterd to come ( cos my dad wants me to bring friends or whatever) and she said sed like to but she cant because she was going to a horseshow and to dinner for her moms friends birthday. so anyway i was ok with that but it turns out my dad was stuck in CA so he wouldnt be back till saturday so i coudnt go to his place. So i called up my friends house and asked if she culd look after me (cos my mum had to go away which was why i was going to dads in the first place) but my friends mom said that she was at my other friends house having a sleepover. So i called her and she was like "Oh yeah im not going to dinner they mo...
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What do i say / dont say to a mate thats been raped.
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 10:06 am
My best friend was raped about 2 months back, she didnt tell me about it,i found out from my other best friend. i was hurt that she didnt want to tell me but just got on with it cos she was obvisouly going thruogh a hard time. anyway another of my friends told me best friend that i knew, there was a big argument and no its all out in the open. its better but i feel really awkuard in front of my best mate and dont no what i can say or cant. has anyone got any advie, i wud really appreciate it.
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I can't do what I want because of her.
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 7:36 am
Hey. I'm thirteen, female. Don't get me wrong, I despize labels more than anything in the world, and I try not to use them, but for this question, I think they're the only way someone could understand. I used to be really really really 'preppy'. And like I only got clothes from Abercrombie and Hollister, and I was literally afraid of hot topic. And I labeled everyone and I never wore black, always pink. Now, I really like the 'emo' stuff, rather than the 'prep' stuff. See, I tried just wearing what I like, and doing what I like, ect. But, then I got in a HUGE fight with like 4 people and all of them told me I was 'fake' and a 'poser' when I was just doing what I wanted, and they told me to be myself, when finally, I was. I don't know what t...
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CRAZY dream (Monsters & bestfriends) kinda long?
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 6:29 am
Okay I've had the weirdest dream like.. ever. And I remember some parts about it.. so can someone interpret it? I forget what happened at the beginning.. but somehow me and my best friend (she was a really cool girl in the dream, but sadly i've never seen her before in my life. that has happened before.. my real friends are barely in my dreams, or maybe its because i always want to make more friends? like to get a neighbor who will be my best friend because i dont have you know.. one person that i know is my best friend.. just good friends) were in my house by myself. and there was a huge monster in there! we were hella scared. well it was my house but one part was really huge with a chandelier (near the enterance).. which is like my house ...
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worried about my friend
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 11:40 pm
i'm 16/f. i don't like drinking or smoking. my best friend used to have a lot of problems with drugs [weed and coke] and drinking. she was put into rehab for a month or two and she recently got out. she keeps drinking and i'm afraid she's going to relapse. she doesn't think she is going to relapse because she's not doing drugs. what could i say to her? i'm afraid to talk to her about it. thanks in advance. =]
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is that true freind or a fake freind
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 9:01 pm
ok you on chat. you just say hey..
and a freind be like no i am busy..
so no i don't borther to much. i just hey and all pretty much it. and i know a true freind would say hey sorry i can't talk right now becouse i got tones to do or maybe oh i wish we can chat but i am so busy.. i will talk to you later.
well thought i see if i got my ponit
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i want my best friend back.
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 8:06 pm
13/f
this is gonna be long..
okay. so my best friend's name is jess. she's been my best friend since 4th grade. well, in about october of last year, she decided to get a new best friend [katie] & kick me to second place. i was really really hurt because i never thought i would lose her. i still call her my best friend because she truly is my best friend.
i've tried so hard to get her back but nothing works. i want my best friend back. i have talked to her about it numerous times. she says katie has never had a best friend so now it's her turn to be in the "spotlight". did jess stop & think about our friendship? about how i would feel? about how this affects me? of course not. it...
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Trust Issues and Friends Who Don't Trust
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 7:38 pm
14/f
Okay, well, I know people get these a lot, but I really need help. I have friends, people that I think I can trust. They tell me things and I do not say anything else. I do not trash talk people I care about. I may say something neutral but never anything against that person.
I was talking with friends K and L. K was telling me one of our other friends, F, was probably making something up about her school life because she asked the people in the Jr. High if they ever talked to F and they said no. L agreed and said "J was mean to her though, we all know that." I replied with "Maybe J told her all those people were mean to her and she believed it, that was why she said it."
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no support
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 9:28 am
I play in a band and we put on a bunch of shows, which is a huge passion of mine, and everyone I know knows it.
So everytime we play a show my closest, supposed "friends" always say they're going to come, but when the time of the show comes, none of them ever show up. At the last show only one of them showed up, but that was like at the middle of the very last song.
This bothers me because I think if these were my friends, they'd realize how important this is to me and give me support, like I have always been there for them. And I always feel like they makeup some lame excuse as to why they didn't come, or why they're late.
Am I wrong for feeling this way ????
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