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Too nervous.
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 9:49 pm
Tomorrow I am going to my best friend's house with another one of my best friends (both are girls) & then two of our friends. Well, I don't really know one of the guys too well though. We did the same thing last weekend, except now I like one of the guys who were there. The only problem is, he's the one who hardly knows me. The two girls both know that I like him. I don't want to act weird tomorrow around him and I can never think of anything to say, but I really want to go so I can get to know him better. Any ideas on what to do?
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friends who change so much
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 9:27 pm
ive been friends with this girl since 1st grade, on and off (little elementry school fites seperated us`during elem. school) and 5th grade everyone hated her, even my new best friend hated her too, and i almost went against her but didnt. Ive stuck by her side for the longest time, but then 6th grade came and she became freinds with everyone, and she hung out with everyone else more and more, and me less and less.
I felt betrayed, like 'what am i not good enough'. we still hung out but not alot. Then 7th grade came, and we were in differant clusters (other schools mite use teams, groups,...) and she made friends with so many differant types of people, most hated eachother. from the preppiest happiest girls, to the bitchiest w...
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my friend turned evil
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 9:18 pm
My "friend" and I were freinds for a long time, but then all of a sudden she started acting all differant when we went to new schools. She doesnt talk to me and when she does, she is only there to accuse me of talking behind her back or accusing me of making fun of her, or accusing me of judging her, which i am not. She is always drinking and always smoking, and always wrapped up in her new friends. I dont want to be her friend, but i dont want to make things awkward between us...i mean the other day she accused me of talking smack about her on the bus, and asked me via. comment on myspace. but in the bitchiest way possible. I repeat, i dont want to be freinds with her, but i just want to make things between us not hateful and wis...
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I screwed up ... BAD.
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 7:55 pm
Last year, one of my best friends, Diane, (we aren't friends anymore) told me that my other friend, Rachel, was just using a guy. She said Rachel told her that she just wanted to be popular and that she wanted him to buy her things, but she really didn't like him. Now the guy that she was going out with ... he was my best friend. So of course, I told him. Except he wouldn't believe me unless I said I was the one who heard her say it, so I just said that. They ended up breaking up. BUT, this year he was homeschooled and same for his sister, so I never got a chance to tell him what I found out. Diane had liked him and she apparently has some jealousy issues and she made all of that up. He possibly could be going to my school next year, so how...
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one-sided friendship, keep it or let it go?
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 5:35 pm
I am having a problem with a friend of 1 1/2 years that lives down the street from me. I am a man, 42 and he is 30. We are both married. We both like cars and mechanical stuff, so we have lots in common. He has all the qualities that I want in a friendship, like honesty, integrity, non-smoker, light drinker, no drugs, etc. I really enjoyed talking to him, but I was always the one to initiate contact. I used to go down to his house and talk to him when I saw his garage door up and he was working on his car, but it's been three months since I've talked to him and he hasn't made any effort to contact me. Whenever we would see each other, he acted as if he liked me, he was in a good mood and talkative. He obviously knows where I live and he ha...
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Hinting.
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 5:13 pm
My friends and i are really close- at times ! i mean they seem to like me but we fight all the time and i dont feel like i fit in. AT ALL ! They seem to push me away alot like they dont talk to me or seem interested in what im saying. They do this alot and im not sure if its cause im me or cause there upset. I dont know if this is saying anything to me like a hint or what ?
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Voicemails.
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 2:49 pm
My best guy friend and I (16/f) have been getting in lots of fights, and it's because I'm so dependent on him. Well, ever since May I haven't been. I've been with other people, doing things, always busy, etc. I maybe hang out with him once a week, or two weeks. We never talk on the phone. But last night he went camping with 3 friends, and left me 3 voicemails. They're all talking about our friendship. He says things like, "I don't deserve a friend like you" and "you stick with me even though I treat you pretty poorly sometimes" and "i'd rather fight with you than anyone else" and "i feel like we're drifting, we need to hang out more". Yeah, that's just hitting the main things in each msg I guess.
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what to talk to him about
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 1:35 pm
i've recently started talking to a friend again. we haven't talked for so long, and now that we started, i don't really wanna stop. but everytime we start talking to each other, there's some awkward silences every now and then. what are some things i can talk to him about? i'm a girl and he's a guy, if that helps. he likes poetry and a lof of the things we've been talking about is about life. we don't go to the same school and he's a year older than me.
what are things i can/should talk to him about?
thanks.
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I dont want to move
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 4:06 am
i dont want to make my mom upset because i am. My family is moving in 2 weeks, i tell my mom im alright with it because i dont want to seem over whelemed(sp). but i know my feelings will come out sooner or later. i find myself almost crying on the smallest sad or happy things. i dont know whats wrong with me. i really dont want to leave all my friends, im really about to cry. wat do i do?
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friends putting me down?
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 1:04 am
im 13/f, 7th grade. i mean, i have alot of friends, but some of them i hardly even see anymore, so then we kinda become less close. like friends who i was real close with in the past turned out to be just friends for the year since we were in the same teams. some of the friends stuck, but those were only the ones that i saw pretty often, like people living in my neighborhood, in my classes, or that i talk to on aim. how can i remain close with my other friends after a new schoolyear starts and god forbid we're in different classes? i mean my friends from my neighborhood are okay.. but i dont think i'll ever find a best friend that lives near me or even a best friend at all. so then like people you've known from some years before.. its like ...
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Friend confessing bulimia
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 11:02 pm
So, my friend confessed she has been making herself throw up because she cares a lot about what other people think and it makes her feel better. I know a lot about it, I told her it's damaging. she says she's gonna try to stop, but I doubt she will. I just don't really know what to do. I know I can't really tell anyone- her parents would not understand, neither would mind. and I can't really tell any adult, cause I know she wont seek help or anything. What can I do for her personally?
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afraid for once about dating my bff and the last day of scho
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 9:27 pm
me and my best friend love eachother. everyone is trying to get us together as in dateing. but i want to but im just scared. im never scared to do anything. and im never scared to talk to guys or even the ones i like im not afraid to make a fool of myself i do what i want when i want im never afraid to do anything. but im just afraid to loose him again. we tried dating before but it fell apart and we grew apart but were bestfriends again. we love eachother but im afraid to loose my bestfriend again. but i wana go out with him. we said if we would go out wed never loose being bestfriends. id die with out him. i wana date him but then i dont wana loose him like last time. what do i do so we dont break up? or so we stay friends? or so im not a...
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what to say to something that feels rejecting?
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 2:16 pm
ok i'm gonna make this short a few of my freinds said come an play football i sed no i gotta revise (this was all done over teamspeak *microphone voice chat for pc*) then i said i nearlly done i might be able to come out now and he said i wouldnt bother it would be un-even teams then he just leaves saying i'm off out as if he doesnt want me there ¬_¬ not only did it hurt a bit but i also know he does it without knowing *i think* so what to say to something rejecting? without being harsh back just letting him know what he's doing.
(by the way only used football as an example hate it really ;) lol)
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Friends?
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 12:21 pm
i told my friend that our realationship has deteriorated but now im worried she will blurt and it will get worse please help
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drama + prom = should i even go?
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 12:21 pm
to make a long story short..im going to prom alone..and just recently i tried getting into my best friends limo(already paid for). of course i will pay them back.The problem is my friends..there is rooom for me..but they are saying no because i dspend all my time with my bf..and its so messed up because i was looking foward to spending this special night with my friends. im so ANGRY with tthem..should i even go to prom? i wont have fun if i have to drive there and especially because im so m ad at them..but ive been llooking foward to this. what would you do? not going might make them feel bad..plus i have to room with 3 of them for senior trip. im just so angry..at first they were pushing for me to go in the limo..and now they are just like.."oh well..im sorry"
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a problem at a party on TV my parents will kill me~please
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 12:04 am
13/f i was at a televised party and my best friend and i in a shot were in the background about to kiss we were touching lips even. im not allowd to date anymore but it was my best friend(a guy). once my parents watch it again tomarrow ill be dead. and whyd they put it on air. what do i do at school tomarrow? nobody knows we kiss people think theres nothing romantic between us anymore. what do i do?i need an answer before 6-7am tomarrow or tonight pleaasse. also i changed as something different once i got there. put on alot more eyeliner and everything usual im gothic people say. but my mom thinks i wore a nice little blue dress. but ill deal with that. i need help with us kissing. and possibly my clothes.
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used to be friends
Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 9:29 pm
Me and this girl used to be BEST friends. Everyone knew we were inseperable. But many things happen that i not going to bore you with and we stoped being friends. Now everytime im around her im just in a bad mood she just annoys me so much and i try not to let her get to me but i cant help it. I cant just ignore her because she is in my group of friends and were always together. What sould i do i cant stand being near her all the time?
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friend or not??
Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 5:29 pm
ok well so wat happens is that i have this one buddy(hes friends with my bro too) hes well he used to be like my best friend or lik a brother to me right...so one day i go to his house to work on some assingment...his parents leave...we stay by ourselves and he starts kissin me...first i didnt want to b/c i felt weird but later i accepted and we start makin out n then somethin more (anal sex n a blow job) ok ok so it felt weird after that day but i thought it wa lonly once so i was "ok" but the other day we were left by ourselves again and he started kissin me again but i stopped him this time b/c we were in school and someone could have seen us so yup...one day a friend, mi bro and I went to his house so we were watchin a movi...
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i think he wants me but i can't let that happen
Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 3:25 pm
Hi. I'm 21/f.
So there's this kid, Chris, who used to like me a lot. We hung out a few times when me & my boyfriend, Dave, were on a break. I'm not going to lie, I've flirted with him a little as well & maybe even led him on. However, I told him that even though Dave & I aren't officially together, we basically are since we do everything bf & gf's do & that were in love with each other. Chris knew all about Dave (we were friends when Dave & I started going out at 16) but still had deep feelings for me. It got to the point where I felt he was way too attached to me. Once I realized how much he really liked me, I backed off. I was turned off too. It was good timing because he had to go back to college. <...
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Trust
Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 2:21 pm
I have known this guy for a couple weeks, and he doesnt trust girls at all. He's gotten hurt in the past, and you can just see the hurt in his eyes. He acts tough just to try to forget about it. What can i do? I care about him.
Thanks
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