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best friends ex boyfriend? fair game?
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 10:27 pm
ok so heres how it went.
my bff is kind of spoiled and high strung. she has mega high expectations for guys.
anyways..she was going out with this guy thats sooo nice and cute and just the perfect bf for her cause he was nice and she was a bitch and they "completed eachother".
but then she broke up with him because she said he was to clingy. like a week after that me and her ex started talking and i told him i was sorry about what my bff did to him and we just started to talk and now i really like him and im pretty sure he likes me too.
so is it ok to date him? my bff doesnt know we've been talking to eachother. what should i do should i act on it or just break it off? sho...
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My friend is overreacting
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 9:37 pm
So I took her lunch seat today not on purpose but my friend took my seat. Who gets mad over that?! So my friends like FLIPPING out at me. And she gets my other friend to get on her side! WTF! And She has been IMing me all day trying to argue its so stupid she doesn't realize how much shes overreacting. If only she could realize it. 2 Of my friends so far cant believe she's not over it yet. She called me a friend stealer and starts believing my frien who NEVER tells the truth and she's the one who told me herself that she never tells the truth. And now she's sticking up for her. And Its to the point where I've been crying my eyes out. I didnt tell her, since I've been acting like i dont care (thats what she would want, for me to care) and sh...
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graduation gifts
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 5:51 pm
Hey i'm in 8th grade and i'm graduate this month! I was wondering what are some things i could give my friends for graduation. Something that i could give them as a remembrance you know? Thanks!
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I don't know what to think of him anymore....
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 5:26 pm
Although this is long, I dont know where to turn and would appreciate any responses. Thanks.
Hi everyone. I'm 13/f and my best friend is 14/m.
Well, he moved here last year and his old school was kind of bad, but we clicked right away, I helped him fit in, so to speak (even though I'm not the most popular), and now he's the most popular guy in our school, by most people's "standards."
I didn't think he'd done anything bad at his old school, and I still don't.
But, as I've been becoming "closer" to him I've been finding out things like, he seems to have a girlfriend just to "do things" (not bad, that I know of - just like kissing) with her. When I firs...
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from bff to wtf?
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 12:39 pm
okay so i have this friend,and we were really good friends in the beggining of the year, then she started being a bitch and talking about me for no effing reason!(i was hanging out with a different group that week) and so my point is,its like she thinks im stupid.like she thinks i steal like all my ideas from her,and like i cant think for myself. you know?ugh shes a bitchhh!what do i do??and no i do not want to talk to her about it,bc that will start another fight and it will be myyyy fault once again.omg please help.
thanks in advance
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Divorce of friend's parents!
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 11:49 am
My best friend's parents are getting a divorce. This will entirely turn her world upside down. They will have to move, maybe to a different city, and she can only keep one of her horses. I want to be there for her, but I have to go to a different state this summer. I don't even have a cellphone that she can talk to me on. WHAT DO I DO? I have been through a divorce and I know what it's like... I'm really worried because she is a very sensitive girl. Help please!
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idkk what to do...
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 5:46 am
14/f
yeah, well i have a boyfriend now... but now when i talked to this one guy.. that used to lik` me.. and he waited for me because he wanted to, but i told him not to... but he said to wait for me anyways is mad now. he says that i lied to him and made him wait and lead him on when he was away from town... but i didnt.. well at least i didnt think so. but when i went out w/ the guy i am now i was goin` to tell him to not to wait for me, lik` i did last time, but then the day after he got mad saying that he shouldnt have fell for me and etc. i dont know what to do.. but i was pretty sure i didnt tell him to wait for me. he asked me out before but then i said that i felt a vibe and all.. but i didnt really like him. >.<...
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idkk what to do...
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 5:40 am
14/f
yeah, well i have a boyfriend now... but now when i talked to this one guy.. that used to lik` me.. and he waited for me because he wanted to, but i told him not to... but he said to wait for me anyways is mad now. he says that i lied to him and made him wait and lead him on when he was away from town... but i didnt.. well at least i didnt think so. but when i went out w/ the guy i am now i was goin` to tell him to not to wait for me, lik` i did last time, but then the day after he got mad saying that he shouldnt have fell for me and etc. i dont know what to do.. but i was pretty sure i didnt tell him to wait for me. he asked me out before but then i said that i felt a vibe and all.. but i didnt really like him. >.< help me please.. i want us to stay friends.
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why does some friends act like this?
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 4:44 am
why do when some of your close friend knows that your moving away soon and they starting to keep their distance,wont really talk to you and doesnt wanna get close to you that much?
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Faking Bulemia
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 12:22 am
I have this friend "annie" who I've know all my life. She's always been a major drama queen, making up crazy stories to get attention and make people feel sorry for her. In kindergarten, it was a "rattlesnake bite" and she might die! Last year it was "internal bleeding", and no one better make her laugh or it might kill her! Her latest thing is pretending to be bulemic. After she eats she goes to the bathroom and makes noises like she's throwing up. I know she's so totally faking it, but everyone else is sooo worried about pooorrr annie! Even our friends' parents are really worried... and that's what makes me so upset. I wish I could tell people "She's just trying to get attention!", but that w...
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all nighter.
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 11:38 pm
me and my friends are hanging out this thursday. it's kind of a "everyone together one last time before we go our seperate ways for the summer" party. haha. we need ideas because we're going out ALL night. we're going to go cosmic bowling, waffle house, and go to wal-mart. because those are all 24/7 things. we were also going to go swimming at ike 5-ish 6-ish. what else can we do all night? THANKS!
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Been wondering
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 9:14 pm
For once in my life, I have met my soulmate and we're getting married July 28th. The thing I've been wondering is my friend who is 18 well we've liked eachother for quite a while, but I know nothing will progress since he's such a sweet guy, I just think he needs to find someone his age. Even though we like eachother, I just can't go any further with him not just because I'm getting married but because I'm 25 and he's 18, and he's only a Junior in High School. I just want to be friends with him, but I don't know how to tell him because we'd went farther then we should have in the first place. So if anyone has any suggestions let me know please. Should I break off the friendship or keep it??
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gah
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 8:41 pm
theres these two boys. Both of them are my good friends. One is always on my mind, and i really like him. But when the other one looks at me and talks to me, he makes me feel happy. When he smiles at me, i get, allrite this will sound lame, he gives me butterflies in my stomach. But i dont think of him as much as i think of the other one. I used to have a crush on the one that makes me feel happy, and i never knew why. Now i know, but i dont want to like him again, cause i cant see myself with him, but i can see myself with the other one. Im so confused about them.
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Big Friendship problem (sorry if it's long)
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 8:31 pm
Okay, so my 'friends' were the best of friends a girl could ever have, in the beginning of the school year (long ass time ago) Then in the middle of the year things started to change. I didn't feel the love that friends are supposed to have for eachother (in a friend way). And they are constantly labeling me goth. And I am always the one that is made fun of. But then a girl named Haley started hanging out with us. At first it was all the same for me. But then they all started talking behind her back. I would NEVER join in on those conversations, I would defend her. Then one day me and Haley were still eating lunch, and they left. So when we are done we go find them. And they start bitching on how Haley should just leave, so she leaves and I...
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Far Away
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 7:10 pm
I went to boarding school this past year and had to leave on account of an eatting disorder. Hahaha thats some first sentence. Well while I was at school (2 hours from home) I met this guy. We became instantly friends, and that was it. Well he stuck by me through all my issues and I never felt anything besides friends. He has told me more than once that he likes me as more than a friend. Well now that I'm home I have feelings for him to(Alot). We still talk on the phone everyday sometimes more. And he wants me to come visit. But I feel like if I get close I'm only going to get hurt. He lives extremely far away and the only way is to fly. I mean he's going to go to boarding school for another two years but still I mean 2 hours away is still ...
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Ex-boyfriend explanation
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 7:00 pm
Hello!
There is this ex-boyfriend from five years ago that I've allowed to keep in touch with me. It helped a lot when I moved out of the country when he couldn't call me anymore, and he would occasionally e-mail me and after I was in a new relationship, I decided to completely cut him out of my life. I didn't answer his pleas to know how I was doing, or how much he says I'll always be a part of my life even if we never speak and I'll always have a place in his heart and of course, that he loves me.
It's like some sort of therapy for him. I don't feel comfortable with having any kind of relationship because it doesn't feel real to me to be 'friends.'
He found me on myspace today and...
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my bad I apologize
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 6:18 pm
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=495237
yeah i kinda asked that question yesterday even though it wasn't a question.. i just wanna say that i still back up most of the things i said but i do understand that i should have said it in a calmer and not so negative matter. i was wrong & i apologize to those who i hurt (haha) even though you guys all think im a whiny teenager. i'm really nothing like that i was just trying to speak my mind. i really do LOVE advicenators and i'm kinda addicted and i don't wanna leave although many people want me to. some people on this site judge people unfairly, but the majority on this site are nice people and infact give good advice.
& to younggrandma you've always b...
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my bestfriend is devestated.
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 5:21 pm
so today my friend was supposed to kis sthe boy she likes right and lately he sbeen doing things that makes it seem like he like sher, but thiers a problme , today she didnt do it, and he was waiting outside the classroom and she was inside i went up to him and said listen i need to know. do you like her or what? he said only as a friend.!!!
now this girl is my bestfriend for life i tell her everything she tells me everything and so i told her what he said, but calmly and rationally i let her know he dosnt like her and she started crying,a nd now she is like really upset more upset then ive ever seen her, because she fell for this guy and hard but he was a jerk and lead her on. please help me in what i can do or say to her thank you
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Did I lose a friend?
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 4:12 pm
I've liked this guy for a long time (I'll call him John) and my best guy friend I will call Bob. Bob and I used to be really close, we would tell each other everything. He liked me for a long time, a few years, and then told everyone he got over me. I never had feelings for him.
I told Bob that I really liked John. John and Bob were good friends. But Bob claimed that John was just a "funny guy" so he doesnt really like him, he just liked to laugh at him.
Anyway recently John asked me out =] and I said yes, I've been so happy I can't contain it. And a week or so ago Bob said he was done being friends with our group of friends. He ignored all of us but now he's only ignoring me. I'm not really making an attempt to talk...
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we're close.. but i dont know what to believe
Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 11:35 pm
14/f
her name is christy.. and shes my bestestestestestest friend in the whole word... and she told me what was bothering her, my other friend, shes also my bestfriend but we're not as close as me and christy, but shes like my sister.. her name is amerie. and christy told me that she HATES my sister amerie, and that she thinks shes usin` me.. she says that she has a "bad vibe" from her. and amerie doesnt say anything about christy, and they both tell me everything.. so i dont think that amerie has anything against christy either. christy also thinks that i ditch her for mary, but i havent seen mary for so long either after she had gotten into a car accident. but then christy understands why now... and we worked out ...
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