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getting people to like me
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 9:00 pm
i always THOUGHT i was outgoing, but people are telling me i'm boring and that's why i'm losing friends. well i really wanna be outgoing and likable and i miss my old best friend. i really wanna be BEST friends and do everything together but i dont know how to start. right now we talk a little bit but all we say is hi. how can i gradually get her to WANT to be my best friend?
i really need help. =/
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bbq partyy.
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 5:52 pm
hey. my friend is having a bbq on june 22 & she is inviting a SHITload of people, like 70 or something to her house. it's a graduationn partyy. well should i bring a cute graduation gift? idk if other people are bringing gits, but i can askk some of my girls who are goingg. help?
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party
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 5:39 pm
okay so a girl who is on my bus and in almost all my classes is having a bbq tomorrow. idk if it is a birthday party. i think her bday was last month. would she have it that late??
anyway, should i bring a gift?
14/f
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Jealous Friends.
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 4:39 pm
Okay, i have a close friend and we'll call her 1 and i have another friend who's not as close but we'll call her 2. Both of my friends go to my school. 2 was coming over my house that day and 2 and me gave 1 a ride home. I didn't invite 1 to come with me and 2 because i hadn't spent any time with 2 in a long time. The next day i noticed right away 1 wasn't talking to me. 1 was still talking to 2, but the next day 1 wasn't tallking to me or 2. About a week later 2 called 1 and a few days after that 1 and 2 were talking again, but me 1 was still not talking to me. 3 weeks past and me 1 was STILL not talking to me!! Then came the last day of school..The last bell rang and we went to the front of the school like we do everyday and alot of peop...
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Stress Relivers
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 4:29 pm
I have a lot of problems with my friends, and my family right now. I seem to gravitate to food to make me feel better. I eat like ice cream chips and bad stuff like that. I was wondering if anyone knew anything that i can do instead of eat to relive stress?
thankss
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Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 3:58 pm
so i started a new school this year and i want to sit with popular kids at lunch and they are like my bffl but my othe bffl i have known them for a lot longer and the ones i have known longer are like all over me and will get pissed if i dont sit with them what do i do?
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summer+no friends=...
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 1:47 pm
So it's summer, as of today. Now I realize that.. I'm going to be really bored the whole time. My group of "best friends" never call me anymore, because they're always out drinking. I confronted them about it once & they say that they've changed now & I haven't. At school I talked to a lot of people but no one called me after or on weekends. Now it's summer & I won't see anyone anymore. What do I do? I have no friends. I don't want to sit at home all summer. Plus my mom is always like, "where are your friends?" & I make up a lie because I can't tell her that they don't talk to me anymore, I feel like a loser.
I don't know what I'm going to do all summer. It seems like my old friends don't even feel bad that I have no friends.
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What should I do to try and re-mend this friendship?
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 9:24 am
I accidently hurt my friend's feelings over a picture I head on my cell phone. When I showed it to 3 people she sent me a text saying "Why the f*#$ do you have a picture of me on your phone?" and she has hated me ever since. I have tried to apologize many times but all she has ever said is why do you want to be my friend so bad and that's just plain wierd. She is a 15 year old Sophmore and I am a freshman at high school. I see her as somewhat of what I want to be, a great soccer player. She has made Varsity since freshman year and I just want to be as good as her. I dream about my mistake every night and that it becomes fixed, but when I wake up it is only a memory of what I want. Should I just forget about her(even though I see h...
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Since ive been dating my boyfriend...
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 9:04 am
I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and ever since i did i have no friends its like i stopped hanging out with all of them. I need someone close to talk to but it seems everytime i find someone like that they always backstab me and tell the hole world...
what should i do?
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does anyone understand?
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 6:05 am
ok soo I have been best friends with this girl for about a year and a half.
and she has moved twice,
but still when she moved we kept
in touch and say eachother and stuff.
and she moved back to where I live about
2 months ago. and we became ever closer.
she is my best friend. even though we
dont get to see eachother that much,
there is a place in my heart for her
that no one else could replace.
and about a month ago she was at my house,
and I was sleeping and I woke up to my other
friend shaking me and saying my name alot
and seemed very scared and told me to
come here, and so I followed her into the
bathroom, were my bestfriend was l...
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ugghhh.. friends
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 12:12 am
ok. so i'm 14/f. and i really feel like i have no friends. like, people are nice to me, but i don't feel like i have someone who i can really talk to. and i don't want to talk to my parents about stuff that i would talk to my friends with of course. i have a half-sister that is really easy to talk to, but she works like ALL of the time, and she lives like, 3 hours away. i feel like everytime i get a friend, i loose them. and i feel like if i was in a group of girls and a different group of girls had to be picked out to hang out with, i would be last picked. or, sometimes i feel like i'm a last resort. what i mean is, one time, one of my really good friends called me and asked if i wanted to go shopping, and i was like "sure!!" and...
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im so depressed
Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 12:10 am
hey read my first question but ignore the bottom.
anyway what should i do about the girl im friends with. i like her but i dont want to destroy our relationship by telling her how i feel.
it feels like every day i dont tell her it further tears my soul.
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My heart, Or my head.
Posted Wednesday June 6 2007, 10:18 pm
Im thirteen,Female.
I had a boyfriend, but broke
up with him because we had
litterally hadnt talked on
the phone for maybe twice in
a month in a half relationship.
I think my heart is telling
me that "He's a amazing guy
[True] and that i want to be
the best of friends with him"
But how do i know if thats not
just something to conclusion of
mine and his relationship. Since
we both say we still like eachother.
And i love you and what not.
Do i stay with this feeling,
and let him know?
Or try and keep thinking about
it, even though i feel like
i dont know what to do, at all.
What do i do?
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no friends?
Posted Wednesday June 6 2007, 9:31 pm
to start off the year i had SO many friends.
i considered my self 'popular.' now it's the
end of the year & i have no friends. i dont
wanna spend the summer with noone to do stuff
with. all of my friends are friends with other
people and are always busy. theres 2 more weeks
of school & i wanna get most of my friends back.
i feel like giving up. random people are taking
my friends & buddying up with them. i ask them
to hang out but i always make plans too late.
should i sit with my semi-biffs at lunch? cuz
they have new friends but still talk to me..
i have so many ex- friends that have moved on but i need some friendss. help
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left out
Posted Wednesday June 6 2007, 7:29 pm
everytime me and a bunch of my friends always get together i always end up feeling left out. i try to like talk and talk in their conversations but i just cant or they end up ignoring me. and i dont know how to amke new friends. what should i do?
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ugh bitchy friends how do i deal with it?
Posted Wednesday June 6 2007, 7:27 pm
my friends are starting to get so bitchy and i cant handle it. like i have problems of my own to deal with this. how do i deal with it like what do i say. my friend has been acting so mean to me and my other friend thinks theres something wrong. how do i control myself and ask her nicely whats worng?
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Confused.
Posted Wednesday June 6 2007, 6:55 pm
two people other than me are involved in this situation:
-jimmy: ive talked to him for about 2-3 months over the computer. my friends know him so i know he's not a stalker or whatever. he's pretty cool, and i know he's liked me in the past.
-brent: other guy i've been talking to over myspace for the past week now. he's really cool and sweet, and i really want to get to know him outside of myspace. also, my ex-friend knows him, but i'd never talk to her about him because she likes him and already hates me. brent sends me sweet text messages like ily and stuff and im almost starting to like him:]
well.
jimmy one day noticed a comment on my myspace from brent. automatically, he IMs me and ask...
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summer boy [friends]
Posted Wednesday June 6 2007, 1:14 pm
Im 13.
I'm the type of girl who is really shy
infront of really any guys but close friends.
I want to get to know some guys, like
become good friends. But im like reeeeeeeally shy.
What to i do.
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Old friends
Posted Wednesday June 6 2007, 10:09 am
I had a friend who i've been friends with for a few years. Suddenly out of nowhere, he told me he liked me & things went downhill from there. We remained friends & had a good time talking/joking around. A few months later, he changed. Randomly he began getting mean & just an unlikeable person. He was saying every argument we gotten into was my fault, how I wasn't trying hard enough to be his friend, wouldn't give him the time of day, didn't seem like I wanted to be his friend anymore etc. I do not even know to this day where he came up with all of that but he did. Then he would say lets not be friends anymore & I tried talking to him a few times & he would appologize, say how much he cares, & just be friendly again. ...
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BBF or Not?
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 10:35 pm
I have regular fights with my best friend and she really annoys me most of the time. She's just not really me if you know what i men anyway she was typing some mean thing in an im box and she wasn't gonna send it but i sent it and now that guy got mad at her, and DUH she's mad at me. But secretly like I said I've been wanting to do something so bad to her alot worse than that and wat she was doing then was fine its just payback for every single time she hurt me or made me hate her. I really wish she just wouldn't be my friend.
But the problem is called spheres of influence. She's one of those really popular girls and I already have rumors (fake rumors) and fake gossip about me with her as an enemy she will spread more stuff a...
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