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Why is my friend being so mean?
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 5:15 pm
my best friend and i have been doing gymnastics together for a long time. the gym we've gone to is really good (the best in the state), but its really far away and really expensive.
well, this year i decided to try out for cheerleading at my school, and i made it. i thought i'd be able to stay on my gymnastics team, but it just wouldnt work out with the cheer schedule. so i changed to another gym thats a lot closer to my house. its a lot smaller than my old gym and the team is not as good. and it was really hard to leave my old teammates! but at least i can still do gymnastics, which i love, and also cheerleading.
well, now my best friend keeps making remarks about my new gym... like how small it is, how bad th...
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My bff keeps judging me
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 3:20 pm
im 14/f. my best friend lives next door and we've known each other since we were 2. both of our families are pretty strict, but her parents are super conservative. like, shes not allowed to date until she's 17, she can't wear 2-piece bathing suits, and she can only wear plain white underwear, nothing "pretty" and definitely no bikinis. well, lately she's started nagging at me for everything i do and its really getting annoying. like i have these sweat pants from victorias secret... theyre just plain grey with a dog on them, it doesnt even say victorias secret, but my friend is like "omg i cant believe youre wearing something from that store!!" and i cant go to the pool when shes there because she'll give me looks an...
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all my friends graduated and are gone and im left alone
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:18 pm
my friends are all older than me and they all graduated. we have always been a grade apart but now their all gone moving to go to all different high schools out of state making new friends. and im still in grade school im in 8th grade and their all...gone. were already loosing contacts. im left with nobody i cant take it. i cry myself to sleep everynight because of it. their gone forever. most are moving states. i lost everyone. what do i do?
and one guy I LOVE HIM and hes far gone. were great friends but i dont even know now. what could i do!?!?
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Friend/Mom Problem!!
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 11:05 am
every day i run two miles around this park. my mom drives me there and reads a book while she waits. well, i have this friend annie. when annie's mom heard about me running, she wanted annie to do it with me. but annie's mom works, so she asked my mom to pick annie up whenever i go running. now here's the problem. annie doesnt want to do this. she doesnt say that, but i know her mom is making her. so we get to the park and she runs for like 2 minutes and then she walks. and i mean she walks slowwww. it takes me about 20 minutes to go around the park, but it takes her an hour. and me and my mom have to sit there waiting for her for 40 minutes. my mom is getting really mad about it cuz we have other things to do. we dont want to ...
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boys and female friends
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 9:16 am
Ok I kno i've been one that's got Q's a lot lately but I can't really talk to my ma caus she just don't understand.(LOVE THE WEBSITE!!!)Anyway all of my friends are going out but me.I'm not ugly it's just that my crushes all hang out with a lot of boys that don't really like me.I mean I'm known as the complete tomboy girl along with my best friend. But yeah.see my crush ALWAYS around them and I just know they are gonna tease me. HELP
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boys
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 8:56 am
I can't believe myself!I just turned down my crush for a date a couple days ago caus i thought that people would laugh at me caus he's shorter than me.I told some of my friends and they all said "LUCKY!He said yes?!!!!!!!!" Now here comes the advice part should I call him back or will that be stupid caus I don't know if he's going out with someone? thanx!:3 =] sorry it's so long
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How do I get my friends back without doing drugs?
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:33 am
Guess I'm not as cool as I used to be...
I'm sitting outside in my back yard, typing on my brother's laptop, taking in the beaming gleam of the sun. it seems like I'm losing all my friends to a number of illegal substances. No one wants to come to my house anymore, because they aren't going to get plastered or toke up a fatty. As if I'm in a competition with drugs to have friends, I don't invite people over anymore, I don't even look foreword to weekends anymore, because my house is a boring place to go all of the sudden. I guess when you grow up to a certain age, you have to start doing drugs and drinking to be fun? How long ago was last summer? No one ever mentioned drugs last summer, what with the change? I guess life is ...
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a really good friend of mine..
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 10:48 pm
i have a friend and shes short and cute and everyone calls her cute and i get kinda jealous. but she calls me cute even thought im like 2 inches taller then her. my question is, is it normal to get jealous like this even though i absolutely love her to death?
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Does he like me or just friends?
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 9:06 pm
So I am graduating so im 18. The guy I like is also 18. We go to the same school. We're friends. I can tell him anything. Just recently, he started calling and texting me. And he also started making a lot of plans with just the 2 of us. When I hang out with this other guy I used to like (and my friend knew I liked him), he stops talking to me for that day; pretty much completely ignores me or isn't nice. I don't know if he wants to be just friends or more. Help!
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friendless and defenseless
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 8:35 pm
situation:
i was at this party last friday and i ended up making out with this guy who's infamous for hooking up with a lot of girls. my 'friends', L, A, and S, were the ones who made me do it. they said "come on its your first make out and you should do it". without a defense, i did. the next week at school, they told everyone who would hear. they told my prude friends (who i didn't want knowing because they'd be ashamed of me), my best gay guy friends (who i didn't want knowing because they'd make fun of me), and basically everyone else (because they'd judge me).
problem:
what the heck do i do?!?!
do i stick up for myself?
do i make a joke of it?
do i apologize to my friends who...
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Best mate worries.
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 7:46 pm
19 F - Okay, so my best mate lives really far away (like 2 day drive) and I rarely see him. We usually write e-mail's every day and hardly ever break contact. Well the past couple of weeks we've been a bit slack. He has exams at university and I'm doing a course while also working. so i didn't hear from him and he didn't hear from me in a couple of weeks. 3 days ago he said that his mum is in hospital with heart problems and that he has big exams coming up and that he cant study cause he's looking after his little brother and sister while trying to find a new place to rent as their lease is up soon. he seemed really stressed and i've written him several e-mails since then but he hasn't replied. i dont know what to do! how do i reach him? am...
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Bullied
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 6:10 pm
Ok so i had a fight with a friend 1 only shes telling everyone i called her slut but i didnt i said to her everyone goes around calling you a slut and i tell them to shut up anyways now her friends involved everytime i walk past the push me and call me a slut whore skank and i end up crying i even ended up crying last night im to scared to go to school now
please help me
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16th Birthday Party.. Need Help With Ideas
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 3:50 pm
Hey.. im turning 16 on July 30th.. about a month and a half away and i needed ideas on how to make this a memorable birthday party. Its going to have both guys and girls (perhaps) and i was thinkin of havin a luau... but i have no idea how to make a birthday party like that. Any suggestions?
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pregs
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 2:24 pm
So, a very dear freind of mine got raped 3 weeks ago. she has just turned 14
her parents are worried about her health cause since the inncadent she has BARLY been eating. shes refuses to go to therpy. she doesnt talk much eather. shes not herself. i understand that she needs time to adjust. shes kinda like in shock.
last night, she called me. crying hastericly. she thinks she pregnate. her period stoped and never came back. i keep telling her that it has only been 3 weeks and that nothing is sure.
she took a pregnacy test and she said she took it 2 times one time it said she was pregnate, the other said she wassnt, both taken the same week.
hellppp
thank all you guys so much.
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I think I like my best friend
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 12:50 pm
I think i like one of my guy friends I've had for the past 4 years. We got in a really bad fight before our sophmore year so this last year we had to basically start from scratch, but as the year ended, we were as close as ever. We talk alot on AIM and myspace and i really miss him this summer. our friendship is a bit weird b/c were always picking on each other but I know he means something to me. He's the only boy who has ever been able to make me cry. Last year when we got in that fight i cried so much because I missed him. No boy has ever been able to do that to me. Which makes me confused on how i feel about him. I know dating wouldnt screw up our friendship b/c if we broke up we would still end up being friends in the end like we alway...
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I like this person as more than a friend-Need to know how th
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 11:55 am
There is a guy that I have known for about 6 months. I see him most weekends because we both have friends within the same circle.
When I see him I never get a chance to be with him alone because of our friends but I need to know the signs of how he would flirt.
He's quite shy with girls.
He always talks to me,or stands near me but doesn't really say much, jsut little things not a proper conversation.
When I was at a pub talking to a guy he asked my friend if I fancied that guy, she said 'no i don't think so' because she knows who I do fancy. He said 'Wel you can't blame him for talking to her.'
He doesn't really flirt with anyone, but one night he was quite drunk and he kep...
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Sharing the bed
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 3:18 am
Friends share the bed with one another, sometimes. But when that happens to the person you told that you like them more than a friend it is hard to understand there side. What I mean is that I told my friend about myself and I was expressing my feelings to her. she said she not feel the same about me and she not ready for any relationship and not sure what gender she is interested. And I ‘m a women who found out that I am Bi and she the first person I told her. She was there to understand and I was glad she is and a great friend, I'm not ready for a relationship too (with a women.) We had my birthday party at my apartment we all started to watch TV in my room when the party was over. Me and my friend Sara sat on the bed as my other two ga...
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How to avoid drama?
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 2:35 am
ok theres this girl "cindy" who i've known for a few years. shes a little annoying, but now we're in a summer camp together so we've been hanging out more than usual. well now my boyfriend told me that shes been calling him and saying stuff about me... not really mean stuff, but like shes trying to get him to say something bad about me. and she keeps asking him if he thinks these other girls are hot, or who he would like if he wasnt going out with me. i think shes hoping he'll say something that would make me mad, so she can tell me what he said and get me mad at him. my boyfriend asked me not to tell her that he told me these things, cuz he doesnt want to get in the middle of any drama. he just told me so i'd know what shes b...
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uhm. pissedd ?
Posted Monday June 11 2007, 10:47 pm
ok. so i have this friend. let's call her 'L' well L and i have been friends since the beginning of 7th grade (it's june of 8th grade now) and we have always been FRIENDS like good friends not BFF but good friends, and like, last year she would get mad at me and my other friend, A would tell me and i would text L and be like i'm sorry for ______ whatever A would say i did wrong & that was why L was mad at me. well like, L is currently mad at me and idk why & neither does A and like, i am kind of sick of L always being mad at me! like idk what i did wrong... should i text her & ask her what's up or just let it go? she always gets over it in like, 24 hours but still it's really really annoyingg..
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Friends that arent friends
Posted Monday June 11 2007, 8:57 pm
K... so ill give a run through and ask my advice. So i had a REALLY GOOD FRIEND BFF'S so yea and she was friends with this other girl longer than me and she was a bff too. (My bff is Sarina and her bff is eileen). so eileen was a bad friend to me so i stop being friends with eileen (long story short she was a monster) but i was still friends with sarina and we'd hang out and go to the mall and eileen would constantly set barriers for sarina, when she could hang out with me and where (ex. some periods in skool, some weekends..etc) and eileen was the top priority so one friday i got together with my other friend Peter and Leslie and Peter pranked called Eileen and she heared me in the backround laughing (o yea he prank called in response to m...
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