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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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my friend


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 8:50 pm

Ok so latley ever scince my friend has gotten a computer in her room shes been on it non stop. Shes talking to people she dosent know. Like theres this online chat room and shes on it EVERY night for hours and hours. She even has a boyfrind on there, its really sad and im starting to be scared for her. And latley me and my other friend have been feeling the negitive effects of it by getting blown off. She claims shes too busy becuase of her going to the pool but we know the real reason why. And everytime we would bring it up to her about her not hanging out with us or how much shes on the computer she gets all defensive and gets all pissed at us. does anyone have any advice on this becuase its been a whole almost 2 weeks of summer vacation ...

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confidence?


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 7:57 pm

ok,i really need to build up my confidence,personality,and stuff like that. i feel like i want to change,for me,to feel better about myself. i want to be able to yell and scream and have fun,not care. what i need help is, how can i do all this***? how can i break down my wall i've had up for so long?

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my friend and her bf


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 7:54 pm

Me and this guy dated for about 5 years. then we broke up and he started dating my best friend. I know shady and betrayl but I just let it be. Now they are still together, but he is messing around with one of my cousins. He told my cousin that he didn't like casey as much as he liked my cousin (Sam). So sam told me and she said that he had asked her if he could kiss her. Sam said no but that is still cheating in some sense on casey. I'm not sure what to do because i know this and even though casey and me are touchy on her and her bf i still love her. she has been my best friend since before we could walk. should i tell her? what should i say? or should i stay out of it? it's not really my business anyway but she is my best friend and i know...

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msn


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 6:45 pm

eveyone has like msn now
how do you get like a screen name type of thing
and do you have to pay anything?

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something to do


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 4:34 pm

i want to do something really memorable with my girl friends this summer. i have a lot of guy friends too and despite that they're my friends the guys just normally cause stress so i want something to do with my girls. there's about 5 of us and i want like a girls night out sort of thing, or something to do during the day, doesn't matter. i want it to be something that we dont normally do. we're 15 some 16 and we normally go to the movies or the mall or to somebody's house. so any ideas? thanks a bunch

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what does it mean?


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 1:14 pm

ok well yesterday i graduate middle school. and my best friend and i are going to different high schools. people all assume we're a couple because we're practically glued at the hip but he told me he didnt like me like that but ive always liked him. problem with him is he gives a lot of mixed signals. so i was talking to him on msn and he had to go. i said "wow im not gonna see you at school tomorrow anymore. its so weird.." then he said "i know...i love you" and i said "i love you too". the he said "we sure say a lot for not a couple...some major questioning is to be done." what does that mean? i really have no idea what he meant. and i told him i dont like him anymore. so he doesnt think i still do....

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Death of a friend.


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 12:37 pm

Yesterday I went to a funeral for a friend that recentley died (june 16, 07) Its so unreal, I cannot believe that it had happened.
Our whole school was basicly at his funeral, or thinking of him and his family.
It was so unexpected and random, why him?
I'm having sucha hard time grasping the fact that he's gone, and I could cry and cry,
I wasnt even that CLOSE to him, like some others, and I seem to be showing so much more emotions about it.
What do I do? Have any of you ever lost any friends?
he was only 16.

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im really depressed....because..


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 4:43 am

the last day of skool was the last time im gonna see my close friend cause she is moving to diffrent country soon.But ive been avoiding her for a while because i was upset that she was moving and now shes doing the same too so we dont really talk anymore.And then when the class ended i tried to hold my tears but i burst up crying front of her and she tried to cheer me up couple of times but it didnt work so she left saying"im leaving so dont cry" and left me so i cried for like 3hours after school and after that we dont talk anymore, and yesterday she was on in AIM and i was scared to IM her but i TRIED talking to her in AIM and i finally i IMED her but she didt respond me i was waiting for like 2 hours but i was talking to my oth...

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i drew on their pictures in my yearbook.


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 12:15 am

okay there are these 2 girls.. not necessarily popular or unpopular. one of them i used to think was okay then she turned really fake and i just really disliked her. the other one she always was like pissed at me. and we were in the same cooking group.. this was before i knew problems would arise.. btw its a cooking group for my 7th grade home ec class. one of the other girls in my group is like on everyone's side but sticks to side of the girl who's always pissed at me. the other one is my friend but shes also kinda on everyones side. anyways in my yearbook i colored on the fake girl's picture in green, and wrote 'fake ogre' next to it. then i drew horns and ugly glasses and a mustache. i did the same to the 'pissed off' girl except i didn...

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Slumber Party!


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 11:52 pm

So hi! I am having a sleepover with my best friend when she gets back from vacation and I need some really good ideas to take her mind off of things. I've got a pool so we can swim and of course we'll watch movies, but, thats all I can think of. She has been through alot with some other friends and she complains that her summer sucks. I wish I could take her on a trip with my family but we can't afford it. So, anyone have any ideas of things we could do together to maybe cheer her up a bit?

I don't know if it means anything but we're both 16/F and she has her license already. But don't be so quick to suggest we drive somewhere because my mom may not be up for that. But feel free to list anything you think of, even if it involves driving.

Thanks Alot!

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Never the same.


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 11:40 pm

I'm 16/f, and had a best friend that was 16/m. We were very good friends, hung out everyday almost, or called almost everyday. Either way, we were always talking/or together. Anyway, awhile ago, in January, something happened that ruined our friendship. Now we get in little fights over ANYTHING, and we try to fix it all but it keeps building up. We've been trying since January to regain our old friendship. Is this a lost cause? I really believed our friendship could get back to being very close, but I'm starting to feel like we're both slowly giving less effort. Is there anyway our friendship could ever be like it was, if we keep trying? Thank you.

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My Ex And his girlfriend


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 10:13 pm

Female Age 14
Okay i have this ex boyfriend and his girlfriend. i mean i dont hate her or anything but then i got along with her just fine. Then the next thing i know her brother shows up 2 my school saying that he wanted to meet me. he said i was going to kill him i guess because his sister is going out with my first boyfriend. I still like him but i dont care if he is going out with someone as long as we can still be friends. But then after i meet her brother, Her and my ex both blocked me off of myspace. But i dunno why they did that and i dont know what should i do..... I need advice please! Thanks in advance.

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two friends, don't know what to do.


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 4:05 pm

Alright, so I have two friends, F and K. K is one of my best friends, F isn't, but we are pretty close and I can trust him. K and F went out and then broke up. Since K is my best friend I would listen to her say that F is over protective and all this stuff and I went on thinking F was the bad guy. Then K started to be extremely mean to F, like pushing him away from a hug and what not, when F was only trying to be nice. K isn't mad that they broke up, but F wants her back real bad. He has been trying so hard to change and he really likes her. K is leading him on and then blowing him off a lot.

I don't know what to do, F always asks for help. I tell him he really needs to get over her and to just not talk to her for a w...

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Girls.. >.-


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 2:03 pm

Mkay, all of my questions have C and K, and so does this one. I guess this one really isnt going to be a question, im going to tell you this story because i want to hear your views on what i am going to say. My bffl F is really great, and back when i used to chill with K and C, C had a boyfriend named... H. Now, C used to always suck his dick, now, i've never done anything like that, i won't even try it ever. Now, H was cheating on her and they broke up, but she kept doing it AFTER they broke up. Now F had told me a while back, 'im gonna take him away from her.' and she did. H and F are now going out.. And there was this whole thing on myspace about F being a whore and C being 'wifey material.' Yes, F has already had sex with 4-5 guys, but...

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one kiss


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 4:32 am

a friend and me kissed and now she's avoiding me and spreading rumors that im a lesbian. What the hell?

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can you be just friends with guys?


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 3:17 am

13/f
im a pretty friendly person i guess... i like talking to people and i always try to be really nice to everyone. so i talk to a lot of different people on myspace, AIM and texting. but when i start talking to guys and get to know them, sometimes they end up thinking that i like them. and then they start liking me. its not like im being flirty or anything, i just talk about normal stuff. so im not leading them on or anything. but i feel really guilty, cuz i just like them as friends (and btw i do have a bf). sometimes i think, maybe i shouldnt talk to guys at all, cuz it will only make them think i like them. is it possible to talk with guys and just be friends? or do they always end up wanting it to be more?

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how can you comfort my guy friend from break up?


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 2:58 am

ok i have this guy friend who broke up with my his girlfriend, she broke up with him in myspace message and he loves her LIKE REALLY REALLY WHOLE LOT and and i really feel sorry for him and i dont know what to say to him does anyone know how to cheer my guy friend who is like my brother? they went out for like 6 months and he sacrificed a lot for her and i feel really bad and does anyone know what to say? not like youll find someone else or something thanky you

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RATINGS


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 1:10 am

okay so i recently gave advice to a guy.. and he gave me a 3! now my question is..

giving advice to someone usually means your giving them YOUR opinion on the matter that their having troubles with..correct? so when someone actually gives advice and by giving i mean actually tried, or applied themselves as best they could should deserve a fair rating.. for someone who just says "that sucks" well okay they dont deserve the best of a rating if even one because thats just there opinion that gives you nothing to concider or anything.

its my first three i've ever recieved on this site and i've done this for about 2 years now..

its just a three i know but i mean i really dont think i deser...

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my friend got a boyfriend


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 10:02 pm

Hey! I'm not gonna use names, but my bff got a new boy toy and now she is totally ignoring me and all of her other friends so she can be with her gu 24/7. But I heard that he was gonna break with her. Should I wait until it happens or tell her. I'm afraid to tell her cause she may get mad at me! :I What do I do?

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No Friends


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 9:01 pm

ok soo summer is here and i thought i would be hanging out with my friends everyday..but none of my friends have called me..ive been hanging out with all new ppl because my old friends ahve not included n invited me to anything..i dont get it? i havent done nothing..what should i do? need your opinion

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