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I'm a psych major at a community college, getting my degree before I attend the Make Up Designory school. Makeup is my passion and my biggest inspiration is Kandee Johnson. I'm also addicted to music and kind of in love with Brian Fallon of The Gaslight Anthem :)

advice

okay i am an 12 year old male. and i like this girl at school and i keep on having sexual fantasies about her am i to young is this normal

Don't worry- you're normal. Guys especially do that sort of thing when they start puberty, it's just a phase.

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ive been crushing on this guy for a while and so i told my best friend. Her bf and the guy i like are good friends so i had him to talk to the guy. He said that he liked me but wasnt looking for a relationship right now. Its summer break so when school starts back up again should i go for it?? of move on.

Ask him when school starts. Say something like, "I know you said you weren't interested in a relationship, but I still like you. Do you think you're ready yet?" If he says no, get over it (not to be harsh, lol). Good luck!

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There is this guy who I can't stop thinking about and my BFF told me that he like me and was going to ask me out. I didn't believe her until one of his best buds told me the same thing. I was going to ask him myself but I really don't like asking guys out. So my friend told me not to cause he was going to ask me out at the end of the week. Well really I thought it was impossible for he to like me but he started talking to me more. Well the week passed and he didn't ask me out. now it summer break and I won't see him until August 4. I have his Phone# cause he told me to call him in my year book. I've tried but I didn't get an answer. What should I do. P.S. I'm 14 soon to be 15.

Why, ask him out of course! LOL. He must like you- almost no guys put their phone number in someone's yearbook "just cuz" like girls do. Call him and ask him to the movies with some of your friends and some of his friends. From there, move on to you and one or two couples...then just you! Good luck and make the most of your summer!

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HOW DO YOU START YOUR OWN WEB PAGE FOR FREE ?

Go to freewebs.com. It's free and they have a very easy editing tool that works like Microsoft Word. To get your own free .tk domain name, go to dot.tk. Good luck!

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i can't kiss my boyfriend. i said i wanted to and he said he wanted to and we do but we're both too shy. what do i do????

Talk about it again. Sya something like, "I know we both mentioned before that we watned to kiss each other, but I'm too shy to make the first move." Maybe he will! GOod luck!

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My legs aren't actually fat , they are just normal,maybe slightly bigger than usual . I used to love wearing skirts , especially mini skirts , until this guy told me that i had "fat legs " . How can i slim my legs down ? I have heard that doing squats and lifting your heels off of the ground help , so do they ? What excercises can help me tone my legs down without them getting more muscular ?
Thanks for your time =)

Don't! The guy who told you that obviously has low self-esteem and feels he must put you down to feel better. It is fine to work out a little though, check out magazines like YM and GL for easy workouts that don't take up too much time. Good luck!

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COULD BORING GET ANY MORE BORING!!! I'm stuck in the house with my little sister and it's sooo boring. The computer and tv and playstation are losing there fun...so any creative ideas on what i could do to when stuck in the house?? I'm 14 and a girl.

Here's a list of ideas:
- Start a decoupage project. Decoupage is the art of basically pasting bits of magazines, etc. onto boxes. It's easy and looks really cool.
- Make your own website by going to freewebs.com
- Visit spacefem.com and read some articles
- Bored.com!
- Write a story, song, or poem
- Invent a game
- Cook something

Good luck!

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wow! this friday i lost my cell phone..and i went a lil crazi..i was at a teennight place (which is a place where u met ppl and dance and shyt like that) and i was askin every1 if they saw my phone and i asked this one realli hot guy and i was like heyyy do u have my phone..and he was like no and i was like are u sure???...and he was like u can check me and i was like ok so i lifted up his shirt..OMG He has a 6pac..

It's okay- calm down. Everyone does something like that every once in a while, heaven knows I have too. Just put it behind you. No good relationship starts like that. Everyone makes mistakes. Good luck!

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im 15... i have noticed that there is cloudy substance on my thong constantly.. it is embrassing and sometimes smells... what is it what can i do am i normal?
*sCaReDdDdD*

yes, this is normal. it is, to put it scientifically, vaginal fluid. There's no way to stop it as far as I know...wear light colored undies though! And ask your doctor.

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Does anyone actually know why the Christina Aguilera/Chingy tour was cancelled? I was scheduled to go, and then the news stated that it had been cancelled. I heard that it's because Christina is undergoing a voice operation for more than 6 months. Is this the real reason? If anyone has any information, I'd love to hear it. Thanks tons. xox Mariah

Yeah, she had some sort of voice problem.

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There's this girl I thought was my friend, and she and I and a bunch of other people were talking, and someone said they didn't "get" the stock market, and she agreed. I asked what wasn't to get. The girl started asking me all these questions about the stock market, and when I would take the slightest time to think about my answer, she would give me this LOOK. Now she won't stop quizzing me about different aspects of the stock market, and trying to "prove me wrong," saying "Maybe you don't know as much as you think. Keep your mouth shut next time" and things like that. Why is she doing this? She's NEVER done anything like this to me before.

She's mad you know something she doesn't. Asking "what isn't there to get?" is kind of stuck up, though. Try to avoid statements like that in the future. You are kind of making of a big deal out of it though, don't worry so much.

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I liked this one guy for a little over a year. I was at a dance on Friday & was having fun, but then a slow song came on & he went & danced with this girl that I really dislike. As he was dancing w/ her, he kept smiling at me and staring at me. After that, I was dancing w/ a few of my friends, and he kept moving around so that he could see me. Then he went off during another slow song and danced with a total slut. He stared at me during that one, too. I'm really confused. What does it all mean?

First off, dancing isn't a big deal to guys. Second, he's j-e-a-l-o-u-s! He likes you. Give him one more chance by asking him out, but don't stress over it.

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i babysit for this young couple, and they have 2 kids, the guy is like 21 and he is sooooooooo cute, and ive become friends with him, and the other night we were talking and he leaned in to kiss me, so we kissed and then he like got up and said it was time he took me home, he isnt happily married, he only married her cuz she was pregnant and i have a crush on him, im 17 by the way, what should i do???????......Alisha

It doesn't matter whether or not they're happily married. They're still married. Do you really want the reputation of a mistress? No one likes that kind of person. Get over him unless you want a reputation as a slut. Sorry to be so harsh but I hate hate hate people like that, a woman like that ruined my family and I hate her so much. Do you really want to upset the kids by a divorce? Cuz they WILL hate you eventually...Don't do it!

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how do lesbians have sex?

erm...well....they don't get further than oral.

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Im redoing my room this summer, and im goin to paint it and get new things for it and i was wondering what color of pink ur room is and where u shop for the things in ur room? ThaNx LoTz :)

Oh Smart One, ur on the sex board. Try Home DEcorating or something like it.
BTW pbteen.com has gr8 furniture. :)

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17/f
Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly

I know how you feel- I used to have a boyfriend who was a drug dealer. It can be confusing. Ignore people's opinion- YOU like him! You have to let him know that you won't drink a lot or smoke, and that you don't want any pressure to. If he blows you off, forget it. ALso tell him that it bothers you when he fights because you care about him....ask him if he'd like to see you get hurt. All in all, if he respects you, go for it. If not, sorry. Good luck!

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in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked lisa behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.

-confused

Phew, long question! lol. Well, first off, he probably didn't talk to you when you guys were about to break up because he was bercous/shy. Also how do you know his friend was telling the truth? Also maybe he wasn't trying to get revenge on you. I think you both need to leave your friends out of this and discuss things. Let him know what you feel. I'm guessing you're confused right now. Tell him you don't want to be hurt again, and give him a chance to explain. Take tihngs from there. He might even be pretending to like A to make you jealous! (I know, guys are weird.) Don't obsess over him, and distract yourself if things don't work out. (A day of chocolates, Kleenex, sleeping, and movies usually works.) Good luck!

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im 16 and my bf is 17 and his penis is about 5.5
inches long and it takes a few minutes for his penis to get hard is this a normal thing?
He's a bit insecure about his size is there anything i can do to help him?

I can understand why he'd be insecure about that. He might think he's "unmanly" because of this problem. The best thing to do is for him to see a doctor. Even if nothing is wrong, he can still feel more secure by asking his doctor questions. Meanwhile, hold off on having sex for a bit and just concentrate on seeing each other. Support him (sounds cliche i know) and don't make a big deal out of it. This kind of thing is quite normal. GOod luck!

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i have been with this guy (lets call him 'N') for almost a year now. i am only 14 years old, and i think i love this guy. i mean i can't stop thinking about him. and i get this funny feeling everytime i see him. im happy all the time, and i can't seem to stop smiling. i can talk with N about anything and i know he feels the same way. his friends come up to me telling me how he always says the nicest things about me-- and stuff. but am i too young to fall in love?

It may sound cliche, but you're never too young to be in love. He sounds like a great guy so don't worry and just enjoy your relationship!

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Some people think teens are depressing
But im not im just expressing
My thought and feelings
Bout people and all the killings
But what about all the news
About drunks filled with booze
So if a lil poem is bad
then what about the sad
Look at this pity war
Is it me or is this for
someone to be put in history
For what
......a mystery?

Too cliche.

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