I'm a psych major at a community college, getting my degree before I attend the Make Up Designory school. Makeup is my passion and my biggest inspiration is Kandee Johnson. I'm also addicted to music and kind of in love with Brian Fallon of The Gaslight Anthem :)


hey..i was wonderin does anyone know of any self-tanners that aren't too expensive and work really well? my homecomings in a week and i dont wanna look pale white with my open-back outfit!

Try Coppertone Endless Summer, available at Walmart and drugstores. They also make one for faces.

Have fun at your homecoming!


ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do?

Wait a bit- I don't know how old you are but you really can't know this guy that well if you've only been going out with him for a week, and he doesn't really know you either. Honestly, wait at least a month. Even with a condom and/or birth control, you can still get pregnant and/or get an STD.

Hope I helped!


im 14 and i get erections quite a lot i was with a girl when i got one it was abit embarrissing
is this normal? My penis is about 5.5 inches long is that about average?

Of course, all guys are embarassed about stuff like that- in your teen years you can get erections because of the most random things. Just realize that the girl probably didn't even notice. I mean, I wouldn't, and even if I did, it's not like I'd tell anyone, and neither would most girls.
As for the size, I'm not a doctor so I can't give you a professional opinion, but that sounds about average to me. Every guy is different!

Hope I helped!


well ok i have a friend thats a gay guy and i know it wrong that i hang out with him juts to make my crush mad!!but i think its fun bc we check out guys together and and we even shop together!! is this soooo wrong??????

No, a lot of girls actually prefer having gay guy friends cuz u can do fun stuff like that and he won't try to make a move on you.


Hey im going to my first football game wut should i wear got any ideas or how i should do my hair?

It depends on what the weather is like where you live, but a poncho and jeans is cute and autumn-ish. For your hair, try a messy bun or ponytail. Just keep it natural and scream really loud for your team! Have fun!


Hey, theres this girl in my pe class and I think she might like me. Well, I kinda like her too though. She acts kinda like it and gives me hugs sometimes and stuff and jokes around with me and stuff, and she seems like she always brings the topic of Homecomming up to her friend, lets call her Jenny. Anyways so she always says to Jenny that sits next to her when we sit on numbers for role call that she needs a date for Homecomming. But... I'm kinda scared to ask her to Homecomming because I don't know what to do.. I mean I know you go out to dinner and stuff and the guy drives the girl... but I don't have a car yet do I have my dad or mom drive us to the restaurant and then to the dance? I know to get her flowers or a corsage... ugh I don't know what to do! Someone tell me what to do about this and what should I get her and pretty much walk me thru the date! I mean like I could go with my friends or her friends because she says to her friend that all her friends are going to this fancy restauraunt with their dates and she wont get to go unless she has a date... so who drives and stuff? What do I do.... Help, I'm 14/m.
Sorry if this was a little long.

Aw! It sounds like she likes you and is trying to hint about homecoming. For asking her, almost every girl LOVES it when a guy gives her flowers, so I'd recommend giving her some and asking her. A lot of guys at my school have been doing that and it really works! Maybe you can ask her to be your gf at the dance near the end.

As for the actual date, have your mom or dad pick her up, then you guys could go to the restruant with her friends. When you pick her up, get out, open the car door for her, and give her the corsage- I recommend the pin-on kind. Basically treat her well, do polite things like opening the door for her, girls love that. HAng out with her and her friends, maybe introduce her to your friends at the dance (it'll make her feel special). Then at the end of the night ask her to be your girlfriend.

GooD LucK!

Edit: You go to Amador too? That's soooo weird...Are you a freshman?


I just heard of a friend that if you cut your pubic hairs it heightens the chance of getting lice down there. This has shocked me because I myself cut them because of their length, and I am getting concerned about this. I was wondering if anyone knew any information about this, or any good sites where I could find out some information. Im totally flippin out about this lol. I'm a 17 year old male by the way. Any advice would be good. Thanx :-)

Nope, you can't get lice down there and cutting it won't make a difference.


i asked this question already but i didnt get the answer i was looking for. i have naturally frizzy wavy hair. after i straighten it looks perfect but once i step outside where it is really humid ( i live in PA) my hair turns back into a friz ball. the only way it stays nice and straight is if i leave it in a low ponytail till around 11 then i put it down and it ussually stays straight till i get home from school. i tryed hairspray but it doesnt work well enough and i dont have the money for expensive shampoos

It's hard to keep your hair nice in the humidity, I used to live in New Jersey so I know what it's like, but here are some ideas:

- Try straightening your hair at night then leaving it in a low ponytail while you sleep.

- Garnier Fructis Smoothing Milk works really well for me to keep my hair smooth and flat. It's available at Walmart at most drugstores. It's about $3 but will last a long time. You can use it whenever your hair starts to feel frizzy, I usually do it at lunch and after school. If the container's too big, you can put it in a travel lotion bottle.

- If you want to splurge, try John Frieda Frizz-Ease Serum (http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=43356&catid=3562&trx=PLST-0-SRCH&trxp1=3562&trxp2=43356&trxp3=1&trxp4=0&btrx=BUY-PLST-0-SRCH). If you can't afford that some drugstores sell sample packets of it.

- Try a mousse after you straighten, I like L'oreal (http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=14361&catid=3562&trx=PLST-0-SRCH&trxp1=3562&trxp2=14361&trxp3=1&trxp4=0&btrx=BUY-PLST-0-SRCH). Make sure to spread it EVENLY on your hair not putting too much on the top, otherwise you'll get "triangle hair syndrome" (lol).

- You can always try a stronger hairspray, Walmart has travel sized bottles for a buck each, so you can afford to experiment.

I hope I helped. Bonne chance!


If you've never gotten your period and you have sex, then you can't get pregnant, am I correct?

Oh, and I'm not that young, so don't be like if you haven't gotten your period, then your not old enough, lets just say I'm in High school

You're right (and lucky). However you CAN still get an STD.


I have 2 change schools in 2 weeks and i wont no any1 @ my new school and + ive never been 2 a public school before. What should i do?

Just be friendly and be yourself and people will like you. A lot of times you'll have to say hi first, take the initiative. Bonne chance!


I know that I might sound a little jealous or over protective but just put yourself in my shoes for a minute.... Ok my boyfriend cheated on me a couple weeks ago and I gave him another chance, but I can't trust him anymore, Well tonite he is goin over to his ex-girlfriends house to help her with her "homework", i am really worried and I am also scared.. I was messing around and asked him if I said it was ok if he would do something with his ex and he said hell ya and I said well im not giving you permission. But do you really think that is going to stop him? Any ways i am really confused.. if you help me I will definetly rate you!! thanks

You need to confront him and let him know you're uncomfortable with the situation. He sounds like a jerk, to tell you the truth, and he might brush you of. If he does this, I'd recommend breaking up with him. You deserve a better guy than that. Bonne chance!


I might fail one of my classes because my teacher doesn't explain the work or go over it. The class i'm in is so behind on work what can i do.

Ask your parents about hiring a tutor, or ask your teacher for some after-school help. Bonne chance!


ok well i got my first period almost 2 years ago and i had it some what regular for the first 6 monthes or so, but ive only had it twice in the past year and a half. what should i do?

Actually, your period can be irregular for the first couple of years. All girls are different though; you could just be lucky and not get it very often. If it keeps up, I'd recommend seeing your doctor. Bonne chance!


can girls call boys their "baby" like they call us that?? what other names o you call them besides .. 'babe...ect..'

Okay here are some ideas:
~ Babe/Babes
~ Handsome
~ Cutie
~ Sweetie
~ Hottie


If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?

You can't.


im 15 year old male.

okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.

Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.

She sounds really shy. I think you guys need to go on a date alone. Mention to her that you'd like to go to the movies, just the two of you, and try to be as gentle and understanding as you can. Good lucK!


I don't know where to put this. Anyway, when I wash my hair I just use normal shampoo, whatever is in the shower. But my hair is sensitive, I have this scalp...thing and it makes my hair look really dirty really easily. If I use too much moose, gel, or spray, it looks oily and dirty and makes my scalp flake. Nasty, I know. But I was wondering if there are any shampoos or products I could use that aren't that strong, but would give my hair a really straight, sleek, shiny look without making my hair look greasy? Thanks for any help.

Try Suave Clarifying Shampoo, which you can probably find at your local drugstore- it's only a buck and works really well. If that doesn't do it, try looking for shampoos that clarify. Good luck!


Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged?

Congrats! I do think you're a little too young though. Not to sound cliche, but if he really loves you he'll wait. I think 16 is a better age for you (if you can't wait until you're 18). You'll need your parents input on this, however. Good lucK!


I have a bunch of new stuff on my computer but im scared to open it up because last time i did it, it messed my computer up lol. Do any of you know what Perfectexpert or wordperfect is and does? thanks!

I don't know about perfectexpert but wordperfect is Corel Word Perfect, which is a word processing program like Microsoft Word, but better. Good lucK!


Okay, so I only just turned 13, and I want to become a professional singer.

I've always wanted to be one. Now I want to be one so bad I'll do anything. After seeing JoJo become a singer and she's only 13, I think I could do it too.

What I need to know is where I can go to shove my singing career off the ground. I've had private lessons on singing, and the only problem is I have stage fright of singing infront of people.

I just need to know 2 things. Places I can take my singing career further, and how to overcome my fear.


Well, first of all, you're definetly going to need to invest some money in this, so maybe you sohuld talk to your parents. First of all, look for some books about singing at your local library or bookstore, I recommend:
Singing Like The Stars
This is a very through complete guide that will really help.

If you really want to make it, you should probably write some songs. Here are some guidebooks for that:
Songwriting: A Complete Guide to the Craft
The Craft of Lyric Writing
Songwriting for Dummies
If you don't get the others, definetely get this one.

As much as I'd like to tell you exactly what to do next, there isn't enough room, so I recommend that you read this guide from SoYouWanna.com.
So You Wanna...
Get signed to a record label? http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/recordlabel/recordlabel.html.

I hope I helped!




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