This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=

Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.

I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.

I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.


i have this like bump/pimply like thing on my vagina. could it be an STD? im like freaking out about it. what could it be?

It could be either a pimple or an ingrown hair.

If you are not sexually active, it's most definately not an STD. If you are sexually active then you might want to get it out. However, odds are it's just a pimple or an ingrown hair. Pop it and if a hair comes out.. It was an ingrown hair.


help me if you know how to get glow stick off carpets, walls, sofas ,body, cloths ,etc.... playglow is the company is it toxic? ...thanxs

It eventually comes off. You can try water and soap but it will stop glowing. And if you look on the box/wrapper of the sticks it will tell you whether or not it is toxic.


Ok well this guy i know well is a man whore basically but i got to know him for like a year and i really like fell inlove with him i mean he is a real funny guy and i knew at that point he wasnt just trying to get in my pants...then we started having an interest in eachother then like around year later we had sex and it happens all the time now but like im not going on with him cuz we both dont want to have bf or a gf but he goes out on the weekends and fucks random girls...but idk if hes in love with me probably not but does that make me a hoe that im still fucking this guy bc im inlove with him knowing he probably isnt inlove with me and that he goes and be's a hoe on the weekends?

No it doesn't. If you were out there doing the same shit he was doing, then I could see you getting the lable of being a hoe.

Even though the feeling is not mutual, you are doing it because you love him. Having sex with someone you LOVE is not a big deal. Whether or not they love you back is a different story.

It's ONE guy. Not 5 not 10. Just one. I will warn you, having sex with someone will make you emotionally attatched to them. If you're already in love with him, having sex with him is going to make you even MORE attatched. And he seems like a typical guy.. But he could be the type that will just get sick of you and say "Hey, I don't want to talk to you anymore".

So you just have to know that he might end up hurting you, and being as emotionally attatched as you are can cause problems for you in the future.

Best of luck.


I'm almost 21 and I admit it my boyfriend and I don't always use a condom, but I've been on the pill for years and never had an issue. Till recently when I was sick, the Dr gave me antibiotics but didn't tell me that they would make my birthcontrol inaffective. To make matters worse I forgot to start my newest round of pills after my last cycle. For two weeks now I've been waiting patiently for any signs that my period is coming and nothing has happened other than nausa and dizzyness, and being un able to zip up a dress I made a month ago. I haven't had the courage to take the test yet, mostly cause I'm pretty positive about what it will say. But now here comes the hard part how do I tell my boyfriend that by this time next year we could very well be parents, how do I tell him that because of one little known fact and my preoccupation with my job on campus that our whole lives are about to change. I need some advice from people outside of my cirlce of friends and family someone who has nothing to gain or lose.

First of all, you need to take a test. Or, at least go to the gyno or doctor, have them to bloodwork on you and they can test for the pregnancy hormone level.

My question to you is when you and your boyfriend had sex, when he climaxed did he cum inside of you? If he did, then the chances of you being pregnant are very very high which you seem to know already. If he didn't, the chances are really not that big, there is a chance but not a huge one. You must must must take a pregnancy test. All of this waiting and worrying, believe me is NOT making it any better for you. So, for the sake of your sanity take the test.

Easiest way to tell him is to just sit him down and be straight up. Don't hold anything back tell him everything you told us. He should be understanding because it's his responsibility too. Once you take the test, which the two of you should do TOGETHER by the way, if it turns out positive then you two need to sit down and discuss how you are going to handel the situation. If you will keep it, abortion (Not a good thing to do), or adoption.

Me not believing in abortion, I would for the two of you suggest adoption if you in fact are pregnant. You're young and you have your whole life ahead of you and if you cannot see yourselves being able to handel a child then you should give up the baby.

But please, before you jump to conclusions you need to take a pregnancy test. You never know, for all you know it can turn out negative.

I wish you the best of luck.


I didn't know exactly where to go to ask my question, but i found this site. I've been having cramping/bleeding/small blood clots and I'm pregnant. I was at the hospital the other night and they said that either I'm having a misscarriage or it's too early to see my baby on ultersound because they saw nothing. I'm suppose to be going back to get more blood taken from me to check my pregnancy level, see if it doubles or not but, I've been reading on other internet sites that sometimes bleeding/cramping doesn't mean misscarriage. I just really want to know if it could be something else, and how is it to early to see my baby? I mean how early could I be?

Well, it would have helped greatly if you told us how far along you are. Because, if you are only a few weeks into your pregnancy you really cannot see the baby.

It is still possible to get somewhat of a "period" while pregnant and not miscarry. You will bleed and/or spot and cramp while on this "period". Alot of women don't actually know they are pregnant because of this "period".

I suppose you can only wait to see how your bloodwork will come back. Other than that... There isn't much anyone on this website can do for you. We aren't doctors and I'm sure that it would be helpful if we were and if we were to examine you.

All I can tell you to do is to wait it out until you get your bloodwork done and have them give you another ultrasoud.


hi. im a 23 year old woman. i wanted to know if its harmful to swallow semen. can you even tell me what are the contents of semen? thankyou.
by the way im from United Arab Emirates(Dubai).

Not in any way harmful. I actually heard it's quite healthy for you. Disgusting, but healthy. However it's loaded with carbs and can make you gain weight if you swallow it too much.


hi, well i have a cockatiel and need to know some stuff about it:

1.whats the sex of my cockatiel? its gray with a pale yellow face. just the face, the back of the head isnt yellow. the crest is grey and yellow. the tail is in bad condition, and some feathers have white dots on them, just like inside the wings. a couple tail feathers are pure black.
2. what does the term "hen plucking" mean? when i got it the man said it had hen plucked(or something like that, i cant remember)is it anything to do with pluckin feathers, because some of the feathers look like they have been bitten.
3. why does my cockatiel shake its head sometime?

thanks in advance, hope you can help me


I believe you mean hen PECKING?http://www.wordwebonline.com/en/HENPECK

And I couldn't tell you why it shakes it's head. Maybe he's trying to ruffle it's feathers. I remember when I had a bird he used to shake his head alot... Nothing was ever wrong with him so I'm sure it's a normal thing for birds, or cocatiels to do.

Maybe you should take the bird to a vet and he/she could sex your bird for you because they would know much better than I could.


first of all, i am 14, and my brother and his friend are 15

K well my brother and this kid named jon have been best friends for 5 years right... and ever since i first saw jon there was something there, sparks, firworks, love at first sight! what ever you feel like calling it... and well we both liked eachother from then on and then about 1 year ago we went out for 6 months, but it was a secret becuse i knew my brother wouldnt aprrovew, well then he found out and i jon and me ended up braking up (not because we didnt like eachother, but because of mybrother) see, jon is the kind of guy who wants his girlfriends parents to like him and aproove and all, and well to say the least, my parents did not like him. an dhim and my brother quite talking and practicaly hated eachother. And now, about 1 year after we broke up, we have been talking and he still likes me and i still like him! i guess my question is should i go with my love?? or should i respect my brother and not go out with jon?

I can see where you are coming from, it's a tricky situation to be trying to please yourself and others at the same time. It's like, you want to make yourself happy and yet you can't disrespect your family by doing so.

But in all honesty, I would completely follow your heart. Have a conversation with your brother and tell him that you're sorry if he doesn't approve, but you cannot help the way that you feel and that you don't want to disrespect him but YOU want to be happy, and that means being with Jon. I'm sure that he won't be happy about it, but he will eventually get used to it.

I'm sure he's acting this way because you are his little sister and he feels that he has to be the over protective brother. In a way, I wish my brother were like that. My older brother does not give a damn about what I do, who I date, etc.

But if you find happiness with this boy, go for it. If it makes you happy then do it.

Your next issue is your parents... You can't disrespect your parents by dating him if they don't care for him. Maybe you should talk to them and tell them that if they really sat down and talked to him that they'd see he's a really great guy.

Best of luck to you and Jon.


does anyone know where I can get some aim profiles other then buddy4u ?

If you have a Xanga account, go to Blogrings and type in AIM profiles in the search bar and there are xanga accounts there that have nice ones. You'll find what you're looking for.


he took me to the dance last night and I just couldn't dance with him!!!!!! I told him that I was the chicken that's still in the egg and hasn't got the courage and will power to come out!!!(the chicken is refering to me!!!!) I hung out more with my friends than I did with him!!!! I feel like I'm the worst person in the world( which I know I'm not). we were supposed to go skating today around 1:00 and I told him to call but he hasn't and my nanna erased his number off of the phone and I can't find it in the phone book!!!!!!! help me please!!!!!!! I need some advice and I don't know what to do!!!!!!!

I'm sorry, but I don't understand why it's such a huge issue...

If he goes to your school why don't you tell him on Monday that you were sorry you didn't spend as much time as you thought you would with him, and chose to hang around your friends rather than him. If he's an understanding guy, he'll be okay with it and there should be no problem.

Now, as for the issue of not having his number... If you have one of his friend's phone numbers give them a ring and ask them for it, or you can wait until he calls you [which he most likely WILL do at one point].

You are not the worst person in the world, trust me that's not the worst thing you could have done to a guy, and I'm sure that he knows that as well.


Is there a hair rinse or something that will rinse all the hair dye out of my hair (semi permanemt)?

I dont want to re-dye my hair my natural color, I just want to rinse it allllllll out.

Are there any such products?

Unfortunately, there is no such product.

I suppose you'd have to wait the 4-6 weeks it takes for it to fade away or re-dye your hair which you already said you did not want to do.


okay, i had forgotten my password to here.
so i got a new one sent to my email address. however, its all confusing numbers. how do i change it now that i am logged in?
please help as soon as possible

Go to profile settings

->Under Part one you will see Password (only if you wish to change it)
->Type in new password
->Then type in password again to reconfirm then hit SUBMIT or nothing changes =)


I asked a question earlier, on what the big deal girls had over celebrities and athletes with a six pack. I got great answers to that question, but then something else struck me when I read one of the answers I got:

- answered Monday June 12 2006, 10:51 pm:

***Oh and something you want to avoid: mentioning ANYTHING about a girl celebrity. Like "Man she is hot!" Because your girfriend will not be with you too much longer after you do that. ***

The part I put in stars struck me, but why though? It's very true, and a lot of my guy friends have told me stories about when their girlfriends got mad or upset with them for saying a celebrity was hot. I'm not asking for the rights to go around saying so, or that I want to either, but what I have noticed is that a lot of the girls do that too. I've heard about maybe every single celebrity out there from girls, even my girlfriend, but even when I mention one [which I've always tried not to] I get a bad reaction and they are offended, sometimes mad.

So should I say something to my girlfriend about that? I mean I see it as unfair, mostly because while I have tried to say something to her about the situation, I hear the: oh but I have you and thats what I really care about... but I try saying that too and its not acceptable. What do you think? Thanks.

It's this whole double standard bullshit. Just like a girl can hit a guy but a guy can't hit a girl?

Same thing sort of. If a guy sleeps with a girl he's a pimp. If a girl does it, she's a hoe. It's all just a double standard.

Also, girls are just jealous bitches. Hell, I would know I am one. But me, I'm not like all girls. It doesn't bother me if my boyfriend were to say that so and so is hot. Only if it's a celebrity. Because I know he'll never meet them. If he says it about one of my friends, then I'd get upset because I know that he knows them.

Honestly, all I can really tell you is that girls are jealous, obnoxious bitches. Just tell your girlfriend that it does bother you when she calls other guys hot, because it makes you feel less about yourself.

Odds are, she'll say that she means nothing by it. That's one thing I don't agree with. I totally understand where you're coming from, and I feel for you bro, I really do.

I know this probably didn't help much, but I'm just letting you know how girls are. Best of luck to ya =)


please please please please help me! how can you email pictures from a phone to a computer?? i have verison, razr and i desperately need to know this before tomorrow. i need details too!!!

if thats not possible, how can i get pics on my phone w/o buying software??????

When you take the picture, send it as a normal picture message, but in the address you send it to, type in the email address and send it.

So, if you have the picture already saved, press send picture (I'm not sure the EXACT steps to do it on the razr because I don't have the phone infront of me).

If you know how to send a normal picture message, do it that way. Then in the address part type in the email address and you should be good to go.


If it is you and your partners first time having sex ever, is it even possible for one of you to get an std from the partner?

It is HIGHLY unlikely, but it is possible. There's probably a 99.9% chance you won't.

The only way I could think of it happening, is lets just say the female used a "foreign object" for masturbation, and found out that someone had used it before her and they had an STD then the female went and had sex. Then you could get it. But, what the hell are the odds of that happening?

So even though the answer is yes it is possible, it's highly unlikely. So, there's really nothing to worry about. Just use a condom and all will be well =)


I have some best friends, and I have a very best friend. Well we are goin to high school next year. Do you think theres a good chance we will stay best bets friends? JW for your opinon. Tanks i will rate ya!

I'm sure you will stay friends, but you may not remain the best of friends all through highschool.

Highschool changes EVERYTHING. I lost almost all my friends when I went into highschool, they all turned to druggies and sluts and I wasn't into that scene.

I'm not saying this is going to happen with you and your friends, but it definately could. But what I suggest you do is spend as much time together as possible in highschool, that will keep you all close.

But, if you all end up not staying friends you always make new and better friends in highschool. I made the two best friends in the entire world in highschool and it sucks because the are moving in August.

Just don't let highschool drama get to you, cause that's what will tear you guys apart.


does anyone know where to get camis that are kinda long that covers your whole stomach? and i also want the very cheap ones.. like i dont want a cami for 10$ .. thanks

TJ Max
JC Penny
Or, at American Eagle in the clearance section.


alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do.

No it's not weird at all. Your friends obviously found someone they wanted to do that with, or they did it just to feel "cool" which is what alot of girls do.

Don't just put yourself out there and be like HERE I AM BOYS COME AND GET ME! Wait until you are ready to be with a guy in a way that your friends have been. If you're scared, then that's normal. You're young, you don't need to be rushing into anything because all your friends are doing it.

Once you find someone that you are comfortable enough with to be with like that, then go for it. As for right now, just don't be throwing yourself around and acting like a whore. (Not saying your friends are whores, FYI)


ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
(i rate)

When you're ready, you will know. It's good that he's not pressuring you into anything. When you are ready, you should feel a little nervous, just as anyone would.

The amount of pain depends on how "tight" you are there and how big he is. The tighter you are and the larger he is the more pain. You won't bleed profusely. Odds are you may not even bleed. If you do, it's not much at all.

The best thing to do is to talk to him about it, the more you two talk about it the more ready you will feel because you'll feel more comfortable.

I'm not going to say that you're too young. Because I know what it's like to be 15 and in love. The way I see it, sex is something to be shared with someone that you TRUELY love and care for, and same for them. You two have been together for a while, and you clearly love eachother. So, don't listen to anyone when they say you are too young. When you're ready to do it, don't let anyone stop you.

Of course, you'll get the normal lecture on getting pregnant. So ALWAYS protect yourself. If you aren't on birth control, consider going on it. You can ask your mother to go on it to help with cramps and to keep your period on a normal schedule. If she doesn't let you ALWAYS wear a condom. You CAN get pregnant from precum. So, if you aren't on birth control, use a condom. Hell, even if you are on birth control still use a condom. The safer, the better.

Best of luck to you and yours.


Is a tomato a fruit or a veggie???? There are a few of us wondering!

It's a fruit. Vegetables grow from the ground, fruits grow on trees/vines. Tomatoes grow on vines.


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