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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?

If your paranoid, you may want to see him before. But i doubt you are, so you probably dont need to. You may want to meet up eith him first, just for safety reasons=) ♥ Julia

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I know this sounds wierd, but what are the bra sizes (smallest to biggest)

aaa, aa, b, c, d, e, f, g, h, i,

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well theres this girl who dumped me today.im really sad . i wanna try to get over her but i dont think i can ;-)got any advice julia

im sorry=(im me about it=)

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i have a friend that gets mad so easily..one day he called me and said he was gonna work on his car, and i said that was fine. he gets online and says hey, and i was like hey then he said he had to go and puts up an away message. well, i had to tell him something so i was like "wait.." and he goes, "i told i had to work on my car why are you still talking?" and i said "i just wanted to ask you something" and he goes "well thats too bad" then he left again..and he came back and apologized and told me he was so sorry..and he has this big problem with being all mad and stuff and he just gets like that. He said i was the only one that could help him get out of it..what do i do? im so lost:(

Just sit down with him and see what seems to be making him get so frustrated, my great friend tori helped me get out of my phase during 4th and 5th grade. Her username is LiLQTPiE8505, so ask her, shell really be able to give you some great advice=) ♥ Julia

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Yesterday and today I was with my friend, and when I'm with my friend I'm really hyper n stuff. When she left my boyfriend called and said that he doesn't like when I act the way I do, and he'd rather me act the way I do around my friends n stuff. I do act allot differently. I try not to I'm just really shy when I'm just with my boyfriend. What should I do?

That wasnt a nice thing for your bf to so at all, and it seems like you dont like him that much if you act shy and stuff around him. But if you really do like him, then you should try hanging out with him and your friends more often, because then youll feel a lot more comfortable around him than if you were just with him alone. Thats the best way to start breaking away from being really shy around him. =) Hope I helped please rate me!! ♥ Julia

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Ok ive always kind hav been a ladies man... well latly ive been seeing guys in different ways... im afraid to tell anyone but i really think im starting to like a guy...PLEASE HELP ME

You should sit down and write down questions for yourself and answer them compared to what you "used to like". If you really are gay, theres nothing at all wrong with that,but the best thing you need to do is to tell someone you trust about this. If you decide you aren't gay, then you may be bisexual, you might like girls and guys, which is great too=) ♥ Julia

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When I started Junior High, I noticed this guy and he seemed pretty cool. At first I kind of thought he was weird because of the way he looked (long hair,converse high-tops..etc) but then I got to know him and sort of developed a crush on him. By the end of 7th grade I became OBSESSED and one night with a box cutter, I just carved his name into my arm. He never noticed. It seemed like he had a crush on me too for a while, he would call me things like "cutie" and "sweetie" . The beginning of the year he seemed like he liked me still, and I hadn't told him about my scar. I needed to get it off my chest, so I told my friend who has him 6th period to tell him and she did. After school he looked scared and luckily he didn't see me. The next few days he would look at me and the stare at the ground. He supposedly said he "hated me" because I carved his name into my arm. It doesn't make sense, how could he change his feelings that quickly? Now he thinks I'm this weirdo. What should I do? I still have major feelings for him, even though I don't show it. Because I feel like I can't. Please help me.

You can't erase what you did on your arm...but you can talk to him about it. Tell him you really care about his feelings and that your sorry it bothered him. If he's a nice guy, he'll forgive you, but if not, he'll keep on acting like a weird mean person. If so, it's time to move on.=) ♥ Julia

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Well see i ask this girl to be my gf she said yes but it doesnt really sound like she likes me im wonder what to do. And how to find out if she really likes me:-)lol Cole

sry, i do though, at least i hope its me...lol

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online some of my friends say: sos when i ask whats up. i dont know what sos means and i would feel so stupid to ask one of them!

sibling over shoulder

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does anyone know how do put icons and things like that one our adive column? thanks a bunch

for a background, get a google image, then paste the full size thing to the background url, and for a picture, save the picture, then where it says upload a picture of you, click browse, and click the picture=) ♥ Julia

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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.


I apologize for the length.

I'm sooo sorry about this, it cant be easy handling this!! Just remember, everything happens for a reason, and you tried your best to protect your friend from this, but its just too bad it never paid off. If any of this was your fault, wouldnt you be on trial also? Go to the funeral, its going to be verrry sad, but I bet your friend would be very disapointed if you didnt go. Don't be afraid to cry, but remember to smile about all the great times you had together. =)Hope I helped, and best of luck!! ♥ Julia

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i have really really REALLY sweaty armpits and i need advice on wut kinda deoderant would actually work for me.. its really very embaressing and its really embaressing to ask u all rite now so please don't reply and make fun of me... neway cya hope u can help

First of all, make sure whenever you shower, you wash them with a good shower gel, and always use dry stick, the white stuff, because its the BEST=) ♥ Julia

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the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?

making out is more extreme, so french kissing=) ♥ Julia

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well im going out with this boy my 2 friends but i like him alot alot and they want me to dump him and i dont want to dump him cuz i like him ALOT but my 2 friends want me 2 and if i dont they arent ever going to talk to me again

what should i do???

Think about it, friends are forever, but bf's last maybe a few years. but if yuor really desperate, then talk to your friends about this. Fights between a guy are always soo immature, so dont make this one and slove it beofre it really starts=) ♥ Julia

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My boyfriend and i were together for almost 4 months.. and i fell in love with him.. we never really got to see each other.. and we both cheated on each other. But we were in love, so it didnt really matter. He broke up with me a few days ago.. i begged and pleaded and tried everything to get him back. I just want it all to be ok. I cried for 2 days.. and I wrote him a letter explaining all my feelings and how much fun I had with him. The letter made me feel a little better.. but I just need a way to get him off my mind.. its horrible..

please help me! i rate 5s

Try to go out and see all the better people out there for you, like the mall, or even places like your school. You never know who may be out their, but make sure your having fun, cause then it wont be so hard=) ♥ Julia

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I have a boyfriend, Justin. We have been going out for what will be two months tomorrow. Anyways, he came over Friday to hang out and stuff. When he went to leave he said he would call me when/if they got home. It's Monday and he still hasn't called. Now, I'm the type of person that totally stresses over things like this. I'll play out every situation in my mind and possible outcomes.

Of course, they did have to go back and paint a house, and they are moving, but that wouldn't be it I don't think. What if he doesn't like me anymore or he doesn't want to talk to me? Ah, I'm totally stressed and it's so dumb. I just, can't see myself without him and I don't know. I know I'm being totally stupid, but could someone offer some advice? What should I do or what could have possibly happened? Thanks! And if you want a little more info, IM me! askchristeena

You have to call him yourself!! You need to see why he hasnt called you, because he may have something decent to say, but if not, leave him, there are plenty of better guys out there=) ♥ Julia

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okay..well there is this boy i like...his name is mike..an well i was talking to him online not to long ago...an we pretty much just met. he probly only saw me like 2 times..an well i told him i like him just last week an we were talkin online the other day an he said he liked me too...an yeah but he wants us to meet up somewhere...an im okay with that its just that....what should i do...i mean he only saw me about 2 times this year an we onyl talk alot online...so yeah..what should i say to him....?? HELP ME PLEASE...i rate VERY good

No doubt, you should meet up!! But its a better idea to give him your phone number, so youll know its actully him=)

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i like this guy and i have for awhile. and then someone finally told him that i liked him and he said that he liked me a little. and then it became vacation and i havent talked to him in a awhile but i still like him and i don't think that he will like me @ all nemore. how do i make him like me? should i still like even if he doesnt like me?

Never quit liking someone just because they dont like you, youll find it reallly hard to move on. You cant make someone like you no matter what, and if they dont like you for who you are, just remember, its their loss=)

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My best friend has OCD... and she reminds me of it like 24/7. Whenever she leaves the house she asks like over and over if she left sumthin on and such. I keep reminding her that OCD is just that she is detailed and stuff like that (my parents are both doctors and explained it). It's driving me NUTS! help! what do I do?

This may sound weird, but thats probably part of her OCD, being obsessed with OCD. Tell her that you know its hard and everything, but if she minds toning it down a bit, and trying really hard not to obsess over it. =)

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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please.

Whatever you do, dont bring up his gf, because then he will obviously know that sumthins up, and he'll get kinda worried ya know? I know what your talking about with the gf and everything, but dont get yuor hopes up, cause then youll probably end up dissappointed. Time will tell if he realy likes you or not, but if yuor desperate, tell him, and you never know=)

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