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Hey Julia!
Ok, well i need you. theres this guy who askes me out a lot, but i just REALLY care about him, and only like him a lil. Then this REALLY hot guy who i like, but i dont know if he likes me. I dont wanna ask, or it will be weird if he says no, but should i wait for the guy who i might never get? or should i go out with the guy who i REALLY care for and only kinda like?
Thanks!

I think the best overall choice would be to try to find out if the guy you like likes you. Cause if he does...then yeah=) But if he doesnt, then go with the guy you like a little bit. But if you honestly dont like him enough, then dont be his gf. You are lucky, you have a win-win situation=) goos luck!! ♥ Julia

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okay, ive been working out everyday for like 2 weeks now and ive been getting into REALLy good shape. . but i havent really been loosing weight, just getting really tone.. the thing is, i eat ALOT. not like fattening foods, its healthy/okay foods. but i just like overload on it i guess.. and i HATE the idea of "eating in moderations".. its so hard! once u take a bite out of something, you just want to eat more.. any good motivational tips that would help me eat in moderations?? thanks =]

Yeah, you really should, and the reason why you may not be losing weight is that when you work out a lot, you get lots of muscle, and muscle weighs more than fat. Try to keep yourself verrry busy, because then its less tempting to eat because you have other things to worry about.

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Does anyone know how I can get custom shoes? Like I can make them with whatever colors I want. Thanks.

www.nike.com

x♥x♥---Julia

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Theres stains all over my clothes and my carpet (from food and dirt and such). Ive tried using detregent on it but the stains arent coming out. What should I use on it instead?

Club soda, it works like a charm

x♥x♥ ---Julia

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Hey Julia, i am just wondering if since u r a girl, u can help me. I dont know why, but everyone thinks i am a freak and wont let me actually talk to them. What would be an idea to help the girls to actually understand me and talk to me?

Hey, there are nice girls out there, trust me=) So the best thing to do is to strike up a conversation with one of those nice girls. Gradually just work your way to other girls, but w/e u do, don't drag on and on, studder, or mkae them talk the whole time. Also, you can hang out with guys that girls sit with a lot, because then you'll be able to let the tru you come out. And whatever you do, no matter what, DONT LIE.=) ♥ ---Julia, good luck=)

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im not that good at dancing at dances, not with guys but when you're just kinda dancing with your friends, but im not good at the other way either... HELP

sign up for a jazz class or something
x♥x♥--Julia

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I've got a question about my friend. I think she may have some serious mental problems. This morning in first hour she was writing a note to someone (I didn't know she was). Well, I glanced over in her direction and she flipped the paper, turned to look at me, and said: "Stop reading my fucking note! God, are you ever going to leave me alone?!?!" So, I asked: "...what...note?" She rolled her eyes and moved to another seat. So, naturally, I was in my seat thinking "What the hell did I do?" Anyway, in third hour she sat beside me again. Again, she was writing notes and I didn't know that she was, so I turned around to talk to her. She FREAKED out and starts yelling about how I'm a nosy bitch. I was ...basically speechless. I mean, it's like she's got some mental problem with excessive paranoia. For instance, yesterday in our Study Hall my boyfriend and I were writing notes to each other. My friend wanted to look at them, and because I said no, she automatically assumed that they were about her and proceeded to call me a bitch. They weren't even remotely related to her. If I talk to anyone other than her she automatically thinks that I'm talking about her or telling them secrets about her. She spreads horrible lies about couples at our schools, including me and my boyfriend. Sometimes I wonder if I should get her some counseling to try to help her out. She's excessively paranoid. I think she may be bi-polar as well (either that or she has some SERIOUS mood swings). For example, in P.E. one morning she was on a different team than me and was so mad at ME that she rammed me up into the bleachers. After P.E. she cussed me out in the locker rooms for being a "complete asshole." Then at Lunch two periods later she acted like nothing was wrong, or that nothing had ever happened. In the hallway this afternoon, I was joking about her using her cellphone (which is strictly against the school rules) and she lost it. Is this just normal teenager behavior or does my friend need some serious help? All advice would be appreciated.

Maybe she does have a disorder, maybe not.
x♥x♥

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I have liked this 1 girl since 3rd grade. now, 3 years later, weve gone out a few times. then, we stopped. we did this twice, and she still likes me... even tho she takes "breaks" from me. well... i love her... but were really different. i like her and all... but im gettin feelings for other people now. then... ill shell say she luvs me, and ill get together with her. its like... i love her... but i cant date ne1 else when i know she likes me, cuz i really like her. i like other people who r more like me. (goths punks emo kids etc.) i like her... but how can i get over her? (dont delete this. my friend wouldnt give me your im 2 ask u there... but i really need help!)

Talk to her about it. Ask her why she keeps wanting to take breaks from you, yet she still likes you. If she has a good reason, keep with her, any relationship takes effort. If she keeps acting like that, it isnt worth it. It's clearly bothering you, so no need to keep with it. Find interest in the people you have some interest in. But remember, people who have more things in common, often fight a lot. Your friend can give you my sn=)
xhearts;xhearts ---Julia

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What does "lylasa" mean? Thanks.

love you like a sister always

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my 2 best friends, lets call them mary && cindy.... mary and cindy are having like a sleepover tonight, and we just finished finals so its like a celebration. but all 3 of us are best friends and i`m like the 1 being left out and i`m rele kina pissed... i know we dont have to do EVERYTHING together, but i can`t help myself.. i`m pissed. is it rong to be mad??? Ox

omg no way, this happens to me all the time!!!! ♥ Julia=)

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I hav 2 bessies Emily and Fi but i really dont like emily. we've been friends for years but i cant stand her. I dont want to make fi choose because we're really close but i know i cant go on like this. I often snap at emily and we say horrible things to each other and i feel really bad afterwards but i'm in a really sticky situation and my heads all messed up. Can u giv me sum advice on wt i shud do?

This happened to me, and it is really time to move on =) x♥x♥ Julia

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well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible.

Yes, you really need to. Let him know fast too, and just tell him your sorry if you offended him

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Does anyone know how i can find a distance between one place from another like hackensack NJ to garfield NJ?

yeah you can go on mapquest, its good www.mapquest.com hope i helped=) ♥ Julia

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yeah okay there is this guy at my school, right? And i started to have a crush on him for like a week. I began to think he kinda liked me, and i was really happy. But then he said he still liked this other gurl he had been liking for years! And NOW, he tells me that he thinks he likes someone, but not enough to go out with her. He told the person was me! I ka=inda stil like him but not really...after he said he liked the other girl i got mad at him...really mad. But the real thing i'm worried about is i dont want to go on any dates with any body. I think i am too young. I am afraid he is gonna start 2 like me more and ask me on a date... i know this is long but PLEASE answer.....i cant tell u who i am in here but i might sum where else...lylas julia

It's alright that he doesnt want to go out with someone *yet*. He may not know you well enough to ask you out. Try to act cool and really get to know him, because that may be the case. If not, then maybe time will tell, and you'll begin to like someone else, because a week isnt long at all. ♥ Julia =)

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My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat?

Of course, but if he totally dissed you like some guys do, forget about it.=) ♥ Julia

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i am in middle school, and i am in a sort of on again, off again relationship. I love this girl, and i want 2 b with her 4ever, but she seems to be to immature to stay in a relationship. She gives me that old its not you, its me crap, and i am starting to give up on her. i try to se other people, but it seems like shes the only 1 for me. i need a way to make her like me more. Is there one, or will i have to go on like this... likeing her, and her swaying back and forth? (please please please please! dont delete this 1. im begging u!)

You really need to talk to this girl about why she keeps dumping you and getting back together. She may just like you, just not be ready to be in a relationship. It happened to me. Or your right, she may just be immature. If she keeps doing that, she isnt perfect for you. No right girl would keep tormenting a guy like that. ♥ Julia Good Luck!!=)

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hey, Sometimes i dont eat for up to two days to try to look better. When i dont eat , it makes me look much skinnier, but i feel really weak. Is it safe to be doing this. Its not like im throwing up every thing i eat or anything. What should i do??

No, its not safe at all. Food is what keeps you going, so try working out and eating healthier, because then youll be stronger, happier, and you will look better=) ♥ Julia

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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?

If your paranoid, you may want to see him before. But i doubt you are, so you probably dont need to. You may want to meet up eith him first, just for safety reasons=) ♥ Julia

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I know this sounds wierd, but what are the bra sizes (smallest to biggest)

aaa, aa, b, c, d, e, f, g, h, i,

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i have a friend that gets mad so easily..one day he called me and said he was gonna work on his car, and i said that was fine. he gets online and says hey, and i was like hey then he said he had to go and puts up an away message. well, i had to tell him something so i was like "wait.." and he goes, "i told i had to work on my car why are you still talking?" and i said "i just wanted to ask you something" and he goes "well thats too bad" then he left again..and he came back and apologized and told me he was so sorry..and he has this big problem with being all mad and stuff and he just gets like that. He said i was the only one that could help him get out of it..what do i do? im so lost:(

Just sit down with him and see what seems to be making him get so frustrated, my great friend tori helped me get out of my phase during 4th and 5th grade. Her username is LiLQTPiE8505, so ask her, shell really be able to give you some great advice=) ♥ Julia

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