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hey guys im Laura, um i love music...if it werent for rock n roll i wouldnt be alive right now.Guns n Roses is my all time favorite band,ask me any question about them and i can tell you the answer on the spot,garented. the part of my heart that isnt taken up by rock n roll, all goes to my AMAZING friends.i am single at the moment but if you know me at all, then you know that i wont be for very long.

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i like this guy, and im not sure how to approach him. he's a friend of mine's friend. but my friend wont talk to him for me .. so i guess im on my own. but idk if he'd be interested if i tried telling him i liked him. i met him before so he knows who i am. but i've liked him almost my whole freshman year and i just dont know how to talk to him about it. he's popular .. im not. and all that stuff. but im just not so great around guys and im wicked nervous. any ideas? any help would be great.

lmao! wicked nervous.i like that.:)

NEWAYS!just um....hmm lemme think....ok like invite him to hang out with you and a some other friends a couple times.like so your not alone with him so it wont be as awkward(sp).and once you get closer to him give him your # or get his and talk to him on the fone and then ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.like alone.so then your alone and you like him and hes probably starting to like you also so just tell him how you feel.and if he rejects you then be like ok well i dont want that to change anythign with our relationship then.like let him know you still wanna b fiends.

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okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help

talk to him and tell him that your not interested in him at the time. he has a gf and he shouldnt be flirting and stuff with you.if he gets upset just say like maybe in the future but not rite now because i dont wana hurt my friend.

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Okay well im going to be 16 in sept. and on the 9th im having a party ( i wanna big party with alotta ppl there all jus having fun) I told bunches of my friends and i kno most of them are coming- im juss scared like no one is gonna show up! That and my mom wants to do games.. how gay i keep telling her no but she says the DJ has to get a break and i said NO GAMES.. b/c m friends are like all 9th-12th .. they aint gonna wanna do games.. so how can i stop being nervous about the party- and what to do about my mom... should i do while the DJ takes a break PLZ help! i Rate High!

ok well tell your mom that its YOUR party not hers and your old enough to decide wether you wanna play games or not.but while the dj takes a break i would just turn on a stereo and open your gifts/eat cake at that time.and dont worry about noone showing up. they WILL come!everyone gets a little nervous before having a big party but just relax and dont stress over it.

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HELP! I Need help. Okay, well lately, (I just realizes 2 days ago) everyy time i urinate, this white thing comes out - NOT bubbles, its like a thing peice of tissue. Anyways, Im REALLY scared..does anyone know what it could be? Has it ever happened to anyone here? Is it normal? My periods about to come in a day or two if that matters..Pleasse help ; Im scared I could have like something really rare or Cancer :(

Ive never had sex, so you know.

-Rachel/f/13

well it sounds like a yeast infection to me.definetly tell your mom about it and go to the docter.they will persribe some medicine and it will go away in a few days.my cousin had one and she said it wasnt that bad.but definetly go to the docter because they can get alot worse really quickly.

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what is the best product to use on acne?

Clean and Clear. it works really well for getting rid of acne and keeping it away.they have different types but i like the ckean and clear that says deep-cleaning astringent (sp) on the bottle.its like orange.and its really cheap you can get it pretty much anywhere that sells those kinds of things.

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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?

Thanks-

im not saying i agree or disagree but whoever has sex at that age its there decision and if they want to think there "kool" for having sex that young let them think that. they will find out in the long run that they werent "kool" they were WHORES!so i think everyone should let them do what they want to do and if they get pregnant or get std's then thats there problem.but thts jus my opinion

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I think somebody already asked a question like this, but here I go anyway.

I am about to turn 15 years old in September, and I am in all honors classes this year in highschool. I also want to be in Drama. I was thinking maybe this year I could look for a job. Would that be too much on my plate for one year?
I am also wanting to take tennis lessons and workout after school.

I heard that honors classes hand out alot of homework, but I really want a job because my parents are never willing to pay for certain things, and I dont blame them.

Should I cut down on my after school to-dos?

well i think you should try getting a job. but then if at anytime it gets 2 much for you definetly quit the job before anything else.get an easy job that wont ware you out to much and dont get alot of hours.just enough to give you some money.and you might find that the job (depending on what it is) gives you enough of a workout that you wont need to do an extra workout after school.

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ok my boyfriend asked me this question and i dont know what to do. ok first of i am 14 and my boyfriend 15 (turnin 16 in sept)and well i have known him for 3 months but i have been going out with him for 2 weeks and everything has been going great except one thing.. MY PARENTS. out of two week i have only seen my boyfried once...y bc i meet him online and i talked to him on the phone then meet up with him at the mall with a friend.. i noe i shouldnt be meetin up wit guys online but i did it. (plz dont say anyhting about that because i already did it) my parents wont let me out of the house. my boyfriend gave my two things i can do 1) either wait until i am 16 and he is willin to wait for me and in the mean time we stay close friends (i dont know about that i am scared that i will never have a secondchance) or 2) keep going like this and see my boyfriend wheveer i can?? dont knwo what to do?? i mean sometimes i will probably be able to see my boyfriend once every 2 months and i dont want to hold him back from liking or going out with other girls.. does someone one get what i am talking about?? can someone please helps me out??? i need some advice on what to do?? and i cant fallow my heart it is confussed...

i had tht problem before. my parents just wouldnt let me go anywhere if they my bf wuz gunna b there.so i snuck out alot and said alot of lies 2 my parents.but it wuz really hard for me. cuz i totally fell in love with this guy and i could barly ever see him. so i would suggest waiting until your 16.because he said hes willing 2 wait and that takes alot for a guy that can probably get another gf pretty quickly.it shows that he really cares about you.so my advice would b 2 wait.

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hey
is there any way to deal with baby hair i have alot and i dont know what to do about and it sucks.

omg i totally have tht same problem! i HATE them! but i just keep my hair down or if i put it up keep them up with bobby pins.they r annoying but they help alot.

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hey is there any one that i can just like chat with for fun!! like guy or girl i dont care i just want more people on my buddy list because i just got my aim thing to work and dont have that much friends on there...soo if you wanna chat with me on my aim thing..leave your s/n and if your a guy or gurl and age! thanx love you!!

my s/n is shutupnkissme98 and im almost always on and u can chat with me anytime.o and im a girl.

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well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff

signed confused?

i rate 5's for GOOD answers

PS im a girl

no she doesnt wanna c u naked. its normal for girls 2 not care about changing in front of each other. but if it bothers u wen she does it just turn around.its not a big deal

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well i just found out yesturday that i'm moving this saturday .. n i dont kno how to tell my friend maria .. cuz i'm always playin jokes on her that i mite move and i'm afraid she wont believe me .. what shood i say??

ok well takl to her and be like, i have to tell you something and its really improtant. and i know you might not belive me cuz i joke abut it alot but this is NOT a joke.my family is moving on saterday.

if she still doesnt belive you have her ocme over to your house and help you pack or something.then she HAS to belive you.

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Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks

aww thts so sweet! get her a cute little teddy bear and some roses and maybe some chocolate 2.any girl would love that!

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I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?

OMG i asked my mom to get my belly button pierced and she said the exact same thing!!!but then i talked to her and told her how im not liek that. and im not just gunna walk around with my shirt pulled up showing everyone. i told her i would show people but i wouldnt like advertise that i had my bellybutton pierced liek she wuz saying. she evetually caved in and i got it done and i love it!!

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hes moving tomrw to nebraska and i live in new york. i dont know what to do because were not technically together we just hooked up a lot but never dated since he was moving. i cant stop crying and i dont want him to leave. he told me he wasnt gunna get a girlfriend cuz theres nobody hed rather be with then me. and this makes me feel horrible because im pretty and i could get a boyfriend easily and dont like being alone. What should i do? i cant just forget him because hes coming back for breaks and is gunna call me a whole lot. but i love this guy.

definetly tell him how you feel. tell him exactly what you told us. that you could get a bf easily but youd rather not because you dont wanna be with anybody but him.keep in close contact with him and make sure you see him when he comes back to visit.and try not to cry. just think of when he comes back to visit and how happy you will be to see him.i know it seems like its never gunna work out but if you both want it to you CAN make it happen.just always remember that.

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well i recently met this guy at a party this summer and weve became really close but the thing is hes 19 and im 14...but i really like him and hes going off to college this fall and im scared that i wont see him that much and eventualy we are going to drift apart? and i havent really told him how i feel...should I??

i think you should definetly tell him how you feel.and move from there. if he says he likes you back then give him your # and be like call me when your at school and we can make plans to hang out sometime.

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I just got my earlobes pierced for the 3rd time. The last two times failed because after a week or so of my newly pierced ears, they would always swell up and get infected. It would hurt and itch! Now, I got them re-done at Claire's and now my ears have formed a rash around the earring. I'm cleaning them everyday but they're still itchy! It's red and gross..I don't know what to do! It's my 3rd time..please help and is this normal?

i would go to the docter and get some medicine. if it still doesnt clear p then i would take them out and get them redone but NOT at claires. go to a professional.ive had the same problem with some of my piercings and its because some places use a certain metal and alot of people are allergic to it.

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I know this sounds like a wussy story, but for the life of me I do not know why I feel this way....

I have this female friend whom I have been good friends with for many many years, We almost went further than friendship, but I declined cause I felt I would lose such a good friend.
Over the years we have always been friends, and I know now that she is the one for me, but how do I tell her?
she has been married and divorced, moved to another country with her boyfriend where he dumped her.

I moved to another country for career reasons, she has asked if she can come and stay with me for a few months, I am really exicted about her coming, but deep down I am full of fear because of the way I feel!
If I tell her, I may lose her or it could be I am gutless in the face of the one I truely love!

Any ideas people?

lol well it sounds like your both in love and afraid to tell the each other. talk to her and tell her how you feel and im sure she will say the asme exact thing.but if she dosent that doesnt mean you have to end the friendship over it.with her coming to stay with you i think you guys will get closer and it probably wont be as hard to tell her how you feel.

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i'm wanting to get birth control to be safe but i aint having sex or anything but if i started doing stuff and it happened. i wouldnt get preg. i'm still a virgin. but i want to get on it to be safe. what should i do. get one of my friends to go with me and keep it away from my parent's so they don't know??

ok well you cant get birth control pills until your over 18 without and adult signature. so i would talk to you rparents and if they say you dont need it then tell them they cant stop you from having sex and you ARE going to have sex somtime wether they liek it or not,and if they dont want you to be safe then then thts there problem.belive me it works.they will get you the birth control if they want you to be safe which of course they do.

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So, okay..to make a long story short. I'm 18, and recently was at a party, and had sex with this guy. For the first time, ever. We've been hanging out a lot lately, but it's only ever at a party. We don't always have sex. But, the last time we did, he stayed with me all night and cuddled. He tells me that he loves me. He says that he does because, he's lonely and I make him feel good, and that he has a lot to offer. He also says that it hurts when I don't say anything back. Which, I have huge issues with trust, and I'm not a complete moron. I'm a bit skeptical of it. He was in a relationship for two years, and it's been almost a year since they've broken up. The girl will fuck with his head and lead him on. He bitches about her a lot. So, I haven't really worked up the nerve to be like, "Hey..is this going anywhere, or do you still like her?" I know it's what I need to do. I was just wondering, if anyone else thinks that I'm just getting used, or if it seems like he does care for me, he's just afraid. He does say himself that he has trust issues, because she dumped him and started messing around with his friend. We sort of got in an argument last night, because I asked him, "Why don't you trust me?" And he just got up and left. WTF? I hate mind games. Someone help!!!

well it seems likes hes just a lil afraid of commitment. i think you guys should take it slow and just give him time to figure out who he really likes. he will either realize hes still in love with his old GF or that he really likes you and is just nervous because of his last relationship.i cant really tell you what to do here except follow your heart and just give him some time.

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