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hey guys im Laura, um i love music...if it werent for rock n roll i wouldnt be alive right now.Guns n Roses is my all time favorite band,ask me any question about them and i can tell you the answer on the spot,garented. the part of my heart that isnt taken up by rock n roll, all goes to my AMAZING friends.i am single at the moment but if you know me at all, then you know that i wont be for very long.

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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing?

dont worry. that wont happen. as long as you change them like normal your fine.

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What do you guys think is the appropriate age and/or grade to start wearing mini skirts? Also, do tall girls with long legs look good in mini skirts? Thanks!

probably like around 12 is a good age.and tell girls with skinny legs will pretty much look good in anything.but with minni skirts definetly because it shows more leg than on a shorter person.

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Is there anyway possible that I can lose three pounds to fit in my dress in 10 days. Please help asap

go for a run EVERYDAY and dont eat ANY junk food at all. eat lots of fruits and veggies and drink lots of water!also do sit-ups//push-ups//crunches everyday.you can probably lose 3 or close to 3 pounds in 10 days doing all that.o and dont drink any soda either.

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My mom doesn't want me to have suade sneakers. She thinks they'll get ruined in the rain. Do they? If they do does they water proofing spray really work? Is there anyway I can convince my mom to let me get them? Thank you.

well i had suade tennis shoes and i LVOED them liek seriously they were my favorite shoes EVER!!but unless you like totally soak them the rain wont hurt them.but yah if you do get them totally soaked then they will look really dirt even if they arent.

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Ok..i know this is sucha weird question..but have any of you people TRIED bloody mary? you kno where you go in the bathroom and turn off all the lights and say her name 3 times and shes suppose to come out?? or maybe i got it wrong..all i really wanna know is that if anyone tried it..and whats the story behind it and what do you do exactly to see her??? pleaassseee reply! i`ll rate high =)

ok you go in the bathroom and turn of all the ligths and have sum1 lock the door frum the outside.and it has 2 b at midnight.then you say bloodymary 3 times and her face will appear how it wiz wen she died.OK well ive done all those things 30 billion times exactly the way they were supossed to b done but nuthing ever happens.so u can go ahed and try but there isnt anything to b afriad of because nuthing is ever going to happen!

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hey umm i have some acne and i have meet the teacher nite like tomorrow and school starts like in 3 days is there anything i can use to help clear it up at least a little bit before school starts and if so wats it called and where can you get it at??? thankx

clean and clear astringent.it works really well.and fast and it keeps the acne away.its cheap and you can get it at any store that sells those kinds of things.

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Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!!

aww thts so cute!

neways i think you should rit eher a little note and maybe put like one flower on it and give it to her.almost any girl would like that.rite ur # down on the note and tell her to call you.then when she does be like meet at " " for dinner and then maybe go to a prak or sumthing afterwards.and you can like swing and talk and stuff.o and you can push her on the swings! that would be so sweet!then just be like i wuz wondering if you wanna go out with me?1 and then shell say yes! and if she doesnt then just be liek ok but i dont want that to change anything in our friendship.and with your parents just be like whoevers betting for me is gunna win!!

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My cousin (I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP I SWEAR!) is always wanting to make out. She is only 12 and has never made out but is always having the urge to do it. How can she stop?

hmm....yah thts kinda....weird...

just makeout with her for like 3 seconds and make it really awful and weird for her so she doesnt want to do it again!

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okay so my bday partywas this sat. and i had a big chance to kiss the guy i like but there was a lot of little kids including his lil sis and we just didnt do it and no i regret he said next time we see each other but i wanted it to be on my bday party and i dont think we will be seeing each other till like another 3 weeks and i miss him. i cant find no way to make me feel better any help please dont make me feel any worse:(

aww! thts so sweet! well just call him alot and talk to him online or on the phone and just think abou tthe next time you see him! you guys are gunna kiss and just think about how happy you will be then!!everytime you get sad or miss him alot just think abou tthat moment when you kiss him!

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Ok well I started school 2 days ago, and already I'm hating it. But not just because of the classes/teachers. I hate it because I don't have many friends in my classes. In 4 out of my 7 classes, there's only 2 ppl I like (my bf and this one girl). The problem is that all the teachers seat us alphabetical order, and my last name isn't close to my bf or friend. So, basically I'm sitting by people I'm not really friends with. I have known these people that i'm sitting with for a couple of years, and although i can talk to them, Im not really friends with them. They're ok people and all, it's just I feel left out and lonely sometimes.

My question is- what do I do? I mean, iv'e been trying to make friends with these people and it's not working. Help please!!!

well its only been 2 days! give it time. youll get to them more and become friend dont worry!just belive in yourself and dont be nervous about talking to people.

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sorry this is so long

(15/f)

alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?




once again... im so sorry its long..

i would definetly give him a chance.if hes liked you for that long then he probably isnt just gunna fuck you and leave you.

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Hey i was wondering if any of you know a all around really good shampoo and conditioner.. i use brilliant brunette right now but i was wondering if theres like a better one maybe pantene the brunette expressions or garnier fructice or what... my hair is wavy i can curl or straighten it so yeah thanks! im looking for one to make it shiny and healthy and makes it just look good! 15 f

i use Matrix Sleek it works REALLY good for all types of hair.its in a really bright orange bottle.its a kinda expenisve but its totally worth it!

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i've been goin out with this guy on and off for like a month and a 1/2. and he can be really sweet! but he was kissing me today and then a few min. later one of his good friends asked me out.. i feel bad 4 the guy (i wasn't going out with him when his friend asked me out)

wat do i do?

well it seems like you still like your ex. which i usually say no to because like NEVER work out but in this case its different because that would be really mean to go out with his friend.so i would definetly not go out with his friend.

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okay im burly getting sick and i dont want to get sick i hate getting sick is there any tea or any other thing i could do to stop it from getting worse??

yah lots of orange juice!! it really helps you get better when your sick.and get lots of sleep and just stay inside and everything.

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ok well i had my peroid and i thought it was over bc well it stopped fer a while and i already ruined my FAV shorts but my mom cleaned them and they are faded now and i was wearing a thong and those shorts and it came bacK!!!!! what should i do.. n is it normal to have it stop fer like hours?? and ya??

yah thts normal for the first couple years.its just still irregular.dont worry about it.sry about your shorts.and um....thts about it dont worry about it thts normal.

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ok i love this guy. no seriously i do. i dream about being with him practically every night & he's like perfect for me. he's funny, smart, and cute. he's hilarious and cracks me up all the time. but we're not really friends. and right now he has a girlfriend. everyone suspected i liked him but i wouldn't admit it...but no offense but it was soooo obvious i did, i bet even he knew about it. but he asked out this girl anyway. there was a time i thought he might've liked me too because he flirted a lot & all with me. but i flirted back...did i mess up somehow??? i'm crazy for him and i don't know how i'm going to go back to school & see him with that girl. i love him so much i just don't know what to do anymore. i can't move on, i've tried so many times. nobody can be as funny as him...i love guys that can make me laugh. omg please help, i just don't know what to do anymore./

well..i have one word for you.....patience.and i know its hard to have patience because i really have none myself.BUT you must learn to have some because thats what you need to get thru this.basically im saying give him time and just keep flirting and just being yourself.eventually one of 2 things will happen...

1)he will realize your worth it
2)you will realize he isnt

and thats my quote and i love it. because its true in almost any relationship.so just think about that and remember.....patience.

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I found black stuff on my tooth brush, that I keep in the shower. I use it ever night, and so I know it didn't just grow there. I had used it less that 24 hours before I saw the black stuff. Am I being poisoned, or is there anouther explanation?

ew. yah um sry but thts pretty gross.

i doubt your being poisned tho. just go to the store and buy yourself a new toothbrush.its really not hard.i promiss.it probably just some black stuff that come from....um.....the wall?? i dunno ive never been in your house so i cant really tell you what its from.just plz buy a new toothbrush.ew and throw away that one.

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Okay, so i met this guy on july fourth and ever since then we've been hecka tight. like we hang out all the time and stuff, and we're pretty muchly best friends. So like 4 of my friends like him. And so i asked him who he liked and i thought it would be one of them.. but then he goes and says that it's me and he was totally serious. And, i hope he wasn't just being friends with me cause he liked me. I mean, i just like him being there as my best friend. I don't know i told him and everything and he was like oh don't worry that doesnt hurt my feelings i know were hecka good friends and stuff.. and then we just talked for a couple hours last night about just regular stuff.. was that the right thing for me to do? i mean.. i told him the truth.

yah that wuz definetly the right thing for you to do. alot of prople would have led him on and thats not good. it IS good that you told him the truth.just stay tight friends with him maybe in the future you will start to have feelings fo rhim as more than just a friend.

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my daughter(19) has a abusive boyfriend (16).
He is at this point only verbally abusive, but i fear it could turn physical . Tonight they went out with her brother (who is twice the boyfriends size) and her cousin and friends. My son came home very angry telling me how this boy was rude, mean , and hateful to his sister. My daughter begged her brother not to say or do anything. His comment(my sons) to me and my husband was "If the boy behaved this way in front or her 6' 5" 230 lb brother, how did he treat her when they were alone? " This is a great point and scarey thought. My husband is ready to step in . What should we do? I discussed this with her and she admitted he is verbally abusive. I am afraid it will turn into physical abuse. Remember she is 19. She is of age to do what she wants, but has never exercised (or even spoke) of that right. She has always been a good easy child. How can we get her away from this boy? Should we demand she not see him. I have a parental gut feeling he could hurt her. We are also friends of his parents . They are very nice people who would never think their son did any wrong.
My husband wants to talk to them and
end it. What should we do? HELP!!!!!
the relationship is 9 months old and I am positive they are not sexually active. If it turns into a sexual relationship, it could REALLY get bad, and since they are both virgins he will never want to let her go. We Must Act Now!

well it seems like your daughter and son are pretty close if they go and hang out together.SO i would suggest having your son talk to her about it.at least from my point of view if i wuz your daughter i would rather have my brother talk to me about my personal life rather than my parents.

have him tell her that she can get soo much better than this guy.and she might be willling to give him up more easily than you think.if shes already admitted that hes verbaly abusive im sure she knows that he could become phisicaly.if her brother talking to her doesnt work then i would talk to his parents and they can talk to him and maybe get him to stop.but leave not letting her see/talk/hear from him as a LAST resort because this probably make your daughter VERY VERY mad at you.

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ok well this guy his name is kevin and we've hung out like 2 times with other people and the first time we played ghost in the graveyard and hes like i got becky (me) and he kept like picking me to be it cuase i wasnt playing and then the second time we were at park with my frend sarah and these 3 other guys and like we were there for a long time and if i said something funny he would always laugh and like he would look at me and he is absoluatly HOT and i like him alot and i dont know if he likes me ... cause im not the girl who would go out with a guy i mean i never have so what do i do?

talk to him and let him know how you feel.it seems like he likes you so just start hanging out with him alot and flirt with him alot.then if he says he likes you(which im sure he does)just ask him out!dotn be nervous just be like calm and relaxed and act like hes just another good friend.not someone that you need to be all nervous around.

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